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[Helena D'Orville 33237]

Very interesting topic.

 

Kissing is enjoyable when someone has a fresh breath and healthy mouth and teeth. Another thing makes it very enjoyable too: when it is delicate, done at the right moment when we feel like doing it, and not forced with the full tongue deep in the throat, and just that for a whole date. I have noticed a growing trend for a request that I would call the "Deep Diving French Kiss" which is pretty much swallowing the mouth and tongue of a lady during a whole session! Although it is understandable to want to be kissed during a session with a lady (although some gentlemen do not care about that), I find this growing trend overwhelming. Because it can also feel very mechanical for a lady to be kissed during a whole date as if you were visiting the depth of the ocean... Not that pleasant! So there are probably ladies who enjoy kissing, others that don't at all, and those in between. This has to be checked with them. As for me, it will be under the conditions I mentionned above. But it seems that the request for a Deep Fr ench K iss is becoming something else, such as something more.

 

Never forget that the most intimate things we all share in life are our feelings... and our kisses!

[BrookeBurns 120]

For me I like to leave kissing for my personal life.

[Bully 383]

I have an opinion on this but I was curious so I thought I would put it out there...Your next encounter you have, in the privacy of your conversation shall we say announced he has VERY limited experience with a sensual woman or encounter...What would your thoughts be, knowing you may be shaping his views possibly for the rest of his life. And a second question if I may, have you ever had and I shall be careful here, have a comical event occur during an encounter(nothing demeaning) that to this day may bring an unintentional laugh or smile that both you and your partner enjoyed.Don't need to share event, just if you experienced them. Thanks for sharing.

[Guest S****r]

Thanks Summer,when ladies refer to gentlemen in say the traditional sense, ie open doors, no swearing etc...or is the term used for a description of a man who supportive,non judgemental or apparently in some cases not hostile with Ladies. I suppose ,those men that approach(with respect) the Lady in a mutually beneficial meeting.And Summer I just noticed, great thread...

 

To me, a gentleman is someone who is respectful, clean, kind, unselfish, and pleasant company.

 

Additional Comments:

Some ladies seem to prefer not to kiss.I am disappointed when this happens . So I wonder what it means. Is it like a ymmv thing? Is it too personal? I don't THINK its my hygiene as some ladies have seemed to enjoy the kisses we have shared.

 

I absolutely love kissing, and can't imagine an encounter without it! That would be very strange.

 

Additional Comments:

I have an opinion on this but I was curious so I thought I would put it out there...Your next encounter you have, in the privacy of your conversation shall we say announced he has VERY limited experience with a sensual woman or encounter...What would your thoughts be, knowing you may be shaping his views possibly for the rest of his life. And a second question if I may, have you ever had and I shall be careful here, have a comical event occur during an encounter(nothing demeaning) that to this day may bring an unintentional laugh or smile that both you and your partner enjoyed.Don't need to share event, just if you experienced them. Thanks for sharing.

 

Certainly lots of funny things have occurred, both in my personal sexual life, and in my life as an escort. I am a girl who loves to laugh, so there have been several times when a date and I have been rolling in laughter. In fact, I recently won a Smut Slam by getting up and telling some funny sex stories. lol

 

Yes, I have seen several for whom it has been their first sexual encounter. I treat it as an honour and make it the best in every way I can think of. I am very aware that I am contributing to his shaping of his views on sexuality.

 

Keep the questions coming, my friends!

 

:-)

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

I have an opinion on this but I was curious so I thought I would put it out there...Your next encounter you have, in the privacy of your conversation shall we say announced he has VERY limited experience with a sensual woman or encounter...What would your thoughts be, knowing you may be shaping his views possibly for the rest of his life.

 

I would take this with very much humour, and encourage him to explore as much as he wants. I'm always willing to teach somebody willing to learn... Who knows to what kind of fun it may leads?

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

I think it would be an amazing opportunity to help shape someone's views or perspectives especially in regards to sex and sensuality. I was blessed enough to be able to shape my own views when I was younger without anyone forcing their views or biases on me. To be able to not only share experiences and thoughts but explorations and to do so in an open, honest and fun way, is amazing to me. No matter who you are, we have all been inexperienced in something and learning is half the fun. Practice is the other half.

