General Rules - what not to do

[rickyj 100]

Hi new to the forums.

 

Had a newbie question, hoping someone could point me in the right dirction or provide me with a previous link (i tried the search function without much luck) on what not to say or do to get one self in trouble or break the law.

 

1as a rookie i understand that one should

 

1. NEVER pay for sex.

2. pay for time only

3. if the other indiv is indeed not LE they likely won't expose themself

4. after that 2 consenting adults are free to talk about what they want as long as its done privately i.e. not in a public space

 

what am i missing? looking for some veteran help as i witnessed a colleague get himself into a lot of heat with the law and with his family.

 

thanks in advance.

[mod 135640]

1. NEVER pay for sex.

2. pay for time only

3. if the other indiv is indeed not LE they likely won't expose themself

4. after that 2 consenting adults are free to talk about what they want as long as its done privately i.e. not in a public space

 

You watch too much U.S. TV! LOL... Prostitution is legal in canada. Lots of threads exist (use the search feature) on this topic and what is and is not legal.

[Brad 49548]

Rickyj, here's the go to thread on this topic to get you started:

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=1642

 

You may also find this helpful, as it also sums up some recent happenings:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_Canada

 

Good luck!

[roamingguy 300292]

Hi new to the forums.

 

Had a newbie question, hoping someone could point me in the right dirction or provide me with a previous link (i tried the search function without much luck) on what not to say or do to get one self in trouble or break the law.

 

1as a rookie i understand that one should

 

1. NEVER pay for sex.

2. pay for time only

3. if the other indiv is indeed not LE they likely won't expose themself

4. after that 2 consenting adults are free to talk about what they want as long as its done privately i.e. not in a public space

 

what am i missing? looking for some veteran help as i witnessed a colleague get himself into a lot of heat with the law and with his family.

 

thanks in advance.

 

Never pay for sex...what is marriage LOL

Here is a quick summation.

Prostitution is legal in Canada

Outcalls are legal (the lady comes to your place be it hotel, home)

Incalls are illegal (you go to the lady's place)

Do not discuss in a public place-ie soliciting is illegal

EMails, texts, phone etc are not places and ok to use

Car dates illegal

and I have to add.....

Although not a cop I'm LE, and I've been exposed, while exposed, well actually I exposed myself :-) LOL so to speak, even showed a lady my badge. I wasn't doing anything illegal.

Anyhow, a quick summation. That plus the links Brad provided, and using the search function on CERB, a wealth of information here

Welcome to CERB and this lifestyle

 

RG

[kmwq 5477]

If a lady's incall location is a hotel, is that legal? What about an incall where there is only one lady at a condo vs incall location with multiple bedrooms and more than one lady working.

 

...never mind just read the link above.

[rickyj 100]

Thanks for the info. Also read through the links. Unfortunately most of the info is geared toward thr oeners of the agency, drivers and the escorts.

 

I want to know what i should be looking out for and saying (and not saying) as a hobbyist.

 

I understand never talk about the exchange of $ for sex. But i've seen many times where you leave an envelope marked "bills" on the table only for the girl to turn around and say thats her fee for showing up or for her time.

 

how can one ensure both sides get what they bargained for.

 

thanks in advance.

[Phaedrus 209521]

Private communication is not subject to any law, and you can say what you please. It is, however, subject to the laws of common sense and common courtesy.

 

If you're worried about things... I'd suggest reading the ads for whoever you want to see, and reading their reco thread. There are lots of providers here who... well they won't give you what you bargained for; they'll give you a whole lot more :)

 

If you're concerned about anything in particular, you can always ask... just read the lady's ads/website first to see if the information's already there, be polite when you ask, and don't argue if the answer's "no".