roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted July 12, 2015 I'm not sure what you mean by BFE...boyfriend experience? Boyfriend Experience. You take your girlfriend out shopping to all her favourite stores...and when she says she'll be just a minute, smile and expect to wait a couple hours (gotta love shopping malls :-(, ok ladies seem to :-) ) She won't laugh at your 3 1/2 inches...in fact she loves it...mind you the 3 1/2 inches is your credit card LOL When you get her home you clean the house, make dinner, do the dishes and take out the garbage At the end of the day you kiss your girlfriend goodnight and she goes to sleep and gets a good night's sleep, you go home and take a cold shower All tongue in cheek here BTW :-) RG :-) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted July 14, 2015 hmmm so if I'm a GFE wouldn't that make the client a BFE? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
emiafish 30979 Report post Posted August 21, 2015 Here's a question for the ladies. Have you ever engaged in frottage with a client? Have you ever reached the mountain top by just grinding on your partner's leg or thigh or head? I've recently started shaving my head. My dome is completely hairless and absolutely smooth. Speaking from personal experience, bald head humping is very pleasurable for both partners. Like many hobbyists, I tend to be a giver. When my partner climaxes by grinding on the top of my head and forehead, I get a thrill right down to my root. It can get very hot and wet and wonderful and provides me with a nice breather between rounds. So I was wondering if others have tried this or variations on a theme? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Genevieve Marceau 68000 Report post Posted August 21, 2015 Here's a question for the ladies. Have you ever engaged in frottage with a client? Have you ever reached the mountain top by just grinding on your partner's leg or thigh or head? I've recently started shaving my head. My dome is completely hairless and absolutely smooth. Speaking from personal experience, bald head humping is very pleasurable for both partners. Like many hobbyists, I tend to be a giver. When my partner climaxes by grinding on the top of my head and forehead, I get a thrill right down to my root. It can get very hot and wet and wonderful and provides me with a nice breather between rounds. So I was wondering if others have tried this or variations on a theme? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ****emb******n Report post Posted August 25, 2015 What is your favourite cologne for men? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amanda-Lee 11094 Report post Posted August 25, 2015 Personally, any scents isn't really wise. Some are highly sensitive to them. I would ask whoever you are visiting if that is okay. I don't have a favorite one because if I were to breathe some sort of powerful cologne on someone I would have an asthma attack or my chest and throat will start to close. That is my opinion. I would just shower and put deodorant on. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S****r Report post Posted August 25, 2015 I don't care for cologne, either. Sorry. Most are too strong. Something light is okay, but I really prefer none at all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ****emb******n Report post Posted August 28, 2015 Ladies what do you prefer the Ottawa social or the montreal's vip parties? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
backrubman 64800 Report post Posted August 30, 2015 That's why some of say we offer a girlfriend "date". We don't have to discuss that part. It's implied. Yes, I well understand the concept of G-F-E. Not really what I was asking though. Even though it may be loosely implied with G-F-E, I guess what I have been looking for lately (and finding, it just takes a lot of frank discussion that sometimes makes me uncomfortable initially but so far has always produced better results) is the T-H-F-E (Totally Honest Friend Experience), that one doesn't come with any acting or subterfuge :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bianca Jaguar 39183 Report post Posted August 30, 2015 Ladies what do you prefer the Ottawa social or the montreal's vip parties? By far the Ottawa social!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted August 30, 2015 Yes, I well understand the concept of G-F-E. Not really what I was asking though. Even though it may be loosely implied with G-F-E, I guess what I have been looking for lately (and finding, it just takes a lot of frank discussion that sometimes makes me uncomfortable initially but so far has always produced better results) is the T-H-F-E (Totally Honest Friend Experience), that one doesn't come with any acting or subterfuge :) I personally prefer the discussion when we meet. However, if the discussion is with someone I've never met, and via text, email or phone, I'm uncomfortable. I always ask them to read my recommendations, and if they can't read between the lines.....