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[jmsp 100]

Man seems proud of having had sex with many, many women. A basketball player claimed that he had sex with more than 20,000 women. I believe most men wish that they had the same luck. I have questions for ladies. Are you proud of having had sex with many, many men? Or not so much? Do you count the number? How many is ideal number for you?

[CasinoMing 1967]

A greeting of genuine smile and a warm hug goes a long way. For a first-time encounter, it settles the nerves of both adults... and for a 'return visit', it's a reassuring and comfortable greeting.

 

Be the hug that puts a smile on someone's face today :-)

 

CM

[johnybird 4391]

I apologize if this question was asked, I went randomly through the pages here and I did a search on the thread as well.

 

From other threads, it seems like most of you ladies take precautions to make sure that you don't end up in a potentially dangerous situation, but no matter how many pre-screening precautions you take it's still possible that you end up with a client that can get aggressive.

 

So my question to you lovely ladies is, what precautions or 'Plan B' do you take if you end up in a potentially dangerous situation with a client.

 

JB

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

Plan B is a secret....at least for me. That's one of those things you don't put out there in case someone is reading it and chooses to use it against you. It's like telling announcing where you keep your jewels so they know where to look if they decide to rob you.

 

Instead I'll say there IS a Plan B and even a C and I'm not afraid to put them in motion.

[Eric Northman 16522]

From what I've read, most escorts have a drop-down panel above the bed that houses an automatic gun turret. In case of emergency, the turret descends and warns the gentlemen that further aggression will be met with lethal force. I understand robot dogs are becoming popular as well since their exercise and feeding requirements are minimal.

[CristyCurves 169032]

For me it's my dogs, those who have met them realize their strength;)

I appreciate the question JB but no one will answer as that would give away their secret. I will say I also have a plan c. One can never be to careful. Realistically though I've never had an issue and maybe because of my screening.

[Eric Northman 16522]

Realistically though I've never had an issue and maybe because of my screening.

 

I don't know what the exact stats are but intuitively, I suspect that there is a VERY big difference in the odds of an 'escort of quality' running into a bad encounter vs. someone working in, shall we say, less optimal conditions. I bet that most predators are bottom feeders and go after street workers or very obviously inexperienced newbies working out of crappy hotels.

 

Not to say it can't happen but simple risk analysis suggests that there is far easier prey than most of the ladies who would be posting here.

[EmilyRushton 253377]

I don't know what the exact stats are but intuitively, I suspect that there is a VERY big difference in the odds of an 'escort of quality' running into a bad encounter vs. someone working in, shall we say, less optimal conditions. I bet that most predators are bottom feeders and go after street workers or very obviously inexperienced newbies working out of crappy hotels.

 

Not to say it can't happen but simple risk analysis suggests that there is far easier prey than most of the ladies who would be posting here.

 

In all my time in this business I have NEVER had a bad date, by that I mean someone violent or causing me harm. And when I had my agency none of the ladies working for me ever had a violent call as I screened their potential guests as well. I firmly believe my strict screening plays a huge role in this. Id rather be alive and safe than risk my life over any amount of money - its just not worth it.

[johnybird 4391]

For me it's my dogs, those who have met them realize their strength;)

I appreciate the question JB but no one will answer as that would give away their secret. I will say I also have a plan c. One can never be to careful. Realistically though I've never had an issue and maybe because of my screening.

 

Thank you Cristy.

 

I realized it might not be wise for someone to reveal their plan B publicly right after I hit that post button.

 

Thankfully there are more good people in this world than bad

 

:)

[Eric Northman 16522]

In all my time in this business I have NEVER had a bad date, by that I mean someone violent or causing me harm. And when I had my agency none of the ladies working for me ever had a violent call as I screened their potential guests as well. I firmly believe my strict screening plays a huge role in this. Id rather be alive and safe than risk my life over any amount of money - its just not worth it.

 

This was kind of what I was getting at. Unfortunately, screening, security, safe place to work or even the ability to pass up a 'date' are luxuries that not everyone has. It's kind of a chicken and egg thing. The very fact that you have those things makes predators more likely to seek out softer targets. This here is the biggest single argument in favor of legalization/decriminalization. Remove any requirement to work 'in the shadows' and it suddenly becomes so much safer because there is less overhead in acquiring basic security.

 

I also feel that social safety nets play a big part too. Canada isn't perfect but I think our relative lack of crime, poverty and desperation makes it much easier for women to be able to put safety ahead of money.

 

Additional Comments:

For some reason these days I keep taking every comment/thread in a serious/political/social issues direction... What a buzzkill!

 

So, in conclusion, I would like to state, for the record: Boobies!!!

 

Back in keeping with this thread, here's a real question. Might be classed under trade secrets but how much YMMV is there in your service? Do you notice a very big difference in how you perform in an encounter when the chemistry isn't there or are you able to power through and put on a good performance regardless?

[roamingguy 300292]

I apologize if this question was asked, I went randomly through the pages here and I did a search on the thread as well.

 

From other threads, it seems like most of you ladies take precautions to make sure that you don't end up in a potentially dangerous situation, but no matter how many pre-screening precautions you take it's still possible that you end up with a client that can get aggressive.

 

So my question to you lovely ladies is, what precautions or 'Plan B' do you take if you end up in a potentially dangerous situation with a client.

 

JB

 

I am curious as to why you would even ask the question? Precautions ladies have in place for their safety and security are just that, for their safety and security. If it is known what ladies have for a "Plan B" or for that matter, "Plan A" "Plan C" etc then the less scrupulous clients may be able to circumvent that security to the detriment of the lady

One of the keys of security is keeping it confidential on a need to know basis, and that is applicable in this lifestyle too

 

RG

[Amber Rose 19012]

Back in keeping with this thread, here's a real question. Might be classed under trade secrets but how much YMMV is there in your service? Do you notice a very big difference in how you perform in an encounter when the chemistry isn't there or are you able to power through and put on a good performance regardless?

 

So I've seen on several boards that men complain about when a service is YMMV; but here's the thing..every single encounter will always be YMMV, and that can be a very good thing.

 

If we took the YMMV out of our services, then every encounter would be extremely mechanical and robotic. We'd have the same conversation, the same actions, etc. There would be nothing genuine about it, and who wants that? :P

 

Also, every encounter is also different, because each person we meet is different, so everything we do with them will be catered to that person, their body, their personality, etc. Obviously if someone shows up with very bad hygiene, you can't expect to get the same service as someone who is squeaky clean, and also if you show up and are rude or aggressive or whatever else, you also won't get the same experience as someone who is friendly and respectful.

 

That being said, I do notice that the encounters I have with people I have great chemistry with are quite different; Not in the sense that they get better service or even more services for that matter, but they get a different side of me. If I meet someone and right away it feels like we've been friends for forever and I'm extremely comfortable around them, then it just means they will see a more at ease version of myself, instead of the one who takes a little time to get to know the person before I fully relax.

 

So, to conclude, every experience will always be YMMV because every person is different, but this isn't always a negative thing, and who wants the exact same experience some other guy got anyways? You should want yours to be unique! :)

[Eric Northman 16522]

That's a great answer Amber. When you put it that way, it actually makes me reflect on the YMMV aspect of my own performances. Thinking back, my encounters have ranged from stud to dud and a lot of that is really related to chemistry. A younger, more foolish me would have thought, "Beautiful woman, giddy up" but older, wiser me has learned there is so much more than just the physical. Really makes me cherish those few ladies with whom I really click.

[Ice4fun 78407]

So I've seen on several boards that men complain about when a service is YMMV; but here's the thing..every single encounter will always be YMMV, and that can be a very good thing.

 

If we took the YMMV out of our services, then every encounter would be extremely mechanical and robotic. We'd have the same conversation, the same actions, etc. There would be nothing genuine about it, and who wants that? :P

 

Also, every encounter is also different, because each person we meet is different, so everything we do with them will be catered to that person, their body, their personality, etc. Obviously if someone shows up with very bad hygiene, you can't expect to get the same service as someone who is squeaky clean, and also if you show up and are rude or aggressive or whatever else, you also won't get the same experience as someone who is friendly and respectful.

 

That being said, I do notice that the encounters I have with people I have great chemistry with are quite different; Not in the sense that they get better service or even more services for that matter, but they get a different side of me. If I meet someone and right away it feels like we've been friends for forever and I'm extremely comfortable around them, then it just means they will see a more at ease version of myself, instead of the one who takes a little time to get to know the person before I fully relax.

 

So, to conclude, every experience will always be YMMV because every person is different, but this isn't always a negative thing, and who wants the exact same experience some other guy got anyways? You should want yours to be unique! :)

 

I know I am not an Escort but for my two cents I agree 100% that YMMV has always been a very good thing with the ladies I have met.

 

Now maybe if I did not do my homework and just immediately booked based on the picture in the AD I might have come across more unscrupulous ladies who would have used the "YMMV" as a reason to not provide more services or to up sell services once you were already with her.

 

My Experience has predominantly been one of ladies exceeding my expectations and treating me like I was the only person who mattered to them during our encounter. Perhaps the services I received were exactly the same as everyone else... or maybe without my knowledge they had withheld services they offer to others... I really don't know and frankly don't care... All I do know and all I do care about is that I felt welcomed... appreciated... and yes Special during my time with them

 

I generally don't go into a session with a lady with a menu or a plan in mind but prefer to allow the session to unfold... this is particularly the case if I have seen the lady regularly... sure there may be things that we both enjoy and will most likely be part of our time together but to be honest if I know the lady well it is the personal connection that matters the most to me... lol the amazing sex is just a wonderful bonus.

 

So based on my experience I hope my mileage continues to vary on a regular basis.

 

Just my Opinion

 

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[johnybird 4391]

So, to conclude, every experience will always be YMMV because every person is different, but this isn't always a negative thing, and who wants the exact same experience some other guy got anyways? You should want yours to be unique! :)

 

So so true, I love it that every time I see the same person my date is different. I can't talk for the lady, but the more we get to know each other & the more comfortable we are with each other it just seems like the dates take on a whole new energy and excitement.

 

There is almost a 180 degree difference between the first date and the 3rd or 4th date I've had with the same lady and I love it!

 

:)

[shaved 3174]

This has happened to me twice, by a well respected Lady on CERB.

 

I was flattered to receive a PM to the effect that she would love to see me.

I have no problem with a Lady PM'ing telling me she would like to see me. After all we PM the Ladies !! I don't think my inbox would be over flowing or anything. If you don't ask we won't know. Like I said I was flattered who wouldn't be. So Ladies do be shy if you feel that way. I don't think any Male is going to PM you back and say please don't PM me anymore.

 

LOL Ladies

 

 

 

 

 

Have you ever wanted to meet a particular cerb member in person, and get really nervous due to certain perception or expectation you have of them?

[Guest D***el B***e]

This has happened to me twice, by a well respected Lady on CERB.

 

I was flattered to receive a PM to the effect that she would love to see me.

I have no problem with a Lady PM'ing telling me she would like to see me. After all we PM the Ladies !! I don't think my inbox would be over flowing or anything. If you don't ask we won't know. Like I said I was flattered who wouldn't be. So Ladies do be shy if you feel that way. I don't think any Male is going to PM you back and say please don't PM me anymore.

 

LOL Ladies

 

 

Same here, I love getting PMs from ladies who are just saying HI, and not the result of a reply to MY PM. I know some ladies are reluctant to do that as it may be seen as generating business, which I believe is not allowed through unsolicited PMs, but there's nothing wrong in saying "HI how are you". just my opinion

 

All this to say fell free to drop me a note and say HI.

[roamingguy 300292]

This has happened to me twice, by a well respected Lady on CERB.

 

I was flattered to receive a PM to the effect that she would love to see me.

I have no problem with a Lady PM'ing telling me she would like to see me. After all we PM the Ladies !! I don't think my inbox would be over flowing or anything. If you don't ask we won't know. Like I said I was flattered who wouldn't be. So Ladies do be shy if you feel that way. I don't think any Male is going to PM you back and say please don't PM me anymore.

 

LOL Ladies

 

While PMing one another is one thing, like a hi how are you, But agencies/ladies/spas can't use the PM system to solicit business. Ladies that do this run the risk of being reported to Mod

A lady PMing you to send a message is one thing, but to PM you to say she wants to see you comes across as soliciting.

This from Lyla rules

https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_pmsystemtule

 

 

pm system - do not spam or send unsolicited pm's AGENCIES/LADIES/SPA'S/ETC...

You CAN NOT use the PM system to send advertising PM's! Please do not PM members with offers, ads, suggestions, etc... unless the member contacts you first requesting information or they specifically post asking for a certain service that you can provide for them. Using the PM system to just BULK advertise will get you suspended.

 

To REPORT PM SPAM:

Use the REPORT THIS icon on the TOP of the PM to report SPAM (Unsolicited advertising) if someone PM's you advertising a service/spa/agency and you did not ask for info first - THIS IS SPAM - REPORT IT PLEASE!

 

A rambling

 

RG

[Guest D***el B***e]

While PMing one another is one thing, agencies/ladies/spas can't use the PM system to solicit business. Ladies that do this run the risk of being reported to Mod

A lady PMing you to send a message is one thing, but to PM you to say she wants to see you comes across as soliciting.

This from Lyla rules

https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_pmsystemtule

 

 

pm system - do not spam or send unsolicited pm's AGENCIES/LADIES/SPA'S/ETC...

You CAN NOT use the PM system to send advertising PM's! Please do not PM members with offers, ads, suggestions, etc... unless the member contacts you first requesting information or they specifically post asking for a certain service that you can provide for them. Using the PM system to just BULK advertise will get you suspended.

