Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted February 20, 2014 Ladies, what jobs/careers that guys have do you find turn-ons and turn-offs? I'm thinking "chicken sexer" is probably a turn off :) I really don't have any clients that their job is a turn off...really it doesn't matter. As far as jobs go that may turn me on i don't have that either...some jobs are very interesting though. I do find that guys that see me the most are the artsy type...artists of all sorts. Many doctors too. I guess being a doctor is an artist if you think about it. That being said a job is a job is a job. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted February 20, 2014 I really don't have any clients that their job is a turn off...really it doesn't matter. As far as jobs go that may turn me on i don't have that either...some jobs are very interesting though. I do find that guys that see me the most are the artsy type...artists of all sorts. Many doctors too. I guess being a doctor is an artist if you think about it. That being said a job is a job is a job. Well Emma.... You have met me. I am an artsy fartsy man of the world type of guy ? Right ??? Like doctor material me thinks baby. Or .... am I better suited to fulfill my original dream of being a Zamboni driver ? Waving to the crowd YAY and eating popcorn and Cheetos that I borrow from the concession stand ? Be honest !! We can discuss next visit if you like...... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest P**aq Report post Posted February 20, 2014 New day new question! Do you have clients that you are more excited to see than others? Are there regulars that you anticipate with excitement or is meeting a new client more of a thrill? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Raven Rain 10542 Report post Posted February 20, 2014 as mentioned earlier there are no jobs that clients have that turn me off jobs that really turn me on are:firefighters,IT guys,lawyer,construction work,a musician hmm there are so many but here are few for now 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted February 20, 2014 New day new question! Do you have clients that you are more excited to see than others? Are there regulars that you anticipate with excitement or is meeting a new client more of a thrill? Im always excited to see my regulars. It's such a compliment when someone wants to see you more then once. That's a big turn on. Meeting someone new certainly is exciting but in a different way. I'm always hoping I live up to and beyond their expectations. 11 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted February 20, 2014 There were some discussions on gifts for the ladies. I find it a bit too personal and too difficult to choose and give clothings or jewelleries. So, I have resorted to buying gift cards from The Bay, Petsmart, Lululemon, La Senza etc. At the same time, I also worry that they are too restricted in that the ladies have to go to that particular store to use them, and if they put them aside for a while, they might totally forget about them. My question is - is cash a good alternative to a gift card? I am thinking perhaps an extra small envelop which I will hand over to her (since it is a gift) at my arrival. I might add that I always tip the ladies after a session also. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted February 20, 2014 There were some discussions on gifts for the ladies. I find it a bit too personal and too difficult to choose and give clothings or jewelleries. So, I have resorted to buying gift cards from The Bay, Petsmart, Lululemon, La Senza etc. At the same time, I also worry that they are too restricted in that the ladies have to go to that particular store to use them, and if they put them aside for a while, they might totally forget about them. My question is - is cash a good alternative to a gift card? I am thinking perhaps an extra small envelop which I will hand over to her (since it is a gift) at my arrival. I might add that I always tip the ladies after a session also. A couple options to consider from this guy's perspective, and hopefully I passed when giving these to ladies A gift card for a shopping mall...can be used in all stores in that mall A Visa (or MasterCard) gift card Recently, due to certain circumstances beyond my control, I gave a bigger tip...but normally I like to give a gift and tip But whatever is given I hope most of all what is appreciated is the thought Oh, I think a Tim Horton's gift card for $5.00, not a good idea JMO A rambling RG 7 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest P**aq Report post Posted February 21, 2014 New day, new question! What's the craziest gift you have received as an SP? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted February 21, 2014 There were some discussions on gifts for the ladies. I find it a bit too personal and too difficult to choose and give clothings or jewelleries. So, I have resorted to buying gift cards from The Bay, Petsmart, Lululemon, La Senza etc. At the same time, I also worry that they are too restricted in that the ladies have to go to that particular store to use them, and if they put them aside for a while, they might totally forget about them. My question is - is cash a good alternative to a gift card? I am thinking perhaps an extra small envelop which I will hand over to her (since it is a gift) at my arrival. I might add that I always tip the ladies after a session also. Yes - cash is always a good alternate. You can also get pre-paid credit cards - this way they can use it where ever they want. However, if you know what the lady likes, making it something special to her is really nice. Gifts are never required, but always appreciated. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jay67 688 Report post Posted February 21, 2014 I'm bad when it comes to gifts, I never know what to get and I wouldn't want to get something for someone they either don't want or need. I'm not a fan of gift cards so I just stick with cash as a gift. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss S. Lane 67128 Report post Posted February 21, 2014 New day, new question! What's the craziest gift you have received as an SP? A kit that included a toothbrush, floss, a "flosser" tool, mint toothpicks and a dental mirror LOL :) 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest P**aq Report post Posted February 21, 2014 A kit that included a toothbrush, floss, a "flosser" tool, mint toothpicks and a dental mirror LOL :) It's not very romantic, but it is super practical! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Liv Waters 52361 Report post Posted February 21, 2014 New day, new question! What's the craziest gift you have received as an SP? Well, I wouldn't call it crazy but the most unusual gifts I've received from a client came from a gentleman I saw regularly a number of years ago. He owned a boutique type food shop. He kept me fully stocked in deli meats and cheeses for like two years ;) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
frank97500 18478 Report post Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) I know at time I get so tired dealing with people myself that I wish I could quite my job and just stay home and relax.... :) What about you, how do you cope with it? Do you ever get tired of dealing with people? Just Asking!! ;) Edited February 22, 2014 by frank97500 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest P**aq Report post Posted February 21, 2014 Well, I wouldn't call it crazy but the most unusual gifts I've received from a client came from a gentleman I saw regularly a number of years ago. He owned a boutique type food shop. He kept me fully stocked in deli meats and cheeses for like two years ;) That's awesome, great client gift, I love it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cute0aza0Button 21399 Report post Posted February 21, 2014 New day, new question! What's the craziest gift you have received as an SP? Homemade jam and salsa. It was so good though lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Raven Rain 10542 Report post Posted February 21, 2014 I really like the thought of getting a gift card from a regular who knows me and knows a few places i would like . Plus I love surprises. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Fantasy 144625 Report post Posted February 21, 2014 New day, new question! What's the craziest gift you have received as an SP? Depend on what is crazy for you Paying for a good chunk of my trip to London Uk or greek cheese. I've discover a new love. or a USE tim horton gift card :P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fresh start 17467 Report post Posted February 22, 2014 Have you ever wanted to meet a particular cerb member in person, and get really nervous due to certain perception or expectation you have of them? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted February 22, 2014 Have you ever wanted to meet a particular cerb member in person, and get really nervous due to certain perception or expectation you have of them? Yes - I've wanted to meet certain members, but worry I won't match their expectations of me. They never don't match my expectations of them, just I worry I won't meet theirs. Sometimes it's easier to meet someone I know nothing about. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted February 22, 2014 Have you ever wanted to meet a particular cerb member in person, and get really nervous due to certain perception or expectation you have of them? yes there's a few I'd like to meet. Nervous no not unless they book. Then maybe a bit. Lol 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted February 22, 2014 yes there's a few I'd like to meet. Nervous no not unless they book. Then maybe a bit. Lol I know for me there are a lot of ladies I've met, some ladies I've seen again, and a lot of ladies I would like to meet. And I'm nervous quite a bit (yes really) even with those ladies I've seen before when I've booked and have an encounter scheduled. And if I wasn't, well what's the point...that nervousness that's all part of the excitement of an encounter. I've felt it each and every time I've had an encounter scheduled. If I didn't feel that way, well then, what's the point? RG :-) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Midnite-Energies 110563 Report post Posted February 22, 2014 I get excited about meeting someone from CERB especially if we've chatted prior to our date. Some I'm more nervous about if from their posts or interests I'm not sure what to expect. There are some I would love to meet just to see what they're like in person because I'm curious that way. I don't get tired of meeting people in this way but I sure did in past people related positions. Compared to things I've dealt with in the past and ignorance, denseness and gall of people, what I do now is a walk in the park...or should I say a roll in the hay! There are days you have to put on the game face prior but once with the other person, everything is great. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted February 22, 2014 A kit that included a toothbrush, floss, a "flosser" tool, mint toothpicks and a dental mirror LOL :) Maybe a different and strange gift Savannah, but after reading one of your posts yesterday I believe I will gift you with a bottle of Visine next visit :) ;) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted February 22, 2014 Hmmmmmm.... okay..... hmmmmmmmm.... I'm wondering about the secret powers. Do they come naturally from birth or is their some kind of magical swearing in ceremony when you get the powers to kill with your eyes. Also.... ummmm.... is nap time included in the fee? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites