The Face

[Guest M*****le*****c-H***s (Reti]

A question for the clientele: How important is a woman's face to you? Whether you're having a massage or something 'more', are looks as important as technique? Is it important to see your service provider's face before you book with her?

[roamingguy 300292]

The face along with her whole body is important. But no, I don't need to know what she looks like before meeting her. But an idea of what she looks like certainly creates interest and "opens the door" so to speak

But if we look through the photos of the ladies on CERB, there are many beautiful ladies. In terms of technique you allude to, well many ladies have similar menus and techniques.

What really is important, at least for me, is once the lady and I meet, a smile, a hug, and she is happy to be there, happy to be meeting me.

I like an encounter to be an escape with a beautiful woman who wants to be there. And one more thing, for me at least, a lady could have a bad hair day, or whatever. But if she's positive, smiling and happy to be there, all is good with me. In short her attitude is far more important than anything else

A long winded convoluted rambling, hope it makes sense

RG

[Guest c**io**m7]

The technique and the connection play more of a part than the face.

[mrgreen760 37785]

Yes it is important to me so much so that I won't book without seeing a face. I've sent a face picture as well prior to meeting.

 

 

Peace

MG

[Warped88 5815]

For me, yes, seeing the face, or at least a veiled peek, is important. However, as roamingguy said, it's not the only important factor.

 

I look at it this way: What we do, as hobbyists, is fantasy. We want the woman that we wouldn't (or think we wouldn't) be able to seduce outside of the hobby. Then, of course, we want her to be attractive. But ya know what? Attractive is many things and not just the sum of her "parts".

 

So I may deem one lady to have a more pleasing face than the other, but due to any number of things, the first could still be more attractive.

 

And, besides, If she's willing to roll the dice with me sight unseen, I'm not going to let seeing her face first be a decision maker.

 

My two cents...

[Guest P**aq]

For me the face is the main focal point when I am with her, so it plays an important role seeing her face beforehand. For me the eyes, nose, and mouth are the most stimulating visual when I am with someone.

[IsaMassage 54318]

Yes it is important to me so much so that I won't book without seeing a face. I've sent a face picture as well prior to meeting.

 

 

Peace

MG

 

You have to understand that many of us do not share our face for Privacy reasons... Most of us have family and friends whom not know about what we do.., or even if they know to protect them from other people they may know.. this can also affect people close to them at a proffesional level... Or even worse at a personal level..

ex: What it the MA or SP has a husband/BF he has a job and in his job he gets to meet different people and also he has a certain status within a company... we all know how the sexual industry is stigmatized by society... her face appearing on Websites, bosses, or clients finding out what his Wife/GF does for a living... can affect his career...

Now what if the MA/Provider has kids... she meets the parents of other kids that go to school with her children, One of this parents runs into one of this Face pictures and recognizes her... This parent may not want her/his kids to Interact with the kids of this MA or SP...

[Guest Ou**or**n]

I find it important for an escort to have what is 'to me', an attractive face. However what constitutes an attractive face is extremely subjective. I fully recognize that most women have very valid reasons for not showing their faces in their ads. Thus I do rely on reviews as well as the partial glimpses given in some photos to decide who to see.

 

However you will have to decide on whether to see many ladies without seeing their faces. I've found that you have to roll the dice and hope for the best. I think of the among many factors that determine whether to repeat, that facial looks is one of them.

[mrgreen760 37785]

You have to understand that many of us do not share our face for Privacy reasons... Most of us have family and friends whom not know about what we do.., or even if they know to protect them from other people they may know.. this can also affect people close to them at a proffesional level... Or even worse at a personal level..

ex: What it the MA or SP has a husband/BF he has a job and in his job he gets to meet different people and also he has a certain status within a company... we all know how the sexual industry is stigmatized by society... her face appearing on Websites, bosses, or clients finding out what his Wife/GF does for a living... can affect his career...

Now what if the MA/Provider has kids... she meets the parents of other kids that go to school with her children, One of this parents runs into one of this Face pictures and recognizes her... This parent may not want her/his kids to Interact with the kids of this MA or SP...

 

I understand all the issue(s) completely. It's just how I choose to play the game. Fits for some,not for all.

 

Peace

MG

[Frank7 3939]

Face is important, but i understand most ladies won't post a face pic. In that case, i'm guessing from the blurred face pics or what the body is like and take a chance.

 

Look isn't the most important thing, but it does weight in, i want to be with someone i find attractive.

[kmwq 5477]

Absolutely the face is important, an attractive face just tops off the fantasy. Having said that, I don't believe it will affect my enjoyment if she is enthusiastic and enjoys what she is doing. It's hard to beat enthusiasm during sex. I understand and respect the ladies reasons for not posting it and I make my decision based on other criteria that I desire in a women such as height, weight and body type. Anyway, it's important for the experience but not the one that makes or breaks a decision to visit a lady.

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

I know this is a question for the gents but I show my face where previously I did not. I don't believe it make one bit of difference to anyone. As some have said it the energy, posts and enthusiasm of the lady and the energy we create during an encounter.

 

Everyone's answers are perfect and what works for one may not for another. I have been out with my affairs for some time now but its totally understandable if you for any reason feel hiding your face is important .

 

Let our sunny personalities shine!

[Guest D***el B***e]

Oh lordy lordy, this is a dangerous thread to expose one's selfish interests ... For me, since I'm paying for the service, I might as well get something pleasing to MY eye, so yes, seeing the face or parts thereof, and a good part of the body will trigger a higher level of interest. That's the first part, but it's only good for the first meeting. After that I know what you look like , feel like, and smell like. If I come back after the first meeting it means you've likely done your job.

 

If I develop a quick connection with the lady on the first appointment, well that's a bonus. But really, when you think of it, having to see the face only works for the first meeting. After that, something else is getting you to come back.

 

I don't want to generalize and say that I always need to see the face. I have on occasion been attracted to the ad itself, just the ad and no photo. There's either a word in the ad, a piece of the sentences that caught my eye, that made me think twice about the possibilities .... sometimes I'm wrong, sometimes I'm bang on! ... but the face sure helps me for the first appointment.

[roamingguy 300292]

Just reflecting back on one encounter I had. This woman physically drop dead gorgeous in her photos. She showed her face, and body in pictures. If she walked into a bar guys' necks would be sore from turning to get a look at her (no not an exaggeration)

Well I booked an encounter with her. She showed up, looking even more beautiful than her photos. The first hour of the three hour encounter fine. But without going into details, well she ripped me off.

My point, the saying "beauty is skin deep" is true...this woman no matter how physically beautiful in photos and in person, both face and body, well she to me at least was and is ugly to the bone. So while a photo/photos (with or without face shots) help a lady put her foot in the door, to me at least, far more important is who she is, gleaned from her posts, emails, pm's website well you get the idea...in short, at least for me I want a real, three dimensional woman to see for an encounter

A rambling

 

RG

[Boomer 33202]

I think personalty is a far more important trait. Usually, I talk to a lady on the phone before I book, and if I can't establish a rapport at that point I don't usually book.

 

I'm probably going to get in trouble for this.

 

Maybe it's a little extreme, but there's a grain of truth to the Chubby Checker song. To the best of my recollection it goes as follows. " If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, make an ugly woman your wife. " I think he was trying to say there are many more important attributes to consider in enjoying a woman than dynamite looks.

 

Every woman is beautiful in her own way.

[Guest K***e D****ls]

I think that if you do your homework, you'll get a good idea of what she looks like facially anyway. Most reviews do give facial feature details or a comparison to a celebrity as a gauge on her looks in a round about way. Though beauty is so subjective and to each their own.

[Gentleman11 10508]

Like many here in this thread, a face pick is one of the many facets that go in to a decision to spend time with a lady, for me its not mandatory and I use many other clues to decide yea or ney - veiled photos, personality (in writing as well as over the phone), reputation, sense of humour, maturity, you get the jist. For me this site is a great one stop shopping site!

[Guest M*****le*****c-H***s (Reti]

Thank you all for your answers; they were all good well thought out responses. :)

[Ice4fun 78407]

Wow interesting Question.... ok if your asking if I might be initially more interested in a sexy lady who has a beautiful face then I would be lying to say no...sure seeing a beautiful face is not a negative but to be frank it's like most things in life things are not always as they might appear. External beauty is not always an indicator of a great session or an amazing connection.

 

The reality is that beauty is subjective and to be frank how beautiful a lady might seem to me might change once I have had the opportunity to get to know her.

 

Some of the ladies who I like the most might not have the "perfect" body or face but they in my opinion have something even more... the perfect package... that combination of personality... self awareness... confidence... passion and desire that makes them even sexier more beautiful. Do they have what some may see as physical flaws...lol... who doesn't... but that is who they are and they wear it with pride and make every inch of themselves sexy and desirable.

 

The way they feel about themselves makes me want to be with them and when I am I feel very lucky.

[jafo105 39057]

I would have to say yes the face is very important. I consider the face to be more important than what her body looks like. Dose she smile with her eyes? Does her eyes match her facial expression and body language? If they are not in sync, maybe she is not into me or the moment. That is usually why I go for a social date first. Less pressure for both of us and we can relax and get to know each other. I find that helps to build good chemistry. Then the frisky time can come on another date.