prepping for a booking

[Njosnavelin 142]

Thought it would be funny to hear what the different gentlemen here do to prep for their meetings with an sp. Everyone is different and what works for one may not for another but you never know what tips you might pick up. I have an appointment in a week and I am debating not spilling any seed for the week vs. taking the edge off before the big day. What do you fellas do?

[redmana2 2754]

The only thing I do is make sure I have a shower just before going. I'd do at least as much before going on a date, and the average SP treats me better than an average date.

[tater 267]

..and the average sp gets paid more than the average date

 

(sorry, couldn't resist)

[Mutau 2516]

NJ the main thing is to remain cool, confident and relaxed. As to whether or not you do not spill seed for one week or take the edge off beofre the big day really depends on your equipment and phsiology.

 

If you figure that the anticipation and excitement of seeing a new SP will cause you to pop prematurely, then perhaps you can dull your sensory sensitivity by indeed taking the edge off. However, is it not better and more stimulating to be on the edge with all your senses primed and pumped (so to speak :rolleyes:) with your friendly tool just ready to do its thing, along with those other parts of our anatomy that can give and receive pleasure!

 

As part of your preparation the standard levels of personal hygiene should be adhered to, i.e., shower, perhaps bath making sure to get to all parts of the body, along with the brushing of teeth and gargling. In other words, arrive fresh at the SP location. If for whatever reason this is not possible (perhaps it is a noon-hour tryst and your morning at work was the pits), then simply ask the lovely SP if you can take a shower upon your arrival after the introductions and before the main event. Perhaps she may even join you for some watery fun and games! :D

 

Simply remain yourself. Your comportment is important: she is a lady and you are a gentleman. Act accordingly and all will be fine.

[whatsup 11893]

Save your Seed for the Deed. :lol:

 

 

The biggest thing to remember is to be well mannered and groomed.

Impeccable hygiene from top to bottom and you will reap your reward.

 

Hair - clean and combed (if you have any)

Shave your balls (trust me)

Breath (fresh is best)

 

Just smell clean.

[antlerman 17064]

- make sure my personal hygene is impecable

- be in a good mood and exude fun and friendlyness....

 

 

And sacrifice small animals on my alter to the Gods before heading out, to ensure I have a good time.....8)

[Guest s******ecan****]

- shower thoroughly

- trim and buff nails

- shave

-shave down there (1 day prior, if I nick I cancel)

-no spicy or garlic/onion 24 hrs previous

-no flossing 24 hrs previous

-relax to get into a positive frame of mind to make the most of the encounter

- no sex 3 days prior to event (YMMV but this really works well for me)

 

probably sounds a bit anal but hey we're all different:wink:

[Guest D****13]

None of you get nervous? As for myself, I always am. So I take a couple deep breaths and relax, 5-10 minutes in the car.

It makes me uncomfortable to get near the location and neighbors giving you a weird look, you never know if he/she is aware of what is going on in that place. Discretion is a must.

[Guest s******ecan****]

None of you get nervous? As for myself, I always am. So I take a couple deep breaths and relax, 5-10 minutes in the car.

It makes me uncomfortable to get near the location and neighbors giving you a weird look, you never know if he/she is aware of what is going on in that place. Discretion is a must.

 

Nope. In fact I find the final 24 hrs and especially the last 20 or so minutes before knocking on the door to be incredibly exciting and yet deeply soothing. Just knowing I am about to be step off to a fantasy world where my desires will be fulfilled leads to great anticipation. If I am repeating I know I will enjoy, if it is my first encounter with an SP I look forward to the exploration and surprises that lay ahead.

[Jabba 18389]

I never take a bath 'cuz I HATE the thought of sitting in soapy, used water. I'm more of a shower person for that reason plus with a removeable shower head, I can get at all the right spots.

 

Here's my checklist:

Check equipment

Shave

Trim finger & toe nails

Floss/brush teeth (normal dental hygene)

Trim nose hair

Check equipment again and take it for a trial run

Clean clothes

Check for bellybutton lint

Shave and buff the balls for maximum smoothness & shine - use Johnson's floor wax (it never yellows). Recommend you use a handheld buffer without the brush attachment.

Check and play with equipment one more time just to make sure it works

Have something to eat about 1-2hrs before - Caution, don't eat beans and/or sauerkraut if ya know what I mean.

Floss/brush teeth again (because you just ate dummy)

Sneak out the door so your SO doesn't see you. Damn, she'll know you're up to something if your balls shine

[stevecurious 42059]

Nope. In fact I find the final 24 hrs and especially the last 20 or so minutes before knocking on the door to be incredibly exciting and yet deeply soothing. Just knowing I am about to be step off to a fantasy world where my desires will be fulfilled leads to great anticipation. If I am repeating I know I will enjoy, if it is my first encounter with an SP I look forward to the exploration and surprises that lay ahead.

 

 

I too feel this way. There is no greater stimulant than the final walk down the hallway of the particular ladies hotel toward her room. As Scott has pointed out if I am a repeat offender I am excited because I know what waits for me on the other side of the door. If I have never seen the lady before I am equally excited for the unknown. I always make sure that I am calm, cool and collected. You do not want to be knocking on the door in any sort of agitated state. Body language usually says more than oral language. As for personal prep work I always:

Shave all pertinent areas, shower, style my hair, brush my teeth and dress in a "date appropriate" fashion. Guys when you see someone treat it as as date or an evening out with your SO. Leave the ball hats and gym pants at home! Lastly have be honest and have fun!

