Newbie question - Incall vs Outcall, Agency vs Indy

[RobX 2084]

I have not yet been with an SP and I am wondering whether to start with incall or outcall, agency or indy. My impression is that there is a certain logical sequence to follow - incall agency - incall indy - outcall agency - outcall indy. My understanding is that, ultimately, the most enjoyable experiences are to be had with an indy SP, but to visit an indy outcall the first time one sees an SP might be too intense and too much of a stressful situation. Am I on the right track or totally out in left field?

[Guest s******ecan****]

I have not yet been with an SP and I am wondering whether to start with incall or outcall, agency or indy. My impression is that there is a certain logical sequence to follow - incall agency - incall indy - outcall agency - outcall indy. My understanding is that, ultimately, the most enjoyable experiences are to be had with an indy SP, but to visit an indy outcall the first time one sees an SP might be too intense and too much of a stressful situation. Am I on the right track or totally out in left field?

 

 

I think you're totally out in left field. I've never heard of this logocal sequence you mention. Go with what you are comfortable with, just make sure you do your research. If you want to go agency make sure you go with one that has an excellent reputation for putting the client first. If you go Indy make sure you go with a well established, well reviewed lady.

 

In my books you are less likely to have a bad experience with a well reviewed Indy since her reputation will be very important to herself.

[etasman2000 15994]

Totally out in the left field :-)

 

Incall / outcall is really a personal preference. I dislike house cleaning which makes outcall a chore for me. Hence my preference for incalls.

 

There is usually someone at the agency where else there is a schedule juggle with an indie. Of course if you want to see a specific lady it doesn't matter if you pick agency or indie, scheduling will still be a common issue.

 

In terms of how enjoyable the experience would be, anecdotal evidence say indie. However I don't believe there is concrete proof of it. IMHO the main contributors to an enjoyable experience are really rapport and attraction with sexual skill coming in a distant third. YMMV :)

[777flyer 1612]

Having recently joined this hobby, i do not think your stepped approach will enhance your experience.....good research will.

 

What will, in my opinion, is to do a lot of reading and research on this board, decide what it is you are looking for in an SP, and find one that is best suited to your needs and desires....

 

If you are unsure, send an email and your questions will be asked, as long as you are polite, sincere and honest....you will get that in return... I did !

 

Whether it be thru an agency or an Indy....it is what you want and who you select that makes a difference.......not the sequence in which you progress from an agency to an indy....

 

SNK

[RobX 2084]

Thanks to all those who replied. The answers to my query on this and another board, whether in posts or PMs, were nearly unamimous in recommending outcall for one's first time with an SP. However, the replies were almost evenly split between agency and indy. I have therefore decided to go with a top-rated Outcall Indy for my first visit, partly because I think I would feel more comfortable explaining that this was my first time, and discussing my preferences directly with the SP, via email, prior to my visit, than I would doing so with a Agency owner or receptionist, whether by phone or email.

 

Thanks again,

[VedaSloan 119179]

I've never heard of such a progression either.

 

You have to decide what you're comfortable with, what you want out of the experience and start doing your research.

 

Personally, if I were on the other side, I would probably have the escort come to me, that is I'd opt for an outcall. But I'm lazy ;)

[rileydaniels 1901]

I have not yet been with an SP and I am wondering whether to start with incall or outcall, agency or indy. My impression is that there is a certain logical sequence to follow - incall agency - incall indy - outcall agency - outcall indy. My understanding is that, ultimately, the most enjoyable experiences are to be had with an indy SP, but to visit an indy outcall the first time one sees an SP might be too intense and too much of a stressful situation. Am I on the right track or totally out in left field?

 

 

Your first time with an SP might bring some anxeity. I get a few newbies and I always tell them to relax. once I know they are comfortable I start to bring out the menu. whether its incall or outcall I know they are nervous and I try and let them know it's about taking it slow and enjoying the moment.

 

Some say start with an agency at first, but that is completely up to you and your wallet and your resources some can only do incalls for some reasons they cant afford a hotel room they can't bring anyone home or whatever their logic is.

 

I see some newbies for thier very first time and some I am seeing them on a repeat second time basis. and I have seen a change from the first time to the second time how much more relaxed they are . so hun don't think about it too much.

 

Remember to be

- respectful to the lady you book with, have the money available in an evelop is much nicer.

- offer a drink open it the drink in front of the lady, or bring an unopen drink to her for the incall.

- use the shower most incalls have a shower.

- be ready and showered in the hotel room or your home about 10 minutes before she arrives its ok if your late and get ready while she is there but dont take to long.

- good luck and have fun.

[Annessa 22743]

....but to visit an indy outcall the first time one sees an SP might be too intense and too much of a stressful situation...

 

just to be sure you know the diference between outcall and incall....

 

Outcall: The lady visits YOU

Incall: YOU visit the lady at her residence, hotel etc

[hunknhot 1067]

I do agree with most about the progression you listed and that it is not a generally accepted progression. It's the first time I heard about it actually. I am curious to know how you came up with it. Not judging just curious.

 

That being said, if that progression listed below is the most comfortable path for you then go ahead. Who are we to say otherwise.

 

The important thing is that you are comfortable, whoever you choose in which ever manner I am sure will be great (provided you do some research). You can find a tremendous experience in any of the below scenarios.

 

Just some advice:

Take your time. Read reviews, then read more reviews, do research based on your own preferences, likes/dislikes, comfort and chemistry levels. Then have fun!

 

This is a great place to start for a newbie. Wish I had come here when I first experimented.

 

I have not yet been with an SP and I am wondering whether to start with incall or outcall, agency or indy. My impression is that there is a certain logical sequence to follow - incall agency - incall indy - outcall agency - outcall indy. My understanding is that, ultimately, the most enjoyable experiences are to be had with an indy SP, but to visit an indy outcall the first time one sees an SP might be too intense and too much of a stressful situation. Am I on the right track or totally out in left field?

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

When undergoing your research, don't be shy to PM the ladies you are interested in and ask any questions that will help you determing the level of comfort you may enjoy with them. I am pretty sure most of us don't bite and welcome the questions you may have; afterall, it is our desire to make sure you get the best experience possible!