(even with the censorship). Until I've met someone, I can't promise or allude to what I will or will not provide during an encounter. It always comes down to chemistry, and this is where YMMV comes in. Ms. Kitty can be picky. I know its a cliché, and I hate those that use this as a way to promise something in advance, but back out when the encounter happens, just to get a buck. However, in my experience, I can only promise something to someone once I've met them. Nothing worse then saying yes to something, and they suck at it (Ms. Kitty gets so mad at me). Its actually painful at times, so I would rather have the discussion (frank of course) in person. At least then I can gauge if its going to work or not. Does that make sense? 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tempted Monk 5057 Report post Posted August 31, 2015 Dealing with unwanted client? I am just curious how Ladies deal with the situation when they don't want to meet some particular client who requested appointment? Maybe you have met this guy once, didn't like him for any reason and don't want meet him again. What would you do: don't answer his calls/ e-mails, tell him directly about this, find some excuse, ...? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted August 31, 2015 Dealing with unwanted client? I am just curious how Ladies deal with the situation when they don't want to meet some particular client who requested appointment? Maybe you have met this guy once, didn't like him for any reason and don't want meet him again. What would you do: don't answer his calls/ e-mails, tell him directly about this, find some excuse, ...? I'm always honest with those I've seen before. Its a hard conversation, but I feel it's important to let them know why I choose not to see them again. For those I've never met, and I just know its not a good fit, I ignore. Explains why some guys say "I sent her a text and she never replied". Typically they have said something in their communication that is either crude, inappropriate or just down right juvenile. If they keep sending me communication, I explain to them I don't feel its a good fit and ask them to move on. I had a guy once who sent an email saying I was too old. No biggie, no skin off my shirt. However, 6 months later, he was begging to see me. He thought I wouldn't have remembered him, but I knew right away it was him, and I ignored him. He pestered me for about a month, then quietly went away. For those that are down right dangerous, I let them know any further correspondence with be forwarded to the authorities. It stops them in their track. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
backrubman 64800 Report post Posted August 31, 2015 ...Nothing worse then saying yes to something, and they suck at it (Ms. Kitty gets so mad at me). Its actually painful at times, so I would rather have the discussion (frank of course) in person. At least then I can gauge if its going to work or not. Yes, now we are getting much closer to the heart of the matter or what I was really asking. So I try to have that frank discussion and for a wide variety of reasons. I don't like acting or think it is necessary, I don't want to be an unnecessary burden, I don't want to waste my time and effort (or hers) on something that could have been avoided. I guess the problem is trying to switch on the absolute honesty switch just takes time and a lot of explanation but I have managed it. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S****r Report post Posted August 31, 2015 Yes, now we are getting much closer to the heart of the matter or what I was really asking. So I try to have that frank discussion and for a wide variety of reasons. I don't like acting or think it is necessary, I don't want to be an unnecessary burden, I don't want to waste my time and effort (or hers) on something that could have been avoided. I guess the problem is trying to switch on the absolute honesty switch just takes time and a lot of explanation but I have managed it. I agree with both of you! :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rubs 1377 Report post Posted September 1, 2015 How to ask a hostess allows touching between her legs? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
clearlycanadian7583 1199 Report post Posted September 2, 2015 just a quick question about my unshaven face, currently I'm rockin what I believe is called a short kastro, I call it the Riker (think Riker from star trek next gen). I keep my beard well groomed trimmed short. I also have medium length wavy hair, I can pull it to just past mouth. These are two things that I haven't had well hobbing, typically I was clean shaven with short hair. My question is can I expect a change in encounters now that I'm beardy with longer hair? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted September 3, 2015 just a quick question about my unshaven face, currently I'm rockin what I believe is called a short kastro, I call it the Riker (think Riker from star trek next gen). I keep my beard well groomed trimmed short. I also have medium length wavy hair, I can pull it to just past mouth. These are two things that I haven't had well hobbing, typically I was clean shaven with short hair. My question is can I expect a change in encounters now that I'm beardy with longer hair? I don't see why it would. Just make sure your beard is soft. Some people like myself have very sensitive skin and if you're kissing passionately the ladies skin can become irritated. Long hair shouldn't be a problem either. Something to tug on perhaps. :icon_wink: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rubs 1377 Report post Posted September 6, 2015 Further question about shaving, but about the package. Do MPs/SPs. What is preferred on your clients all bush, trimmed or completely bald. If the answer is completely bald, where would a guy go to have that done and what do they ask for. I use a beard trimmer but it leaves some stuble. Is this acceptable? Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted September 6, 2015 It's called manscaping I would say most ladies prefer well trimmed or bald.. check the link i provided or look up manscaping. wink Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuxeMulvari 65764 Report post Posted September 6, 2015 Further question about shaving, but about the package. Do MPs/SPs. What is preferred on your clients all bush, trimmed or completely bald. If the answer is completely bald, where would a guy go to have that done and what do they ask for. I use a beard trimmer but it leaves some stuble. Is this acceptable?Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: Posted via Mobile Device For myself, i prefer bald or trimmed very short. Easier access to fun areas and no hairs in your mouth (gross lol ). Shaving is the cheapest and least painful option. However, if you never shaved before, when the hair grows back the first few times it will be itchy, so make sure you use a good sharp blade ( mach 3 is my personal fave, the older one not the new version.) Trim first with scissors to get the hair short, then get in hot shower so the hair can get nice and soft from the heat, let it soak a bit. Use a good shaving cream ( i like gilette extra sensitive) to lubricate and protect the sensitive skin Like your face, shave against the grain. After, put aftershave or rubbing alcohol ( this will close the pores, which prevents in growns and help with the itch from regrowth) keep an good cream on it everyday such as lubriderm which is unscented( very important) and natural or use an all natural soothing agent such as coconut ( my fave)or olive oil. You can get from any grocery store for cheap. Next option is brazilian waxing, the result are beautiful man does it hurt though! Also, you have to do this about once a month. I did it twice it was awful lol. Simply google salons that do Brazilian waxing and call them as some don't do males. Take a few tylenol a few hours before or a have a few drinks before your appoinment though. Seriously! Third option, is laser hair removal which is what i have. I had it all removed except for a tiny little soul path in the front right above the lips and i love it! It takes a few treatments depending on skin and hair colour and is a bit uncomfortable to get done, however the results are amazing and permanent. Also since it kills the hair follicle, your skin is so nice and soft after. I'm very happy the results, plus theres no maintenance except to trim my little soul patch which takes me 30 seconds lol. If you like, I have a great lady who has a private clinic and her rates are amazing, she very good at what she does if you pm me ill give you her contact. Good luck and have fun with your sexy new self! You'll feel amazing :) 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted September 6, 2015 If you're in Ottawa I can highly recommend the manscaping services of Ms.Samanatha. https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=30486 Or use Luxi's instructions won't send you in the wrong direction! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rubs 1377 Report post Posted September 6, 2015 Curious! how long should one wait to visit a lady after having a shave or other treatment done? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted September 6, 2015 Many gentlemen shave daily in the morning. I wouldn't shave just prior to a rendezvous but if you're careful it shouldn't be a problem for you or the lady. Never visit if you've cut yourself or have some lesion. The skin heals quickly. I don't shave, floss or brush just prior to a meeting but after 8 h with no indication of a problems I would venture a meeting. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad 49548 Report post Posted September 6, 2015 Curious! how long should one wait to visit a lady after having a shave or other treatment done? I don't know what a minimum time would be, but I like to shave ahead of a rendezvous and usually do so at least a day, more often two days before. I figure that way if I do nick myself, even small ones I don't notice, they'll have plenty of time to heal up. And unlike the face area, I find I stay pretty smooth for a good four-five days, so I'm still quite smooth for any encounters. As LuxeMulvari says, a good new razor is a must though. The one time I got razor burn down there is not an experience I'm eager to repeat! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
