Dirty incall locations - does this bother you?

[mod 135640]

This is for comments and a poll about the quality of the IN CALL location (Not the service just the location). Agencies and ladies don't seam to realize how important a clean well kept in call location is so lets help them understand. Post your comments here and please vote on the poll.

[CapitalGuy 94]

there's not an answer that really suits me. if a place is a dump, i will stay but i will take the 30 minute option instead of the normal hour that i prefer, and do my business in a much more rushed fashion. so its costing the lady or the agency a fair bit of cash over the long run. if no 30 minute option is available, i will do my business that one time, then not return. I worry that the lack of cleanliness could cause me to come in contact with some of my fellow hobbiest's body fluids, which i would of course prefer to avoid!! If the in call location is a lady's home instead of a company-provided room, I won't see her again, because if a woman can't keep her home clean, I assume she can't keep her body clean either, and that's just gross, for some fairly obvious reasons.

 

good poll.

[Guest kinks_r_us]

...for the response that had no votes...that's why it now has at least ONE vote!!

:D

[BootyLoving 2441]

I always though I wouldn't mind. I'm there to get it on. But after an experience with a not so clean place, even with a hot girl, I realized I do enjoy a clean and well kept facility.

 

It sets atmosphere, and makes me want to stay a bit and enjoy myself. Makes me want to take the extra effort to pleasure her, because she is probably well kept as well.

[mod 135640]

I hope we are showing Jessica and others how important this really is to stay on top of.

[PKjessica (PK is now PKJas 103]

yep i see this. however...as i explained in a different thread..if i was able to exercise control and direction over these girls then i would, but i am not allowed to so they function as independents on that scale and do what they want with their rooms. This situation that everyone is fussing over..happened a long time ago and we do our best to pass on the comment that the girls make sure their rooms are tidy when a client goes to visit. After that i can't do anything but simply stop sending calls to the girl if she continues to ignore this. I have not recieved this complaint often...so i am sure this does not occur too often...

[JoyfulC 132299]

An agent actually provides services TO THE ESCORT -- not to the customer. Agencies take care of advertising, phone reception, reasonable security, etc. Some escorts are new to the business and don't yet know the ropes, so they find it safer and more practical to work through an agency than to try to be out there being an independent when they don't know what they're doing. Others may be more experienced, but maybe they're not full-time or maybe they simply prefer to pay someone else to handle the business side of things.

 

Agents often have standards for who they'll represent -- for example, they're not going to risk their reputations on someone who's always late or shows up intoxicated or whatever -- but once the escort and the client meet, the agent really shouldn't have any say over anything that happens between two consenting adults. It's a legal issue, and guys need to understand this.

 

(And yet, I know there are agencies who get right into the nitty gritty of what might happen in a session -- we won't be surprised when we see them up on charges one of these days!)

 

Jessica is right. There's only so much she can do, as an agent. Technically, if you find the incall location unacceptable, you should comment directly to the escort -- after all, she's responsible for keeping it clean. But it's understandable that some guys would be too shy to do that, and one of the advantages of going through an agency is the customer can have the agent run a bit of interference with respect to feedback. I'm sure if someone were to say something right away, Jessica would make every effort to handle it diplomatically such that the escort didn't know exactly who made the complaint. (Which, let's face it, that's what some are worried about.)

 

And in the longrun, an escort whose incall location results in continual negative comments (especially on boards!) might be dropped by the agent. After all, she has a responsibility to ALL the escorts she represents. If she allows one or two to bring her public image down with the customers, then she's not being fair to the other escorts she represents. So yes, feedback is important -- but be prompt, constructive, and don't slam the whole agency over something that's really the escort's responsibility.

 

I've often wondered how much men actually care about the cleanliness of an incall location anyway. I've worked in the sleaziest massage parlours and in the ritziest hotels, and I've come to wonder if men are capable of appreciating good housekeeping when in a certain state of arousal. In fact, I think there is some small percentage who actually find a sleazy place a bit of a turn on.

 

For me, though, lying down on freshly laundered sheets and having clean towels and washcloths makes me feel WAAAYYYYY sexier!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

The way an incall is kept is very important. If an escort is working for an agency but uses her own place for incall then she has a duty to present a good image because it's not just about her, it's also about the agency that is representing her. While an agency owner cannot keep tabs on how clean the ladies locations are, they have to exercise some authority in telling them to do so because it affects their business. If a lady doesn't take this into consideration then it just goes to show that if she can't clean her place, how responsible is she?

 

If everything is messy and dirty, then this reflects on the escort as well. One has to create an illusion that no one else but the customer that is visiting is the only person who has visited that day -even if that isn't the case. This includes flushing certain discarded material down the toilet, not in the waste basket where everyone can see. After each client I used to see, I'd pour bleach in the bathtub and clean it out. Who knows what they do in there. I'd also change the sheets, clean the sink and toilet. I hate seeing hairs everywhere!

 

Mind you, I've previously been to outcalls at clients homes and some of them were filthy beyond belief to the point where I didn't stay. They didn't even have a fresh towel to give me! Now I don't go to an outcall at a person's house. So I guess keeping a clean house should be taken into consideration for all parties involved since there are both incalls and outcalls.

[Guest AL]

Personally if it's a little bit messy i don't mind, but if it's dirty that's something else. When i first enter the thing that make me stay that's the way she looks. I am picky. If she does'nt look right or she lied about her age, clean or not i will leave for sure. Unfortunately i had to leave many times. For what i pay i prefer to have something nice with me.

[Dreamgirl 246]

I like to keep a clean and classy location

[ItisOnlyMe 100]

IMPO There is a difference between "messy" and "dirty".

Messy I can deal with (and relate to ..my workshop in the garage is a MESS). Dirty is another story..this I think reflects directly on the habits and traits of the SP. An I dont really care, or Lets get it over with attitude is not good for either the client or the lady.

Cheers

[getiton76 100]

For me, it depends on the type of messy. My first incall appointment wasn't the cleanest in terms of stuff being on the floor and that.

 

Actually, what I mean is that the place wasn't neat and tidy. There were things on the floor. Not food or garbage or anything like that. Just books and some clothes. So it was fine.

 

It's really, I feel, what you are comfortable with. Messy (gross) is not cool. But untidy is usually ok. For me, anyway.

[YoungStud 468]

For me, it depends on the type of messy. My first incall appointment wasn't the cleanest in terms of stuff being on the floor and that.

 

Actually, what I mean is that the place wasn't neat and tidy. There were things on the floor. Not food or garbage or anything like that. Just books and some clothes. So it was fine.

 

It's really, I feel, what you are comfortable with. Messy (gross) is not cool. But untidy is usually ok. For me, anyway.

 

I agree. Place has to be clean. Messy i.e. magazines, toys, whatever not all put away is okay. Standards of a middle-class suburban home with school-age children. Or better. I don't mind neat and tidy as well. But I can tolerate a bit of clutter in an otherwise clean place.

[ulixestrojan 3757]

In my mind dirty outside = dirty inside and the only thing I want dirty is our minds.

[ekimout 188]

This is a great question and poll. If the place is a little messy with some magazines or some clothes hanging about I can handle. If the place is disorganized and I have to step over stuff then it's 50/50, and would never return. If the place is dirty I'm out of there.

 

An SP with a disorganized, dirty place doesn't care enough about me as a client and is not worth the money.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

I had this gentleman whom i had seen several times. We always met at a hotel room. Well one nice hot,humid sweaty day he invites me to his place instead the the nice hotel. He booked me for the night....which would have been 1500 dollars. I get to his his apt. and was totally taken back by the mess. Pizza and take out boxes everywhere and i mean everywhere...stuff all over the carpet don't even ask me about the bathroom.Bags of garbage in the little kitchen. yuck! Anyway i say to myself "i know him so I'll stay. The bedroom must to clean."

 

there was one chair i could see it was new {thank God} so i sat on it. The place would have been cute if it were clean and that's all i wanted to do was clean it.

The room is hot and stinky and well i say lets go to your bedroom....guess what?there is no bedroom...he expected me to stay on the floor with him and his filthy dirty blanket and pillow"yikes". No amount of money is worth it so i cut my losses and make an excuse and leave. There was no way in hell i could stay there. He hasn't called me back since....lol....i wonder why?

 

kisses,

Emma A

[Guest **g*or***]

The room is hot and stinky and well i say lets go to your bedroom....guess what?there is no bedroom...he expected me to stay on the floor with him and his filthy dirty blanket and pillow"yikes". No amount of money is worth it so i cut my losses and make an excuse and leave. There was no way in hell i could stay there. He hasn't called me back since....lol....i wonder why?

 

OK, I'm going out on a limb here but this gentleman's social life might reflect his cleanliness habits, hence why he's seeing SPs on a regular basis? :mrgreen:

[ekimout 188]

I had this gentleman whom i had seen several times. We always met at a hotel room. Well one nice hot,humid sweaty day he invites me to his place instead the the nice hotel. He booked me for the night....which would have been 1500 dollars. I get to his his apt. and was totally taken back by the mess. Pizza and take out boxes everywhere and i mean everywhere...stuff all over the carpet don't even ask me about the bathroom.Bags of garbage in the little kitchen. yuck! Anyway i say to myself "i know him so I'll stay. The bedroom must to clean."

 

there was one chair i could see it was new {thank God} so i sat on it. The place would have been cute if it were clean and that's all i wanted to do was clean it.

The room is hot and stinky and well i say lets go to your bedroom....guess what?there is no bedroom...he expected me to stay on the floor with him and his filthy dirty blanket and pillow"yikes". No amount of money is worth it so i cut my losses and make an excuse and leave. There was no way in hell i could stay there. He hasn't called me back since....lol....i wonder why?

 

kisses,

Emma A

 

 

Good for you Emma, get the hell out of there.

 

The respect between SP and client certainly must run both ways. It's everyone's choice to live how they want but don't expect others to just accept it.

[YoungStud 468]

OK, I'm going out on a limb here but this gentleman's social life might reflect his cleanliness habits, hence why he's seeing SPs on a regular basis? :mrgreen:

 

Not sure what you mean here? Guys who see SPs regularly are dirty? I don't think many people here would agree with that statement if that is in fact what's intended.

[Seymour 3970]

OK, I'm going out on a limb here but this gentleman's social life might reflect his cleanliness habits, hence why he's seeing SPs on a regular basis? :mrgreen:

 

You mean he's doing this to get out of his house, looking for social interaction, feeling the need to escape reality for a while right...

[Guest **st t***s @]

thinking he might mean women react the same way Emma did, and they want nothing to do with him, cause he is a slob and the ladies no like that. so he has no choice but to hobby.

[spud271 47779]

I usually stay if it is not too bad, but I will not return. I keep my place very clean and yes it bothers me when I walk in to spend what I think will be a wonderful time with someone and the place is not clean. I just don't go back.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

You mean he's doing this to get out of his house, looking for social interaction, feeling the need to escape reality for a while right...

 

 

i hope that's what he meant...lol...

 

I'm guessing that's why the gentleman always asked me to a hotel..i don't know what he was thinking to ask me to his place when it looked like that...i felt bad for leaving but i think anyone would have....it just was horrid...ick i still get itchy thinking about it.

 

People that know me know I'm nice but one can only tolerate so much...

 

kisses,

Emma A

[capitalman 3861]

I think the cleanliness of your surroundings is a reflection of what it's like in your head.

[whatsup 11893]

It is really not to much to keep a place tidy, just a small amount of effort is all it takes. It also has a much better reflection on the SP. A bunch of missed appointments might just change there ways.

 

Emma as far as your slob client goes to bad for him that you walked out and good for you that you did.