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[Pete Gass 2494]

Being a slightly older gent my question is to the younger ladies, 30 and younger..... Your feelings on an older gent say 45 +......likes, dislikes, yea or nay on us older guys.....

[Guest Na****a***mers (RETIRED)]

I prefer older gentlemen. Companionship and an emotional connection is usually more important to them.

[Campfunfinder 102]

What are the impression of the ladies to conservative posting contributors like myself. Not that I do not have questions but I can usually find the answers I am looking for after spending some time browsing through the multitude of forums on this site.

I prefer to research than waste someone else's time to answer my query.

[Campfunfinder 102]

Would it be bad form to discuss the possibility of a duo (with specific details/expectations) with an SP towards the end of our first encounter if I find we have a connections?

[nntsci 11076]

I sometimes see a very lovely lady who I know is married.

She appears to only work as an SP when her husband is away for job related purposes (he travels a lot). I know for a while they are not living together at all (different countries) and I thought they had broken up, but they're together again now, most of the time; but I do see her from time to time.

 

I'm curious how many of you lovely ladies juggle personal relationships (boyfriends, spouses) and SP work?

 

Also do your boyfriends or spouses know about your SP work?

Any other SPs have experiencing juggling personal romantic relationships and work?

Just curious.

[Guest S****r]

Any other SPs have experiencing juggling personal romantic relationships and work?

Just curious.

Of course. Many are married. Many are in a committed relationship, but not married. Many are single. Just like any other segment of society

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

What are the impression of the ladies to conservative posting contributors like myself. Not that I do not have questions but I can usually find the answers I am looking for after spending some time browsing through the multitude of forums on this site.

I prefer to research than waste someone else's time to answer my query.

 

Any kind of posting is good. Posting tells us something about you. Example I can tell you that you are the type of guy we would like to see. You do your homework. You're probably the type to actually fill out our forms. Feel free to ask questions if you can't find the answers.

[Aficionado 993]

Okay, apparently I still have questions...

 

 

 

I'd like to know how common it is for ladies in this business to "fake it".

 

Please don't feel that you have to answer for yourself because that might be too revealing, but you can speculate based on what you know.

 

 

 

...and part two... would a person be able to tell?

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

Okay, apparently I still have questions...

 

I'd like to know how common it is for ladies in this business to "fake it".

Please don't feel that you have to answer for yourself because that might be too revealing, but you can speculate based on what you know.

 

...and part two... would I be able to tell?

 

Yup, we all do, its our job.......

 

The reality is, for those of us who do this for our own reasons...we enjoy ourselves. There are some that will fake it till they make it. If you are willing to learn and take direction, it can be amazing. However, if you insist on leading without direction, yes, she may not respond to your second or third invitation.

 

How can you tell? You just have to inquire.

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

Okay, apparently I still have questions...

 

I'd like to know how common it is for ladies in this business to "fake it".

Please don't feel that you have to answer for yourself because that might be too revealing, but you can speculate based on what you know.

 

...and part two... would I be able to tell?

 

I think for the most part, an observant person could easily tell if someone were faking.... and for some of us <grin> it is a bit difficult to fake things... bodies respond the way bodies respond... so.. :)

Flesh gets wonderfully flushed... breath quickens... chest heaves... things get soaked...<grin>.. most times hard to fake that <grin>

 

Purrrrsonally, if I had to 'fake' something, I wouldn't bother doing it... much more fun when genuine... although I do understand the reality for most.. provider and/or client.... it just isn't me ;)

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[Charlotte Edwards 8590]

Okay, apparently I still have questions...

 

 

 

I'd like to know how common it is for ladies in this business to "fake it".

 

Please don't feel that you have to answer for yourself because that might be too revealing, but you can speculate based on what you know.

 

 

 

...and part two... would I be able to tell?

 

 

 

I don't fake it because I don't want to give the impression that I'm enjoying something if it's not quite right or reinforce bad techniques. Most of the gents that like daty know what they're doing. But I've noticed from talking with and working with other girls that I am not the Norm. And I have been chastised for not faking it (going against the grain and not following along) and now I know why so many guys wonder why it takes me 10-20 min to finish when they claim every other girl they see is under 5 min or seemingly as soon as they start touching her. (Unrealistic! It takes us time to get turned on)

 

Well... Now you know. I've also seen ladies fake it in sessions. She just says oh you made me come and she has no contractions or sensitivity or anything.

 

 

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[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

Okay, apparently I still have questions...

 

I'd like to know how common it is for ladies in this business to "fake it".

Please don't feel that you have to answer for yourself because that might be too revealing, but you can speculate based on what you know.

 

...and part two... would a person be able to tell?

 

You are asking a very sensitive question. And no one can answer for anybody else except themselves.

 

If you believe it is real, then enjoy it!!

If you think she is faking, try harder or just sit back and enjoy yourself :)

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Communication is the ultimate key! Each woman is as different as each man. What gets me off may not be the same as anyone else and vice versa. That's why I hate short appointments. Let's tell each other what feels good and go for it!

[blacklabdog 3049]

Here's a question:

Is it possible to be both a paying client and a friend ?

[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

Here's a question:

Is it possible to be both a paying client and a friend ?

 

Friend in what sense of the word? When meeting with people on a regular basis there has to be some kind of ease and comfort there. Is that what you mean?

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

Here's a question:

Is it possible to be both a paying client and a friend ?

 

Yes of course.

I have numerous regulars that have been seeing me for YEARS...that is it friendship. They know more about me than someone that only see me once, often have discounted rates because friendship/see me so often.

 

I just say its "friendship with benefits" . I am a lot more lax with these people when it come to rates especially for days bookings/travel and all.

You pay for my time/me investing in my future and I keep you young and happy type.

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

Here's a question:

Is it possible to be both a paying client and a friend ?

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They most certainly can be :)

Albeit not typically as close as some of my friends may be... sometimes they can be closer....just in a different sort of way....depends on the chemistry developed.. the interest in each other.... the flow of things.. and of course, all that grows and develops over time...

although there have been a few wonderful occasions, where that was almost instantaneous ;) from the first meeting, to this day.. and those friends, I absolutely treasure!

[blacklabdog 3049]

I can see being a friend but paying for time spent seems to counter that.

 

Definition of a friend requires trust which is obviously possible as so many know each other's real name etc

[Guest S****r]

But if you have a friend who provides a service, don't you still expect to pay them for that service if you use it, even if you're friends? Such as a dentist or a lawyer or a delivery service etc.?

 

I have a friend whose businesses is delivery. I had him move some furniture from one house to another this week, and I still paid him his regular fee.

[nntsci 11076]

I have developed friendships with three ladies over the years... we are friends in a very intimate and personal manner. One of the ladies has largely retired but occasionally sees me and I'm certain because she enjoys my company too. She was very helpful to me when I was going through some bizarre relationship issues at home. She would make a pretty good relationship counsellor. The financial arrangements are the same. Its the nature of our relationship. If she wanted to give me a freebee, it would be up to her... I'd never expect it.

 

Another lady and I had lunch before going back to the hotel room I'd rented, and the lady paid for lunch; she insisted (I told her that doesn't mean she can have he way with me, lol). I will add that the ladies who I've developed friendships with are also fantastic lovers and that is because our friendship makes our time together fun for both of us.

 

On another note... one of my wife' friends got divorced after her husband moved in with his escort... and apparently when he left her home he drove away in an Ford Escort (she joked). Relationships do happen... The relationship didn't last long. The divorce did.

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

I can see being a friend but paying for time spent seems to counter that.

 

Definition of a friend requires trust which is obviously possible as so many know each other's real name etc

 

I can see what you mean, and understand it may seem 'awkward'... after all, if it is a 'friend'... then they are a friend.. <grin> but as some have mentioned here.. if your friend were a dentist.... :)

 

I have my username.. another connected to my email.. but only for discretionary purrrrrposes.. most I meet.. do indeed know my real name... hehe not sure if that would be the *definition* of friend.... after all.. in another setting.. a business function.. running across a friend at a coffee shop.. who happens to be sitting with someone and introduces you.. they use your name.. so does that mean that now this new person is a trusted friend? ;)

(yes.. I enjoy being a smart@ss hehe)

[blacklabdog 3049]

if I fix a friend's computer, make a website for them, help w/home reno etc - I do it for free. I have even done that for an SP here (free)

 

my dentist doesnt charge me either lol

[Aficionado 993]

Okay, so you have a new date coming, you've spent an hour primping and making yourself into the ideal fantasy woman, the time arrives and you're feeling all tingly and you open the door, and...

 

it's someone you know from real life!

 

Has this ever happened? What did you do?

 

(I often wonder what would happen if the door opened and it was someone that the client knew from real life?)

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

Okay, so you have a new date coming, you've spent an hour primping and making yourself into the ideal fantasy woman, the time arrives and you're feeling all tingly and you open the door, and...

it's someone you know from real life!Has this ever happened? What did you do?

(I often wonder what would happen if the door opened and it was someone that the client knew from real life?)

 

Myself, not here no.....and that surprises me actually... Winnipeg is, after all the definition of a great big small town hehe

*.....although I did have an interesting episode in Alberta with none other than a man who when we were in junior high together.... I had a huuuuge crush on.. he didn't know I was alive.... <grin>... he did *that* day though ;)

and yes, he actually did recall who I was from back in school... potentially awkward but was rather lovely ;)

 

And I did have a very close call way back in the day...when I was a dancer... I had been booked into a place in a small alberta town up north.... found out by fluke that my FATHER goes there... hehe got my ass outta there FAST! hehe! ;)

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[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

Okay, so you have a new date coming, you've spent an hour primping and making yourself into the ideal fantasy woman,

 

If you think real primping, from the beginning, only takes an hour.....bahahaha