Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted February 7, 2014 Where are you? Why is it, the only posts here are simply asking for info but with no other contributions? WE WANT to hear from you!! You obviously have a screen name , you must have opinions? I look at other cities, and see much being learned and taught! yes I know we are small in population, but really, do you not have anything to say? Chat about anything, we are listening and want to engage! The benefits of US providers as well as YOU! It is well worth it! Talk to us, our community can only get better by hearing from you:) Give it a try...what excites you? What is it that get's your goat? What have you learned by being a hobbyist? What concerns you? You don't have to be a philosopher. but just be honest and respectful to others... hope to see more posts in NB:) It will help me, and you to get to know each other! 7 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted February 7, 2014 I agree its very nice when someone contacts you to have a post history to look at briefly. It really does help us get to know you a little bit. I am often disappointed when I'm approached for a date and the person has little or no posts. Its a lot more fun guys if you share a little bit about yourselves. At least from my point of view if we have something to talk about you are going to have a much better experience. :biggrin: 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted February 7, 2014 I agree its very nice when someone contacts you to have a post history to look at briefly. It really does help us get to know you a little bit. I am often disappointed when I'm approached for a date and the person has little or no posts. Its a lot more fun guys if you share a little bit about yourselves. At least from my point of view if we have something to talk about you are going to have a much better experience. :biggrin: So correct! Like I do not make it the end of all, but howerver... If I see the same person over and over always asking the "do you have info" question....I tend to wonder?? Is this guy for real? Does he ever book? Especially when the ONLY posts are " who is this" with no reco ever, or conversation posts, and then the next post you see is yet another " have you seen" makes me feel like they are never satisfied or something cause they never say it! All I can say, if you are willing to post a " have you ever met..." post, then you can choose to contribute in other meaningful ways. I totally get the pointof view " I am here to get laid, not to chat " responds, but if you are wanting to spend time with an upscale or elite provider, your chance are increased by having some kind of on line personality! Post anything NB, from politics, to experiences, to jokes...what's the harm? You are here anyways! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FJ747 642 Report post Posted February 7, 2014 Good thread Sophia. Since I feel that I fall under the category you describe, I may as well take the plunge and reply my first real reply. I am fairly new at this, but I have about 5 encounters under my belt. The kicker is they have always been on the road while I was away for work. Its a little intimidating for me to take the plunge to contact a SP in a place like Moncton as Im a little paranoid that someone will see me or whatever (Im not THAT popular so Im not sure why I even care). What drove me to embark on this "lifestyle" if you will is a lack of passion in my life. My encounters have ranged anywhere from being a complete nightmare to my last encounter in Ottawa being an 11/10. That even ended in the SP giving me her personal number, which kind of freaked me out. I had shades of the movie Pretty Woman running through my head. And here I am openly talking about this on a message board....and I'm not even drunk. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
props6969 408 Report post Posted February 7, 2014 Ok, I'll bite :) I was disappointed to learn today that there are 3 Territories and 9 Provinces represented on Canada's 2014 winter Olympic team. The one province that isn't represented is NB. Does this speak to successive provincial governments talking about daily physical activity in public schools but when it comes to walking the walk and funding the Phys Ed specialists at all grade levels.....that doesn't happen. Obesity rates among children and youth is highest in NB. Is there are common theme here? Perhaps a little less public money supporting wealthy families and the likes of corporations such as CN and a little more public money put into education and wellness. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freddigirl 1181 Report post Posted February 8, 2014 I am always looking for input on what clients want. I dont like always doing the same thing love to change it up. Exhibitionism or anything really. In Toronto I see alot more activity and I realize the population difference but there is some activity by both parties. I know an sp who wanted to have sex on the 401and the same one was hosting at the theatres not thw adult ones but the matinee. It was a fun read but made me realiZe to broaden our horizons we need help painting the scene. Thats my input lol 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted February 8, 2014 I am always looking for input on what clients want. I dont like always doing the same thing love to change it up. Exhibitionism or anything really. In Toronto I see alot more activity and I realize the population difference but there is some activity by both parties. I know an sp who wanted to have sex on the 401and the same one was hosting at the theatres not thw adult ones but the matinee. It was a fun read but made me realiZe to broaden our horizons we need help painting the scene. Thats my input lol Trailblazer! Right on, get out there and put your imagination to work! I know exactly what you mean by changing it up, I do this all the time:) I get bored easily lol, so I am for ever searching for my next move. This is the main reason I started to do massage, as GFE was