[Njosnavelin 142]

Yeah, I was wondering less about hygiene and more along the lines of what Matua was discussing. You would think that issues around hygiene and manners should be a given but I suppose in many cases it is not. Anyway, I have opted for taking the edge off :handjob: prior to meeting an SP before and had trouble achieving MSOG. I am thinking this time around I may 'save the seed for the deed' to quote a previous poster.

[T****t**k 124]

- As stated previously take care of all the hygiene areas.

- Trim my beard to a short soft 5 o'clock shadow

-I always host the ladies at my condo so I ensure the place is clean and smelling good

-Put out my best bed sheets

-Chill some wine and ensure I have all accessories needed for a beverage

-Put on a good record lower the lights and await the night of converstion and pleasure

 

I have never done inservice so that would be a very new experience for me!

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[PoorGuy 1098]

Shave pubic hair, shave balls, shave face. Extra snipping around the O if she offers rimming. Trim the fingernails if digits is allowed. Extra flossing and brushing if she offers DFK.

 

Half a viagra or cialis on a near empty stomach 10 minutes before session and I'm ready to go.

[Guest s******ecan****]

Shave pubic hair, shave balls, shave face. Extra snipping around the O if she offers rimming. Trim the fingernails if digits is allowed. Extra flossing and brushing if she offers DFK.

 

Half a viagra or cialis on a near empty stomach 10 minutes before session and I'm ready to go.

 

Watch the extra flossing if you participate in DATY. Flossing can cause small abrasions and cuts on your gums, this increases your risk to STD's if doing DATY. I floss gently the day before. Brush often but gently the day of.

[Guest Ou**or**n]

I do all the standard prep work outlined by the many fine members above.

 

Oh, and I eat an apple about an hour before - nothing seems to clean up my teeth and naturally freshen my breath quite like an apple.

 

Nervous? Naw I absolutely love the thrill of finally getting in the car and heading out at night to meet a new lady for the first time. After all the research, communication, scheduling and physical preparation the show is about to start.

 

Nothing is certain - the lady may not be there, she may not look like you expect, the services offered may be different than you think, the chemistry may not be there - you've got to temper your anticipation of course. But man... the thrill... in my mind I'm thinking that within the next 60 minutes I will mostly likely be having sex with a wonderful, good looking lady I've never met before. Haha nothing beats that!

 

Its very addictive.

[whatsup 11893]

I do all the standard prep work outlined by the many fine members above.

 

Oh, and I eat an apple about an hour before - nothing seems to clean up my teeth and naturally freshen my breath quite like an apple.

 

Nervous? Naw I absolutely love the thrill of finally getting in the car and heading out at night to meet a new lady for the first time. After all the research, communication, scheduling and physical preparation the show is about to start.

 

Nothing is certain - the lady may not be there, she may not look like you expect, the services offered may be different than you think, the chemistry may not be there - you've got to temper your anticipation of course. But man... the thrill... in my mind I'm thinking that within the next 60 minutes I will mostly likely be having sex with a wonderful, good looking lady I've never met before. "Haha nothing beats that!"

Its very addictive.

 

 

Touche my friend ;)

[Mutau 2516]

Well NJ it seems that the folks have veered off in a different direction than what you anticipated.

 

I believe your main concern was:

a) do you relief yourself before the appoinmtent :handjob: ; or

b) do you wait for the appointment to be relieved.

 

My personal preference is for the latter. Retain your energy levels and have fun with the lady. She requires all of your attention.

[Jabba 18389]

Well NJ it seems that the folks have veered off in a different direction than what you anticipated.

 

I believe your main concern was:

a) do you relief yourself before the appoinmtent :handjob: ; or

b) do you wait for the appointment to be relieved.

 

My personal preference is for the latter. Retain your energy levels and have fun with the lady. She requires all of your attention.

 

Strictly speaking, you're absolutely right...but I think folks here (myself included) looked at the subject heading "prepping for a booking" and went from there.

[Guest Ou**or**n]

Well NJ it seems that the folks have veered off in a different direction than what you anticipated.

 

I believe your main concern was:

a) do you relief yourself before the appoinmtent :handjob: ; or

b) do you wait for the appointment to be relieved.

 

 

Many threads get interesting because different people expand the idea and the conversation grows, its the nature of a good discussion.

 

In terms of the OP's question - for some of us age has come along and made it a moot point *sighs wistfully*

[buggernot 588]

Honestly, I make sure I'm clean and horny. The latter part sounds simple but you never know when you sre ready to go. If something gets in the way of me being 100% into the moment, it could detract from the momemt at hand. Nothing beats a virile young - or otherwise - stud.

 

Ok, stud maybe stetching the limits here :)

[Guest s******ecan****]

Well NJ it seems that the folks have veered off in a different direction than what you anticipated.

 

I believe your main concern was:

a) do you relief yourself before the appoinmtent :handjob: ; or

b) do you wait for the appointment to be relieved.

 

My personal preference is for the latter. Retain your energy levels and have fun with the lady. She requires all of your attention.

 

I have heard some of the SP's comment on this subject in threads and in person. Recently during a visit one of the ladies here told me of a guy who admitted to whacking off in his car in the parking lot just before coming up to see her. In her experience some guys feel they need to do that to last long enough to enjoy themselves which I don't get since most SP's on CERB have no problem with MSOG.

[buggernot 588]

It depends on if you are able. Some Days you can come over and over, others it's a crap shoot. If she's into it, all the better