Communications under C-36

[The General 11309]

So, I have now limited myself to just asking about rates, nothing else, seems to be the safest route.

 

Can we just ask about rates, and still be okay?

 

I figure that will mean less screening, and greater chance of disappointments.

 

What does everyone think?

 

Perhaps over time, things will normalize, but am more inclined to stick with knowns, regardless of a love of variety. Such maybe life. :-(

[Andee 220524]

I'm no lawyer, but if you are responding to massage or companionship only ads/websites where nothing explicit is mentioned, then I think that would be fine.

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Gentlemen, as I know you are!

 

Yes, simply as for rates for time.

then look at websites ( as I am sure any serious lady will have one! )

then google their number, see what is up,

look for reco's

where are they hosting?

be smart, don't fall prey to those who have no rep, no ladies to vouch, barely legal, and use your instincts!

[WealthyCowboy 5281]

I think you and Lady Sophia are on the right track: you could simply ask what the rate is for an hour of their time. How you spend that time will be up to you.

 

Perhaps you'll play scrabble over a cup of tea.

[fortunateone 156618]

I think you and Lady Sophia are on the right track: you could simply ask what the rate is for an hour of their time. How you spend that time will be up to you.

 

Perhaps you'll play scrabble over a cup of tea.

 

 

I dislike tea and scrabble, but a rousing game of rummy and a latte, and I'm in!

[Ice4fun 78407]

Me... I am particularly fond of backgammon... I love the fact that the game is flexible enough to allow you to surprise a lady player.. and come from behind and win in the end ... yep I am competitive like that.

 

Just my Opinion

 

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[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

As long as you are not asking for certain things which is illegal, you are simply paying for time and companionship. There are a lot of people out there who still have NO IDEA this law is in effect. They are definitely playing with fire. And even after I have explained it to some who I don't even know, their arrogance is overwhelming and they simply don't care. They want to continue their "old ways" of communicating, go ahead but they're not going to approach me that way on my watch. I simply don't respond.

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

I dislike tea and scrabble, but a rousing game of rummy and a latte, and I'm in!

Although I love tea and enjoy scrabble, I'm in for a good game of rummy and a tall latte- with some Bailey's in it :)

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

I love twister and beer.

[WealthyCowboy 5281]

Would naked twister offend the Law That Must Not be Named?

[Ice4fun 78407]

Naked Twister should be fine as long as neither player is having twisted sex that they are paid for.

 

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[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

That's why they wanted to tell me to take my clothes off. I suspect I would enjoy it MUCH better naked.

 

Naked twister sounds much better.

[WealthyCowboy 5281]

Yes, I second the motion. Meaghan should get undressed. :icon_wink:

[waterat 20911]

Peter MacKay playing naked twister with Belinda Stronach, Condoleeza Rice and Jana Juginovic. Stephen Harper should feature this picture on his Christmas Cards!

[Satai 1933]

That's why they wanted to tell me to take my clothes off. I suspect I would enjoy it MUCH better naked.

 

Naked twister sounds much better.

 

Co-ed naked olive-oil Twister. The extra-virgin olive oil would just ruin any clothing the players would wear.

[FunAdventures 4501]

...

then look at websites ( as I am sure any serious lady will have one! )

then google their number, see what is up, ...

 

I just want to point out that this might not be entirely accurate. I will never have a website. Or post my number anywhere. (Personal reasons) And just because a person does, it doesn't mean they are any more serious than someone who doesn't.

 

As someone who is new, I don't think it would have mattered if I had made a website. Until you get that first recommendation, you are a risk to see regardless of wether or not you have a website. A new girl with a new website does not make her more reputable than a new girl without a website (in my opinion).

 

Don't get me wrong though. Websites are great. I just don't think they make a person more legit. Anyone can make a website.

 

And without those risk takers out there, a new girl has no chance in this industry. So I thank those of you that took a risk on me! I say trust your gut, and if it's someone new, be careful, but don't shun her out of the game.... speaking of games... did some one mention naked oily twister?! What a blast that would be!

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

I just want to point out that this might not be entirely accurate. I will never have a website. Or post my number anywhere. (Personal reasons) And just because a person does, it doesn't mean they are any more serious than someone who doesn't.

 

As someone who is new, I don't think it would have mattered if I had made a website. Until you get that first recommendation, you are a risk to see regardless of wether or not you have a website. A new girl with a new website does not make her more reputable than a new girl without a website (in my opinion).

 

Don't get me wrong though. Websites are great. I just don't think they make a person more legit. Anyone can make a website.

 

And without those risk takers out there, a new girl has no chance in this industry. So I thank those of you that took a risk on me! I say trust your gut, and if it's someone new, be careful, but don't shun her out of the game.... speaking of games... did some one mention naked oily twister?! What a blast that would be!

