JessicaSugarbabe 1687 Report post Posted May 7, 2014 (edited) Ok so I must ask! I have seen this add on backpage over the last few weeks " miss alana kingstons yummy mummy". Now I do know there is sp's who do continue during pregnancy. This would not be a personal choice of my own for several reasons, however I am not one to judge another situation and beliefs, to each their own. What really gets me is the "420 Friendly" comment stated in the advert! Pregnant and using any form of drugs or alcohol I believe is not ok on any level. So my question is, is this add even real? I just cant wrap my head around this or the marketing angle? http://kingston.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/miss-alana-kingstons-yummy-mummyback-by-popular-demand-let-me-be-your-fantasy-22/21963167 Edited May 7, 2014 by JessicaSugarbabe 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lakeranger 944 Report post Posted May 8, 2014 I was wondering if anyone else would find this as disturbing as I do? I agree with you about working while pregnant being a personal choice but there's no excuse for endangering the health of an unborn child. Wrong on so many levels. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted May 8, 2014 On the other side, saying '420 friendly' doesn't necessarily mean, 'bring some so we can smoke up together'. It may just mean if you want to smoke it, go ahead. however, even that would be 2nd hand smoke, and shows a curious lack of common sense. maybe it is just left over from an older pre preggers ad, at least we can hope for the best. also you could report the ad, regarding the drug part of it, and perhaps bp will edit that out so no potential clients will read it and think it is OK to smoke around pregnant women. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
danrica 431 Report post Posted May 9, 2014 these a good chance she isn't even preggers. She might just have a beer belly and telling people shes preggers just covers it up. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JessicaSugarbabe 1687 Report post Posted May 9, 2014 these a good chance she isn't even preggers. She might just have a beer belly and telling people shes preggers just covers it up. Lol, Thanks for the laugh! We can only hope :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BuzzisBack 110 Report post Posted May 9, 2014 I agree that this is disturbing. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clutch 711 Report post Posted May 9, 2014 They call it dope for a reason. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dori 759 Report post Posted May 15, 2014 They call it dope for a reason. To bad the kid will be stuck with a pinhead mom that isnt using her better judgement for the sake and well being of the kid. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Bardot 99339 Report post Posted May 15, 2014 Can we please stop with the insults and assumptions? As fortunateone pointed out, stating "420 friendly" does not necessarily mean that the provider herself partakes. Personally, I find it inappropriate that one provider is commenting on another provider's ad. Whether you agree with this woman's choice or not, publicly deriding another worker on a public forum is in bad taste and comes across as trying to cut out competition. Focus on yourself, and stop with the judgmental comments. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted May 15, 2014 (edited) Unfortunately posting that link on CERB may give it more visibility But even if she herself doesn't smoke pot she and her fetus are exposed to second hand pot smoke which is a at least according to this link is a hazard to the fetus http://www.pregnancyandbaby.com/pregnancy/articles/937071/secondhand-toke-marijuana-pregnancy It may be worded judgementally but really there are some real health risks that an innocent third party (the fetus) could receive and end up being the one dealing with for the rest of his/her life Some bigger things to consider here. RG Edited May 15, 2014 by r__m__g_uy Additional Thoughts Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JessicaSugarbabe 1687 Report post Posted May 15, 2014 (edited) My intention was never to insult anyone. My intention was to find out if it was even legit (as half on backpage are not) and report it. I was hoping it to be one of many backpage scams. There has been other post from same sp stating "party girl" ect. As I said if it was my neighbour doing the same thing I would report it. I appreciate your opinion and understand 100% where you are coming from as others business and personal lives are none of my concern, but this felt different. If I look bad for standing up for a child who cant do it for themselves then I'm ok with that. I would do the same thing again tomorrow. Edited May 15, 2014 by JessicaSugarbabe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Bardot 99339 Report post Posted May 15, 2014 Unfortunately posting that link on CERB may give it more visibilityBut even if she herself doesn't smoke pot she and her fetus are exposed to second hand pot smoke which is a at least according to this link is a hazard to the fetus http://www.pregnancyandbaby.com/pregnancy/articles/937071/secondhand-toke-marijuana-pregnancy It isn't being judgemental really, there are health risks that an innocent third party could receive RG You're making the assumption that the client or the provider are smoking in the room. Stating 420-friendly does not necessarily imply that the provider is in contact with someone smoking pot; it may be that if someone shows up under the influence of marijuana, that is okay with her. I don't know this lady. I am not going to make assumptions or pass judgment. Whether I agree with her personal choices or not, it's not my place to make those comments publicly. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted May 15, 2014 You're making the assumption that the client or the provider are smoking in the room. Stating 420-friendly does not necessarily imply that the provider is in contact with someone smoking pot; it may be that if someone shows up under the influence of marijuana, that is okay with her. I don't know this lady. I am not going to make assumptions or pass judgment. Whether I agree with her personal choices or not, it's not my place to make those comments publicly. I do not know this lady either. I am reading her ad, her words, and making what I think is a reasonable assumption, actually very reasonable assumptions based on a cold reading of her words, nothing else And that is, being 420 Friendly runs the gamut from being friendly to those who smoke marijuana, to liking to smoke marijuana to possibly in this case, will accept a client who is already high on marijuana. As for making comments publically that is your choice which I respect, just as it is my choice and others to comment publically. It isn't being judgemental, but it is making very reasonable assumptions My opinion and rambling RG 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites