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[Maria Divina 2262]

I guess i'm just more into the physical aspect of dominance and submission and not so much the psychological side, I never did enjoy verbal humiliation for example.

 

The important will be to mention it and to ask if your SP will be willing to share the kind of encounter who could make you happy.

 

By the way, I am not at all into verbal humiliation either. I like to domine, but I am a caring domina -if ever we can say that- , and that's not meaning that I can't punish and push the limits, that's just that I just assured myself that it stays a sane & safe play. Oh, that could hurt but not damage for real. :icon_lol: But you will get out the encounter still entire with all your pieces intact. hahahaha

 

So, I am talking about it to show that everybody are quiet different. And so, again the importance to take the time to exchange before an eventual encounter to secure to be a good eventual match. Even for very mild fetishes is preferable.

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

Yeah I get that, there certainly is that stereotype of the strong, mean dominant, and the weak/joyless submissive.

I used to watch a lot of porn, something I'm still trying to get under control, and there is a particularly popular website that deals a lot with kink and bdsm. I have only ever seen one video from this website where both the dominant and the sub looked like they were having a fun time.It's something I would like to see more often because I think it portrays the bdsm culture in a much more honest and accessible way.

I guess i'm just more into the physical aspect of dominance and submission and not so much the psychological side, I never did enjoy verbal humiliation for example.

 

I am a member in verrrry good standing <grin> ...( tying, binding, grinding, groping, trampling, doting, pampering...stomping et al hehe) of a lovely community of 'kinky-folk'... and am happy to say that this is indeed just a stereotype.. and not always the reality ;)

Most of us dominant types are pretty nice at heart ;)

 

One thing a person should always remember when enjoying porn... it's generally a 'scripted' scene.. and not always reflecting what is *real* which I am sure you are aware of <grin>...

I have not once entered into a scene with someone where it wasn't consensual.. fun, and enjoyable for all involved...nor would I (and for some reason, I think we've touched on this before hehe) as it is not only against my nature, being the sensually oriented creature that I am.. but a great disservice to whoever has honored me with trusting themselves to my care... ;)

 

I do understand the physical draw to femdom... for sure <grin> but have to say, in my opinion.. that the brain... is *always* the absolute funnest place to play.. cavort.. twist and enjoy being in ;) and it doesn't always have to be through degradation/humiliation... a well-timed "grip" alongside hoarse whispers of praise or encouragement into a soft ear can send shivers through a brain and body like almost nothing else I have ever seen/experienced hehe

 

*sometimes*....mind-games are purrrrrfectly lovely <wink>

[nntsci 11076]

Here's a question:

Is it possible to be both a paying client and a friend ?

 

I see no reason why not. I have friendships with business partners, colleagues... Etc. actually it's good to be friends with colleagues it makes doing business together better. But in nether case would I expect freebees.

[nntsci 11076]

A question to all you lovely ladies... and to a lesser extent... the gents.

 

Its Halloween one of my favourite times of year... If you see clients on Halloween do you dress up in costume? Do Clients show up in costume?

And do you get costume requests for Halloween?

 

If so, what sorts of costumes have your worn for some guy's special trick or treat.

[Guest S****r]

Last night's client had requested that I dress in all white, as in lingerie. So I gteeted him at the door in a white Toga made from a sheet! LOL but underneath I had on the white sexy lingerie. I also had on Greek music and we tried some Greek dancing. It was fun. Opa!!!!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

A question to all you lovely ladies... and to a lesser extent... the gents.

 

Its Halloween one of my favourite times of year... If you see clients on Halloween do you dress up in costume? Do Clients show up in costume?

And do you get costume requests for Halloween?

 

If so, what sorts of costumes have your worn for some guy's special trick or treat.

 

One year I had a regular client show up and he was more on the submissive side so I took out my sexy police officer's costume with the hat and the aviators, left the door open and told him to come upstairs. I told him beforehand that I had a surprise for him but he had no idea. He was about to go in the bedroom but I came out behind him from the bathroom when his back was turned with handcuffs, put him against the wall and told him to spread em' while I frisked him. Hehehe he was not expecting that! He enjoyed every minute of it and loved my authoritative sexy but bitchy look with those aviator sunglasses on. Lol.

[NotchJohnson 214136]

When you ladies post on backpage does your ad show up soon after you press "send"?

My reason for asking is because I have seen ads where the lady will post her hours (ex. 10am - 5pm) and her ad shows up at 3:30pm.

 

I'm also a early riser and like to have fun in the morning(makes my day go better) and I have seen an ad on a Saturday morning around 8am, I text the lady and she said she could not see me before noon. I think she was still sleeping or just went to bed.

 

This will help me understand how booking a meeting at the right time works better for both of us.

 

Thanks,

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

BP has a feature called auto post. You can determine to post "after" a certain time. Sometimes it is within 10 minutes of this time, sometimes longer. When posting a new ad, it generally posts about 15 minutes later.

 

Sometimes we do our administrative work at a time we are not seeing guys, so that might explain the difference.

[Guest S****r]

Good question.

Do not think of a posted ad as being like an OPEN sign on a shop door. The ad is to inform the public that we exist and provide a service. It is not like we dress up in lingerie and then place an ad and sit there and wait for the phone to ring.

 

We place the ad so that people can call us to fill our calendar with appointments for the week so we can organize our work days, family life, etc. etc. Just like a doctor or dentist or lawyer advertising. When you see their ad somewhere, it doesn't mean they are sitting there with nothing to do waiting for someone to call and come by. It's the same for us.

 

Thank you for your understanding.

[NotchJohnson 214136]

Good question.

Do not think of a posted ad as being like an OPEN sign on a shop door. The ad is to inform the public that we exist and provide a service. It is not like we dress up in lingerie and then place an ad and sit there and wait for the phone to ring.

 

We place the ad so that people can call us to fill our calendar with appointments for the week so we can organize our work days, family life, etc. etc. Just like a doctor or dentist or lawyer advertising. When you see their ad somewhere, it doesn't mean they are sitting there with nothing to do waiting for someone to call and come by. It's the same for us.

 

Thank you for your understanding.

I understand all of that Summer, but you ladies don't all work from 8am - 5pm like the dentist or doctor. My question was if the post is up at 8am, what is the window of time to call for a meeting? She does not post any time frame for a visit, how are we suppose to know when to text/call/email?

Some ladies prefer to work late at night ex. 7pm-3am, I'm not available at that time because I have my beauty sleep in there.

[Guest S****r]

You can call, text or email at any waking hour, expecting to make an appointment for later. If you call a lady at 8:00, it shouldn't be a surprise that she isn't able to book until 12:00.

[nntsci 11076]

hi Ladies... I have an odd question.

 

A while back I've started painting a series of a lady in a hotel hallway... its based loosely on a lady I see from time to time... and a hotels I've been in... 4 done so far...

Anyway I decided to add a prequel showing her arriving at the hotel room and knocking on the door.

 

Anyway. I was thinking of showing her arriving in a different (sexier) outfit then the one that I painted of her leaving the hotel.

I'm wondering if you have ever left an outcall in a different outfit then you arrived in.

 

Thanks in advance if you can give me any feedback.

[nntsci 11076]

Not me,if requested a sexier outfit that I can wear outside I will change after I arrive but always change back to the first outfit...maybe ladies who have their own car are more flexible that way? I cannot carry my wardrobe in the buses lol

thanks for the reply

[blacklabdog 3049]

I was curious as to how Bill C36 has affected business. having joined Lyla after it was enacted I never had to adapt but wonder how many men stopped hobbying (not fond of that term ) once it became law

[nntsci 11076]

"I was curious as to how Bill C36 has affected business."

Two of the gals I used to see through escort agencies, reacted by seeing me privately... we never discuss money, and we just set up a time and place... For one of them I book hotels, text her the location, and meet the lady there. Last week the hotel had a kitchenette... so I cooked her a turkey dinner. I pay her to join me for dinner. Not a scrap of leftovers.

 

I noticed after the bill was passed that escort agencies changed their advertising, but in different ways... One got rid of all nudity on their web page and removed all short forms such as BBBJ... but now they are going back to some nudity.

