One for the Gents...what do you do?

[Seymour 3970]

What do you do when you get stood up? Yes, it happens to the best of us and everyone deals with it differently. My own perspective on this as someone who 'plays the field' is when I book time with someone, it is because I want to see you - so it makes it difficult if not damn near impossible to at the drop of a hat, call someone else.....

 

Now I'm not talking of a cancellation - where a courtesy note or message is sent...and you have some reaction time, I'm talking downright no show. Do you call someone else? Do you find some other activity to kill time? Do you just go back to work? Do you go to bed? .... are you too upset to bother looking at other ads??

 

<I thought of running this as a poll but that may limit creative responses - last thing I want to do is stifle creativity>.

 

Your thoughts CERB. What do you do when someone pulls a no show on you?

 

{This is one of those topics that come up from time to time, I figured with all the new members coming to the site, this is a good time to raise it again to encourage dialogue, and get all our members participating}.

[Newton 714]

I'm kinda new to the hobby. I visited a few ladies in the last months and some a few times and all went well. If someone someday pulled no show on me, I wouldn't be in the right mood trying another lady right then. I'd probably go to a bar and have a drink and book a SP on another day.

;)

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[Guest s******ecan****]

Its never happened to me yet but I suspect if it did I would be too disappointed to bother trying to make alternative arrangements on the spot.

 

An exception would be if I was travelling to Toronto or Montreal. There are several well regarded agencies in both cities that would likely have someone available and I'd be game to give it a go.

[buggernot 588]

Haven't had one of those in a very long time but in the last few where it happened, I almost didn't care. The routine involved in cleaning up and getting ready keeps me busy for a bit, and that in itself takes my mind off other things. So when the date doesn't pan out, it's not a huge letdown; I'll probably get more sleep than I normally would have, and I've also saved a few bucks. Maybe that's odd, who knows?

 

I don't bother trying to find someone else since I typically am fixated on that one person, or it's potentially a few more hours of waiting.

[whatsup 11893]

I have only ever had a no show once (actually it was a scheduled incall) the part that I did not especially care about was when I PMed this provider later I never got a response back from her at all. A simple reply would of been fitting as I was concerned that all was well with her. She posted her availability the next morning here on Cerb so I knew she was OK.

 

With a simple courtesy PM from her, I probably would have rescheduled for another time.

 

I have learned that it is good thing to have a back up plan thus I have a few phone numbers of other providers that I would really like to meet as well and hopefully arrange an encounter with if time prevails which for me is generally not that abundant.

 

There has been such a tremendous influx of new providers in the last year or so it is not that hard to find another provider that would be available.

[Jazzitup 5652]

I think this gets into agencies versus independants. I have never used an agency, but I suspect it would be less of an occurance for those and more common for the independants because things happen in their day to day lives that need their attention. I can accept that, it is part of the independant's world.

So for me, I like to book in advance and then on the day of confirm with a text an hour or 2 before the appointment. I think this is pretty much the standard routine.

The question for me is how much of a commitment is made with the initial booking? Because when the text confirmation is not answered/ignored does that mean you were stood up? Does that mean you are not owed an explanation at the very least? Would an apology be expecting too much?

 

I would really like to hear from the independant ladies on this.

[Annessa 22743]

The question for me is how much of a commitment is made with the initial booking? Because when the text confirmation is not answered/ignored does that mean you were stood up? Does that mean you are not owed an explanation at the very least? Would an apology be expecting too much?

 

I would really like to hear from the independant ladies on this.

 

generally speaking, Jazzy. if your dont receive a confirmation reply its best to not assume the date is on. same goes for us, if we dont get a confirmation with an address and info etc after an initial inquiry, we will "pencil' the date in but if something else comes up with a sure-fire confirmation, we will take it instead of the "maybe" (also named "so I'll call you close to the apointment time?)-client

 

in the case of incall, if the communication has reached the point where you have established the location, then your date has therefore been confirmed. No professional ladies will ever disclose this info and then forget that you had booked that time-frame...and if there is a problem, that is why we ask for a phone number (cell) to reach you on in case there is a general emergency or an emergency that could endanger our or your discretion.

 

as workers, we have to be sure of how serious our clients are of booking. a client that gives all info requested upon request the night before booking is definitely a serious customer...and there is no excuse to be a no-show. The same should be applied to the clients seeking ladies, if you do not receive a reply or a confirmation that the date is on after you text her asking for a specific date/time, make other plans and dont wait up for someone who hasn't offered you the respect to confirm your date.

 

Personally, even if I am away from my computer/have my phone off and I receive requests a day later, I always text or email back appologizing for missing their message so that they know I was not ignoring them and just had the night off or was not at my desk.

[Jazzitup 5652]

Thanks for the insight Annessa. You are a true professional.

[antlerman 17064]

one simple thing you can do.....

Take matters in your own hands.......

 

MASTERBATE!!!!:jackoff::handjob:

[Seymour 3970]

one simple thing you can do.....

Take matters in your own hands.......

 

MASTERBATE!!!!:jackoff::handjob:

 

I was waiting for that response, oh great horny one. :-P

[antlerman 17064]

Damn...I am getting predictable............oh well.....pass the Kleenex!

[NotchJohnson 214123]

one simple thing you can do.....

Take matters in your own hands.......

 

MASTERBATE!!!!:jackoff::handjob:

The problem with that is one may develop CMD ( compulsive masturbation disorder ) lol

 

It is difficult for me to plan far ahead like most here, I live about 1.5 hrs away from Ottawa or Montreal and if I schedule a meeting with a lady and when I get to the location where I need to call her and she does not answer or cancels on me all I'm left to do is go out to a restaurant and pig out or go and buy myself gadgets with the money I saved.

[antlerman 17064]

CMD....true...but it prevents

DSB............... Deadly Sperm Buildup

SRS................Sperm Retention Syndrom

 

you could end up with

 

SHS..........Sticky Hand Syndrom

[richardsampsonxo 674]

Since I only hobby on the road, I end up heading to a SC. I plan in advance based on what I really want and I'm really picky, so calling someone else isn't even on my mind.

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[coachg 388]

I can only hobby when I get a chance to get to a city, and although my hobbying has slowed somewhat, back in the day when I was going at it hard...I always had a plan B in my pocket...a couple of other ladies who I like to visit very much....chances are that one of them would be available on fairly short notice. The old boy scout motto...."always be prepared".

[bucken 1479]

STill being realitvely new to this, I haven't had this happen to me yet. But, just in case, I do keep a list of lovely ladies that might be available at the last minute..... You never know...

[pjrd 324]

The problem with that is one may develop CMD ( compulsive masturbation disorder ) lol

 

It is difficult for me to plan far ahead like most here' date=' I live about 1.5 hrs away from Ottawa or Montreal and if I schedule a meeting with a lady and when I get to the location where I need to call her and she does not answer or cancels on me all I'm left to do is go out to a restaurant and pig out or go and buy myself gadgets with the money I saved.[/quote']

 

I hear you, I`m two hours away from Winnipeg so what I do is always have a backup plan cause some of my favorites can be unpredictable.

There`s four very good " MPs " that have wonderful ladies working there, lots to choose from and they are all just as good as the indies and in the end costs are quite comparable.:motion:

[Ragnaglar 440]

It's happened to me 3 times

 

the first time I was provided an explanation that was understandable and we were unable to reschedule but with wounded pride found a backup and had my first duo.

 

The second time I was provided an explanation that was understandable and we rescheduled.

 

the third time I never recieved a response as too why.

 

I have also had a few "oops I forgot that you booked me" when I called and most times I have been able to reschedule.

 

I think the emotions run amok when these situations happen as you are not thinking on all cylinders.

 

So the response depends on your mood, sometimes you book an alternative sometimes it's a date with Pamela "Handerson"

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[Capital Hunter 18263]

I has happened to me twice over the past two years and may be it is not too bad considering the number of guests I have had lol (about 2%). Needless to say that it is not at all a good thing to happen and I am sorry to read that it has happened to a few good people as posted in this thread.

 

As most may know, I am an outcall-only guy (and daytime only guy too). I usually spend significant time to set up the scene (house cleaning, shopping, wine and chocolate, TV, lights, showering, dressing up, etc.) and get ready for the guest (I also book the lady way in advance), so on those two occasions when my guests did not show up (with no prior cancellation notice) I was feeling way down to call for another lady escort or even private dancer (which I do have a list with contact info) but later partially recovered and in the evening headed to a favorite strip bar on both occasions(still did not recover enough to call for another guest to come over). It was all out of my mind by the time I was back from the SC (which always cheers me up) like nothing had happened lol.