dandywriter 120 Report post Posted June 11, 2014 I intended this to be my third or fourth tantric massage. I have very quickly become comfortable with Bella (was btpage), and her location (see previous recommendations of mine). She is very calming, yet assertive, and her massages really have to be experienced... words really fail me, she makes me float. We were chatting about her expanded menu of delights and she asked if I'd be interested in more... but in a quietly teasing sort of way. I said perhaps next time, and there was no pressure at all, and the massage continued (did I mention that her massages are superb?). About 10 minutes later, I heard myself say that I wanted more... I had always been curious about strap-on play, and I asked if that was possible, with a longer session. I've been curious before, but never had the nerve to ask - with Bella, it was easy. She described what she was going to do to prepare me, and we moved to the bedroom. She asked what position I wanted - first time, so no idea - I said, 'what ever is easiest'... Face down, butt up, thinking how wonderful it was, but also wondering at how easy it was, and how it did not feel wrong - a very pleasant surprise. With a lot of preparation, patience, and prostate massage, she popped my butt cherry with a small dildo, and tried a larger one, but that was a bridge too far... too tight, and she was very careful not to overdo it (this was over a fairly lengthy period of gently going further and further, not a quick thing, and with constant questioning on how I was tolerating it, and whether I needed a rest, breathing practice, etc - thank you Bella). I might have been able to take a full strap on, but I'm pretty slutty in the heat of the moment, and she made a good decision. We went on to more conventional activities. The cuddling after a most spectacular release was really great... I guess I'm a cuddler. So, a first timer is not a anal virgin anymore, but needs a bit of home preparation to prepare for the 'whole nine yards'. I only intended a massage on this visit, and was thinking of 'more' the next time, to be honest. I was very lucky she had the time to devote to changing my experience level with no notice. She is teasing, mischievous, and gently, sensuously assertive. I see her new website, and wow, I see so much I want to try with her... I most highly recommend her if you are curious about 'more', or if a tantric massage is a curiosity to you. A good measure of time with her is that for me, time seems to slow down. With the significant number of things we did together, I was gob-smacked to see that it was only 90 minutes long when I was showered and leaving. I would have bet her a hundred bucks it was over 3 hours! What's next for me? I think Dark Tantra seems very interesting, I must try that. That would make me a bad boy, so I think a spanking is in my future.. Oh, Bella, what you do to me! 5.0 Location Bella Fontaine Independent I would visit again 5.0 Location Bella Fontaine Independent I would visit again 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dandywriter 120 Report post Posted July 1, 2014 Well, another tick in the box - first Dark Tantra experience! Bella said this is "the ultimate tease", and I have to agree. Imagine being bound to a comfortable massage table, tightly... blindfolded, and not knowing what happens next. It is a particularly vulnerable feeling, as a variety of sensation toys - some of which I don't have any idea what they were - lightly (or not so lightly) travelling around your naked body. I am extremely ticklish, but that can easily be too much, but Bella always knows when I'm just about ready to scream (the moans, I guess, are a give-away). Straining against the bonds to be able to brush her as she moves almost silently around the table... as the feather brushes very sensitive parts. I was reduced to begging... another vulnerability. She gently laughs, but never mocks me, which makes it all the more special... So, Dark Tantra... the vulnerability and helplessness was great; the sensations wonderful, and the overall experience not to be missed. I see a longer and more vigorous playtime in my future - if I can stand it. If I had a constructive criticism, I'd suggest using ear plugs as well, to make things even more a surprise - though I'd lose the fun of trying to guess what the noises are, and what's next. A sensory depravation trade-off that I will have to ponder. And, after the nice warm shower (on somewhat wobbly legs), Bella said that was a very low intensity, and that it gets interesting at higher intensity or longer times... oh my... Highly recommended; my only reservation is that I don't want her to become so popular that I can't get an appointment! The session was Friday, since it typically takes a few days to come down enough to figure out to say, and reduce the grin on my face. I might save this one for a second visit, to contrast it to the normal Tantric massage. Wonderful in two vastly different ways. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites