YoungBlood 200 Report post Posted May 30, 2014 Hello i've been noticing from time to time SP that will say "No blacks gentlemen pls" or mention that one of their restriction is black guys. My question is why are black men singled out? I have not seen any on Cerb Ottawa, but from time to time on website like backpage i'll see these. Why is that? Could some one explain, is it just plain old racism or are there a lot of bad date coming from black men. John's and SP's please enlighten me. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jason Fergusson 1408 Report post Posted May 30, 2014 It sounds like bigotry. If it is a specific SP, then she has strange beliefs. It is unbelievable that, in 2014, we still have people with 1950's attitudes. Do not let it bother you. Remember that she is the one with the problem; you are not the one with the problem. Rise above it. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **oo**e Report post Posted May 30, 2014 The question has come up on this board in the past. It probably means that the provider's "agent" is black and does not want her to see black men. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Be***iful****lah Report post Posted May 30, 2014 I would never discriminate in fact I find many black men very attractive. One of my most compatible sexual partners ever was a black guy. You will notice from my posts that I am impartial to ALL men. Love them all!!!:) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted May 30, 2014 This subject has been discussed before here's the link http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151618 RG 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31728 Report post Posted May 30, 2014 I myself do not discriminate race( not judgemental at all when it comes to your nationality)...but there are some that probably do because they only date black men so maybe they are afraid of running into someone they may know on a personal level and yes some being ignorant and racist! But then again just like it is a man's.choice of what type of woman he would like to spend time with it is our choice as SP how we would like to.conduct our business I was told I loose business because I prefer to see the older mature gentlemen and.not young.men and that may be true but at the end of the day its what I feel comfortable with Xo 9 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ottanon 2930 Report post Posted May 30, 2014 From what I have been told by Dozens of girls its all the same thing. It boils down to a cleanliness issue and too many re-negotiations on scene. I guess there comes a point when it happens so often that everyone similar is lumped into the same category. Its an Sp's choice who she sees. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FunValerie 8573 Report post Posted May 30, 2014 I have not had any issues with black clients. I suspect that the mention about black "agents" above is correct. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S*rca****sid Report post Posted May 30, 2014 The discussion has also come up here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=143689 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=89799 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bcguy42 38594 Report post Posted May 30, 2014 So, let's review. OP asks why some providers specify no black customers. Replies include because she's a bigot. She has an black "agent" (can we just be plain and call him a pimp?), blacks (not all but enough to warrant a rule) have cleanliness issues and haggle. Did I miss anything? You just know where I'm going with this, don't you? There's enough "judgemental" in this short thread to feed a family of four for a week. How about we go with the idea that the provider just chooses not to see black men for reasons known only to her. Just like some choose not to see old men, some not young men. Not sure how the putative pimp showed up so early. We all know cleanliness and haggling are not race based. So I would go with this answer to the OP question: because she chooses to (or not) and there's no accounting for taste. 13 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Highsexdrivebabe 11800 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 For I namely was thought to enjoy Greek so much by a black male 20 years ago that took me in the ass without lube!!!!!!! And it fucking didn't hurt cause he had me so ready and even fucking wet in the ass geez!!! But also because I am so multi-cultural!!! Have several exes that R black namely the father of my son who's yes 'café au lait'. And fuck yes black have huge attributes and sometimes thick ones too!!! So to those refusing send them along to me!!!! I am there babes!!!!! Barbara craving black males!!!! xxxxooo Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31728 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 I would say that's pretty sad when you say all black men are pimps( because pretty sure I do.date black men and not once have i ever had a pimp in my life) and to to say they are not clean wow I am just taken back.with.that smh That's sad Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
asuran 1138 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 Just think of it as a personal preference for the SP. It doesn't mean certain races are better or worse than others. Some things that certain people don't like doesn't necessarily mean that that thing is bad. It's just like any restrictions that the SP has. If she says no, are you saying you want force it on her? There are many other SPs out there for you. Good luck. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cute0aza0Button 21399 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 Who cares why a provider doesn't want a certain client? She had her reasons and they are entirely her own. It could be a million things that have nothing to do with racism 11 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 It has been covered to death, but: 1. The provider is not here to defend her decision. 2. The provider has EVERY right to choose whoever she chooses to see. This is not a restaurant, a gas station, a store or anything else. It's HER body. 3. There are countless providers who WILL see men and women of all races, creeds, religions and legal ages. 4. If a provider has personal issues with persons of different ethnic backgrounds, religions etc - that's HER business. She will be losing that portion of the population as part of her clientele. 5. The charter of rights does not have a pussy clause. 6. We, as clients, don't have ANY right to see who we choose. We are granted that privilege as part of a business transaction AND after the screening process has been completed and THEN we have to pass the introduction/creepiness/cleanliness assessment before we will have our play time. 7. Just checked again, the charter still doesn't have a pussy clause. 8. If you think about it with a clear head, do you WANT to spend time with a person that doesn't want to spend time with you? I can tell you from personal experience, it sucks. That's why I divorced her. 9. Girls like that generally have no bacon on hand. 10. There really is no number 10. I could have condensed this to seven points but the OCD clicked in and I wanted to go all metric on ya. There ya be. 10 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rocky racoon 2915 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 Jason Ferguson, this is what he's talking about: Obviously, girls who don't have any bacon on hand have more germs... 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jason Fergusson 1408 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 Jason Ferguson, this is what he's talking about:Obviously, girls who don't have any bacon on hand have more germs... LOL. Bacon-scented hand sanitizer? LOL. Is that actually a thing? LOL. How did I miss that memo? But wouldn't my schlong smell like bacon? I don't know if that would be a turn-on?! That is, by far, the funniest bleepin' thing that I have heard in a while. I am cry-laughing. LOL. You totally made my day. Thank you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Genevieve Marceau 68000 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 With the curves that I have (PAWG), If I would ever decide stop seeing black men - or any dark skin lovers - I might as well declare my business bankrupt. I'm a Night rider babaaayyyy! "Dat ass had me like..." 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
all-in 300 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 Dont know about SPs, but I know quite a few strippers that refuse to see black customers because they generally hang out in strip clubs with no purpose other than finding girls they can manage. 3 of the strippers that told me this are jamaican... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Jessica Lee 43328 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 Black men don't seem to be attracted to me. I can count on one hand the number I've seen in my career, and each of them was a complete gentleman. Not sure why ...:confused0024: 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 Black men don't seem to be attracted to me. I can count on one hand the number I've seen in my career, and each of them was a complete gentleman. Not sure why ...:confused0024: ... and therein MIGHT be the solution. The provider may just not be attracted to black men and that lack of attraction has led her to the policy. It could be as simple as that. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lipualipua 4704 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 Dont know about SPs, but I know quite a few strippers that refuse to see black customers because they generally... Miss/Sir : Check out the meaning of the word "generally". So, do you imply that more than half of the black male population hang out around strip clubs? Do you imply that any black male you meet on the street is likely to hang out around strip clubs? Let us draw analogies : generally, male cerbites are wretched losers who can't find dates or generally, female cerbites are drug-addicted psychologically maladjusted ladies. Caution, my friend, caution for words carelessly used can have unintended consequences. Cheers. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
all-in 300 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 Use logic... I clearly meant that they (The strippers) found that those of that particular demographic (black) found within their place of employment (a strip club) generally purchased their services (private dances) as an excuse to try to rope them in to a managed arrangement (pimping). Want your own opinion? Head to Pigales or Barefax tonight and hang around the bar and listen to the conversations around you. Its hilarious how obvious they are at times. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lipualipua 4704 Report post Posted May 31, 2014 I bet you have no knowledge of statistics or if you do, then you rather must "use logic". You "clearly" did not mean what you profess. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
asuran 1138 Report post Posted June 2, 2014 I understood all-in's post. It's a case by case situation. Someone has had consistent bad experiences doesn't mean another person will have these experiences at all. Maybe it's dependent on location? Area? Time of the year? Maybe a more 'upscale' location will attract less of these lesser types. There are always lowlifes and quality gentlemen in all colors n races, and this I'm sure is a fact. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