getting boring for me, and now I am starting learn more on fettish/dom . But the great thing about massage there always more courses I can take to change it up from the norm:) Good Job darling! Looking forward to seeing more posts from you, share your experiences and thoughts:) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest tr**el*****n Report post Posted February 9, 2014 I'll pop my cherry too. I've been on again/off again on this site for a few years now, closing accounts. Not to hide myself, but have struggled diving into this hobby due to privacy concerns, stigmas, personal challenges, etc. I've made mistakes too, not understanding the challenges and hurdles that a SP endures. But, I've grown and hopefully become a better person (and hobbyist). This site is very educational, informative, fun and just overall a great community. Thanks to all :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aki4032 514 Report post Posted February 10, 2014 Where are you? Why is it, the only posts here are simply asking for info but with no other contributions? WE WANT to hear from you!! You obviously have a screen name , you must have opinions? I look at other cities, and see much being learned and taught! yes I know we are small in population, but really, do you not have anything to say? Chat about anything, we are listening and want to engage! The benefits of US providers as well as YOU! It is well worth it! Talk to us, our community can only get better by hearing from you:) Give it a try...what excites you? What is it that get's your goat? What have you learned by being a hobbyist? What concerns you? You don't have to be a philosopher. but just be honest and respectful to others... hope to see more posts in NB:) It will help me, and you to get to know each other! Perhaps there is another point of view. While I have been a member for a long time, I don't post very much. I do read a great deal to understand the SP's point of view, but I suppose I am still leery of posting for privacy concerns. Realistically, not a concern I guess, however, speaking for some of us of a certain age, I just don't trust websites, texting, emails, etc as much as I should. Given the population of New Brunswick is so small - with seemingly everyone knowing everyone (I'm originally from a very large city and I still can't get used to this) - security concerns may be keeping gentlemen from posting. Just a theory. I will endeavor to chime in from time-to-time. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
letsplay_57 3581 Report post Posted February 11, 2014 While having breakfast yesterday on the radio they talked about Valentine's Day & the 70/30 ratio...70% of the Men would like to make love on that day instead of buying a gift....the other 30% of the men buy gifts. Per this study 70% of the Woman prefer a gift...only 30% prefer to make love. Just wondering what other people think or how they plan on spending Valentine's Day. 70% Men & only 30% Women want to make Love that day.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss S. Lane 67128 Report post Posted February 11, 2014 I plan on having sex and eating chocolate... Even if I have to buy them for myself :) xo 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted February 11, 2014 I plan on having sex and eating chocolate... Even if I have to buy them for myself :) xo LMAO...how about the sex partner buy you chocolate? lol....or pay you in chocolate? Stop in, I will have chocolate for you! JK!! Too cute! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest t*x**** Report post Posted February 11, 2014 would much rather make love then spending $$$ on a gift that may or may not hit the spot! maybe it says something about us male or female the ones who would rather have a gift ... just saying Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fiskaa 2600 Report post Posted February 11, 2014 Haha....great answer Savannah, I'm of the same mind as you. A wonderful plan indeed. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HandsomeDevil 200 Report post Posted February 12, 2014 I plan on having sex and eating chocolate... Even if I have to buy them for myself :) xo That reminds me of the old joke: A guy asked his buddy what he was getting his wife for Valentines Day to which he answered: "A box of chocolates and a vibrator." when he was asked why such a strange combination of gifts he answered: "If she doesn't like the chocolates she can go screw herself." 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicole1992 140 Report post Posted February 17, 2014 I am new here and new to the sp business, hopefully soon to meet some nice gentlemen 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nismocan 110 Report post Posted February 17, 2014 Hello all, I am fairly new to this site and as of yet have not even taken the leap sort of speak. I read a lot of the posts trying to research various opportunities that may be out there. I will say that I am scared of actually following through with this hobby and have mixed feelings. My main concern is discretion as I am from Saint John and this city can feel small. As for likes I really can not say other than start with a massage and see where it goes from there, guess it would really depend on the SP as I have no experience at all in this area. Sorry if this is off topic or even no help at all, but hey it was my first post. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted February 17, 2014 Hello all, I am fairly new to this site and as of yet have not even taken the leap sort of speak. I read a lot of the posts trying to research various opportunities that may be out there. I will say that I am scared of actually following through with this hobby and have mixed feelings. My main concern is discretion as I am from Saint John and this city can feel small. As for likes I really can not say other than start with a massage and see where it goes from there, guess it would really depend on the SP as I have no experience at all in this area. Sorry if this is off topic or even no help at all, but hey it was my first post. THIS IS GREAT!!! There is a thread right now I think you could benefit from, here is a link http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=167699 It actually does address the question that you ask about massage for the first date or not, also many many great questions and answers! I am happy to see a new member posting, we are all very accepting and love to meet new on-line personalities:) Hope to get to know you more!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TTguy 200 Report post Posted February 18, 2014 Sophia, Great thread and you got me thinking a little. For me, most of the attraction is the fantasy of having (a new) girlfriend. Of course the main reason for the date is the physical activity, but after that I love to give a back rub or body massage and talk to the SP. I'd love to tell all the SPs what would drive me wild, but I'm not imaginative enough to come up with that crazy fantasy. (Or maybe I'm just too Puritanical and embarrassed). I do know that Sophia's ads have always turned me on, the way she sets up a scenario. For me, I might need a prompter from the SP as to what we should try. That thought is pretty hot, but has not happened yet. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted February 18, 2014 Sophia,Great thread and you got me thinking a little. For me, most of the attraction is the fantasy of having (a new) girlfriend. Of course the main reason for the date is the physical activity, but after that I love to give a back rub or body massage and talk to the SP. I'd love to tell all the SPs what would drive me wild, but I'm not imaginative enough to come up with that crazy fantasy. (Or maybe I'm just too Puritanical and embarrassed). I do know that Sophia's ads have always turned me on, the way she sets up a scenario. For me, I might need a prompter from the SP as to what we should try. That thought is pretty hot, but has not happened yet. Ohh dear, you can stop in and give me a massage any day!!! Hahhah, really! On cerb, it is not proper manners to solicit our services to you, actually is against the rules. So if some strikes your fancy, then go ahead and start communication with her:) I hope you read the link I provide above, you will have so many answers to your questions. Keep on posting, it helps you and us to get to know each other, make a good match:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted February 19, 2014 Hello all, I am fairly new to this site and as of yet have not even taken the leap sort of speak. I read a lot of the posts trying to research various opportunities that may be out there. I will say that I am scared of actually following through with this hobby and have mixed feelings. My main concern is discretion as I am from Saint John and this city can feel small. As for likes I really can not say other than start with a massage and see where it goes from there, guess it would really depend on the SP as I have no experience at all in this area. Sorry if this is off topic or even no help at all, but hey it was my first post. Welcome to Cerb. There are many wonderful ladies here and you will have fun. Feel free to let us know what interests you in a lady, read the reco's and enjoy! xoxo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FJ747 642 Report post Posted February 19, 2014 Well, I had my first experience last night with a service provider in Moncton. I tried to connect with a couple and wasn't able to make it work for a number of reasons. I found it was incredibly nerve wracking at first as I had never done so outside of the comfort of my hotel room on the road. I must say I was satisfied with the experience and with the rush I had in doing so. I equate it to being a adrenaline rush for the nympho in me. I won't post a review as I didn't discuss it before hand with her but I truly filled a need that I had lacking. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blackspruce 308 Report post Posted February 20, 2014 Ok, I'll poke my head up too and say Hi. Like you hear on sports radio - "First time - long time...." hee hee. I'm also one of those who's been on and off here over the years. Had another profile, walked away from it, came back. I enjoy myself here too much, but even though it's such a small province it's hard to find good info on who (or what) is out there SP-wise. I find this province a bit reserved (I'm from away, live and work here now). People ARE friendly, but take a while to warm up. Wonder if that's reflected here too. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted February 20, 2014 Ok, so we seem to be in the midst of a winter full of snow. Here in Saint John, we have had 3 major back to back snow falls. Just get plowed out, and then it snows again. I'm ready for a vacation. Thinking of Mexico again, as I loved Moon Palace in Cancun. Just eating, swimming, eating and of course drinking fancy drinks. Even going out on the Catamaran or snorkling. Love the Jeep tour in the jungle seeing monkeys and other animals. Where do you like to go? When will the snow stop? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted February 20, 2014 Ok, so we seem to be in the midst of a winter full of snow. Here in Saint John, we have had 3 major back to back snow falls. Just get plowed out, and then it snows again. I'm ready for a vacation. Thinking of Mexico again, as I loved Moon Palace in Cancun. Just eating, swimming, eating and of course drinking fancy drinks. Even going out on the Catamaran or snorkling. Love the Jeep tour in the jungle seeing monkeys and other animals. Where do you like to go? When will the now stop? I am going to Cuba again, but funny thing is, the snow will be gone by then, In April lol...have a wedding to go to. ( NO NOT MINE HAHAH) I think e have like 38 or so days till spring, so hopefully this last week is just the last of what the clouds want to hold! lol, I was thinking this morn, it is going to be a wet wet spring but at least we do not have to shovel the rain! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites