Newton 714 Report post Posted April 29, 2010 The beautiful, talented and accomplished Sandra Bullock has filed divorce from her husband Jesse James, according to People Magzine. In view of the recent travails of Tiger Woods, I wonder if the institution of marriage has adequately evolved to accomodate the modern reality. In a way, hobbists and providers alike in this community have made a conscious choice in terms of sex, love and marriage. We - at least some - have made accomodations among competing values. The question remains though, if or when our pursue is revealed, will we resort to the same lame excuse of sex addiction as Tiger did and seek out the nearest clinic for a few weeks, in order to quiet family's and public anger (if you're a public figure, that is). Be like Tiger will have a wholly new meaning. It goes without saying: the public is hypocritical on this. Something has to give at the end, in my oppinion. ... A random thought of the day ... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lowdark 5613 Report post Posted April 30, 2010 I don't have an So, but from what I understand, there are no shortage of marriages where an arrangement exists that allows leverage for extra-curricular sex, so to speak. But my personal view is that if that arrangement doesn't exist, and you claim you value the vow of faithfulness then you have no right to any sympathy. Especially if that results in the humiliation of your husband/wife in front of the entire world. From what I understand, miss Bullock thiught she was in a monogymous relationship. No one should fault her for tossing her philandering husband aside. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
