mod 135640 Report post Posted May 1, 2010 I have had to delete two threads in the past 24 hours of people using cerb to vent about things that I like to refer to as AIRING OUT YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY that is not the purpose of CERB and I must delete these posts and give out warnings for such things. For example... calling out a guy who is stalking you in hopes that he reads your thread about him on cerb (THIS WOULD NOT BE ALLOWED!). If you have a stalker CALL THE POLICE do not bring these problems (or encourage these people) to/on cerb. If it is a cerb member REPORT him/her to me and CALL the police. Posting about someone in public who is obviously unstable and harassing you will only make things worse and could encourage that person to escalate his/her attempts to harass you. If you have a TIFF with someone, keep it off cerb please. For example #2... If you work in a massage spa and as an escort on the site and you want to complain in public that guys are coming to see you in the massage spa and talking about your escorting (or looking for "extra's at the spa")... this is something you need to deal with privately not complaining on cerb about it. The point I am getting at here is cerb is NOT to be used as a place to vent, a place to call out other people or air out your dirty laundry. Some things are better dealt with in private or by the proper authorities. 11 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lipualipua 4704 Report post Posted May 1, 2010 Good points, mod. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ross64dave 100 Report post Posted August 21, 2010 makes sense Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MightyMouse 839 Report post Posted August 23, 2010 I have had to delete two threads in the past 24 hours of people using cerb to vent about things that I like to refer to as AIRING OUT YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY that is not the purpose of CERB and I must delete these posts and give out warnings for such things. For example... calling out a guy who is stalking you in hopes that he reads your thread about him on cerb (THIS WOULD NOT ALLOWED!). If you have a stalker CALL THE POLICE do not bring these problems (or encourage these people) to/on cerb. If it is a cerb member REPORT him/her to me and CALL the police. Posting about someone in public who is obviously unstable and harassing you will only make things worse and could encourage that person to escalate his/her attempts to harass you. If you have a TIFF with someone, keep it off cerb please. For example #2... If you work in a massage spa and as an escort on the site and you want to complain in public that guys are coming to see you in the massage spa and talking about your escorting (or looking for "extra's at the spa")... this is something you need to deal with privately not complaining on cerb about it. The point I am getting at here is cerb is NOT to be used as a place to vent, a place to call out other people or air out your dirty laundry. Some things are better dealt with in private or by the proper authorities. I couldn't agree with you more Mod. Keep up the fantastic work that you do!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
M*s*** 162 Report post Posted August 23, 2010 I totally agree with you on this one. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted August 23, 2010 You have to wonder sometimes MOD as to what people are thinking! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
longslowlicks 330 Report post Posted August 26, 2010 But it's ok to post on Cerb if you are standing under a vent right? It's late and I should be in bed already! :pimp: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LusciousLaceyxo 1642 Report post Posted November 14, 2010 I completely agree! Good point mod! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Soleil Sublime 38108 Report post Posted November 14, 2010 Are these people still not aware of the fact that there are other boards that allow that sort of thing? But in a world of negativity and hate, thank God for cerb! :razz: 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chanel Reign 28097 Report post Posted November 23, 2010 Are these people still not aware of the fact that there are other boards that allow that sort of thing? But in a world of negativity and hate, thank God for cerb! :razz: Couldnt agree more. There are some nasty people out there. I think I'll kepp my rose coloured glasses on and thank the stars that there is CERB and that we are all great people. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest m**l Report post Posted January 15, 2011 i think it is important to address issues when the timing and place are appropriate. this is not the place to conduct such aspects of business. i think a lot of the hobbyist members of cerb would be very turned off by the drama that can sometimes transpire "behind the scenes!" lets keep cerb fun and friendly.... UNLESS OUR SAFETY OR ANOTHER's SAFETY IS AT RISK! Additional Comments: i think it is important to address issues when the timing and place are appropriate. this is not the place to conduct such aspects of business. i think a lot of the hobbyist members of cerb would be very turned off by the drama that can sometimes transpire "behind the scenes!" lets keep cerb fun and friendly.... UNLESS OUR SAFETY OR ANOTHER's SAFETY IS AT RISK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blakelondon 100 Report post Posted January 25, 2011 I just love the atmosphere here...how refreshing... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amelia Fox 9064 Report post Posted April 5, 2011 Hey, I'm a new member to cerb and have been following your posts,I am learning quite a bit about this site from you(oblivious to your knowledge haha)... Keep posting please lol.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tristan_Bowes 115 Report post Posted April 7, 2011 I couldn't agree with you more Mod. Keep up the fantastic work that you do!! Ditto :) I've always loved CERB because it is so upbeat and non threatening. The people here make me smile and I'm glad we have a mod like you to ensure it stays that way!!! HUGZ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest K***e D****ls Report post Posted August 16, 2011 Blakelondon said it best: It's refreshing. As a provider, it's nice to not have to worry about any negative comments about you. The drama free spirit of it is such a breath of fresh air. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BABYKIM 100 Report post Posted May 16, 2012 i agree and alot of people leave negative feedbacks sometime for nothing Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kerrixoxo 33719 Report post Posted June 4, 2012 Definitely refreshing! I was referred to this site by another SP :) glad to be here! Kerri 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103697 Report post Posted June 4, 2012 Definitely refreshing! I was referred to this site by another SP :) glad to be here! Kerri I was as well and I thank her silently to myself everyday and I have done in public. Although we have yet to meet, we surely will when our schedules allow. She left Halifax but visits frequently, so we will eventually sit down and chit chat over a lovely glass of wine. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
michaelB 100 Report post Posted October 2, 2012 Yeah, discretion is KEY and these ladies want it and so do we! Go mod, thanks for the message. It is long overdue! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
darkmist43 100 Report post Posted November 1, 2012 I agree with you Mod, but if anyone has a Problem with me for any reason, i would like them to talk to me first and if it continues, then take other measures. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted November 1, 2012 I agree with you Mod, but if anyone has a Problem with me for any reason, i would like them to talk to me first and if it continues, then take other measures. For sure, that is the best resolve when possible.... not always possible. Some people (MANY PEOPLE) are not approachable and some are not stable minded and can become very "unhitched" when confronted... some even mean and aggressive and WAY over the top. Each situation is unique. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest a**4* Report post Posted November 1, 2012 I agree this we do not want here this is a great place to chat with members thanks mod Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest short2longhair Report post Posted November 15, 2012 Soooo true .. no one likes stalkers and creeps ... i have one in particular that i cant get rid of and i hate it lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted November 15, 2012 Soooo true .. no one likes stalkers and creeps ... i have one in particular that i cant get rid of and i hate it lol Yep. I'm sure many can relate. Welcome to Cerb Short2longhair! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Angiexox 261 Report post Posted November 21, 2012 I completly agree Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
