bellafan 11341 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 (edited) It's important to find a way to say what you would like. We learned this even as infants. I truly enjoy caressing and kissing a woman between her beautiful legs. And yet, I don't have good words to express this. For many pleasures we have good words...lovely breasts are beautiful breasts, and wonderful bums are bums, or behinds, or asses? And we have other words: skin, and hair, and eyes and all the other wonderful things about a woman that are attractive? And yet, when it comes to the part of the body that most women, and men, consider most precious, somehow our society denies us good words. I talked with my friend Vitto about this many months ago. Words like "vagina" and "vulva" seem pretty medical. Words like "kitty" seem pretty childish. Words like "pussy" feel much too much like coarse slang, and insulting. So, I really don't know. I guess "daty" kind of covers it. But, are there other words, for the the wonderful place between a woman's legs, that express sensual desire without being offensive? Just so you know, I am not going to lose any sleep over this. But I find it very interesting that our society doesn't give us easily the right words to express this desire. I would love to find a way to express this desire in a classy, respectful way. Perhaps I should have posted this in the Escort/Courtesan section rather than the Massage Only section :) Edited May 1, 2014 by bellafan Clarification 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest P**aq Report post Posted May 1, 2014 Wow, you are right. I just googled "what's a sexy word for vagina"...well, nothing sexy came up. I tried a few other searches and words like "pancake" "snizz" and "honey pot" came up, and well, that's just kind of insulting. So I would like to appoint the word "beauty" "beautiful" or "the most awesome" as possible contenders. I'm a lover of daty, and of beauty, beautiful and most awesome of all shapes and forms, and I endorse this message. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Be***iful****lah Report post Posted May 1, 2014 One I've heard is "flower" and I don't know why but I like it:). Flowers have petals, are soft, pretty, fragile, smell good and bees like to suck their nectar:) They also bloom and swell :) Pussy is used most often but I too have always found it kind of " pornish" Not even sure that's a word. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest P**aq Report post Posted May 1, 2014 Petal is pleasing :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alexxandria 2399 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 Muffin! And Do you know the muffin men, the muffin men... lol Agree flower is nice, but muffin fav ;) 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bellafan 11341 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 I remember that, Beautiful! Muffin :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Satai 1933 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 Peach, nectar, oyster, orchid... 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bellafan 11341 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 I luv muffins! I wish we both lived on Drury Lane, together ;) I know, gushing :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 Yes a flower, and nothing like helping the flower cum to a full bloom. :) One I've heard is "flower" and I don't know why but I like it:). Flowers have petals, are soft, pretty, fragile, smell good and bees like to suck their nectar:) They also bloom and swell :) Pussy is used most often but I too have always found it kind of " pornish" Not even sure that's a word. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78407 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 One I've heard is "flower" and I don't know why but I like it:). Flowers have petals, are soft, pretty, fragile, smell good and bees like to suck their nectar:) They also bloom and swell :) Pussy is used most often but I too have always found it kind of " pornish" Not even sure that's a word. I never thought I would want to lick a flower. :) But flower is not bad. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
allerob 758 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 ahh yes... lick a flower generally not... but there are many flowers that you can eat. also it brings up so many images that can be just silly if you use flower and then put in context of phrases and ways we use flowers. Imagine bringing home a bouquet of flowers for your S.O. or pinning a flower to your Tux when you get married. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 I truly enjoy caressing and kissing a woman between her beautiful legs. And yet, I don't have good words to express this. You could always omit using a word to describe "it" and just say you are a lover of oral and a pleaser ;) ... But, are there other words, for the the wonderful place between a woman's legs, that express sensual desire without being offensive? Her are some suggestions. Some sweeter than others: Pink swell Lotus Love flower Love tulip, Flower bud Marisopa (butterfly) Moist tenderness Fountain of pleasure Pleasure portal Fleshy secret Honey well Sugar basin Velvet glove Curve of her thighs Jewel between her legs Naughty bits Miss Kitty Juicy Jane Pink bunny Yoni Wha-gee-na Lower cleavage Snake charmer Rocket pocket ;) 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jack2000 3446 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 What a fun list ! A few of my faves.....I like to use playful euphemisms.. 'pussy' 'down there' 'coochie' 'luv muffin' 'woo hoo' 'ding dong' 'hey nanny nanny no' 'cha cha' 'honey pot' 'cupcake' 'hoochie' 'nookie' Whew ! I'm gettin all hot n bothered thinkin bout all this snatch ! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HonestPete 686 Report post Posted May 1, 2014 Honey cup Honey lips Sugar lips down under Flower lips DAK (Deep Australian Kiss) similar to DFK but down under 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted May 2, 2014 I have seen someone calling it Vajayjay - I thought it was cute. Whatever they are called, I love them all! :biggrin: 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Winnipegcub 21293 Report post Posted May 2, 2014 Did someone say Honeypot?!! Us bears luv honey. Hell why not call it the entire picnic basket? (ok I wander) Yeh I don't know about a specific name and it is too bad a common or natural one doesn't exist. But rather than a specific name maybe just an indirect reference. Like simply move up from kissing her neck and whisper softly but deeply into her ear - "I really want to taste you now". Worth a try. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Peter Smith 808 Report post Posted May 2, 2014 I sometimes call it the lady bits. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bellafan 11341 Report post Posted May 2, 2014 "Secret Garden" - somehow, for me, these are words that come up. I know, maybe pretty abstract. And yet, earth scents, something so basic and so central to life. Maybe it's the music from Secret Garden:) Maybe it's from Notre Dame de Paris - "Pousser la porte du jardin d'Esmeralda" (I know, my written French is awful). Thank you all for your input :) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CristyCurves 169032 Report post Posted May 2, 2014 The Vee -garden of delight-because a man can plant his seed, grow his stem, discover a flower... -passion pit -pretty pinkness -playground of passion/private playground -tightness -holster -entrance to heaven -golden arches -temple of worship -love muscle -man trap sweetness 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Satai 1933 Report post Posted May 2, 2014 The little man in the canoe 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jafo105 39057 Report post Posted May 2, 2014 Here are some of my favorites: Treasure Path (depends on how she grooms herself down there) Buried Treasure (requires some pubic hair) Sweat Spot Paradise Nectar of the gods 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ab-cerb 130 Report post Posted May 3, 2014 I recall that one nice SP lady addressed us fans of this activity as "you cunning linguists..." 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Peachka 4334 Report post Posted May 3, 2014 The Vertical Smile! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dipper 1033 Report post Posted May 5, 2014 How about twolips...it is spring afterall... 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alexxandria 2399 Report post Posted May 5, 2014 Twolips makes a lot of sense... in a funny way could be like a carnivorous flower loves meat lol 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites