Crackerz7 110 Report post Posted October 9, 2014 New to the board and hobby. 43 - heavy set - wife - kids - no loving at home. Spend way too much time on porn sites. So much so that I am not sure if it has clouded my expectations? I've never experienced a full on bbbj, CiM or CoF. This is what I gravitate towards during my late night internet searches. I really really want to experience this. While away on business a few weeks ago - I broke down and made an outcall arrangement off of BP somewhere in PA. The lady was young (early 20's) and friendly. I had the donation in plain sight and it started ok (CBJ). Then she stopped (after maybe 5 minutes). She wanted DG. I did that for a while - but I really just wanted a BBBJ and CiM. I asked to get back to the CBJ and she said that it was once per session. Then she said that her knee was bugging her. That sort of broke the mood and I started to lose some steam as she pointed out. I politely told her that I was finished with the session (this was 15 minutes in a 60 minute session). She seemed upset and said that there was something wrong with a guy giving up when a girl gives him a cbj then have sex with her. I didn't argue, took all of the blame and told her to just take the money and please leave. I want just to meet a SP, chit chat for a few minutes, get a BBBJ and CiM or CoF for the duration of the session or until I want to do something else (if I feel like it and if the SP agrees of course. I fully expect to pay full fare for the time booked - regardless of the outcome. Thanks for reading all of that... Am I wanting something that is not within the etiquette of this hobby? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted October 9, 2014 To answer your question - no. If you want bbbj for the majority or all of your call, there is nothing wrong with that. Look for the ladies that specifically advertise bjs. There are a number in Ottawa. Not sure what type of lady you are interested in seeing, so will leave that to you to do some research. Too bad the lady in pa missed an opportunity Imo. Some clients want one specific thing and there is nothing wrong with that. Good luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WealthyCowboy 5281 Report post Posted October 9, 2014 As a relative newcomer as well, I've learned that it's best to express exactly what you're into before the session and see if the lady is into it. If not, politely move on and don't book an appointment. Best of luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Crackerz7 110 Report post Posted October 10, 2014 Thanks Meaghan - Nice to know what I would like is not outlandish. Thank you also for the members that sent some recommendations my way via PM. Funny thing while I was in Montreal, I was all over the backpages getting dizzy with excitement and that original experience kept popping up in my end. I had a decent hotel (Mariott Chateau Something by the Bell Center), time, but just could not pull the trigger. I'm glad I didn't act on it. I did not know about this site until a few days ago. Being able to read discussions from both sides is excellent if not a little voyeur'ish :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Crackerz7 110 Report post Posted October 11, 2014 The problem is that in this case, the ad said something like "I will not engage in specific discussions by text, phone or through the ad" - or something to that effect. Not knowing any better - I figured we hammer out the details when she arrived at the hotel - but - my blood was pumping in my ears and I was past the point of rational thought once she arrived at my door. Plus - I would have felt pretty bad (if I would have been able to think properly) to ask, then send her away. I take the blame for sure for not specifying what I wanted, but I feel I didn't really have the opportunity to do so. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SexxxyRebecca 57989 Report post Posted October 11, 2014 I would suggest you to stick to Cerb or to the well-established provider.. You can also take a look to the recommendation area to find what you are looking for! :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted October 11, 2014 The problem is that in this case, the ad said something like "I will not engage in specific discussions by text, phone or through the ad" - or something to that effect. Not knowing any better - I figured we hammer out the details when she arrived at the hotel - but - my blood was pumping in my ears and I was past the point of rational thought once she arrived at my door. Plus - I would have felt pretty bad (if I would have been able to think properly) to ask, then send her away. I take the blame for sure for not specifying what I wanted, but I feel I didn't really have the opportunity to do so. Well the states and now Canada, discussing sexual acts is a no no. So you didn't do anything wrong, except your research. Stick with cerb ladies and read between the lines. You will do fine. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmwq 5477 Report post Posted October 14, 2014 I want just to meet a SP, chit chat for a few minutes, get a BBBJ and CiM or CoF for the duration of the session or until I want to do something else That's sort of the same for me and have not had an issue with any of the SP I've seen. These review or recommendation boards are your best friends in this hobby. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Satai 1933 Report post Posted October 14, 2014 Although I have not partaken in this lovely lady's enchantments, Sweet Emily J regularly advertises your desires. IMHO, she offers genuine companionship with lots of cuddling and the "human touch" that, sadly, many of us lose as our marriages mature. This is a link to one of her most recent ads: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=196208 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juice 2105 Report post Posted October 17, 2014 I've never experienced a full on bbbj, CiM or CoF. This is what I gravitate towards during my late night internet searches. I really really want to experience this. Crackerz, book Emily J or Rebecca. Or if some other girl, make it clear when texting her exactly what you want. In my experience, the vast majority will tell you right away what they are willing to do, and most follow-up unless you are not clean or have some sign of a disease (which sounds extremely unlikely in your case) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted October 18, 2014 Since you said your experience was in Pennsylvania, the situation might have been different over there, as prostitution is totally illegal over there. So the girls are in a bit more of a wary attitude over there than here. So any sort of public communication might be a no-no, just communicate when she gets to your hotel room and that's it. I would just suggest that you try one of the ladies in town instead. And as the ladies have suggested here, they are a bit more open to communications here in town than they would've been in PA. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Crackerz7 110 Report post Posted October 22, 2014 Thanks for all the comments and suggestions. I've been cruising the board, but can't really get that drive that will push me over the hump while being close to home. Going to Petawawa/Pembroke mid-november for a week. Will start research. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
