Turn-offs for a lady

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31723]

It's either....I have a small.... what can you do for it? Or I have a really big... can you handle it?

Like really I'm not going to entertain your question and help you get off...if you want to book and come find out then book a time if not please put on a porn

[Emma Alexandra 123367]

The secret agent type of client. They are the men that don't want to give you any info but expect you to see them. In a hotel at that. Gentlemen I don't know what you think we do with info. It goes away as soon as the date is over. If you want to see us in a hotel we need your full name and room number. Do you know that we would look like an idiot calling a hotel and asking to be put through to a room and not know your name. Not just an idiot but an escort. Maybe we wouldn't have your name but the hotel would and they do talk. They do ask for your name. Especially at an upscale hotel.

 

Most ladies have seen people that are or at least think they are vip. To us you are all vip. Everyone is treated the same. Famous,infamous or just an ordinary gent. We don't care who you are. It's just a safety issue for us. We don't want to show up and you're a nutcase or not even there in the hotel. Please understand this. Name,number, hotel and room number. Easy peasy if you want to book. If not look for someone who doesn't need that. Good luck with that. Kisses

 

 

[Talia Ciarra 3360]

I had some guy call me last week and when I answered his response was "Yo!" lol

All they're going hear from is a dial tone . Is that really how someone addresses someone that they don't know? Limited vocabulary? or maybe he had a sandwich in his mouth.

[Guest]

Always take a shower. Always, always, ALWAYS. Even if you think you're OK. Use the washcloth. Use the towel. Please.

[HarleyQ 972]

Biggest turn off:

 

Bad hygeine all around (teeth, body, downstairs, etc)

Egotistical people

Disrespectful people

Clients that constantly ask and/or tell me to do things that I make clear I don't do.

Extreme punctuality issues

 

I'm sure there's more, but that's at the top of my head right now.

[50 Shades Raven 31380]

calling and asking me at 9am what times I have available for the morning, and I say 9:30am and 11am, and get told "oh, that's not good for me, I wanted something now"!

 

By the time you actually make the appointment, and, get to my location, it would be 9:30am already.

 

What is it with the 'now' appointments? Especially from someone I have never seen before?

 

Do guys really think we wake up with hair perfectly coiffed, makeup done to perfection, dressed EXACTLY the way THEY want us to be dressed?

Get real, this is not the case.

Most of us like to get up, shower, eat, get ourselves ready for the day.

 

When you ask us what times we have available, we give you the times we are available, we're not just pulling numbers out of the air.

[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

I don't do 'NOW'.

 

If they can't wait (like you said for the drive there lol) then they are not going to show up. It's obviously spur of the moment, and just as spur of the moment, they can get distracted on the way there... and FORGET to show up LOL

 

It's like a dog who sees a squirrel lol .... easily distracted by something else. Oh my!

[Guest s******ecan****]

Yes sometimes it is small talk as I stated earlier and then there are times the conversation tends to get a a little personal

When asked how is business I will simply say good either way and keep it at that....i dont want to discuss how many gentlemen I have spent time with today or how much money I may have made or if you are the first or last gentlemen I have or may see to me that's personal

I don't take it to heart or get overly upset when asked that question I simply give a simple answer and change the subject

 

I would say in the vast majority of cases it is simply small talk. In fact it is almost a universal question and one I get asked several times a day (and also by almost every escort I have ever seen)

 

I myself in that winding down conversation have often asked a similar version that I usually phrase as "is your trip going well?" I don't expect specifics and have only gotten them once from an inexperienced SP who detailed how many clients she saw in the previous 2 days, leaving me regretful I had asked.

 

Given that experience and what I have seen posted in this thread it's probably something I'll avoid from now on.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I don't do 'NOW'.

 

If they can't wait (like you said for the drive there lol) then they are not going to show up. It's obviously spur of the moment, and just as spur of the moment, they can get distracted on the way there... and FORGET to show up LOL

 

It's like a dog who sees a squirrel lol .... easily distracted by something else. Oh my!

 

I just chuckle when I hear that or read that. Are they able to immediately teleport themselves over to a lady's place? Now is not now. Now is most likely 10-30 minutes.After all they need to drive there unless they are camped out in the parking lot or around the corner and I've had that happen and ask if I'm available.. They just don't want to give advanced notice. That's all. I'm always good with last minute ( 20-30 mins) but not "Now". lol.

[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

I myself in that winding down conversation have often asked a similar version that I usually phrase as "is your trip going well?" .

 

oh I like that better :)

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31723]

I'm in your area are you available right now!!!!

(And I mean I had one gentlemen literally parked across the street from me .... no call or text asking am I available to book a time just in the area parked)

I find that spooky and I don't like that

I had advised him to contact me in advance and not just show up like that and NO I am never ready Right now

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31723]

Best one yet ..... smh

 

Books an appointment I wait (he is 20 minutes late because he gets lost) he then texts says he is I'm area I told him okay to call for the address he leaves and says no I am nervous why would I have to call for address .... really buddy wow

 

Defiantly will not answer to him again

[Amelia Fox 9064]

I won't respond to men who ask me if I offer BBFS.. It's makes me sick to my tummy. Who in there right mind will see someone who asks that question?

I can imagine the "ladies who actuall do it, and I don't want to be with him after knowing that.

[YoungBeautyMirella 5600]

I have 2 HUGE turn offs: A man that clearly has issues with getting hard, and there is no way intercourse can happen (not only because the cover definitely won't stay on, but you can't put it in etc) and the guy says 'don't worry I'll get it in' and keeps insisting after you've already said no. I actually just had this happen recently, the guy was supposedly a lyla member as he kept making it known as If that means I'm going to change my mind and do something that cant happen and is obviously unsafe. Literally after 50 straight mins of me going above and beyond for this 'gentleman' (who was older and also did several things that are a turn off, like refusing a shower when asked and instead washing in the bath room sink and then using my clean hand towel to dry off his junk and then pat his backside very roughly, when he didn't know that I could see from the mirror!) And he proceeded to literally yell at me when I told him we couldn't do fs, because he was as soft as you could be, to the point where I was worried someone would call front desk. I was so kind and sweet to him and was shocked at his reaction. He demanded the full donation back even though the hour was up in less than 10 mins. As he was leaving he said he was going to go home and write different bad reviews..All because we couldn't do fs because he couldn't get it up, no matter what I did (and it was alot) that's the first time(that I can remember) that I got treated so mean that I literally bawled my eyes crying. Moments like this make me REALLY love all the great true gentlemen I meet and makes me reward them even more with extra special attention ;)

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31723]

Awwww girl don't let any one ever make you feel that way and especially not to the point you are crying

We all do our best to make that moment special and we do at times go out of our way (literally) to try to excite him but if it doesn't happen then it doesn't happen

It's life!

Perhaps this gentlemen has an issue he needs to deal with smh

Cheer up xo

[Brody Boivin 8445]

I absolutely hate, when they EXPECT you to be a specific way. I mean, I am all for fetishes and role play, but for some reason when someone says "good girl", even during a phone call, makes me invert inside myself!

 

My other big one is when they expect you to have this flashy sale for them, I mean come on! I'm not a Walmart here, where everything is 20% off, and other girls actually offer discounts. That alone confuses me. THE WORST: they think they are the hottest thing that ever walked on this planet, and you should kneel to them. I'm sorry... I'm pretty sure I'm an escort, not a groupie.

[Phaedrus 209521]

As he was leaving he said he was going to go home and write different bad reviews..All because we couldn't do fs because he couldn't get it up, no matter what I did (and it was alot)

(digression)

 

And that, ladies and gentlemen, is why this broad has a policy of not allowing negative reviews. Far too many of them are... less than legit.

 

OK, end of digression. As you were...

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31723]

Best one yet today......

So this guy sends me a text and ask for the rate for the massage

I tell him the rate he then sense a text back saying how he can get a massage from a professional for 40 bucks and hour that he owns two businesses and his own hard working employees don't even make what I charge

I told him ok that has nothing to do with me and not sure why you are telling me this

You asked for my rate I guess you didn't like it so let's move on with our day shall me

Lololol

 

Hilarious when they cannot afford to pay the rate so they think they can hurt your feelings with that we'll I can get his for cheaper .... ok so then move along and do that

 

Additional Comments:

He was definitely a nut job...after he 'tried' to insult me he then kept sending me messages I had to block his phone number

He clearly has issues.....and not with me or my rates but with hisself

[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

commenting on a forum for escorts and clients only to be harassed and ridiculed by people who have nothing better to do.

 

I am surprised any girls comment at all

[ClooneyII 603]

I try really hard to "do my research" before a date to avoid any awkward moments. As has been said, it's really important to know cost factors, restrictions, etc. I try to get a 'sense' of the lady in the pre-date stages via the phone call, texting, or email. Avoiding 'surprises' has become important to me. Being a "middle-aged" man, I have such great appreciation for these beautiful women who provide these services, so I try to be respectful and thankful.

[ogreray 703]

A lot of the forums have less tgan friendly folks.

[AUTUMN RAINE 15548]

Telling me that a woman " my age" should charge by the year .. as in 2 dollars a year per hour ..

i told him i would do nothing for him, with him, or even near him for 10 dollars a second .. of course i keep his number ..

he forgets calls me back 3 days later and says hey hott momma how much .. my answer 10 bucks a second lol

[Ice4fun 78407]

Telling me that a woman " my age" should charge by the year .. as in 2 dollars a year per hour ..

i told him i would do nothing for him, with him, or even near him for 10 dollars a second .. of course i keep his number ..

he forgets calls me back 3 days later and says hey hott momma how much .. my answer 10 bucks a second lol

 

In most industries you would expect to pay extra based on the level of experience that the person providing the service has...so it's a little counter intuitive to expect that age should mean reduced rates in this industry.

 

Just my Opinion

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31723]

Age is just a number...his loss another man's gain most defiantly

[Amanda-Lee 11094]

Those numbers who text at odd hours of the night saying really out there things. Then some come through during the normal hours which they say the same thing. (explicit)

 

Turn-off.