 

As for funny moments, there have been a few and I've been blessed to have them with those who also have a sense of fun and humor and treat it as a funny happening and not a reason to become upset or freak out. We're only human after all, and having things happen is part of that experience. There always has to be an element of fun to sex and sensuality!

 

I have an opinion on this but I was curious so I thought I would put it out there...Your next encounter you have, in the privacy of your conversation shall we say announced he has VERY limited experience with a sensual woman or encounter...What would your thoughts be, knowing you may be shaping his views possibly for the rest of his life. And a second question if I may, have you ever had and I shall be careful here, have a comical event occur during an encounter(nothing demeaning) that to this day may bring an unintentional laugh or smile that both you and your partner enjoyed.Don't need to share event, just if you experienced them. Thanks for sharing.

[Manluvsex 13731]

Found this site where an high-end escort from London, England answers some common questions she hears from clients. I found it quite informative, so I thought I would share the link:

 

https://exoticescortdiary.com/category/questions-for-escorts-and-clients

 

One interesting question was about whether escorts prefer rich men.

[Guest S****r]

I think it has happened, but I think it probably happens a whole let less often than a lot of people think. I think that usually if they are in stripping, it is because they don't want to be an escort.

 

Other ladies?

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

Some ladies seem to prefer not to kiss.I am disappointed when this happens . So I wonder what it means. Is it like a ymmv thing? Is it too personal? I don't THINK its my hygiene as some ladies have seemed to enjoy the kisses we have shared.

 

When I was 'sort of' dating someone, I very rarely would engage in that sort of intimate contact.. despite my absolute love for kissing.... so it could be an intimacy thing, for sure..... in my head.. it was so intimate as to be shared only with those closest to me..

 

I very much enjoy kissing (mentioned in another thread so hehe no need to say it again).. but I will turn away (politely, of course) and/or 'divert attention' away from kissing if I am not enjoying the kiss.... someone who is intent on soaking me in saliva... 'mushy' lips... or immediately shoving a soaking wet tongue down my throat.. will likely find themselves kissing my neck instead (which I also very much enjoy, so.. win win ;)

 

....this also may be one of those occasions where breathe mints are your best friend <grin>

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[Guest Prufrock Cummings]

I have a question!

 

For the ladies with repeat-regulars, do you follow-up/check-in with your regular clients to see when they might want to see you next? Or if weeks and months go by do you just wonder how they are doing and not follow-up?

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

I would NEVER check in with someone about booking an appointment.

 

The only times I ever check in, is with someone I have built a rapport with and have express permission to contact them anytime and then it's only to say hello or to let them know I'm thinking of them. It's never to pressure or remind them for an appointment.

 

If their actions at that point seem to indicate they are no longer interested or no longer want that communication, then I step back. There have been times I have wondered how they are or what happened to them but that is one of the downsides of this industry, it is no strings so even if there are feelings involved, you have to accept that it's done and move on.

 

I have a question!

 

For the ladies with repeat-regulars, do you follow-up/check-in with your regular clients to see when they might want to see you next? Or if weeks and months go by do you just wonder how they are doing and not follow-up?

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

What is the oddest, most curious, perplexing or surprising gift that a client has brought you?

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

What is the oddest, most curious, perplexing or surprising gift that a client has brought you?

 

The shirt he was wearing. I had comment on the funny saying on it, and he insisted I have it.

[Guest S****r]

What is the oddest, most curious, perplexing or surprising gift that a client has brought you?

 

a Bingo card in a frame. lol

That's because he always says "Bingo" when he cums, and it became a joke with us.

Sweet!

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

I have a question!

 

For the ladies with repeat-regulars, do you follow-up/check-in with your regular clients to see when they might want to see you next? Or if weeks and months go by do you just wonder how they are doing and not follow-up?

 

More times than not, I do try to send at least a quick note, saying it was nice to met them, and I look forward to more <grin>...and it has been received very well.....

I also have a number of people who appreciate knowing what my schedule/openings are for a particular week, (they have asked fr it...)so I tend to send them an email advising them of such....

I don't do it on here, as it would likely be looked upon unfavorably....(not by all of you lovely gents, but...perrrhaps by some), and I never wish to be intrusive or offend ...despite my cheekiness hehe

(speaking of cheeky, I will provide it if asked ;)

 

There are also a number of people whom I have developed a lovely rapport with, and we 'chat' via email fairly regularly...which is also nice, If the suggestion of a session comes up it's is typically from them though ;)

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

I have a question!

 

For the ladies with repeat-regulars, do you follow-up/check-in with your regular clients to see when they might want to see you next? Or if weeks and months go by do you just wonder how they are doing and not follow-up?

 

I follow up right after if they have indicated they would like that. However, I never initiate correspondence. If it has been a while, I wonder about them. Even for those that have indicated it is ok, I just don't. Their situation might have changed, and I would never want to intrude. I would also never ask when they wanted to see me again. He needs to initiate that.

 

However, I do have a few that we drop lines back and forth. Again, he initiates it, and I respond. However, if he doesn't reply to my response, I don't follow up again.

 

If I was doing regular travel, and had a email calandar that people wanted to be notified of travel dates, that would be a different story. They would have to sign up for the notifications.

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

Question # 2: Protection

 

I am all about the safe experience for all parties involved but I wonder if the gent is required to bring his own, or if the lady will provide as necessary. The reason I ask is that I haven't purchased any protection in almost 30 years, since I was surgically deactivated, and it would raise suspicions if they suddenly turned up in my home.

 

Purrrsonally, I usually have on hand, just in case, but it has generally been my experience that the gentleman brings along... you can always purrrchase from a vending machine (one or two) or, I believe you can still buy them in packs of 3...

best to come prepared.. but definitely not something one should be caught with ;)

 

...and... yaaay for you and your friend.

 

Myself, way back in the day, I used to be a dancer (still am hehe but just a different kind now hehe)... and I myself did not cross that line either... funny.. the way things turned out <grin>

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

 

Question # 2: Protection

 

I am all about the safe experience for all parties involved but I wonder if the gent is required to bring his own, or if the lady will provide as necessary. The reason I ask is that I haven't purchased any protection in almost 30 years, since I was surgically deactivated, and it would raise suspicions if they suddenly turned up in my home.

 

Most if not all escorts will have protection ..if they don't that would be silly seeing that this is our job.

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

Question # 2: Protection

 

I am all about the safe experience for all parties involved but I wonder if the gent is required to bring his own, or if the lady will provide as necessary. The reason I ask is that I haven't purchased any protection in almost 30 years, since I was surgically deactivated, and it would raise suspicions if they suddenly turned up in my home.

 

Unless you bring a brand new unopened box purchased the day of the encounter, I would never use something someone else provides. I know my products are stored in a safe condition, have not been tampered with, and have been under my care and control. I've seen some put their products in the glove compartment of their car, where the temperatures can vary, creating an issue of possibly damaged products. I would never trust those bought from a vending machine either.

 

You can always ask the lady if you need to bring anything if unsure. However, anyone that is in this industry that does not supply her own products, is probably not someone you want to see anyways (except for the odd occasion where she runs out and didn't get a chance to replenish).

[Aficionado 993]

Unless you bring a brand new unopened box purchased the day of the encounter, I would never use something someone else provides.

 

Thanks, that's kind of what I was thinking. I actually do have a couple in an old travel kit that are about 30 years old.

 

I don't think anybody wants me bringing them along!

 

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Question # 3 (deep breath!!!) ED Meds

 

I take ED medication (prescribed) as needed. It's not that I need it 100% of the time but it does ensure I can sustain my performance long enough to enjoy it (and hopefully give the lady some fun too!)

 

I can see how some in the business might just want a gent to finish ASAP and move on but I get the sense that the ladies here really enjoy what they do and wouldn't mind, or might even appreciate, a sustained performance.

 

What do you think, is it cheating to use performance enhancing meds or are you okay with it? Would you want to know and should I tell you in advance? (Oops! I guess I just did!)

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

Question # 3 (deep breath!!!) ED Meds

 

I take ED medication (prescribed) as needed. It's not that I need it 100% of the time but it does ensure I can sustain my performance long enough to enjoy it (and hopefully give the lady some fun too!)

 

I can see how some in the business might just want a gent to finish ASAP and move on but I get the sense that the ladies here really enjoy what they do and wouldn't mind, or might even appreciate, a sustained performance.

 

What do you think, is it cheating to use performance enhancing meds or are you okay with it? Would you want to know and should I tell you in advance? (Oops! I guess I just did!)

 

...whatever you need or don't need.. is and should always be.. your own business... and.. if someone in the business.. is wanting someone to just 'hurry p and finish'... ugh.. hehe nooo thanks..

and yes, I believe it a very safe assumption that those of us ladies who are here, genuinely do enjoy what we do.. (and honestly.. if a perrrson didn't.. perrrrhaps they mamy consider taking up something they *do* enjoy ;)

 

and yes.. as to the 30 year old stash.. ummn.. toss them please ;)

(and for the record.. the only reason I mentioned the vending machine.. is due to not wanting to have 'leftovers' to get caught with .. and they are typically replenished every few days.. but I can see the safety concern point for sure :)

[Guest S****r]

Protection: I absolutely always have a supply. I don't think any escort is going to expect you to bring any along, and many will not use them, even if you do bring them along.

 

ED meds: They are wonderful. I am very happy for a man who has had some difficulty develop and then gets a prescription to fix it. Some take it before they come. Some leave it at my place so no one at home sees it. Some use pills. Some inject themselves once they get to my place. It's all good. I even keep a little Mama Juana on hand, aka Dominican Viagra. lol. It's just a rum and honey based drink infused with some herbs. I suspect its powers are purely mythic, but it makes a fun conversation piece.

 

:-)

[nntsci 11076]

I sometimes see a very lovely lady who I know is married.

She appears to only work as an SP when her husband is away for job related purposes (he travels a lot). I know for a while they are not living together at all (different countries) and I thought they had broken up, but they're together again now, most of the time; but I do see her from time to time.

 

I'm curious how many of you lovely ladies juggle personal relationships (boyfriends, spouses) and SP work?

 

Also do your boyfriends or spouses know about your SP work?

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

I'm curious how many of you lovely ladies juggle personal relationships (boyfriends, spouses) and SP work?

Also do your boyfriends or spouses know about your SP work?

 

I myself, am single... not entirely sure that my chosen lifestyle is one that would be conducive to a 'conventional relationship' <grin> ... hell, I'm not even sure *I* fit a 'conventional mold anyway

 

I love my wonderfully crazy life.. and I do have one friend who I go out with once in a while...and we have actually talked about being 'in a relationship'..and yes, he is aware of all that I do... and also admits it would be difficult to deal with as an actual bf....but other than that.. nope....

 

I am not sure I could juggle that hehe.. or wish to deceive someone... perrrhaps contrary to what I already know I am part of for someone else and their 'deceit'... as odd as it may sound.. and at risk of some possible flak.... theirs isn't mine, so.. ;)

[nntsci 11076]

I myself, am single... not entirely sure that my chosen lifestyle is one that would be conducive to a 'conventional relationship' <grin> ... hell, I'm not even sure *I* fit a 'conventional mold anyway

 

I love my wonderfully crazy life.. and I do have one friend who I go out with once in a while...and we have actually talked about being 'in a relationship'..and yes, he is aware of all that I do... and also admits it would be difficult to deal with as an actual bf....but other than that.. nope....

 

I am not sure I could juggle that hehe.. or wish to deceive someone... perrrhaps contrary to what I already know I am part of for someone else and their 'deceit'... as odd as it may sound.. and at risk of some possible flak.... theirs isn't mine, so.. ;)

Thanks... I agree, you are not really deceiving anyone.... you might not even know if he is married or not... Some lady's ask me about my marital status and family, but not always.