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[Guest]

Plain white,cards or hotel envelope,those lack discretion...

 

And I know there is mention that you should write the lady name but a anonymous envelope or none is better for me as I am not Lily in real life.

A Lily marked one has to go in the shredder...

[LaceyNextDoor 1284]

Thank you Summer for starting this wonderful thread. I have read every single post and learned much.

 

When you escorts are assisting a gentleman who wants to last longer, what sort of things do you think are effective?

 

I would also like to say that the ladies I have been with have been the most warm, caring, and wonderful to me. I appreciate every one of you and what you do. I really do think it is a special kind of healing that many of you provide. For so many men suffering from various forms of E.D. or even simply a lack of confidence in the bedroom, you are amazing. Thank you.

 

There are more things to focus on than just the typical things that happen in the bedroom ;) Personally, I enjoy the process of connecting and getting to know you a little bit. Sometimes it is nice to take a few moments do this before we even make it to the bedroom! Adding the element of a good role play can draw things out a little bit, and even help create a few good laughs :) I also enjoy giving or receiving a good massage.

 

If things move a little quicker than expected - your time is still your time! A sensual shower together or a nice massage with pillow talk helps to make the time we share more about the overall experience, and less about performance.

[Regent 35404]

I would like to ask the ladies about various envelopes that you may have seen to keep the donation.

 

Or you can share with us the other extreme, the filthiest and worst envelope that you have ever encountered, e.g. food wrapper, used napkin etc.

 

I once had a regular bring me my session fee in small bills and coins, in a cardboard box.

[nntsci 11076]

"As Lily said, if an SP tells you she is going into retirement but will still see you, consider that a compliment."

 

I had that experience... a lady retired but continued to see me occasionally for almost 2 years... I was her last client... we were friends. She finally had to say goodbye because she was involved with someone... so we had one last session. She was so out of practice she had forgotten the condoms so I had to wait in her home while she rushed to the store. Also was ticklish... it was hilarious... I gave her a parting gift. We texted each other Merry Christmas last December.

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

Hello everyone!

 

What sorts of gifts do you enjoy receiving most?

 

I like to bring something when I'm meeting a lady, even if it is as little as a decadent treat from a bakery, but I could use some new ideas.

 

What would make you happy? Are gift cards too blandly impersonal? Is lingerie presumptuous? Is giving music even a thing anymore?

 

Thanks for your help!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Hello everyone!

 

What sorts of gifts do you enjoy receiving most?

 

I like to bring something when I'm meeting a lady, even if it is as little as a decadent treat from a bakery, but I could use some new ideas.

 

What would make you happy? Are gift cards too blandly impersonal? Is lingerie presumptuous? Is giving music even a thing anymore?

 

Thanks for your help!

 

I like lingerie gift cards from La Vie En Rose which is where I buy most of my lingerie. Then I will surprise them with the new outfit by wearing it for them next time. Flowers, even just one is a nice touch.

 

While most ladies don't expect anything, it is nice when someone asks us what we like as opposed to receiving a gift because we are told we need it or should be doing this or that or we need to get out more so take this and go do that. Even if someone just gives another person a gift or even something from the heart, I consider that thoughtful but when it comes with strings attached, not so much.

 

I call that conditional gift giving and pretty presumptuous. It's happened to me once and if they had just given it to me, I would have considered it thoughtful but they had to add their two cents with a lecture as to WHY they were giving it to me. It was more insulting than anything else. I decided not to use his gift.

 

I got the feeling he didn't think I was "cultured" enough yet he truly didn't know who I was. Just the many things that were said along with many assumptions of who I was and his thoughts of the business prompted me to stop seeing him. I realized I could no longer spend time with someone like that.

 

So thank you to the gentleman who actually TAKE the time to ask about our interests and what we like instead of assuming what will be best for us.

[Regent 35404]

What sorts of gifts do you enjoy receiving most?

 

I like to bring something when I'm meeting a lady, even if it is as little as a decadent treat from a bakery, but I could use some new ideas.

 

What would make you happy? Are gift cards too blandly impersonal? Is lingerie presumptuous? Is giving music even a thing anymore?

 

My favourite gifts are ones that I can consume or that are things that I want/need. While I never expect anything, I have a list on my site for clients who want to bring a gift and would like some guidance.

 

With me, you can't go wrong with sweets - chocolates are a classic and much loved. Gift cards also make me really happy, and don't feel impersonal at all.

 

I wouldn't find lingerie presumptuous, just risky as it can be hard to get a good fit if you can't try it first, and a lot of lingerie items can't be returned or exchanged.

 

Music as a gift wouldn't have occurred to me. I think it'd be a really challenging gift to do well, as everyone I know has really specific taste in music and usually already owns the stuff they like.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I appreciate when my one of my regulars always brings me the things they know I use. Cases of water, Diet Pepsi ( I need my caffeine) and my favorite tools of the trade so I never have to find myself dashing to the store at the last minute. Lol. He and I have known each other for a while so the little things like this I always find to be very thoughtful. I went downstairs one day after he left and there was Diet Pepsi and bottles of water on the counter. So sweet. I'm a very practical person. Another longstanding gentlemen I see bought me a handheld dirt devil I was interested in. That really helps with my staircase and around the house since it's so light... I use it a lot. Oh and the toys, those are fun too!