Another agency put out a disclaimer that the girls are not allowed to have sex with the clients... it was said in a way that was a tad over done -- perhaps done tongue in cheek.

Both of the above agencies are still operating.

[vader75 999]

Why is it so damn hard to find a regular woman in Windsor Ontario and why do most escorts not visit that area??

[nntsci 11076]

Question for ANYONE who regularly uses hotels for SP purposes...

 

I typically see a lady in Toronto and I rent a hotel for the night, we have fun, then we both go home. I then come back in the morning, have a coffee, maybe a shower, get anything I left behind the night before, then check out and got to work. This works fine because the hotel is not far from my office. But next week, I going on a road trip during the day... to Paris Ontario, so we can say, "We'll always have Paris"... stay to about 6 then come home... Ok... So here's my problem, I'm not comfortable going to the front desk and checking out of a hotel less then 3 hours after checking in... Any advice... If I prepay the whole amount, can I just abandon the room and not tell them? Any advice.

[NotchJohnson 214136]

Question for ANYONE who regularly uses hotels for SP purposes...

 

I typically see a lady in Toronto and I rent a hotel for the night, we have fun, then we both go home. I then come back in the morning, have a coffee, maybe a shower, get anything I left behind the night before (cooking oil, lol, the hotel rooms have a kitchenette), then check out and got to work. This works fine because the hotel is not far from my office. But next week, the Lady and I want to go on a road trip during the day... to Paris Ontario, so we can say, "We'll always have Paris"... stay to about 6 then come home... Ok... So here's my problem, I'm not comfortable going to the front desk and checking out of a hotel less then 3 hours after checking in... Any advice... If I prepay the whole amount, can I just abandon the room and not tell them? Any advice.

I have never rented a room for a get together with a lady but have often used them for business or road trip with the family. The only time I will return the key to the front desk is when I leave at around 8am or later.

Any other time I will leave the key in the room because the housekeeping have their own key to open the door.

Keep in mind that if you are given a card as a key you can keep it and should keep it because it has all of your information on it, address c/c# etc. so keep that for your self or destroy it.

[blacklabdog 3049]

With all due respect, that is an urban myth

[Luckyme 41401]

Question for ANYONE who regularly uses hotels for SP purposes...

 

Ok... So here's my problem, I'm not comfortable going to the front desk and checking out of a hotel less then 3 hours after checking in... Any advice... If I prepay the whole amount, can I just abandon the room and not tell them? Any advice.

 

I had done that and there was no problem. After the lady left, I waited a while, then locked up the room and left.

[nntsci 11076]

I have never rented a room for a get together with a lady but have often used them for business or road trip with the family. The only time I will return the key to the front desk is when I leave at around 8am or later.

Any other time I will leave the key in the room because the housekeeping have their own key to open the door.

Keep in mind that if you are given a card as a key you can keep it and should keep it because it has all of your information on it, address c/c# etc. so keep that for your self or destroy it.

Great thanks... Do they mail you the receipt... I had that occur with some hotels that do an "Express checkout". Not a major concern I guess in that I don't think my wife has ever gone to the mail box to pick up the mail... but one never knows..

[conquistador 18487]

Great thanks... Do they mail you the receipt... I had that occur with some hotels that do an "Express checkout". Not a major concern I guess in that I don't think my wife has ever gone to the mail box to pick up the mail... but one never knows..

Highly doubt they mail a receipt. I would just leave the key in the room or keep it and leave.

 

I would do what luckyme said above, don't go in together or leave, probably the easiest way honestly. Have her come a few mins after and then leave before you...None the wiser.

[blacklabdog 3049]

whenever I do express checkout when traveling on business- no receipt mailed unless I request. Thi swil def hold true if booked online as they know you can print a receit form website if you needed one

[NotchJohnson 214136]

Great thanks... Do they mail you the receipt... I had that occur with some hotels that do an "Express checkout". Not a major concern I guess in that I don't think my wife has ever gone to the mail box to pick up the mail... but one never knows..

Because I have never done this for the "hobby" all I get is the amount on my cc statement, they never mailed me anything else.

[August2017 1020]

What besides good hygiene makes a good client? Is it okay to bring a gift?