VictoriaJolie 64127 Report post Posted August 31, 2014 (edited) My grand mother aka Mami is on last days of leaving..2or3days max He reason I posted in here is she was one if the few that Tap me on the shoulder and said " good for you" she accept what I do regardless of her generation which is now 90years old.. I'm upset but I think at the point she is she must go She saw her mom on some in time she wasn't" there" and was told it will be okay I know it's the best for my Gand Ma aka Mami but I have an hard time to wrap my head around it Edited September 1, 2014 by VictoriaJolie 15 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S****r Report post Posted August 31, 2014 Much sympathy to you from me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted August 31, 2014 (edited) Victoria it will be tough letting go as I know what you are going through as I have lost several family members over the past decade. Think of all the good memories that you and your Grandmother had and it will make the transition easier on you. Perhaps talking to a family member that is close to you will help you accept what is occurring .Remember talking issues out with another person will help you through your period of grief. Please remember that keeping emotions bottled up will make you feel worse so don't be afraid to let them out. My sympathies go out to you and your family. Edited September 1, 2014 by N***he**Ont**y Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted September 1, 2014 It is so hard to let go of someone you love and care about. My thoughts are with you, please be strong. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peacectryguy 12547 Report post Posted September 1, 2014 My thoughts are with you Victoria. Sounds like your "Mami" is a remarkable lady. Hope she rests easy and goes peacefully. Thanks for sharing with us. Big hugs out to you. At least internet hugs. (((((hugs))))) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cinelli 22184 Report post Posted September 1, 2014 Your Mami must be a great lady. Think of all the good times you have enjoyed together. Stay strong sweetheart, you have lots of friends here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **ng***1 Report post Posted September 1, 2014 Sorry to hear your mami's time has come. Sounds like you had a very special relationship. It's hard to accept it when it happens, but remember that she will always be alive in you. Remember all those special times you had and keep your memories close. You can always count on friends to help you through tough times. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Cr**gCa***ng Report post Posted September 1, 2014 Lots of warm and pleasant thoughts going your way and many hugs in this most difficult time. I've been there and you are in my thoughts throughout. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Taylor, Olivia Devine 16934 Report post Posted September 3, 2014 Lots of love for you and my prayers are with you. I know how tough that is as I have had to let my grandmother go a couple years ago and it really effected me in a bad way at the time but I have grown to be a lot stronger and remember the happy times. I also feel her presence with me all the time, hope my words help. Huggs Taylor Devine Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites