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I may be wrong.... God knows I have been in the past, but I think the benefits for the client of a regular ongoing relationship with a service provider tends to just naturally happen, it not as calculated as a 1.5 for 1 lol more a relaxed atmosphere and a real connection with the lady... if she wants to run over the time.... or invite you to stay longer wonderful... i know this is a business arrangement but geez I don't want it to feel like one.

 

Just my opinion

 

I think the difference is commitment. When you're just seeing someone regularly, you could always decide to go elsewhere. But with a prepayment or firm $commitment, the provider is getting something very real. Doesn't mean it will have value to everyone, but it can be mutually beneficial in many cases.

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I think the difference is commitment. When you're just seeing someone regularly, you could always decide to go elsewhere. But with a prepayment or firm $commitment, the provider is getting something very real. Doesn't mean it will have value to everyone, but it can be mutually beneficial in many cases.

 

Just so we are clear I am not saying the idea of prepayment is a bad idea...hey any arrangement that meets the needs of both people is fine from my perspective.... they are the only people's opinion that count.

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I don't know man, I read most of the posts and I'm not sure what this whole retainer thing is all about. I think it boils down to what you and the provider feel is appropriate. Do we call that a retainer or just a regular, regular who wants to book his time ahead of everyone else? Of course the provider probably doesn't accept these 'deals' from everyone, it has to be a person she enjoys being with seeing the 'retainer' will secure her frequent services. SO, this means that a 'retainer' can probably only work between two people who may be attracted to each other for various levels of emotional connection.

 

All this to say that you can call it what you want, a retainer, a pre-payment, a generous allowance, a tip, a pre-paid service, it all boils down to what YOU think works for YOU.

 

My two cents! ... ooops sorry, no more pennies ... my nickel!!!

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As previously stated by many of the SP's here, that shouldn't really be an issue because of the fact that it is definitely a mutually rewarding situation for both you and the SP. She will be benefit by having a guaranteed monthly income from you and you will benefit by getting a little extra time to spend with your favourite lady. And if she really does like your company, you both get the added benefit of spending time with good company.

 

Just like the age old saying goes "You give a little, you get a little."

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