 

I was more or less saying, chances are that LE would never go threw the bother of setting up a web site.

Of course, not all ladies will have one or needs one, especially if you are already established as a business women. Obviously having a profile here certainly helps too!

But for a new name that no one has seen before, but have a website, then it may provide some comfort if you are wanting to make contact.

I get ya tho:)

[roamingguy 300292]

No recommendations doesn't necessarily mean the lady isn't a reputable companion. One lady I saw asked me specifically not to write any recommendations, she had personal reasons for not wanting them. So my first four encounters (going by memory here) with her I couldn't write a recommendation. My fifth and sixth encounter, I wrote recommendations for her...with her permission. So a lady with no recommendation may not have them because she does not want them

Another lady had no recommendations in the cities I saw her (although very well known and respected) But I'm very happy to say she has a recommendation thread started in those cities we have met in after we had our encounters. Much deserved recommendation threads I might add.

As for no websites, one lady (she has a website now) when we met didn't have a website, but she has a recommendation thread pages long...all recommendations deserved btw.

And I can think off the top of my head two ladies who have websites and/or recommendations and were ladies I could not/would not ever recommend

My point is no recommendations and no website don't necessarily mean that lady is someone to avoid

My opinion only, the best tool to gauge if a lady is someone I'd like to meet is a board presence on Lyla. And not just advertising. Take part in discussions going on (gawd there are tons of forums here) Even those in a lighter vein, be it jokes, movies, music. That for me has worked best. Because after a lady has piqued my interest on Lyla, then I might look at her website, profile, and recommendations. Again my opinion only

Anyhow a rambling

 

RG

[Ice4fun 78407]

I just want to point out that this might not be entirely accurate. I will never have a website. Or post my number anywhere. (Personal reasons) And just because a person does, it doesn't mean they are any more serious than someone who doesn't.

 

As someone who is new, I don't think it would have mattered if I had made a website. Until you get that first recommendation, you are a risk to see regardless of wether or not you have a website. A new girl with a new website does not make her more reputable than a new girl without a website (in my opinion).

 

Don't get me wrong though. Websites are great. I just don't think they make a person more legit. Anyone can make a website.

 

And without those risk takers out there, a new girl has no chance in this industry. So I thank those of you that took a risk on me! I say trust your gut, and if it's someone new, be careful, but don't shun her out of the game.... speaking of games... did some one mention naked oily twister?! What a blast that would be!

 

I agree 100% that the presence of a website is not a determinant of the legitimacy of a lady in fact I have met ladies who have websites and ladies who don't and are were very legit and professional.

 

That said I do think it is fair to say that many men clients will assume rightly or wrongly that the presence of a website is an indicator of a ladies reliability especially if the site is well done with professional pictures. So in a world of greater risk for clients the pressure for an online presence will likely grow.

 

Just my Opinion

 

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[the naked highlander 130]

that is some good advice thank you...

[WealthyCowboy 5281]

I prefer it when a lady's profile is feature on a website, but it is not a prerequisite and doesn't in any way affect her credibility or how amazing she can be. It just helps get a sense of who she is. I suppose a cerb profile can do the same.

 

I think Lady Sophia is right that the perception is that LE will not put the effort in creating a fake website, but we never know for sure.

 

Now back to this naked twister: how many players can we have at once?

[roamingguy 300292]

Forget the naked twister, I would much prefer to go skydiving ;-)

And I think in 2015 I'm going to have to renew my vows ;-)

 

RG

[Layah 7013]

So, I have now limited myself to just asking about rates, nothing else, seems to be the safest route.

 

Can we just ask about rates, and still be okay?

 

I figure that will mean less screening, and greater chance of disappointments.

 

What does everyone think?

 

Perhaps over time, things will normalize, but am more inclined to stick with knowns, regardless of a love of variety. Such maybe life. :-(

 

My understanding on the matter is that it's legal for a gentleman to offer a lady monetary compensation for her time. As long as you are not asking rates for "prostitution related services" no laws are being broken.

 

Please let me know if I'm wrong.

[Guest N***he**Ont**y]

I will be up to having a rousing game of Strip Scrabble with my date while we have take out ordered.

[mod 135640]

My understanding on the matter is that it's legal for a gentleman to offer a lady monetary compensation for her time. As long as you are not asking rates for "prostitution related services" no laws are being broken.

 

Please let me know if I'm wrong.

 

The issue is not only if the guy asks for sexual services.... it is also if the lady OFFERS a sexual service and the guy agree's. It is legal to hire a "Escort" (someone who is paid to spend time with) it could be a escort to a social event, a escort to a high school reunion, a dinner date, or just someone to cuddle up and watch a movie with... it is also as far as I know legal to offer private exotic dance, stag dancers, private lingeria shows etc...