No phone numbers just emails...

[Andee 220524]

As a short-notice, same day "booker", it would not work for me not to publish my phone number.

 

But if a lady chooses not to publish her number, then that is part of her screening/protocol and should be respected.

 

My take on it is, you want to see the lady bad enough, make the effort to contact her by email first and see where that takes you.

[Highsexdrivebabe 11800]

Personnaly, it's text or email and here also PM and preferring email or PM for we can exchange so much more in depth then and as I am a communications lady I love to write, ask questions and respond to a gentleman email or PM.

 

But I have regulars that just can't email or or not on CERB which is ok and do have to call me. As long as my son is not around I do answer althouhg he doesn't speak much English (je suis francophone) discussing rates is heuuhh well U know!!! The gentleman, either regular or not, can leave either a specific message (do have that) such call saying U R selling such and such or wanting an apt for whatever biz my luv is into and I respect that totally. Others don't and that's ok.

 

Then again, besides son during the evenings and weekends I am not working, some gentlemen from some sites just don't get that if U R not answering it's that U just might be busy!!!!! Whereas an email, PM or text U can respond once U R back in circulation!!

 

But to each lady her preference!!

 

Barbara

xxxoooo

[cinelli 22184]

she is then paying $0.04/minute

 

So now she has to pay to deal with all the tire kickers and time wasters?

[Guest]

The thing about toll free numbers is that escorts can get all kinds of calls from the states or long distance calls, at various times of the day and night(not even interested in booking an appointment). Escorts may not want to answers these calls and only answer local numbers. So if local clients with blocked numbers want to use a toll free number, that would be a great option for both them and the escort(if the escort has a toll free number). However, if someone's coming from the states or out of the escorts district, they may have to email the escort anyway.

 

I heard if you text someone, your number shows. I'd suggest texting someone saying that your number's blocked and calling this person after or if they give you the okay to do so. On the topic of blocked calls. Only if the escort accepts texts.

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

I have been reading the whole thread and I'm about to switch my gear!

 

Since I've started I have been using texting as my preferred contact method altough I mention that I can be contacted by email too. I have to admit that when I get an email from a gent, It's usually more detailed and more serious about booking an appt ( yes there are exceptions but greater % are)

And yes I'm kind of really fed up with the "hi are you available" at 3am...I do not respond coz i do sleep at those hours...just receiving a text a that time is an automatic block LOL

 

I Love hearing about everyone's point of vue on the subject coz it gives a diff Outlook on things...

 

Thanks peachy for starting this thread and everyone's feedback...I'm still learning :)

BJ xxx

[Boomer 33202]

Generally, I will send an email to introduce myself and give the lady an idea of my preferences. As I'm older and like a more personal style of date, I want her to be comfortable taking the booking. As I like to repeat I view the first date as an opportunity to assess whether we can enjoy each others company so I do expect a conversation on the phone before the first meeting as those first few words can reveal so much.

 

I do as a rule include my number in the correspondence with an assurance that she can contact me at her convenience, or possibly a text with her number and when to call.

[Guest P**aq]

For a first time meeting, PM's and email work as a really good way to get to know a little about the person before meeting. Perhaps in some back and forths, it might be determined in advance that perhaps there isn't a chemistry match, and in others, if there is a match, then it makes the upcoming meeting all that more exciting.

[Phaedrus 209521]

I like both, depending on circumstances.

 

If I'm planning ahead, I much prefer to do things by email.

 

However, if I'm doing something at the last minute, I prefer the phone. When the most important question is, "Are you free this afternoon?" then I want to know the answer ASAP so that I can call someone else if you're not.

[Royalfun 55449]

For me, email is my preferred way of communication; it give me time to write and say with some precision what I request and a proper introduction of myself.

Phone is more for practical information, and texting is really the best.

 

Does the SP wants to hear my voice? Well I may have a sexy accent, but I'm not too much into a conversation over the phone.