what if all you need is a little company?

[frank777 100]

Hello,

 

I have a strange question to ask you guys. My situation is complicated at the moment and I feel like I need some company, cuddling and perhaps someone to listen to me and I was wondering, would it be weird to ask a SP to be doing that for me? Even if I have never met that SP before? I find that it would be easier, because I think I wouldn't be judged.

 

Thanks for the answers.

[mod 135639]

Hi Frank. With most of the ladies you pay for the time (not the service and the "adult fun" is really just part of the deal if you want it) but depending on your city for instance this request may sound suspicious if you specifically ask for no-sex.

 

For instance in cities like Winnipeg and Calgary they have "Escort" licenses (This is not a prostitution license in any way - just a license to be a person who offers a paid date service) anyone in these cities marketing themselves as a "Escort" must pay for these licenses but technically a actual "Prostitute" is legal and they can not license for prostitution.

 

Technically if they call themselves a "Call girl" or anything like that (Even prostitute) and do not agree to go on NON-Sexual dates the cities can not really charge them under the municipal license (and if they do the ladies can beat the charges easily - the by-law enforcers could try to trick the lady into doing a non-sexual date and that would be considered a breach in the by-law if they did not have a escorting license so the ladies may see this as a sting operation to charge them under this by-law).

 

So... if you ask for a non-sex date you may put up the RED FLAGS and if you get to the call and say you don't want sex you may put up the FLAGS as well.

 

I find it odd that you would want to pay for a escort to just sit and talk but I have heard of guys who do this... in fact when I use to manage adult clubs we did have 2 or 3 customers over the years that would pay for the ladies time just to sit and chat with them as they were lonely and just enjoyed the idle chat with the ladies... nothing really wrong with that but some of the ladies found this harder than actually dancing for the same money.

 

One thing I should mention is if you do find a lady who is willing to have a NON-SEXUAL date with you... be prepared to pay the same rates (Do not expect or ask for a discounted rate) the base rates the ladies charge is for TIME not for services. It would be rude to ask for a lower rate (In fact, it sounds like you need a little above and beyond attention so maybe you should bring enough for a good tip as well and don't expect that just any of the ladies would accommodate this request - it may take some looking around)

[Old Dog 179138]

That is an interesting question, probably best answered by the ladies....

 

From the thread, "conversation during appointments" I know a lot of our fairer friends love to talk.... and we have heard of wonderful tales of compassion.

 

So what about it... for the same price would you be a compassionate companion, willing to just cuddle and talk?

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

I considerate it part of my work...a good listener is someone we all need at times.

[Annessa 22743]

I'd say if you are looking for cuddling etc that you should be prepared to pay the same rate.

 

I have a social fee as a few gals do for social outings (sitting for coffee , dinner etc) but there is no hand-holding, no touching and no caressing...and generally it is a fee that is charged to someone we have met prior for a date that doesnt happen between closed doors.

 

If you are looking for someone to hold you and comfort you, you will both have the best experience if you are willing to pay the full fee for a shoulder to lean on...and you will definitely have a genuine ear listening if she feels she isnt charging you less.

[Andee 220524]

I would gladly entertain a gentleman who would love to talk and cuddle.

 

Believe it or not, that type of request, although not common, is not unheard of. I have offered that service before and built some good relationships with clients as a result of it.

 

No one here is going to judge you for wanting to do that.

[Guest s******ecan****]

My situation is complicated at the moment .

 

 

I suppose it also might depend on what you mean by "complicated". Its a bit of a loaded statement.

[rileydaniels 1901]

Hello,

 

I have a strange question to ask you guys. My situation is complicated at the moment and I feel like I need some company, cuddling and perhaps someone to listen to me and I was wondering, would it be weird to ask a SP to be doing that for me? Even if I have never met that SP before? I find that it would be easier, because I think I wouldn't be judged.

 

Thanks for the answers.

 

I have had a client who only wanted a hug for a half hour. which was fine by me, by the end of the 2 hours. I left feeling like I gave him what he wanted even if he didn't want intercourse.

 

Its completely up to you and the SP your visit to decide on what you 2 do together in the time your paying for.

[E.D. man 691]

Well dates like that cuddling and hugging , can just make someone feel better and listening to each other can be cool. I have done this both with escorts and dancers.

My most memborable dance club moment, was when I hugged and cuddled with a dancer for 2 hours and she only charged me $100, but I have to say I massaged her neck shoulders legs and feet also.

We went on 2 dates after that for a chinese food buffet and fed some ducks in the park and the other to Red Lobstrer.

So yes cuddling and hugging can be enjoyable.

[frank777 100]

Thanks for the honest answers guys. I didn't expect to get a special fee nor did I ask this question to find that out. I was simply asking wether it was possible or not, and perhaps if SP found it acceptable or just simply pathetic. I would glady pay her, her normal fee, in fact more.

 

Also thank you MOD for your reply.

 

Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.