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[Guest D***el B***e]

I have a question for the ladies ... When you meet someone for the very first time (whether it will turn out to be a long term regular or a one time visit), what are the first 10 seconds like? what goes through your mind within those first few seconds? Are you deciding on a profile, are you setting your mind straight, are you deciding already about your client ... There's a saying that goes like something like this "You only have 7 seconds to make a good first impression". Does that hold true for you as well?

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I have a question for the ladies ... When you meet someone for the very first time (whether it will turn out to be a long term regular or a one time visit), what are the first 10 seconds like? what goes through your mind within those first few seconds? Are you deciding on a profile, are you setting your mind straight, are you deciding already about your client ... There's a saying that goes like something like this "You only have 7 seconds to make a good first impression". Does that hold true for you as well?

 

With a new client, I tell myself that I am going to corrupt him with my feminine wiles. Hehe.

 

I can spot personalities right away and have a plan to conduct the session adjust to all different types. I am always myself without a put on but there are some guys who don't say much or are very shy so I basically adapt to their personality.Usually it takes a few minute to see if someone is going to be a d*ck whether they are attempting to be too grabby or pushy or ask inappropriate questions. My advice to guys is never walk in the door and give the lady the up and down look. We don't like that!

 

With good long standing regulars, it's like seeing an old friend. I have this one regular and he so nice. He one of those happy people to be around and it carries over to me when I see him. I locked keys in car at store when I was supposed to be on my way at my location to meet him and he picked me up. We talk about everything and I do tarot cards for him and then he told me one of my predictions came true. lol.

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

I have a question for the ladies ... When you meet someone for the very first time (whether it will turn out to be a long term regular or a one time visit), what are the first 10 seconds like? what goes through your mind within those first few seconds? Are you deciding on a profile, are you setting your mind straight, are you deciding already about your client ... There's a saying that goes like something like this "You only have 7 seconds to make a good first impression". Does that hold true for you as well?

 

Generally speaking I have already liked my guest before we have even met. I spend some time chatting and kibitzing well before a date,

 

I don't know what my date looks like but by meeting time its all immaterial. I have talked , emailed so much its a certain good time . The connection has been made and it all appreciative after I open the door!

[MickeyG 502]

I have a question for the ladies ... When you meet someone for the very first time (whether it will turn out to be a long term regular or a one time visit), what are the first 10 seconds like? what goes through your mind within those first few seconds? Are you deciding on a profile, are you setting your mind straight, are you deciding already about your client ... There's a saying that goes like something like this "You only have 7 seconds to make a good first impression". Does that hold true for you as well?

 

That's a really good question. First off, let me say that I'm not posting under my real escort name...I'm not exactly sure about how the rules work on this forum.

 

Usually, I look at the guy and try to figure out whether he's nervous or whether he's an old hand. Some guys are totally comfortable and they know what to do. However, because I'm a 'cougar', I do get some very young guys and they're a bit unsure about who I am and whether to trust me. In that case, I touch and kiss them very gently until they start to warm up to me.

 

With the older and more experienced guys...I just let em have it!

[Guest S****r]

I have a question for the ladies ... When you meet someone for the very first time (whether it will turn out to be a long term regular or a one time visit), what are the first 10 seconds like? what goes through your mind within those first few seconds? Are you deciding on a profile, are you setting your mind straight, are you deciding already about your client ... There's a saying that goes like something like this "You only have 7 seconds to make a good first impression". Does that hold true for you as well?

 

I would say I have my senses tingling to determine if I feel as safe with him as I had anticipated, and how best to make him comfortably relaxed.

[Guest **cely***r***ne]

I am picky to a fault when I am meeting someone new. So conversation is a must before I let them in the door. During that pre meet chatter I can decipher whether or not chemistry is present. If it is not, then experience has taught me that I become too shy or giddy to really allow myself to shine..and i feel like I'm not meeting expectations..it's the perfectionist in me I suppose.

 

Within that 10 second time frame a warm smile and a wonderful embrace puts me in my Maraena mode and I only have one thing on my mind..and well, the rest is just a little secret between us.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

Just wondering... how many of you ladies are owners of a "magic wand" and if you do owwn one how does it compare to other vibrators?

 

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it's my best friend..lol much better then any other vibrator.

[Tempted Monk 5057]

Many Ladies travel around regularly, some go occasionally to new places. I herd several times that experience can vary and Toronto for example is very different from Montreal.

Is there really difference between the cities in this aspect? And if it is, what is different - environment in general, client base, client habits?

Is there best place for escorting?

[EmilyRushton 253377]

Many Ladies travel around regularly, some go occasionally to new places. I herd several times that experience can vary and Toronto for example is very different from Montreal.

Is there really difference between the cities in this aspect? And if it is, what is different - environment in general, client base, client habits?

Is there best place for escorting?

 

As someone who tours full time, I will say this. Not one city is any better than the rest, they all have their flaws in some way shape or form. Some have high rates of no shows, others WOTS. Some are hard to get to, others are full of hagglers. You have to take the good with the bad. To me that is the great company I am fortunate to enjoy - it makes everything better. Every city has something different to offer and its about finding out if it's good fit for the lady travelling. No amount of advertising or interest will prove if its a profitable place until you have visited on a few occasions. The days of showing up in a city and making fantastic money on a first trip are few and far. Many men have been ripped off or had bad experiences and they are more leery to book. In this biz to travel now a days you need to spend the money to make money. I travel everywhere, as I said I would visit all of Canada before I retire and well Ive almost done that.

As for clients, they vary for different reasons and none I wish to publicly repost here (search will bring them up) in this thread, Ive done so in other posts on the no shows and time wasters in a few sections and my views still remain the same in that.

Every lady is different and how she conducts her business will vary and that will attract the clientele she chooses to book with. Any city can be a great city, however quite a few places have been wrecked in this business and its very sad.

Any city can be a wonderful place to work, its how you choose to market yourself.

[johnybird 4391]

As an SP, what goes through your mind when meeting a client for the first time?

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

As an SP, what goes through your mind when meeting a client for the first time?

 

In my mind I'm thinking, please don't be a psycho, a dick or a prick. lol. All kidding aside, my mind is made up when I speak to them on the phone. I know the personality type before I meet them.

[CristyCurves 169032]

As an SP, what goes through your mind when meeting a client for the first time?

That I hope I meet his expectations and we both have a good time

[Amber Rose 19012]

As an SP, what goes through your mind when meeting a client for the first time?

 

Moments before they get to the door, I'm actually going over and practicing in my mind what to say when they first come in :P

When I get nervous my mind gets all jumbled and my words come out like gibberish, so I always try to go over what I want to say a few times so it hopefully comes out well when they first walk in.

 

When they actually do get in the door, I have about 5 seconds of just getting a first impression from a person's look before we start speaking, and once we start talking my mind's a blank!

I'll be honest, there's been times where I've pre-judged someone just from seeing them from the peephole, but as soon as they walk in and start talking, I realize we're going to have a great time, and you really can't judge a book by it's cover(cliche, I know!).

 

You always do have those fleeting thoughts of "what if something goes wrong, or what if they try something bad?" and you sort of go over escape scenarios and what you would do if something bad did happen, but luckily(and hopefully) we don't have to use those very often.

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

As an SP, what goes through your mind when meeting a client for the first time?

 

 

I am always nervous, and hoping that things go well. And when they knock on the door, I take a couple deep breaths before I open the door to shake off nerves. Yup - us ladies get nervous too ;)

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

If it's someone I've met before and enjoyed, I'm usually excited to see them again. If it's someone new, while I'm still excited, I hope that they will be open to and with me and that it will be an exchange of energy even if it's a pleasure session.

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31734]

I always first put out into the universe .... Positive energy and good vibes

I hope we both connect and enjoy each other on many different levels

And respect each other

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I always first put out into the universe .... Positive energy and good vibes

I hope we both connect and enjoy each other on many different levels

And respect each other

 

 

I do that as well by setting the intention beforehand of meeting nice clients. If I'm in a bad mood, I find I attract WOTS and people I wouldn't want to see.

