Guest Report post Posted June 12, 2012 All I can say is I'm understanding. If I was any more flexible they'd call me gumby LOL But this lady was and is an experienced SP, she should have known better. But for a lady new to this lifestyle, well we were all newbies at one time. An afternoon rambling RG It's great that you are understanding. For some people all us escorts get is one chance to impress or get a client to come back. For escorts who are willing to fix a problem or learn from their mistake this could be upsetting. I think in any business when you stop learning or do not want to better yourself you should find something else to do because maybe you lost your interest or passion in what you are doing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
backrubman 64800 Report post Posted June 12, 2012 (edited) Er... why should they worry about this? Hotels have rules about multiple-occupancy in rooms, and I see no reason why they should provide soap and towels for more people than they allow. And they can't (officially) cater to a SP seeing multiple clients without being prosecuted... at least, not yet :) Sure, we all break the rules, but when we do it's up to us to work around the limitations involved. I think hotels know and understand full well how important this industry is to them. There has been a very good relationship between them and SPs for a very long time to their very mutual benefit. When a lady asks for extra supplies like fresh sheets or towels and wants to take care of keeping the room clean herself they (the housekeeping staff) are more than happy to give her anything she wants, especially if she gives them a little tip and the big bonus is that they don't have to clean that room, on to the next one! Of course they are certainly under no obligation to play detective or suspect someone of being an SP. If they did, wow could they be dead wrong and much more liable for it than if they were right - darn well better be able to prove it ... not like that is provable. I suspect they could care less except that they do like the business and what of a few extra sheets and towels. Could mean anything. Additional comments: Guess I shouldn't take phone calls when I'm in the middle of composing a post. I note that Katherine gave almost the same answer while I was on the phone :) Edited June 12, 2012 by backrubman Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
iluvmuffins 1764 Report post Posted June 12, 2012 Just experienced one that I detest, and that is exchanging texts with SP just before session then having them tell me I need to wait around after making an effort to be there on time, then they don't know why as the client your upset when you've had to wait around. Respect goes both ways, for both the client and SP, and both our time is valuable. Ladies, is it really expected to start a session when the previous client has just walked out the door? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest LittleWingnut Report post Posted June 13, 2012 Unclean, smoke-filled or messy incall locations will turn me off from the onset followed closely by inattentiveness on a variety of levels that have already been discussed or pointed out. I will also stay clear of substance abusers. CERB recommendations are most helpful. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
iluvmuffins 1764 Report post Posted June 13, 2012 LW, for some reason any encounter I've had in Vanier has turned out to be one of those types you've just described so I tend to avoid those incalls, and prefer downtown locales. Unclean, smoke-filled or messy incall locations will turn me off from the onset followed closely by inattentiveness on a variety of levels that have already been discussed or pointed out. I will also stay clear of substance abusers. CERB recommendations are most helpful. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted June 13, 2012 I have never had an issue with getting all I need in hotels and even more. I do my own cleaning and just ask the staff for towels, soap, mouthwash etc. I know all the staff in most hotels, they think I travel with my husband on buisness and I am just a silly lady of leisure. I tip them well and they are thankful its a room they don't have to deal with. When I leave the room I always make sure any towels are in one convenient spot and I even strip the bed. Win, win for all. Not a hijack the thread here but Katherine makes a good point. It basically comes down to being respectful of others. If the cleaning staff will provide extra towels, soap, mouthwash, etc, which is no skin off their nose, they certainly don't mind either ladies or gentlemen at the hotel partaking in this lifestyle, and they aren't likely to report it to the front desk. But most important, imho, is leaving a good tip. Hotels especially cleaning staff probably hate sports teams or young adults in full tilt party mode more than anything But someone coming and going quietly, no attention to him/herself, the hotel has no need to be concerned A quick rambling RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest LittleWingnut Report post Posted June 13, 2012 I don't know if Vanier has a monopoly on crappy incall locations as I've been to a few in other parts of the city. Oddly, I've never been to one in Vanier not that there's anything wrong with the part of the city, but I will take note of your observations with thanks. LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted June 13, 2012 When I was using hotels I was using hotwire. So to get a good deal I never knew where I was going. I had a problem with one of lower end hotel room service. In the way that when I did not have the do not disturb sign up they still didn't come by to clean my room. I then had to call down and when they would come to clean my room they would say they thought I was going to skip it that day because I did the other days. I'm sure the room service had the best intenshions. It wasn't a big deal and I only had this problem with one particular place. I just wanted to make sure I had everything for my room. As far as asking for extras. I'm a bit sheepish (so my own problem, not the room services) and I was paranoid with asking for extras because I didn't want to bring attention to myself. I wanted to come and go as quietly as I could. So for me it was just easier to bring my own stuff and clean my own room. It was easier than chasing room service down after clients(because of having the do not disturb sing up when they passed by my room) and easier than asking them for extras for me. I still use the towels and sheets to this day so no skin off my back. If you are using a hotel and you are quiet and respectful I'm sure you will not have any problems. Just like anything else in this world your attitude can work to your benefit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ukdiamond 640 Report post Posted June 13, 2012 I think i would enjoy travelling with you ! I have never had an issue with getting all I need in hotels and even more. I do my own cleaning and just ask the staff for towels, soap, mouthwash etc. I know all the staff in most hotels, they think I travel with my husband on buisness and I am just a silly lady of leisure. I tip them well and they are thankful its a room they don't have to deal with. When I leave the room I always make sure any towels are in one convenient spot and I even strip the bed. Win, win for all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
backrubman 64800 Report post Posted June 13, 2012 As far as asking for extras. I'm a bit sheepish (so my own problem, not the room services) and I was paranoid with asking for extras because I didn't want to bring attention to myself. I wanted to come and go as quietly as I could. So for me it was just easier to bring my own stuff and clean my own room. Well as far a bringing attention to yourself, I know most hotels don't know, don't want to know and don't care. Even if the manager was a "holier than thou" sort and did make it his business he'd be dammed if he even insinuated that someone was doing anything if they weren't and even if they were, they clearly weren't as he has no way of proving it so they'd just be bringing on a load of hurt. If you don't give them trouble, I see no chance they would ever give you any. With regard to hotels knowing what is going on: (true story), so I'm sitting in the hotel bar having a nightcap and approached by two ladies with a lucrative offer. So you know if it seems too good to be true it probably is, so I politely as possible decline (and say nothing of my concerns) but they read me like a book. I didn't say it, but I was thinking, yeah, I go up to your room and there your friends await to relieve me of my wallet. So I guess they could tell I was tempted. Anyways, next thing the hotel manager is coming to see me at the bar. He assures me that these lovely ladies are of the most outstanding reputation and that if I am at all so inclined I should take them up on their offer as he vouches for their good character. Ok, so maybe he gets a kickback for his endorsement but the point is this was a pretty high end hotel and the manager knew darn well what the ladies were up to. Oh, and he also assured me that if I wasn't interested he'd make sure they didn't bother me any further. I take oath and so swear it's true. On another occasion I check into a hotel with an SP and she must have been known to them, I got a 'wink' from the guy at the front desk :) SPs are a hotel's best friend. Sorry for the hijack, hope we get back on topic now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *ig*a** Report post Posted June 14, 2012 Nice story thought, ok back to the thread unkept house, since I am a non smoker its cigarette breath that gets me also when you arrive on time and call as per instructions you get call back in 15 mins not ready yet. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freakx 431 Report post Posted June 17, 2012 Bait and Switch! It turned me off that I never wanted to do it again Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites