Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted November 6, 2018 On 11/4/2018 at 10:22 AM, shyness13 said: I took the plunge a year ago and I don’t think I’m cut out for this I fell in love like to the point where I couldn’t focus on anything else in my life but her. I’ve took a step back trying too forget her and she keeps texting me to come see her but I’m scared to have these feeling again and in my mind all she wants is my money I go see other lady’s but there are not many here in this town to choose from. Has this happen to anyone else on here? Am I the only one I'm so sorry this happened. No, you are not the only one. So, move on, take a deep breath, and enjoy today. The past is gone, the future is not here yet. We can only enjoy this moment. Hugs luv. It gets easier. 2 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vegeta85 1675 Report post Posted November 6, 2018 On 11/4/2018 at 10:22 AM, shyness13 said: I took the plunge a year ago and I don’t think I’m cut out for this I fell in love like to the point where I couldn’t focus on anything else in my life but her. I’ve took a step back trying too forget her and she keeps texting me to come see her but I’m scared to have these feeling again and in my mind all she wants is my money I go see other lady’s but there are not many here in this town to choose from. Has this happen to anyone else on here? Am I the only one That happened to me. I don't think I fell as hard as you, but I started to have feelings for a SP. She would text me to come see her because she was low on money. When I was there she was always as sweet and obliging to me as she could be. One time she told me loved me as I was leaving. The last time I saw her was January of 2017 and I didn't hear from her again. Then this past summer she popped up on Instagram because a cousin of mine follows her. Seeing her pictures got me emotional and I wanted to see her again. I was tempted to contact her, but was scared that I would upset her. I asked a SP, that I know well, about it and she advised against it. Anyway I'm moving on and I wish her well. 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted November 6, 2018 On 11/4/2018 at 9:22 AM, shyness13 said: I took the plunge a year ago and I don’t think I’m cut out for this I fell in love like to the point where I couldn’t focus on anything else in my life but her. I’ve took a step back trying too forget her and she keeps texting me to come see her but I’m scared to have these feeling again and in my mind all she wants is my money I go see other lady’s but there are not many here in this town to choose from. Has this happen to anyone else on here? Am I the only one From what you've said here I would move far away from this escort. First thing is that it isn't a romantic dating lifestyle, it is paid companionship. You may develop friendships but first and foremost it's a business, she receiving compensation and in exchange she gives her time and companionship. The second thing, it's very inappropriate for her to be contacting you for a booking, the client contacts the companion. She just knows how you feel about her and is using that because, to put it bluntly, because she likes the size of your wallet. Block her number, her email etc then she can't text or phone you and avoid her. Long term it'll be for the best Good Luck RG 2 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shyness13 1144 Report post Posted November 6, 2018 (edited) Thanks everyone for the great advice it has been over 3 months that I haven’t seen her and each day is getting easier. There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of her either a song or something we talked about will bring it back because we shared so much. Talking about it helps I feel better just putting it on here and having others options so thanks again!! Edited November 6, 2018 by shyness13 3 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
johnsimms 767 Report post Posted November 6, 2018 This lifestyle is an addiction, if it's with one SP or multiple... the trick like with any vice is being able to balance it with your personnel life and financial situation... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted November 6, 2018 40 minutes ago, johnsimms said: This lifestyle is an addiction, if it's with one SP or multiple... the trick like with any vice is being able to balance it with your personnel life and financial situation... Addiction? I would suggest to view this as a luxury. I mean, I LOVE going to day spa's. Massage, a facial, perhaps a mani and pedi to top it all off. With this I spend easy $300. It takes about 90 min. If I choose hair care as well up that $500. With that said. I allow myself 1 visit a month. Unless I really need extra upkeep inbetween. You simply choose what your luxury budget is and stick to it. I have on more than 1 occation told a frequent visitor to stay back for few weeks. The last thing I want to do is cause someone financial strain, or empty thier wallet to then not allow room for furture visits. 🌹 3 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted November 7, 2018 Anybody enjoying the beautiful weather today? It's glorious out. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted November 7, 2018 33 minutes ago, Meaghan McLeod said: Anybody enjoying the beautiful weather today? It's glorious out. On this cold (weatherman says 8 but it feels colder) grey spitting rain windy day I must say yes I'm enjoying this day. Now home, about to have lunch, then a coffee But important, I'm enjoying the day RG 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted November 7, 2018 1 hour ago, roamingguy said: On this cold (weatherman says 8 but it feels colder) grey spitting rain windy day I must say yes I'm enjoying this day. Now home, about to have lunch, then a coffee But important, I'm enjoying the day RG It's warm and sunny here in Moncton, NB. Glad your day is going well. Do you ever roam over our way? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted November 7, 2018 34 minutes ago, Meaghan McLeod said: It's warm and sunny here in Moncton, NB. Glad your day is going well. Do you ever roam over our way? Well never say never but the furthest east I've gone (in terms of this lifestyle) is Gatineau Quebec. I've gone further east (Kentville NS but that was for a funeral) But who knows, maybe one day RG 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted November 7, 2018 15 minutes ago, roamingguy said: Well never say never but the furthest east I've gone (in terms of this lifestyle) is Gatineau Quebec. I've gone further east (Kentville NS but that was for a funeral) But who knows, maybe one day RG Sounds like we may have to kidnap you! 😅 show you some Maritime hospitality! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cameragoods 139 Report post Posted November 8, 2018 I'm glad to see this thread has been bumped up, it caught my attention, You're right Sophia, there is rarely any other info other than reco's on SP's. Although to us, that's pretty good information for who we should consider visiting and who we should consider avoiding, it's understandable that type of information should go both ways, so here's my two cents as well. On 2/7/2014 at 5:02 PM, Studio 110 by Sophia said: Where are you? Why is it, the only posts here are simply asking for info but with no other contributions? WE WANT to hear from you!! You obviously have a screen name , you must have opinions? I look at other cities, and see much being learned and taught! yes I know we are small in population, but really, do you not have anything to say? I'm from Fredericton. I assume that the posts here are asking for info but with no other contributions because most aren't here to chat, they're here to simply confirm if they're making a good decision on who they should visit. With others posting of scams, bait and switch and getting robbed, they don't want that to happen to them. Until reading this thread last night, that is exactly why I was coming here and rarely posting in threads. I plan on changing that 🙂 On 2/7/2014 at 5:02 PM, Studio 110 by Sophia said: Chat about anything, we are listening and want to engage! The benefits of US providers as well as YOU! It is well worth it! Talk to us, our community can only get better by hearing from you:) Give it a try...what excites you? I like seeing threads like this, it shows that you guys are more approachable than we think. I was your typical visitor, I have had the pleasure of meeting a few of you and doing my homework has paid of for me but it did take me a while to relax and actually let you know what excites me, what turns me on and what my fantasies were. When I finally did, I started having the BEST experiences. So what excites me ? When you guys are as excited as I am about what I want. The most exciting aspect to me is the texting back and fourth, to be honest, I would love to be able to text one of you and just have a conversation about everything knowing an appointment wasn't the end goal On 2/7/2014 at 5:02 PM, Studio 110 by Sophia said: What is it that get's your goat? Poor communication bothers me. I enjoy texting SP's. This is where I'm letting you know what I want and what excites me, so when I get the one word answers back, it makes me look elsewhere. On 2/7/2014 at 5:02 PM, Studio 110 by Sophia said: What have you learned by being a hobbyist? That everyone has different tastes. I get a little braver each time I visit a SP. Don't be shy guys, these girls are VERY open minded and if you think what you're requesting is weird, strange or embarrassing, they've heard worse. I tell the girls everything that's on my mind now and for me, makes for a much better experience because I can relax and know I'm not being judged. On 2/7/2014 at 5:02 PM, Studio 110 by Sophia said: What concerns you? Like many others, privacy and discretion ! I'm not a public figure so I don't have paparazzi following me around but NB is a very small province with even smaller communities. Private parking and entrances make a big difference to me. As I stated before scams, bait and switch and getting robbed are genuine concerns as well but if we all do our homework and listen to our gut (and each other) we can avoid this. Great thread ! 2 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites