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[YoungBeautyMirella 5600]

Hi everyone! I have been wondering about something lately, because I have been talking to someone about this and wanted to get all of your opinions, men and women. I know someone straight or maybe bi curious women may be turned on by women but are 'completely straight' but what about if men watch gay porn or fantazise about being with a man? In your opinion does that make then 'gay' or 'bi' or just fantasazing? Let me know what you think! (I have nothing against anyones sexual preferences as I like women myself! Just curious on this topic! :) )

[Jay67 688]

I don't think just watching gay porn means that they are gay or bi. It could mean that they are bi-curious though. Anyone else have an opinion on this?

[Brad 49548]

While some folk may be in denial or sexually repressed, for the most part I think we each get to define our sexual identity for ourselves.

 

To be clear I'm not suggesting that being gay or straight is a conscious choice. I'm just saying that the only person who can answer the question about whether they are gay or not is the person themselves. I don't get to tell another person that, because of a certain thought or act, they are gay, bi, or straight.

 

Sexuality is not always a clear or unchanging line, which also confuses the issue. Whenever we try to categorize sexuality there are always going to be gray areas. But basically a stray thought or fantasy (or even deed) does not by itself define a person. Indeed, most everyone has fantasies about things they wouldn't ever have any real desire to do in real life, or perhaps only on rare occasion or under specific circumstances. How a person self identifies overall has more to do with their general, overarching desire and personality.

[Phaedrus 209521]

I know someone straight or maybe bi curious women may be turned on by women but are 'completely straight' but what about if men watch gay porn or fantazise about being with a man? In your opinion does that make then 'gay' or 'bi' or just fantasazing?

 

It puts them... somewhere on the continuum of human sexuality, and not quite into a convenient bucket.

 

I honestly don't see much value in trying to attach a label that doesn't really fit. It's better to simply let people be whatever they are.

[Guest S****r]

I honestly don't see much value in trying to attach a label that doesn't really fit. It's better to simply let people be whatever they are.

 

Well said; I like that!

[CristyCurves 169032]

I hope my response gives you some insight. I have a client who loves to have sex with me while watching male porn(man on man).The first time I met and experienced this with him I did ask him questions as it made me wonder, he just loves having sex with women and watching male porn. He did say he's never been with a man so... I have to say watching it turns me on as well. I love watching men have sex with one another, worshiping their parts, after all I love their parts as well. But I also get hot watching women with women, however I have no sexual desires toward women. I just think it's hot watching people became aroused and enjoying each other whether it be man/man, women/ women, man/women. People need not worry about labels, what is right or wrong(between adults) who's with who. They should just embrace pleasure and go with it. I hope my answer helps.

[bigdawg 474]

I prefer women but I have watched gay porn with a lady friend and I have to admit it did turn me on but that doesn't mean that I am gay or bi as I have no inclination to be with a man. Just my 2 cents worth.