Conversation During Appointments

[Carrie Moon 68826]

Has anyone ever talked about precautions or STDs when seeing and Escort? I imagine this is not a preferred conversation. I usually hope or rationalize that the girls look after themselves and the last thing they want is to risk infection or worse.

 

It is not unusual for parlors in Australia for example, to inspect a client for signs of infection before engaging in activities. Does this ever happen with Escorts in Canada?

 

Nothing ruins a mood more than STD talk.. but what's worse is a guy asking during an appt or calling me up after having left the appt due to some guilt about having strayed and asking me ''are you clean"? Hell ya.. I'm clean and I plan to stay that way.. the riskiest behaviour I engage in without protection is DATY. I don't do BBBJ. Both are considered very low risk activities on the scale of risk. I have been told however I give better head with a condom than many women without.. and they do make condoms way better for sensation than they used to.

 

Other than looking while getting undressed because I always like to see what I'm doing.. mirrors anyone?.. I don't do a formal inspection.

[VedaSloan 119179]

 

Has anyone ever talked about precautions or STDs when seeing and Escort? I imagine this is not a preferred conversation. I usually hope or rationalize that the girls look after themselves and the last thing they want is to risk infection or worse.

 

It is not unusual for parlors in Australia for example, to inspect a client for signs of infection before engaging in activities. Does this ever happen with Escorts in Canada?

 

 

I always do a discreet STD check on clients. I do a visual check for warts, herpes sores, and crabs and I gently squeeze the base of the penis to empty the urethra--if any funky looking fluid comes out, that can be a sign of gonorrhea or chlamydia infection. It's not foolproof, obviously, but it's something.

[Guest O***wa**W]

I personally like to talk, at least with new clients, to get to know each other, and feel more comfortable. But I just follow thier lead, as some really perfer quiet.

[HarveySpecter 1908]

I'm always a nervous wreck meeting someone. So a simple hello and how are you today? goes a long way to easing my comfort level.

Then again it does seem like its an age thing that some SPs just go straight to the strip part rather than a little bit more talk. This certainly makes me quite picky with whom i choose to see.

[Andee 220524]

I'm always a nervous wreck meeting someone. So a simple hello and how are you today? goes a long way to easing my comfort level.

Then again it does seem like its an age thing that some SPs just go straight to the strip part rather than a little bit more talk. This certainly makes me quite picky with whom i choose to see.

 

I can usually sense when someone needs to "ease" into the actual physical stuff and as opposed to the guy who can't wait to get your panties off....I prefer some talk up front because I am fascinated by so many different topics and I can't believe how much I learn from my clients..and if it's dirty talk you want, I can do that too- but that's not every client's cup of tea either.

[stevecurious 42059]

For me it depends a lot on the lady. Some ladies I can and have talked for quite a long period of time. For others ten to fifteen minutes depending on our mood. Regardless of the lady, the mood or anything else I do enjoy some conversation before hand and even after if our schedules permit it. If we are meeting for the first time I think it benefits us both to converse and be sociable to one another. Usually this is the best time to deal with any lingering questions or comments before we head to the "other room."

[big AL 350]

agreed...........................

[Victoria Banks 21899]

Meh.. I like to talk too much..

 

Generally 90% of the men I meet don't really care about conversating with me or have much to say. . LOL. :roll:

[Xracer86 122]

I would love to talk to you Cindy!!!! LOL :lol:

[ASHLEY XOXOX 100]

When I began my SP career (in my early 20's), I was very shy, and kept conversation to a minimum. Although I loved the adrenaline rush of meeting new people, I wasnt quite self-aware, or confident enough, to make much small talk. I was, admittedly, pretty rushed.

Now, as an Indie, and a little older (27), I have more confidence, and desire, to be myself, and to enjoy myself. I like to sit and chat for a while, Ok, I probably talk too much now!! But it gives me a chance to find the sexy factor in another person. Plus, chatting, for me, usually leads to laughter. And there's nothing better than being playful!

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Well put Ashley....I love to laugh. I pretty much always have a smile (or at least a little smirk) on my face.

Some people like to talk and I will respond in kind...LOVE IT!

Others are pretty much down to business immediately and that is great as well.

Just as long as we both feel comfortable, I am happy!

[Royalfun 55449]

Meh.. I like to talk too much..

 

Generally 90% of the men I meet don't really care about conversating with me or have much to say. . LOL. :roll:

 

Well, on the talking side, I am in the group of men who love to talk. And Cindy, you don't talk too much, and what you say is meaningful.

 

For one, I like the way you are: beautiful, sexy and nice.

[Victoria Banks 21899]

Thanks Super

 

XOXO

[Naughty_Nadia 100]

I personally love to talk. :) I'm naturally a complete chatterbox, and I just find it makes for a much better time if you chat for a while first. I just find it allows you to get to know each other better, which allows you to feel more comfortable and creates a more intimate time. I'm a big fan of having regular clients and such, so that level of connection and intimacy is important to me.

 

I'm also a pretty awesome conversationalist if I do say so myself haha :P I've got a double degree in classics and philosophy, read constantly, follow world events closely and spent the first 20 years of my life traveling all over the world, so I can actually be kind of interesting haha. I actually had a job two days ago where we ended up really getting along and chatting so much that when we checked the clock, we realized it had been an hour and 15 minutes already! I offered to extend the time or not charge him because I felt bad, but he told me he enjoyed himself so much he felt it was well worth the money and we would just keep a closer eye on the clock next time haha!

[RobX 2084]

I really need some kind of conversation and basic connection if I'm going to enjoy the session at all.

 

Some of my clients love spending part or in some rare instances even most of the appointment conversing, while others it's difficult to get one or two word answers out of them.

 

For me, conversation and a certain level of connection with an SP is very important. Unfortunately, I myself am a very reserved person and I fall into the category of people from whom, as described by Angela of Ottawa, "it is difficult to get one or two word answers out of them". In stressful situations, such as one's first time with an SP, it is even worse. While some people talk incessantly when under stress, I seem to shut down completely, which was exactly what happened during my first time with an SP.

 

From visiting MPAs, prior to my first time with an SP, I have found that regardless of how outgoing an MPA or SP is, she cannot carry the conversation on her own, and in order for a connection to be established, both must make an effort at establishing a connection, regardless of how difficult that may be for someone who is very reserved.

 

One of the most unexpected characteristics of hobbying for me has been how important being able to establish a conversational connection with an MPA or SP has played in the overall success of a session. Before I started hobbying I had assumed that a conversational connection was a given, and was simply part of the "services" that an MPA or SP provided.

 

Fortunately for me, I have experienced one "magical" session with an MPA where the conversation between her and myself just seemed to flow naturally and effortlessly. My quest now is to try and find a way to somehow recreate that magic on a more regular basis.

[Jackie James 215]

Great sex and great conversation just naturally go together! :D

[Guest o*****a*****r]

Great sex and great conversation just naturally go together! :D

 

Very true and well said Jackie as the best sex I've ever had with an SP was one I honestly believed that someday I could just pay for conversation with her!

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

It is wonderful to hear that a lot of men enjoy the conversation as much as we do!

[Guest secular]

[cat 262460]

I'm pretty sure I talk to much most of the time. Because I only entertain for 2 hr visits, I like to indulge in couch time and get to know someone. It changes the tone and feel of an appointment for me and definitely enhances my experience. Great conversation is such a bonus and I have clients that I can talk to for hours upon hours. I love to play, but I really love to learn, and I learn so much when I talk to people. It is one aspect of my work that I simply wouldn't change.

 

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[Mutau 2516]

Quite correct Cat. It is important to get to know someone prior to jumping between the sheets, or wherever. I prefer to have a connection through conversation to build some sort of rapport. It enchances the experience.

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

Those, I keep for mine... As soon as I enter to somebody's or if gents are coming to mine, I keep the first 15 minutes for a little chat, establish the rules, and then talk about whatever... It's a way, for me, to know in what mood my client is... Of course, they are at my charge...