A simple question for the everyone

[Guest isla*****d]

Alrighty, I'm still new to this all :oops: and I am a little nervous starting off. One thing I am most worried about is what to talk about! I'm more of a shy person and sometimes I talk a lot sometimes I don't :-? I can talk about just about anything but sometimes that can bore the other person depending on the topic.

 

My question:

 

What do you girls like to talk about? Do you talk about cities you visited? or places you would love to go (Australia, Dubai, etc)? Sports? Stock Market (my personal fav)? Pets?

 

I am interested to hear what everyone has to say :)

 

I'll start off by saying I like to talk about business, pets, outdoor activities, anything about other provinces/states/countries.

[antlerman 17064]

your question is actually your answer.........

Talk about what makes you feel comfortable......the majority of the ladies out there are so well versed in any topic you will feel comfortable in no time.

[TonyPDaddy 122]

Send a few pm's on here or on their personal website and get a brief intro beforehand so you know what she likes/dislikes etc. Send a few pm's back and forth so you feel comfortable so when you get there, you have an idea of what topics to talk about.

 

And if you are shy, tell them....but go into the encounter like you are on top of the world, that this is the best day of your life, have that passion and attitude, motivate yourself with some high energy impact music or whatever motivates you. Before you pull up as you head up on that elevator or to the doorstep keep your momentum high and be strong, so when that door opens you will be just fine and on top of your game.

[777flyer 1612]

Being relatively new myself, I selected a lady that i could correspond with prior to the first meeting....

 

This way when we met, she knew I was new at this, and we had already had some discussions on email about life, interests etc......so it felt comfortable right away for some small talk, since we had already broken the ice.

 

I was amazed at how quickly she made me feel comfortable, and like we were old friends.....

 

SNK

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

I love having a bit of "connection" time and can talk the ear off a frog if given the chance LOL. Pretty much anything that makes you comfortable would be welcome by most of the ladies (hope I am not over stepping my bounds by speaking for others!)

[NotchJohnson 214123]

I always talk about the first thing that comes up, and no its not always my penis. LOL:boobeyes:

[Guest S***e]

Being from NB myself, I always found the ladies enjoyed talking about fly fishing. Failing that, moose hunting is always very popular with them. (Just kidding) Seriously, if you're in Fredericton and are going to see a lady from there or anywhere else in the Maritimes you will be spending time with some of the friendliest ladies around. Just relax and let things transpire naturally with no pretense on your part. Be yourself, be courteous and be nice...go from there. If you find a lady who likes fly fishing, let me know please! I came to Ottawa about a year and a half ago, but go back to NB from time to time. Have fun!

 

Spike

[spud271 47779]

your question is actually your answer.........

Talk about what makes you feel comfortable......the majority of the ladies out there are so well versed in any topic you will feel comfortable in no time.

 

Agreed, I think you will be very surprised as to how well versed the ladies on CERB are regarding most subject matters. If the conversation seems to be going nowhere, then change the subject.

[Guest f***2f***]

ummmm you're going to be talking?? lol just kidding...just be yourself

[capitalman 3861]

Shut up Boner, you talk too much! :lol:

 

ummmm you're going to be talking?? lol just kidding...just be yourself

[Cara Silver 32412]

I think you'll find most of the girls are pretty good at starting conversations-- we're used to making nervous guys feel comfortable. I'm pretty chatty so I usually launch into a variety of topics. Many escorts are in this business because they're naturally social and sociable, with good people skills. My advice is to not worry about it at all, we want to get to know YOU as much as you want to get to know us.

 

If conversation really falters I always go for: "How bout that local sports team??" :lol: Whatever breaks the ice, right? lol Too bad I know nothing about any local sports teams...

 

Also, sps tend to be quite open-minded and up for most subjects. Just stay away from personal questions, just in case. Hope this helps!!

 

xoxo Amelia

[swegin 5885]

I wonder if anyone has ever inadvertently got into an intense debate during a session, when attempting to strike up a conversation. Perhaps about politics, or gun control, or who the best prime minister of England was.

 

Note: It was Lord Palmerston, by the way. And I refuse to hear otherwise!

[Andee 220524]

I wonder if anyone has ever inadvertently got into an intense debate during a session, when attempting to strike up a conversation. Perhaps about politics, or gun control, or who the best prime minister of England was.

 

Note: It was Lord Palmerston, by the way. And I refuse to hear otherwise!

 

If the conversation gets that heated (no pun intended), I just find a way to change the topic because it's not worth me trying to convince them of my point of view - plus it's a real mood killer.

 

As for the best Prime Minister of England - Winston Churchill for sure!

[Guest O***wa**W]

I like to talk about my pets, but that turns some men off.

Anything we share in common, such as taste in food or movies, or if we both play the same sport, etc.

Vacations are also always a safe bet.