 

If I find I'm heading back into a bad mood or even for a split second before a client shows up and I'm nervous, I have ways to change it. The universe will always give back an exact match to what you're thinking and feeling at any given moment unless you change it.

 

We as individuals have the power to be able to create the things we want in life which in my case includes attracting good clients. The universe is my manager. :)

[vazimollo 1336]

It is bound to happen...

 

How do you react when a client says he loves you? [awkward]

 

Will you see that client again?

 

In my experience, the best statement isn't what you could say with words, but what is obviously felt on both parts before meeting an SP through communication with her, during the time spent with her, and the overwhelming impression of something special you are left with after. The passionate kisses, the communion of the bodies outside intercourse, the natural ease at talking to each other, the uncanny feeling that you have known that person forever are all signs and symptoms that something very unique is going on. Sex was also amazing, but it almost became an afterthought. To my surprise, it was prolonged during the minutes I left her place with dirty texting and such that made me think the session was very special for her as well. Needless to say, we lost track of time during the session. Just saying goodbye was taking forever as we were both looking for alibis to delay saying goodbye.

At that point, I didn't realise it had all the signs of something that could have become "L". We haven't seen each other again since then. I was in Vancouver for that weekend only. Almost 5 years later, we still occasionally email to say hi. In an attempt to relive that mesmerizing experience, I have tried to artificially duplicate that experience with other SP's. It was a mistake. What happened that distant day will never happen again.

[Guest **cely***r***ne]

"will he like the refreshments I have out..maybe he'd rather have fondu...crap, I wonder if he'll notice the damn run in my stockings...shit I forgot to put on the music...I wonder if he will think I'm pretty...he probably likes curly hair...why didn't I curl my hair..? Where's my breath spray?

 

But seriously though, I try NOT to think about anything besides "remain calm Maraena...you're aweosme" and just let the moment flow the way its meant to.

 

 

As an SP, what goes through your mind when meeting a client for the first time?

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

will he show up? Lol doesn't always matter reference or not sometimes life happens.

[Guest D***el B***e]

I have a quick question, I don't think it's been asked, I only did a quick search on the thread. When you meet a new client for the first time, whats's the first thing you notice in his physical appearance. Overall look? clothing? smell? eyes? shiny shoes? ...

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

When he walk in the door . I am most happy to see a big smile . That indicates his first impression of me is positive and helps me relax.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I have a quick question, I don't think it's been asked, I only did a quick search on the thread. When you meet a new client for the first time, whats's the first thing you notice in his physical appearance. Overall look? clothing? smell? eyes? shiny shoes? ...

 

Definitely the clothing when I see them walking to the door as I peek out the window. Most of my clients show up dressed decently. Other came from work in some kind of uniform and needed a shower ( fair enough lol).

 

If the guy make a half decent attempt to make himself look good, it tell me a lot about that person. I don't think I have seen anyone show up dressed as tho they didn't have a care in the world. I also attract a certain type of clientele so when they seek me out, I know they are the type of person I'm looking for.

 

The other thing is if the guy smell like cigarette. I'm a non smoker.

[Guest S****r]

For me it is the look on the face, too. I am always afraid I will see disappointment on the face of a first-time guest, but so far it hasn't happened. Usually the guy looks delighted, and as relieved as I feel!

 

Phew!

[CristyCurves 169032]

I have a quick question, I don't think it's been asked, I only did a quick search on the thread. When you meet a new client for the first time, whats's the first thing you notice in his physical appearance. Overall look? clothing? smell? eyes? shiny shoes? ...

 

Since I'm not a shallow girl...... I look below the belt and above the knees, if it appears nicely full then..;)

 

Just kidding! I'm with Katherine, a nice smile. I feed off of another's energy, if he looks happy, excited, then I most likely will be as well. It is about having fun, being relaxed, escaping your everyday and getting to know someone after all:)