What is Really meant by MILF?

[Andee 220524]

Is a 21 year old woman who has had a child considered a MILF? Some male friends of mine seem to think so.

 

Is an older woman has never had children still considered a MILF? It is not a term I give myself, although I have been referred to as such and have done role-playing in that regard.

 

I had someone e-mail me, telling me he always wanted a MILF. Should I tell him that even though I'm older, I've never had kids. I guess I'm a MNK (mature, no kids).

[etasman2000 15994]

The key point is she has to be a Mom, regardless of age.

 

Is a 21 year old woman who has had a child considered a MILF? Some male friends of mine seem to think so.

[Emma Alexandra 123367]

I remember when i first start working in NYC i was advertised as a milf....my very first phone call came and the gent asked me "are you really a milf?" I had no idea what it was...lol. so he then asked, "do you have kids?" Yes i do so i guess having kids can make you a milf.

Maybe i am a milf but i don't really like that term...it's right up there with the term sp...they both give me shivers and not good ones...lol

[Cara Silver 32412]

Emma, you are an ELF. An Emma I'd like to Fuck!

 

xoxxoxoxo Miss Vulgarity

[Guest s******ecan****]

Well to me why technically to be a MILF you should be a mom. But I think from the porn/sexual view of MILF it refers to a someone who is at least in her 30's. After all just pick up any MILF porn DVD, or website ets etc. The ladies are mature and I don't (thankfully) see any kids in the background, or even any proof that these ladies have kids.

 

So to me a 21 year old with kids is not a MILF, but a mature 30's plus SP who is childless is.

 

Just sayin:?

[geo007 203]

Well to me why technically to be a MILF you should be a mom. But I think from the porn/sexual view of MILF it refers to a someone who is at least in her 30's. After all just pick up any MILF porn DVD, or website ets etc. The ladies are mature and I don't (thankfully) see any kids in the background, or even any proof that these ladies have kids.

 

So to me a 21 year old with kids is not a MILF, but a mature 30's plus SP who is childless is.

 

I agree with Scott on this one.:grin:

[Emma Alexandra 123367]

Emma, you are an ELF. An Emma I'd like to Fuck!

 

xoxxoxoxo Miss Vulgarity

 

Lmao i can't wait for you to fuck me again...lmao

by the way i thought you you Miss Slut not Miss Vulgatity..

xoxoxox love the old whore

[Mikeyboy 27133]

So to me a 21 year old with kids is not a MILF, but a mature 30's plus SP who is childless is.

 

I tend to agree with this. Although it goes against the literal wording, this term seems to now refer to an attractive vibrant woman who is of a certain age. (with or without children). I think mid thirties is a good place to start, but it's arbitrary as I've met many women who were older than that who looked far younger. A 21 year old would not be a MILF no matter how many children she has IMHO. (At least not in any context I've seen the term used.) It just sounds wrong to me.

[Jabba 18389]

Ummm, ok I'll give it whack...

A MILF is a lady in her late 20s - mid 30s who you might see attending a school play or other function that implies that she has kids. The woman is obviously hot in an understated and unconscious kind of way.

 

I mean the way her breasts heave and strain against the fabric of her silk blouse & jacket. The pearl necklace and matching earrings are an elegant display of good taste.

 

She wears high heels without stockings. She doesn't need stockings because she works-out regularly at the gym. Your eyes follow her ankles, to her calves and yesss, omg, yesss further up.

 

The well-formed yet cellulite-free ass under a nice, socially acceptable slit skirt. Yes, that ass demands you beg for forgiveness (for whatever the hell you did wrong). Trust me, once you apologize, you may be amply rewarded with a knowing, come hither smile. I emphasize "may", because if this is someone's mom, she may not give you the time of day. But you go on hoping anyway, because nothing is more tempting than forbidden and unobtainable fruit.

 

You make your decision to introduce yourself...go on ! you're ready for her....work-up the courage, straighten your shirt collar, give her your best, winner smile....yeaahhh baby. Your eyes dilate, you breath just a little deeper and you feel warmer just being in the same auditorium. Your legs feel just a bit wobbly, but you're doing it - you're almost there in front of her. My god, her eyes are like bright lights. Hey, she's turning to meet your fuckme gaze with equal delight. Oh man, this is just fantast.....

 

Suddenly, a voice you remember from your distant past echoes in your ears "Daddy, Daddy Daddy - I have to go to the bathroom!!! now now now NOWWWWW!!!!"...your little one is tugging desperately on your pants and that young voice is growing louder and more urgent.

 

aahhhh shit.

 

She turns her head away slowly and at a slight angle so that her hair teasingly cascades downward. With that, you know your moment has passed.

 

There, does that explain it?:butt:

[Newton 714]

Here is my take.

 

MILF is obviously a mom and thus must have kids. Since most women of adult age have kids, MILF locates in a certain age range. So what is a mom in the context of escorting? I think a mom is a loving person in the sense of tolerating small mistakes. A mom also has openness since she has passed from girlhood to womanhood. A woman is comfortable with her own sexuality and need for pleasure. Finally a mom is firm in terms of her likes and dislikes because she is no longer on her own. She has daily responsibilities.

 

Then how to place MILF's age range? I would try the following:

 

18-25: girl

26-35: woman, when no kids / MILF, when with kids

36-49: mature

50+ : golden girl

 

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[Peachka 4334]

To be a MILF, she has to be a mom & you have to want to fuck her! That's it....age doesn't factor into it. It generally refers to women in their 30's & 40's. The term seems to have deviated from it's original meeting much like GFE. I once met a hot 43 yr old that was a GILF! :cooter:

[F***s*t 145]

For me a milf is a woman late 20's to late 30's who has kids. Also she must be sexy as hell and Hot. Ladies who are in their 30's-40's that look great are Sexy to me period. Milf or Non-Milf it doesn't matter to me at all. :pimp:

[Andee 220524]

Emma, you are an ELF. An Emma I'd like to Fuck!

 

xoxxoxoxo Miss Vulgarity

 

That is so hilarious!

 

So I guess that would make me an ALF, then?

(Conjures up images of a furry alien creature...maybe not then!)

[Guest t**d**teur]

Emma, you are an ELF. An Emma I'd like to Fuck!

 

xoxxoxoxo Miss Vulgarity

 

A little one (elf) with a green outfit dancing to a Christmas tune; damned near busted a gut looking at your Christmas "Card" last year, Emma. Love your new acronym, Amelia.

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[Emma Alexandra 123367]

A little one (elf) with a green outfit dancing to a Christmas tune; damned near busted a gut looking at your Christmas "Card" last year, Emma. Love your new acronym, Amelia.

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yes that was fun to make...a lot of practice dancing...NOT..lol

[stevecurious 42059]

To be a MILF, she has to be a mom & you have to want to fuck her!

 

To quote Glen Quagmire from Family Guy:

 

Huh, huh soccer moms awww right...giggity, giggity, giggity!

[JoyfulC 132299]

I always thought that MILF was a term that referred to the mother of a buddy who is still very f*ckable -- a Mrs. Robinson type. (...am I dating myself here?) Or the mother of one of your classmates in high school who gives you fantasies.

 

Angela, you are a MINK -- Mature Independent, No Kids.

 

..c..

[E.D. man 691]

If your doing people atleast 5 years younger than you I think you would be a cougar , puma, or panther depending on your age and if you have grand kids your a GILF! :razz:

[bewlayb 7480]

I always thought that MILF was a term that referred to the mother of a buddy who is still very f*ckable -- a Mrs. Robinson type.

 

I think this is close to the original meaning of the term, although not necessarily limited to the mothers of buddies. It can refer to any desirable woman that is old enough to be the speaker's mother. If a guy my age wanted to use the term as originally intended, he'd have to have a thing for a 'golden girl' (to borrow the definition of a previous post). Nowadays however, you'll even hear middle-aged men refer to attractive young soccer/hockey mom-types as MILFs, which I think this is not proper use... or behavior. :wink:

[PistolPete 61421]

It always has been in my mind/dictionary for many years..the following..

 

 

MILF

 

1. (slang) Mother(s) I('d) like to fuck: A (putative) mother found sexually attractive.
   

 

No other explanation required:mrgreen: At least I don't think so

 

[Guest C*****tte]

Though there is a debate about who coined the term it was used in American Pie and then got popular after that. It was in reference to someone who was a peer's mother. So the male in question was a teenager and the mother was in her late 30s early 40s. As in I would like to fuck your mother.

 

This makes sense to me as there is an emphasis on the age difference and the Mrs. Robinson character from The Graduate kind of thing. Using the term MILF by a 40 year old man does not make sense to me. That is your peer.

 

The cougar phenomenon is also about age difference, but with the female being predatory about sex. A MILF is not necessarily that way. She is usually "hot" in a dress young and trendy kind of way. I have never heard a woman who is sophisticated dresser be called a MILF.

 

Anyway, that is my perception of the term.

[fortunateone 156618]

I always thought that MILF was a term that referred to the mother of a buddy who is still very f*ckable -- a Mrs. Robinson type. (...am I dating myself here?) Or the mother of one of your classmates in high school who gives you fantasies.

 

Angela, you are a MINK -- Mature Independent, No Kids.

 

..c..

 

I think this is the intent of the term. It is for younger guys usually to meet up with a woman who closely resembles their highschool Mom crush like from when they were 15-16. Of course a milf is attractive to the older clients as well. The implication is experience and attractive, and to review that teenage lust, usually.

 

In other words, this would be nearly impossible if the Mom in question is 21. Any sp younger than 30 who is a mom should be calling herself "yummy mommy", imo. The MILF term implies minimum 30 (probably 35+)

[Andee 220524]

I always thought that MILF was a term that referred to the mother of a buddy who is still very f*ckable -- a Mrs. Robinson type. (...am I dating myself here?) Or the mother of one of your classmates in high school who gives you fantasies.

 

Angela, you are a MINK -- Mature Independent, No Kids.

 

..c..

 

I like MINK much better than a Golden Girl which someone else referred here as 50+ which I am fast approaching.

 

Golden Girl (image of Blanche, Dorothy, Rose and Sophia....)....Nah!

 

We still have a long way to go baby!

[Trinity1 101]

Technically, the definition is this "A MILF is any mother that is sexually desirable." So, I agree with PistolPete, and Peachka. And, this is a category that I am proud to be a part of!

[slurp 7020]

MILF = Mother I'd Like to Fuck.

 

No one else's opinion is relevant.