Turn-offs for a lady

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

Welcome to cerb darlin....but I think you are posting in the wrong category lol (it's okay though we all like to share our likes and dislikes)

But there is another post for what turns the guys off

[Miss Scarlett 25073]

Smells can be a huge turn on for me or turn off....

 

I do not like BO of any kind, but also a man who showers in aftershave is huge turn off too. I love a man fresh out of the shower with no perfumes, his natural odor is an arousal for me.

 

Just my nickles worth.... For what ever its worth...

[50 Shades Raven 31380]

constant texting for hours that I do not offer!

I think I have told the same guy a hundred times I am not available at 7am yet he constantly (every day) asks for this time.

I get the guilt trip from him and now I just have him set to ignore.

 

This is the reason I took my phone number off my listings.

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

If able to install a block app on your phone its good for those unwanted texts and calls

Lol

[50 Shades Raven 31380]

you read my ad, look at my site, rates in both, so WHY do you ask for $60 service?

WTF?

 

If you can't afford, don't waste my time or yours by asking

 

This crap really ticks me off.

What will I do for $60? I'll read your email, lol

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

Hi I'm new...how much for the hour? What does this mean what does that mean do you offer this...argggg man o man!

Please know what you are looking for and what a complete hour means thankyou

 

Oh and to tell me I am low class because I will not discuss explicit details with you smh what a gentlemen you are (move along sweetheart)

[evamarie 453]

I think it burns me to my soul when someone tries to negotiate or guilt trip me on the things I DON'T do.....If i dont do something, I dont do it for a reason.

Those, "Come on, I will be gentle" or those "I really would love it if we do_____" really turn me off.

Mutual respect is so important if were going to have an amazing encounter and when I feel objectified, it throws me for a loop.

[roamingguy 300292]

I think it burns me to my soul when someone tries to negotiate or guilt trip me on the things I DON'T do.....If i dont do something, I dont do it for a reason.

Those, "Come on, I will be gentle" or those "I really would love it if we do_____" really turn me off.

Mutual respect is so important if were going to have an amazing encounter and when I feel objectified, it throws me for a loop.

 

If a potential client tries to cross boundaries during the email stage I can only imagine how far they will try to attempt to cross boundaries once they are alone with a lady in his/her room. And would they even stop if a lady told him to stop.

I agree with you, mutual respect is important, and encounters should be mutually beneficial

A rambling

 

RG

[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

When guys tell a new girl (in town) that she is too rich for their blood, (when she is really not) just to try to get her to lower her rates overall when visiting that town .... what they fail to realize is that if they (collectively) can't 'afford' her, then she will move on ... and not look back.

 

So the turn-off for me is that guys think I must be stupid

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

When guys tell a new girl (in town) that she is too rich for their blood, (when she is really not) just to try to get her to lower her rates overall when visiting that town .... what they fail to realize is that if they (collectively) can't 'afford' her, then she will move on ... and not look back.

 

So the turn-off for me is that guys think I must be stupid

 

Even better is when they tell you the going rate and you say "no thank you but I hope you find what you're looking for" and they come back an hr later saying they will pay your advertised rate after all!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Even better is when they tell you the going rate and you say "no thank you but I hope you find what you're looking for" and they come back an hr later saying they will pay your advertised rate after all!

 

I just tell them when they want quality unrushed service even if I'm more expensive, they know where to reach me. Most do eventually.

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

What are you rates.....it's my first time will you see me for this much (sorry no) or they seen me like twice and claim to be a regular and ask if I have a special price for regular clients smh

I give several different rates if you cannot afford one of them find a lady in your price range

[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

Have you been busy? (during 'getting ready to leave' conversation)

 

How am I supposed to answer that? Really!?

That's like 'Do you have a bf?'

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

Yeah I have no idea why thy ask that question...maybe sometimes just a conversation piece but then I sometimes wonder if they are asking to see if I have alot of business or not

Like why ?