[Exclusively Mia 3585]

I have a section that depicts some of the things I appreciate on my website, as far as gifts go. Simply to give ideas and so that the client need not feel awkward about asking me what I want/like.

 

But essentially I am thrilled with anything someone brings over (of course as Nicolette said, as long as there are no conditions on the gift) because it means that they were being thoughtful towards Me and that, to me, means a lot.

 

A gift I once received was something that I had never thought to ask for.

I have always wanted someone to make me a playlist of their favourite songs/songs that make them think of me. This client made me a playlist and he didn't even know that this was something I had always wanted.

 

A gift does not need to be elaborate or expensive. As cliché as it sounds, it's the thought that counts. If given with kind intentions.

[WhereIRoam 21825]

I have never had this experience. I've seen it in ads.

I've asked a few people what it means but have never been given a straight answer.

At the risk of being thought of as unknowledgeable...

What does "PSE" or "Porn Star Experience" mean?

[WhereIRoam 21825]

Ladies.

Let me start off by saying, "Please forgive me."

 

After not getting a response, I thought I would do a little more research since I was curious as to what it meant.

I now know what it means and realized why it wasn't answered.

Quickly realized that this wasn't asked to the proper audience/board.

 

My sincere apologies!

[blacklabdog 3049]

First off I never use BP and prefer security Lyla offers, but I've often wondered is how ladies screen inquiries from BP - especially those who do outcalls. Seems like a huge risk Everytime. Maybe it's the perception I have of BP

[WhereIRoam 21825]

I'm not an escort but I've been a hobbyist for 15 plus years.

Before joining Lyla two weeks ago, I had never joined a board.

 

So I am a long-time BP user and my views are only from seeking escorts.

They say for every bad thing you do it takes ten good thing to make up for it.

So in comparison, I think that is why people have this overly negative opinion of BP.

[Tempted Monk 5057]

It is well known that most Ladies have sort of "black" list of clients (no show, time wasters, rude and disrespectful, etc...).

Do you have an opposite list - favorite or preferable clients who you are always really glad to see or maybe even ready to adjust your schedule to meet such a client?

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

It is well known that most Ladies have sort of "black" list of clients (no show, time wasters, rude and disrespectful, etc...).

Do you have an opposite list - favorite or preferable clients who you are always really glad to see or maybe even ready to adjust your schedule to meet such a client?

 

I have a longstanding funny banter with an SP friend of mine in regards to a very few select clients every now and then assume they are "in the club". There is no actual club contrary to what many want to think. Mostly this occurs with people you only meet once who think they have earned the title of "being in the club" and then turn around and ask for a discount on the first date and we say "what club?"

 

From this, I created a running joke with clients about the proverbial VIP club where I will change my schedule or see them at a moment's notice. If it's their birthday, I will extend extra time for them and do something nice for them like champagne etc. It's my way of showing my appreciation for them. I've got a President, a Vice President, board members etc. They are all great gentlemen. As for a whitelist, no I don't keep one of those in the literal sense.

 

I treat all my regulars the same but they have to earn their way in and that comes with consideration, etiquette, respect etc. They are only invited into the "club" even though it only exists based on their good merit. They all laugh when I tell them they are part of the VIP club but I know it makes them feel extra special. :)

[Guest S****r]

As Nicolette indicated. I definitely go out of my way for and adapt my schedule to those who are my regulars. but as far as a "whitelist" kept between escorts no. Yet we do certainly give honest referrals to each other when asked, so that means good referrals for all your good guys! And yes, we do ask each other. It's part of our safety protocol.

[WhereIRoam 21825]

Summer, "It's part of our safety protocol."

 

The flip side of the coin of punters doing recommendations. Smart, very nice!

[Bully 383]

Its been awhile since I have posted...A question , I mentioned I'm one of my earlier posts that many ladies I have met have an absolutely wicked sense of humor but also, have some hair raising stories as well. So given the chance, would you write down or share some of your more entertaining or not so entertaining experiences for reading by all? Privacy considerations of course.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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[nntsci 11076]

"entertaining or not so entertaining experiences "

 

Sorry, I know this is directed towards the Ladies, but I have a story... A lady told me once that the previous time she had been in the particular hotel that we met in, she was with a man who didn't talk the entire time she was with him, and it really creeped her out... The hotel itself was really creepy too... The front part is an elegant old building, but then you go into an extension, past an old fashion elevator and into narrow hallways that doesn't seem quite level... to make matters worse the room was on the ground floor but it had more the feel of a basement...

She told me that Just waiting in the room by herself was giving her the creeps.

 

She was so glad when she opened the door and saw me.

I had met her once previously and we had really hit it off as friends.