daddio 2704 Report post Posted January 30, 2010 First off, I want to paraphrase Professor Higgins from My Fair Lady: "I think I've got it." - as far as me starting a new thread is concerned. As long as I don't forget it. Anyway, we all, SPs and hobbyists, go through all the preliminary exchange of e-mails and phone contact and we arrive at the door, perhaps nervous and excited. The door opens and you look at each other and everything is cooool. So, what do you prefer as the "instrument" for the first interaction? And I'm putting this in terms of furniture - and these questions apply to SPs and Hobbyists. 1. A couch/sofa/loveseat? 2. A bed? 3. The shower/bath? 4. An office desk? 5. A closet? 6. The kitchen counter? 7, The patio? 6. A bed of nails? My mind is in hyperdrive at the moment just to imagine scenes but even so, I may have missed something e.g. the roof or the dog kennel. See, imagination has no bounds. And if I didn't get it as far as starting a new thread is concerned I'm going to lie down on a bed of thumbtacks I just took out my bulletin board. LOL But remember - it's the first encounter between two special people who don't know each other. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
andflemcol 3975 Report post Posted January 30, 2010 What I would like would be any of the ones mentioned except for a bed of nails. On a first encounter, I would be happy with whatever instrument and on further encounters with the same SP, I would be happy to get a little more adventurous. The bottom line for me though is, if I am repeating with a sp its not the excitement of trying out a new instrument...It is spending time with an sp with whom I get along with and who would be willing get adventurous with me. Cheers Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted January 31, 2010 This is absabluminglutly funny. I never thought professor Higgins in that way. He is anti women and relationships. Why not have an escort over. Audrey Hepburn/Eliza Dolittle is hot enough to play that role. You can add a new scene to the play except it would have to be x rated of course. Why not have them right at the front door. After they are done they can do a little song and dance. Haha this play is getting good. No wounder Eliza has a speech impediment. Anyway, In a perfect world. I like to sit someone down on my couch, talk. Then bring them to my room. To do a little song and dance. Wink, wink. :bddog::bddog::bddog: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted January 31, 2010 I like to start on the couch and move to the bedroom. For me, it seems awkward to go to the bedroom right away. I like a bit of preliminary, get-to-know-you chat beforehand. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daddio 2704 Report post Posted January 31, 2010 This is absabluminglutly funny. I never thought professor Higgins in that way. He is anti women and relationships. Why not have an escort over. Audrey Hepburn/Eliza Dolittle is hot enough to play that role. You can add a new scene to the play except it would have to be x rated of course. Why not have them right at the front door. After they are done they can do a little song and dance. Haha this play is getting good. No wounder Eliza has a speech impediment. Anyway, In a perfect world. I like to sit someone down on my couch, talk. Then bring them to my room. To do a little song and dance. Wink, wink. :bddog::bddog::bddog: "Right at the front door" - Peachy, I love it, you must be one wild woman. Mind you, I guess if your x-rated play was set in winter in Ottawa the front door scene might have a problem with shrinkage. lol But if you're up for it I'll try hard to be up for that scene as well - he said, heaving a thigh. lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest s******ecan**** Report post Posted January 31, 2010 I like to start on the couch, spend a little time getting comfortable with the other person and then take it from there Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S**a*Q Report post Posted January 31, 2010 I like the couch idea too... A table keeps you apart from each other, negating the ability for touching and well, making the first move. A bed is too, well, let's get it on now... Not really leaving anytime or thought to getting to know each other. A shower or bath would work, and be fun :) If both parties are not shy right from the get go. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kubrickfan 12836 Report post Posted January 31, 2010 I always try to get a hotel room with a couch and a coffe table ... usually that's pretty easy to arrange. If its someone I haven't seen before, I try to be careful to make sure they are very comfortable with the situation. Best way to do this is to offer a beverage or a glass of wine, and sometimes a cheese and fruit plate as it seems like a lot of you ladies show up starving! :wink: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
buggernot 588 Report post Posted February 1, 2010 Always start with the couch - and sometimes end there as well - but for the longest time now it has been the passenger seat of my car first. I don't mind whatsoever, but the lazy man in me misses delivery sometimes. Still delissioso regardless. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted February 1, 2010 this always depends on my mood. I have done the coach thing,at the door,right to the bedroom,bath,kitchen counter. all depends on how will i know them. first time always starts with a passionate kiss at the door...i may do coach time asap or just save that for later...lol sometimes I'm just a perve and need to go at it right away. always time for chit chat later. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted February 1, 2010 ...lol sometimes I'm just a perve and need to go at it right away. always time for chit chat later. Really?....are you sure?...I mean I cold have sworn we chated a bit before we....no...no........on second thought you jumped me so fast it was all a lovely blur.........:bddog: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted February 1, 2010 Really?....are you sure?...I mean I cold have sworn we chated a bit before we....no...no........on second thought you jumped me so fast it was all a lovely blur.........:bddog: Antler i had the kleenex waiting for you at the door, the bed and the coach....lmao Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103697 Report post Posted February 1, 2010 First off, I want to paraphrase Professor Higgins from My Fair Lady: "I think I've got it." - as far as me starting a new thread is concerned. As long as I don't forget it. Anyway, we all, SPs and hobbyists, go through all the preliminary exchange of e-mails and phone contact and we arrive at the door, perhaps nervous and excited. The door opens and you look at each other and everything is cooool. So, what do you prefer as the "instrument" for the first interaction? And I'm putting this in terms of furniture - and these questions apply to SPs and Hobbyists. 1. A couch/sofa/loveseat? 2. A bed? 3. The shower/bath? 4. An office desk? 5. A closet? 6. The kitchen counter? 7, The patio? 6. A bed of nails? My mind is in hyperdrive at the moment just to imagine scenes but even so, I may have missed something e.g. the roof or the dog kennel. See, imagination has no bounds. And if I didn't get it as far as starting a new thread is concerned I'm going to lie down on a bed of thumbtacks I just took out my bulletin board. LOL But remember - it's the first encounter between two special people who don't know each other. I like to have a chat first. Then from there look out because depending on the connection you never know what will happen but never a bed of nails. I find that I'm picked up and carried around a lot to different areas, while still in position. It's because of my size, I've been told. I like it!!:69: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daddio 2704 Report post Posted February 2, 2010 OMG Lexy - so maybe, even with my "bad" back!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103697 Report post Posted February 2, 2010 OMG Lexy - so maybe, even with my "bad" back!!!! You would totally forget about your bad back;-) Kisses, Lexy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cordsboy 184 Report post Posted February 2, 2010 I like the couch with a glass of wine, soft music and dim lights. :cooter: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103697 Report post Posted February 2, 2010 I like the couch with a glass of wine, soft music and dim lights. :cooter: I like that, it's very nice and sensual. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GHT 798 Report post Posted February 2, 2010 lol sometimes I'm just a perve and need to go at it right away. always time for chit chat later. Yup, that was my Emma experience LOL. Fond memories. GHT Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites