Ask an escort!

[Rubs 1379]

Thanks for the tips guys and gals, I try to keep thing trimmed quite short with a trimmer. haven't worked up the nerve to actually shave there especially the sac.

[Guest Na****a***mers (RETIRED)]

Shave where? If it's your face, a clean shaved face (2hrs prior) is perfect. Those who wait a day or two are definitely risking making a lady uncomfortable. The 5 o'clock shadow feels like sandpaper, imagine a 2 day growth?

 

I wouldn't suggest shaving "down there" for many reasons that I'm sure have been mentioned already, a short and neat trim will score you some points!

 

Curious! how long should one wait to visit a lady after having a shave or other treatment done?

[Rubs 1379]

Thanks for the in site Natasha!

[Ann Gallerie 7910]

I once encountered a situation where a client and I exchanged over 30 emails. I think he liked to write even more than I do!

 

He wanted an all-afternoon tete a tete as my guest, well in advance. But he changed the date and time, requiring an extra day at a 4 star on my part, and was vague about committing to when to expect a reservation payment.

 

Maybe it would, in fact, come to pass, but I myself would rather divert my energy into providing the best 4 hours of his life. Tolstoy can wait! ;)

[Honey Man 12759]

I realize most likely a lady gets a lot of txt messages. Many of which are a waste of time to reply to, or in replying your using up your time for no gain.

 

I typically plan my adventures days or even weeks in advance. I do that because of logistics and also because I love the anticipation. When I txt I take my time to compose a message that is polite and has some detail and I also make a point to say this is a private phone so please txt me back when convenient to you. However of late I have txted two ladies that never bothered to reply. That I do not understand because being in business myself future business is like money in the bank.

 

Can anyone tell me why this is happening to me?

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

I realize most likely a lady gets a lot of txt messages. Many of which are a waste of time to reply to, or in replying your using up your time for no gain.

 

I typically plan my adventures days or even weeks in advance. I do that because of logistics and also because I love the anticipation. When I txt I take my time to compose a message that is polite and has some detail and I also make a point to say this is a private phone so please txt me back when convenient to you. However of late I have txted two ladies that never bothered to reply. That I do not understand because being in business myself future business is like money in the bank.

 

Can anyone tell me why this is happening to me?

 

Dont take it personally I'm sure it's not just happening to you. Your doing it the way we wish all guys would text us. How long did you wait for a reply? Are you sure the ladies accept text messages? Some ladies don't. Check their website or ads to make sure they accept bookings through text. If they do then perhaps you should look for someone more professional. It only takes a second to reply with a yes or no from them.

Hugs,Emma

[jafo105 39057]

Do any of the ladies get requests to play sexual games or roleplay or costume play?

 

This is a type of sexual play I am interested in exploring.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

All the time but if you're looking for that it's usually a fetish and is more money.

[Guest S****r]

Yes, as Emma said, all the time.

They can be great fun!

Summer

 

Do any of the ladies get requests to play sexual games or roleplay or costume play?

 

This is a type of sexual play I am interested in exploring.

[diwafiven 100]

How do you view the service you provide (a job, fun you can make money from, a business, etc.)?

 

I ask because I have only seen a few escorts, and each experience has been so wildly different I still don't how I view it (though it has been fun trying to figure it out. lol.).

[Honey Man 12759]

can some one please tell me what does fetish friendly mean?

[Brad 49548]

can some one please tell me what does fetish friendly mean?

 

Like "openminded" and "ymmv" it can mean slightly different things depending on who you ask, but overall it seems to mean exactly what it implies: the lady is open to requests of at least some activities considered a fetish.

 

It's probably easier to clarify what it doesn't mean: it doesn't mean the lady will do everything or anything! But there are certain activities you're at least more likely to find someone who is willing and interested to indulge in. Like feet? Well, someone who is fetish friendly is probably more likely to discuss your interest.

 

I tend to interpret it as permission to feel comfortable discussing certain activities considered less vanilla (though that too is a subjective term). Again, it doesn't mean anything goes (there are, after all, about as many fetishes as there are cats on the Internet), but you can likely at least feel safe asking the question/making the request/expressing your interests.

 

Of course, this is the "ask an escort" thread, not the "ask random guy killing time" thread; so no doubt the ladies can add more or correct me if I'm off base. :)

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

Like "openminded" and "ymmv" it can mean slightly different things depending on who you ask, but overall it seems to mean exactly what it implies: the lady is open to requests of at least some activities considered a fetish.

 

It's probably easier to clarify what it doesn't mean: it doesn't mean the lady will do everything or anything! But there are certain activities you're at least more likely to find someone who is willing and interested to indulge in. Like feet? Well, someone who is fetish friendly is probably more likely to discuss your interest.

 

I tend to interpret it as permission to feel comfortable discussing certain activities considered less vanilla (though that too is a subjective term). Again, it doesn't mean anything goes (there are, after all, about as many fetishes as there are cats on the Internet), but you can likely at least feel safe asking the question/making the request/expressing your interests.

 

Of course, this is the "ask an escort" thread, not the "ask random guy killing time" thread; so no doubt the ladies can add more or correct me if I'm off base. :)

Great answer. That about covers it.

[frenchbrute 1090]

Good evening. I accepted a position a few months ago which allows me to ...lets say...mingle with some of the members here (assumingly) on a somewhat regular basis. Which brings me to a few questions that I had and this seemed to be the appropriate forum to ask them

 

First, I have had occasion to notice that some ladies tend to be rather vocal in their "appreciation" and responses as compared to non-industry ladies, is this something which is common place? is this done purposely? Is it because it's a turn-on for them to know other people can hear them?

 

Second, I have seen with my own eyes how the general public or even some establishments in the Ottawa area treat "perceived" escorts in the city. Also I was not aware of how some places have rules of thumb to curtail these activities. I guess my question is this...are the ladies aware of the number of ways these places are trying to identify them and end these activities? Have you ever felt disrespected by establishments in this city? by other people? I know I have already witnessed a few awkward scenes, i was just wondering if this happens everywhere or if these were unique occurrences?

[Guest]

Hey there...well, #1 is a very good question and I'll try to answer the best I can. Yes, I tend to be more vocal with ANY partner. I find that a lot of men receive pleasure by giving me pleasure, so I give them vocal cues to let them know. If something feels great, I'll make noises to tell them so, and I'll often even tell them not to move from that spot. When I'm alone, I make a lot less noise, but that's because I know exactly where I want to go.

 

As for being the victim of shaming...no - I can't say I've experienced this myself, but I've witnessed it. I'm very careful about who I tell, and I've never been randomly harassed by outside parties. I think it depends on where you work.

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

I just discovered this thread; it makes for fascinating reading!

 

I've noticed that several ladies offer overnights, which sounds really wonderful, but are probably a little more complicated to plan for.

 

Are such appointments common or rare exceptions? Do you enjoy them or is the duration a little daunting? Do you only offer them to clients with whom you have an established connection, or have you had first date overnights too?

 

That's lots of questions, I know :) Thanks in advance for any responses!

[Guest]

Overnights are not that rare but I would never offer that on a first meeting ,even for the gent I find it is opening oneself to disappointment,how do you know you will like the lady enough to eat and talk and sleep,it won't be all sex you know?

 

It is something to spend one hour or two with a stranger but more?

Even for longer meeting myself I accept only if I've met once...first is 2h max...

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

I've done a few overnights with guys for a first meeting. Of course we had many emails before hand so that helped establish a rapport. Things went well however the overnights I've had with clients I already know are much more fun and relaxed.

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

Thank you for your response, Lily!

 

That was the thought I had had -- that the overnight sounds like a lovely fantasy, but might not work out so well in practice unless you knew a client fairly well beforehand. Otherwise you might discover after an hour or two that you had little in common and no personal connection.

 

It could be a little like being seated next to someone attractive on an eight-hour flight, who turns out to talk incessantly about golf, or the foibles of their pet parakeet. The first hour is fine, but by the third you're almost hoping to hit heavy turbulence, just for a change of pace.

[50 Shades Raven 31380]

Overnights can be a lot of fun, but they also fall under the misconception that it is an 'all-nighter session'.

 

This is not necessarily the case.

 

Overnights are amazing, even with someone as a first-time encounter. As Emma put it, emailing (or some form of communication) beforehand will get the mood going and an ease into a rapport.

 

I have two forms of overnight.

One is for a shorter duration, it is from 11:30pm until 5:30am. This is great for those that wish to have the experience of an overnight without the exorbitant cost. Nightcap, followed by a wonderful encounter and drifting off to sleep, waking up wrapped up in each other, then shower, a sweet kiss to go off to work.

The other is from 7pm to 7am. A fabulous experience of dinner and a cocktail, followed by a wondrous encounter, cuddle up together waking to the start of another adventurous encounter. Shower, coffee and a sweet embrace and kiss goodbye.

 

Even first-timers love these arrangements, I know I do. But there are rules to these evenings. Sleeping together is part of the arrangement, not staying up all night in a 'how many times can I get off' session.

Ground rules are set up within the scope of the communication, and are hard and fast rules (pardon the pun).

 

I consider first timers when I am contacted about overnights, and it's in the course of the communications that I determine if I am going to grant an overnight.

 

[johnybird 4391]

I've had 2 overnights so far.

 

One with someone that I met for the first time, but happened to communicate via e-mail for a few months. this isn't the norm for me it just happened that after an initial PM the communication just continued.

 

And the second one was someone that I see frequently and the overnight wasn't planned, it just happened.

 

Even though I had a great time with the lady I had never met before and things went very well, it was like 2 pen pals who finally got together :) I definitely preferred the overnight with one of my regulars... I mean the lady I see frequently.

 

I felt a lot more at ease and everything was more natural because we just knew each other so well. Even though I also knew the other SP very well through e-mail communications, it's not the same as when you've actually gotten to know the person, in person for the same amount of time.

[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

I realize most likely a lady gets a lot of txt messages. Many of which are a waste of time to reply to, or in replying your using up your time for no gain.

 

I typically plan my adventures days or even weeks in advance. I do that because of logistics and also because I love the anticipation. When I txt I take my time to compose a message that is polite and has some detail and I also make a point to say this is a private phone so please txt me back when convenient to you. However of late I have txted two ladies that never bothered to reply. That I do not understand because being in business myself future business is like money in the bank.

 

Can anyone tell me why this is happening to me?

 

Maybe they were taking a day/time off and when they saw your text (along with the many others they probably received) didn't reply because of the length of time since they received it to when they actually read it. Also when you're having a day off, any communications received (of many) make it hard to decide to reply to and who not to, so maybe, like me, they just throw it out and start a new day.

 

You do realize how many communications a lady can get in day, right? :)

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

That sounds really great (and hot!) that you love dressing up for role play! Do many of you ladies feel that way or are there some things that you just wont do/don't do, or open for anything? I'm sure that the responses to this question would be varied, my question is kind of all over the place!

 

Thank you,

 

ee Prufrock

 

I love role play. There is actually a social group for role play. https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=183

[Guest S****r]

I love role playing, too!

[Kaitlyn Lacy 120]

What do you like least about being an escort?

 

The social stigma. It's hard to feel like all of who you are could be overwritten by the fact that you escort, especially by those you care about. When you conceal what you do, that compartmentalization of your life can be difficult to grapple with at times.