Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 5, 2010 Cerb is a God send to us companions and Sp's alike...I'm not sure if you gentlemen realize this or not but in order for us to advertise on other sites we have to pay...not just pay to advertise but pay to be degraded,insulted and more. Sure there are lots of decent guys that maybe on those sites but they i think sometimes are afraid to say anything as they might get bashed. I did however have one positive on another Canadian board where someone was saying some BS about me and the guys that knew me all spoke up...it made me feel wonderful...but i decided not to use these other boards anymore...I'm on strike...lol....why a person pays to be treated like crap is beyond me. One would think that if you have to pay to be on a site that one can decide whether or not she has a say in what people say about them....so thank you Mod. kisses and hugs, Emma ps-i like the word recommendation much better then review...another plus 27 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted March 5, 2010 You are one of the reasons we love CERB.............:bddog: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coachg 388 Report post Posted March 5, 2010 True that Antlerman..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted March 5, 2010 well said!!! I agree and happy to be a part of this community! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***e Report post Posted March 5, 2010 Nobody should have to endure any sort of abuse on any board whether it's here or elsewhere. It seems as though there are those who simply wait in the weeds for the first opportunty to jump down someone's throat and I really don't like it. It is for this reason and a few others I discontinued any association with all other boards. I have found that over the years civility in many aspects of society has deteriorated to the sewer level and that notwithstanding I strive to be polite, cordial and civil to everyone. The very notion that respect is to be earned doesn't exist in my book in that I will afford everyone everywhere complete and total respect until such time they do something to no longer deserve it. The fact that anyone is being abusive to you Emma totally boggles my mind and certainly lends support to my observation that there has been and continues to be a decline in civility. Remove yourself from the situation for sure and never tolerate this from anyone be it online or in person. Cranky Ol' Spike Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bucken 1479 Report post Posted March 5, 2010 That is why we love you Emma.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerican 657 Report post Posted March 5, 2010 Glad to have you here exclusively Emma! LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted March 6, 2010 Nobody should have to endure any sort of abuse on any board whether it's here or elsewhere. It is for this reason and a few others I discontinued any association with all other boards I am with you 100% on this. I refuse to participate in any arena that degrades, humiliates, harasses or hurts any person, for any thing. I had to learn the hard way, and I hope others don't. Sure I took a beating (figuratively) but it sure made me open my eyes. People are not meat, to be graded in the number system of LSA Etc. We are people, not a steak! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
andflemcol 3975 Report post Posted March 6, 2010 I suppose in a perfect world, the other boards (review boards) would work the way they are supposed to. That is,... the reviews would be honest and helpful. Lets face it, there are some girls that should not be in the business and the reviews would help weed out them out. Unfortunately, we are not living in a perfect world,.... actually far from it. There are guys that should not be allowed into the review boards because they are less than honest, vindictive and down right hurtful. An SP who has worked so hard to establish a good reputation (Emma does come to mind) is at risk of having that reputation severely damaged by a posting from some idiot that for no ones fault but their own .... did not meet their expectations of the encounter. It is for that reason that I believe a recommendation board is a more honest and helpful tool for the guys and a kinder and more respectful option for the girls. Cheers Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kate von Katz 49953 Report post Posted March 6, 2010 Hear hear! Cerb truly is a great site. It allows SPs and providers free advertising, and it allows the gentlemen a place to share positive experiences with said SPs. A lot of the other sites are full of negativity, which isn't always honest or productive. Cerb is great! And so are the people on Cerb! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted March 7, 2010 CERB is my home, and so this is where I shall stay. Anywhere else just isn't worth it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted March 7, 2010 CERB is my home, and so this is where I shall stay. Anywhere else just isn't worth it. Ahh my second home, I agree! Love it:bddog: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Soleil Sublime 38108 Report post Posted March 7, 2010 Me too! Especially since another site which shall remain nameless, doesn't even let me respond to threads or make posts. They've kicked me off for saying I was trying to advertise for free, when I was only thanking my clients of the past and future. I truly dislike the Mod too. I'm sure that'll come back to haunt me. But he's like Big Brother watching us like hawks, just waiting for us to fuck up. Cerb is the exact opposite, in every sense of the word. I just wish more Winnipeggers got onto Cerb and off that other board. But I think a lot of them prefer the negativity and drama over there. Makes for cheap entertainment. :lol: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dt5494 290 Report post Posted March 7, 2010 CERB is great. It was the first place that I used and remains largely the only place I use to find SPs. Just wish I could convince more ladies out West to use it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bmint 100 Report post Posted March 7, 2010 I totally agree with you EA, Recommendation is a much better word to use. Reviews are old fashioned and have ruined a lot of Service providers trying their best to keep up with the constant high demands of un-educated clients. Once I was well shocked to hear that an escort here in England received a bad review on a review site for not going ahead with unprotected sex?? I mean what is this world coming to, some clients must think that escorts are not human or something? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted March 7, 2010 CERB is great. It was the first place that I used and remains largely the only place I use to find SPs. Just wish I could convince more ladies out West to use it. I agree. There are alot of west coast ladies that might not know about it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted March 15, 2010 I started out on a few other boards out east and I can attest to this fear of saying something. God forbid if you gave a lady a nice review especially if you had less than 100 posts, you would surely be accused of shilling. The ladies are often scored by points which I hated and found very degrading. " her looks were a 2 but her oral skills scored a 5...." I love Cerb and have met many wonderful people here. This is my family and I'm sticking around. ATH Sure there are lots of decent guys that maybe on those sites but they i think sometimes are afraid to say anything as they might get bashed. Emma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