 

To REPORT PM SPAM:

Use the REPORT THIS icon on the TOP of the PM to report SPAM (Unsolicited advertising) if someone PM's you advertising a service/spa/agency and you did not ask for info first - THIS IS SPAM - REPORT IT PLEASE!

 

A rambling

 

RG

 

 

It's all a matter of interpretation ... you're either a cop or a bandit. I'm a bandit. ;-)

[CristyCurves 169032]

Same here, I love getting PMs from ladies who are just saying HI, and not the result of a reply to MY PM. I know some ladies are reluctant to do that as it may be seen as generating business, which I believe is not allowed through unsolicited PMs, but there's nothing wrong in saying "HI how are you". just my opinion

 

All this to say fell free to drop me a note and say HI.

 

It is a nice thing, saying Hello, but as some of us are taught reaching out isn't proper protocol as it could be misconstrued as trying to garner business. Sometimes learned behavior is hard to break and not all Hobbyists appreciate the reaching out. So for me I only reply to hello's I don't initiate them even though I do believe we all should do as we see fit.

[Ice4fun 78407]

This has happened to me twice, by a well respected Lady on CERB.

 

I was flattered to receive a PM to the effect that she would love to see me.

I have no problem with a Lady PM'ing telling me she would like to see me. After all we PM the Ladies !! I don't think my inbox would be over flowing or anything. If you don't ask we won't know. Like I said I was flattered who wouldn't be. So Ladies do be shy if you feel that way. I don't think any Male is going to PM you back and say please don't PM me anymore.

 

LOL Ladies

 

RG is right that ladies are restricted from sending unsolicited PM as a means of drumming up business. There are lots of members who would have problems with unsolicited posts because if that door gets opened it could mean that your inbox is suddenly filled with tons of bulk cut and paste emails. Ladies have a great place to post ads and can take advantage of the threads to present interested members with a good look at who they are and generate interest.

 

Now all that said... I see nothing wrong with a lady from time to time dropping a member an email to comment on posts he may have made.. she should not solicit a booking but lets face it... with the egos us guys have if a sexy lady expresses interest in us we are likely to suddenly have an interest...lol

 

Just my Opinion

[Guest D***el B***e]

awwww come on folks, there's a huge difference between getting an unsolicited PM about a lady who may be drumming up business versus getting a friendly Hello PM. The tone would be different, and so would the scope. I know people are posting their 'official' position but I'd love to have a peek at their inbox! lol

[Ice4fun 78407]

awwww come on folks, there's a huge difference between getting an unsolicited PM about a lady who may be drumming up business versus getting a friendly Hello PM. The tone would be different, and so would the scope. I know people are posting their 'official' position but I'd love to have a peek at their inbox! lol

 

You are right I did quote the official line which I think is quite clear but I think I also suggested that it is possible for a lady to straddle this line occasionally as long as she stays away from saying she would like to see the member.

 

Just my Opinion

[roamingguy 300292]

awwww come on folks, there's a huge difference between getting an unsolicited PM about a lady who may be drumming up business versus getting a friendly Hello PM. The tone would be different, and so would the scope. I know people are posting their 'official' position but I'd love to have a peek at their inbox! lol

 

No one is disputing that. And a friendly hello PM from a lady I don't believe anyone has an issue with

But ladies spamming the inboxes of members trying to drum up business is something else. Only twice has it happened to me, once by an agency and once by an SP, and both times it was mass spamming of male members inboxes...so all that "love to meet you" didn't feel so special LOL

And how do I know, by the time I read it, then thought about it, and went back to the PM it had been removed by Mod...and no, I didn't report it. So obviously someone else, at least one other, likely more received and reported it

But again, to reiterate, no one has an issue with a friendly PM...I've received PM's from ladies from the east coast and west...ladies I very likely will never meet in person. Ladies who know I'm an Ontario boy

It's spamming the PM system to solicit business that is the issue

 

RG

[Guest D***el B***e]

No one is disputing that. And a friendly hello PM from a lady I don't believe anyone has an issue with

But ladies spamming the inboxes of members trying to drum up business is something else. Only twice has it happened to me, once by an agency and once by an SP, and both times it was mass spamming of male members inboxes...so all that "love to meet you" didn't feel so special LOL

And how do I know, by the time I read it, then thought about it, and went back to the PM it had been removed by Mod...and no, I didn't report it. So obviously someone else, at least one other, likely more received and reported it

But again, to reiterate, no one has an issue with a friendly PM...I've received PM's from ladies from the east coast and west...ladies I very likely will never meet in person. Ladies who know I'm an Ontario boy

It's spamming the PM system to solicit business that is the issue

 

RG

 

 

Not sure what your point is in quoting me. I know that reiterating everything likely makes things much clearer for everyone.