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Yeah I have no idea why thy ask that question...maybe sometimes just a conversation piece but then I sometimes wonder if they are asking to see if I have alot of business or not

Like why ?

 

It's one of those questions. It reminds me of the time my mother went to watch me recite something at school in the third grade. She had a couple of fur coats and wore one that day.. one boy in my class ( he was a total idiot who would hang the shortest kid upside down for his lunch money) went up to her and said to her "Where did you get that fur coat?" Her response as she turned around looking him square in the eyes saying... "I stole it!" Yeah, that shut him up right there and he walked away speechless.

 

Same thing going on here.. If you feel someone is getting too nosy and sigh... there are a few, shock value works best. To be fair, they may just not know what else to say and most are just being polite and trying to make conversation but it's really an awkward question to ask in our business.

 

Every guys likes to think they are the only one or want to be the first client that day or whatever. I try to offer that fantasy so I prefer someone not ask that question. If they do, I will go on about general things but not how appointments I have or will be doing. It's really no one's business but my own. Like the old saying goes, "If I told you then I'd have to kill you."

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

Never underestimate a guy's ability to ask dumb questions. They may simply be trying to keep a conversation going and not know how.

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

Please don't grab at my girls and squeeze the hell out of them it really hurts...play nice! I'm sure you wouldn't like me to grab your boys and squeeze the shit out of them(well some do but only if requested lol)

[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

Yeah I have no idea why thy ask that question...maybe sometimes just a conversation piece but then I sometimes wonder if they are asking to see if I have alot of business or not

Like why ?

 

I do know that is question they ask everybody. They ask the taxi driver when they get in a cab... they ask the waitress at the bar ... etc They ask everybody .. but maybe it's time that question was replaced by a more interesting, less loaded and less nosy question. (Asking someone about their level of business that day is kinda sketchy and for the sake of safety, and to prevent being robbed, they should think before they ask that question. And like you said, for escorts/companions they don't need to put her on the spot and possibly affecting her business.)

[mrgreen760 37785]

Leading up to and after the passing of C-36 I asked any one I saw if they'd noticed any impact. Seemed like a pretty natural question to ask given the times. Conversations take place about varied topics so it was within the general flow of the conversation. Just making small talk.

 

Peace

MG

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

Yes sometimes it is small talk as I stated earlier and then there are times the conversation tends to get a a little personal

When asked how is business I will simply say good either way and keep it at that....i dont want to discuss how many gentlemen I have spent time with today or how much money I may have made or if you are the first or last gentlemen I have or may see to me that's personal

I don't take it to heart or get overly upset when asked that question I simply give a simple answer and change the subject

[mrgreen760 37785]

My experience is some times much more is offered up that I'd ever ask and at times too much. But that's basis of human interactions. Some times we're more interested in our partner and they us and conversations can lead any where and other times not so much for either. I have no hard and fast rules and go with the flow.

 

Peace

MG

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

I think it's disgusting.

 

Not a light, and well trimmed beard.

 

Heavy, long, not maintained, with a yellow mustache, please...

 

If it's messy up there, better be clean down there...

[high rolling 100]

What is the best to contact a sp. How can I not sound rude.

[Guest]

I find annoying when I get a email asking if I still meet and when I say yes, the gent proceed to tell me how he's been reading me for so long and wanted to meet...

( very good so far)

And the after numerous emails where I find out he is a bit below my limit but sounds nice so tell him I would make an exception...then he asks :''so? what are your plans for the day?...''

Not to be rude here but unless my plans involves you, someone I've never met do remember,how is that a concern of yours?

Why write to me if it is only to chat? I do enjoy the occasional hello from people I've met ,a sign of life if you may ,but if someone new write to me I assume the purpose is to decide to meet,or no...not chat, forums like here meet that need...

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

To answer your question @ high rolling

I prefer if you send a text to start off with Hi my name is.... how are you I am inquiring about your services rates please

(What's up....rates without saying hello...asking explicit questions and just having no manners I have no interest in)

 

The more polite you are the more you have my attention

 

Hope that helped!