When does the clock really starts?

[Ice4fun 78407]

Ok sounds to me like the guy is looking to pay for 30 minutes but get all the benefits of a longer appointment... if you want time to chat and hug than shower and still 30 minutes of play....pony up and pay for the hour.

 

Time starts at the door...

 

Just my opinion

[menuisier 450]

I agree the time starts at 4:00 and ends at 4:30. You must be prompt, time is important. Lost time cannot be recuperated, unless extended upon mutual agreement.

 

Thanks

[mrknh 141]

Simple really - for me the clock starts at the agreed appointment start time. If I am late then the start and end time are entirely at the lady's discretion ... if the lady is delayed then the start time is when she is ready and opens her door :)

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31713]

Let's say you.had an appointment booked with a psychologist and the appointment was for 2pm and an hour.long....you pay $200 for the hour of his/her time...the.appointment would then be finished at 3pm because that is what you.had scheduled and paid for

What I'm trying to say is ... The time should start when we confirmed the appointment if for whatever reason you may arrive late depending on the circumstances give or take.10 minutes I would start the time when you arrive and walk through my door

I'm usually pretty understanding when it comes to this

It really all depends on you and how you feel

There really is no.wrong.or.right answer

Some women prefer to give 15 minutes to get showered and then start

But don't let someone take advantage of you and your time

We are.busy ladies and sometimes our time is.limited

[Brooklyn Scott 1224]

A companion is paid for time. The clock starts when the appointment time is set. Just like any business, lol...

[The General 11309]

This one I hope not, since I can't count the number of times that I had to wait until the lady was ready, and often well past the appointment time.

A companion is paid for time. The clock starts when the appointment time is set. Just like any business, lol...

[Highsexdrivebabe 11800]

Hi Karina, I am know not to be a clock but let's not exagerate here! I have start applying what some escort friends have told me I should do meaning if the gentleman is late U deduced that out the time he booked but he still need to pay full amount. And the clock starts when he walks in, in a way. If he asks to shower it's his time but when he cums directly in the room after we DFK at the door like I do and we chat and enjoy ourselves, that's on me. Gentlemen visiting me R aware I am not a clock watcher but just not to exagerate for I will tell them so! I am straightforward if need to be.

 

It's been working pretty well with me in my only 6 months biz and I don't plan to change it. I have lots of feed-back from gentlemen on how I operate and that little extra time I spend with them.

 

I do have back to back apts but when I say back to back there's time for me to take a bath, repowder myself etc... and that little loose time U need.

 

Apply whatever works with U but let's say that being a little generous works REAL well darling!!!

[The General 11309]

Deleted, since there wasn't a reply.

[Music Man 160]

I'm new to CERB, joined because I've become interested in what this industry has to offer me, but have yet to partake... I'm still learning. But even a neophyte like me can comment that this seems like very strange behavior. Showing up on time for a 30 minute appointment, then wanting a shower? For me, a shower IS 30 minutes, and if my first ever appointment was only a half hour, maybe spending that time in the shower with a playful SP would be a good way to spend it. More likely, I'm thinking that my first ever appointment with a professional SP will be at least 2 hours, with perhaps the first 30 minutes spent in the shower and the rest open to interpretation. This, to me, would be the way to do it. I'm just foaming at the mouth here, but one of the things I've learned about the industry is THE TIME! SP's have schedules, with clients that will be depending on those schedules. Believe me, if I booked my first ever appointment, showed up on time nervous as all hell (which will surely be the case), and had it pushed back because of an inconsiderate jerk, it might just cause me to lose my nerve!!

[Luckyme 41401]

Karina, from your description of the event, this man is either very new and hasn't learned the etiquette of this hobby or he was out to take advantage of you. There's no way the clock started after 15 minutes and after he took his shower. That's just plain unreasonable - and on a half an hour appointment??

 

To me, the clock starts as soon as he steps into the door. He is now enjoying your company and it is on your time.

 

When a client ( and not you) is late for say, 15 minutes. Officially, the clock should start at the appointed time because you were ready and had prepared for him already at the appointed time. However, based on my own experience, the ladies I have seen are kind enough to extend the 15 mins. at the end even without my asking. Of course, this is their prerogative and is only possible if their schedule permits. I must also add that these are ladies I have seen before and know quite well.

[Ice4fun 78407]

The clock starts at the agreed upon time it's my responsibility as a client to respect the SP'S time and be on time just like it is the SP'S responsibility to be ready on time. That said we all know that life happens.... things go astray... both for clients and SP'S... if either is running late I would expect them to advise the other and normally this is able to be accommodated with slight adjustments in the scheduled time.

Now that said sometimes schedules are tight and adjustments are not possible but in my experience this us the exception and not the rule.

 

We all know however when you give some people an inch they take a foot.... you know the guy who us always late... in those circumstances I would totally agree that the time starts at the appointed time whether he is there or not. Most times I would think just telling the client that he is not respecting your time and that in the future there us no flexibility if he is late will fix the problem.

 

Just my opinion

[misskathryn44xoxx 170]

If he shows up 15 minutes late. That means he has lost 15 minutes of playtime. Again -- He should have had his clothes back on and walking out your door to leave your place at 4:30 PM sharp.

 

I am really glad to see this post and to have come across this thread.

I have turned clients away for being over 15 minutes late, especially without a text or call to let me know they would be late. I give myself time between appointments to allow myself time to freshen up and a bit of buffer time for unexpected traffic and other problems causing someone to be late, however more than 15 minutes and I wouldn't be getting the time I need to freshen up and then I would possibly be late for my next appointment, which is unfair for that gentleman who was on time. It can set back your day, and it should be expressed that while occasional tardiness of a few minutes is understandable, your time is valuable and needs to be respected.

[boxtrain 110]

Just to add my two cents.

 

I thing the time set should respected on both sides. Half hour, hour, 45 min whatever. You're paying for time.

 

Having said that i have found some ladies using the "do you want to take a shower?" as a ploy to reduce the amount of time. So i take a shower before i see the lady and reply "no I just took one, thank you."

 

I have also found - more in the massage industry - that the clock in the room is 5 to 10 minutes ahead of mine. So I confirm the time when I arrive.

 

lets all be respectful of people's time

[karina 2491]

Thank you everyone specially to the ladies, I very much appreciate it. Just one more thing , I too, I'm not usually a clock watcher , I usually set an extra time with each client but I have a limit . I can't be too generous to everyone because between my transportation and expensive hotel I really have to work hard or what's the point. Sometimes, even if I don't have back to back client that day I still have to run to answer phone calls , text , e mails, post, and eat.

[Highsexdrivebabe 11800]

I totally agree with U Karina and that's when and how that buffer time cums in where U take time just for U washing, breathing and answering calls, texts and or emails. Busy days can indeed be ectic as a SP and as a non clock watcher as U seem to also be it can be a nightmare to figure out how to sqeeze all gentlemen in a schedule but hey aren't we queens at that chérie !!!!

 

Big hugs and kisses darling!

 

Barbara

xxxxooo

[O'Cahla 4352]

Not sure what the acceptable arrival time is. but I generally like to be fresh for each new encounter, so try to arrive between 5 minutes before and right on my start time, that way there is usually not even an issue with a 5 minute freshen up and it barely cuts into my usual hour. Thoughts?

[waterat 20911]

I believe it is best to arrive just at the appointment time. That 'five minutes' early is also the lady's 'freshen up' time. Follow the lady's lead - they'll usually give you an indication.

 

waterat

[McMonkey 456]

I think what's fair is that the clock starts when I walk through the door (not being late, that is). What I've done in my limited experience is to tell the SP that I'll text a couple of minutes before the specified start time for the buzzer #, but say that she can text me earlier if ready. I try to be waiting at least 5-10 minutes early and go for a short walk or surf on my phone; being careful to not be a heat-score hanging around looking suspicious.

[Highsexdrivebabe 11800]

I sort of agree with U Waterat but wouldn't mind a gentleman showing up 5 min before especially is he's a regulard and I know he will do it all the time but still I would accept it just to have the feeling of a freshly washed and nice smell man body on mine!!! I do have some gentlemen telling me I will be off work and would need to freshen before we R together and I have their bath poured (my shower is not working any longer sincey they fixed my bath issues!!!!) and they just need to cum in we DFK and they get into the bathtub! Freshen up and then fun time starts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

We much prefer freshly washed gentlemen and huuummmm it's so damn nice to smell a nice clean body and.... attribute!!!!

 

Barbara

xxxxooo

[O'Cahla 4352]

so I suppose if they're running 5 minutes behind I should just cancel(Sarcasm) not everyone's watch is synchronized.

[vw48 516]

I believe this is a question that is asked from both sides of the experience quite a bit.

 

The gentleman and situation described in the original post would seem to have unrealistic expectations for sure.

 

I Agree with most posts here your time is what is being offered in the transaction, so the agreed upon start time and end time would seem fairly straight forward ...- I don't know if many of us operate on a truly strict schedule where someone would notice one way or another a minute or two but basically assuming the arrival was within what YOU determine is acceptable I think it's reasonable to say the clock starts ... when you (or the client) arrive(s).

 

30 minutes as has been referenced is a relatively short appointment. I may have felt differently had the scenario that was presented been something along the lines of

 

Mr.X arrived at 7:01, the clock started at 7:00 and we had agreed to a 30 minute Appointment.

 

followed by either

 

 

I had to respond to a couple of texts and answer a phone call during this time .. all together those things couldn't have taken much more than 8-10 minutes

 

or

 

upon his Arrival I proceeded to reconfirm everything we had discussed, and or attempted to up sell him unsuccessfully for 10+ minutes before the Donation was accepted.

 

 

And when 7:30 cam around Mr.X disagreed with me that the time was up.

 

Don't misunderstand I believe the scenario as presented painted a picture of a clueless gent who was in the wrong and I don't believe his contention was either correct or acceptable. I'm not a SP but i have little difficulty believing many could remember experiences that resemble the one you described. It's the kind of unfortunate thing that puts a bad taste in one's mouth.

 

The 2 scenarios I described are not exactly uncommon however, I'd in fact be surprised if any experienced hobbyist hadn't experienced at least one of these examples first hand.

 

Finally the question of When does the clock stop seems to be a somewhat nebulous things to nail down in some cases. Some SP's will talk in terms of up to an hour which seems reasonable if discussed previously however if one is paying for an hour of someone's time for example is it unreasonable to feel short changed if the SP leaves after 1/2 hour, 45 min (whatever) with a kind of a "my work here is done" justification / reasoning?

[waterat 20911]

should be very obvious to both the SP and client provided they're communicating clearly!

 

....Thoughts?

 

Just offered my thoughts and no offence intended.

 

.... not everyone's watch is synchronized.

 

True enough and I have not infrequently waited for a lady to invite me up to her boudoir!

[cat 262460]

Just a reminder, not all SP's appreciate an early arriver! My last 5 mins is the finishing touches; candles, music and beverages. Early arrivals mess with my juju and throw things off...

 

Depending on the lady one chooses, the start time will vary. I don't penalize clients for showering but my guests book 2 hours. A provider that caters to shorter appointments usually has a business model that is a little more irratic and that would mean prompt start times and starting on time is essential. She may only have 2 appointments that day but Murphy dictates that they will usually start less than 15 minutes apart. Be on time and leave on time...

 

cat

[O'Cahla 4352]

Oh well, as I said, it was just my interpretation looking for thoughts., so I guess my 5 mins plus or minus was out o'line and yield to the victors.

[Highsexdrivebabe 11800]

Hi sexy Cat, indeed we all have our different ways of booking, accepting etc... And personally looking forward the day I will be able to have 2 hrs apts darling!!! I am personally always fresh and ready 5 minutes or more prior an apt so if the gentleman buzz 5 min before I don't mind but remind him that next time he needs to still specify it.

 

Let's say that I had a gentleman from way out of Ottawa cum over to my incall that buzzed 15 minutes before apt and well I wasn't exactly ok with it and had just got there 5 min before so told him to hold still for a few minutes before I cold greet him and told him when he walked in that the next time he will just have to wait until the given time!!!!!

 

Barbara

xxxxooo