Cougar vs MILF

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

I for one, was never offended by the use of the word "cougar" to describe an attractive older woman. I realize that after awhile, it denoted a 40+ lady chasing a 25- man. Originally, I think it was used to describe sexy, sassy, Sex in the City type ladies. Then MILF became the term...but mother I'd like to ....does not accurately describe the ladies that the term is used for....

I say bring back the Cougar as it was originally intended. A beautiful woman, of a certain age, who looks after herself, takes pride in her appearence and is un-questionably sexy!!! Not all 40+ sexy ladies are seeking the attentions of younger men!

Mature ladies of Canada; unite and fight for our right to be awesomly ravishing!

(I completely apologize for any spelling and gramatical errors that may have occured during this, my recent rant!)

[Old Dog 179138]

I love our CERB cougars!!!!! (you know if I was allowed to call it KERB, it would be a perfect alliteration, but I digress!)

 

My kids tend to call me a Mougar (man cougar)... and that sounds soooo much better than an old lecher or a cradle robber.

[HarveySpecter 1908]

As far as i know, Cougar was a term that you would hear among women and their friends of relatively the same 40+ age and all of a sudden became socially and pretty much culturally acceptable mainstream.

 

Where as MILF must have been derived from porn themes as female porn actresses grew older (or in some cases have done a whole lot of scene in just a short period of tiime) and have become very familair or just have that aged look about them.

 

MILF is a throwaway in terms of what it should mean. That is not any woman that looks aged or 40+ should be called that by a man. Since the M stands for Mother, it should generally mean a woman who has atleast had a child regardless of age.

 

Where as Cougar should be a woman, whether or not she has had a child, is dating someone young enough to be her child or looks young enough.

 

So cougar should be the more fancier/general term eventhough it does sound more matriarch.

[Mutau 2516]

Personally the use of either term does not mean anything pejorative or demeaning. It simply denotes a woman of a certain age who is not afraid of her sexuality. ;-) I prefer to use the term cougar.

[PistolPete 61421]

The term of Cougar is just fine with me, but what should I call the lady when she is still younger then me? :confused:

 

Yes I know... "Lady"

[Jabba 18389]

Cartoon version:

Cougar:

A Cougar is a 40+ stiletto favouring, leopard print spandex wearing hormonally spiked she-thing that wants to screw your balls out through your nose if you're unfortunate enough to be male, and just out of high-school. A Cougar can also describe scary spider grandmas like Madonna and soon to be Trailerpark trash Psycho-Coug: Britanny Spears. Definitely have their role in modern society. They set a prime example for the youthful girls who just can't hope to compete with the Cougar`s keenly refined preditory instinct.

 

MILF:

A MILF is your neighbour's high heel, tight skirt wearing wife (and mother of your best friend) who is coincidently home alone during the same day that you've called in sick to work. She happens to be outside at the same time you are and innocently asks you if you could take out some HEAVY several somethings from the garage to the curb. When you're finished and you're sweating and wiping your brow, she thoughtfully brings out a cold glass of lemonade. You clear your forehead with the cold glass and take several large gulps. Adams apple moving up and down with each swallow. You flash a brilliant smile when you hand the glass back to her manicured fingers. She smiles alluringly in return, tilts her head and asks coyly if you would like to take a nice cooling shower. She has some fresh towels set out too. "Oh dear," she says, one of the packages you moved left a stain on your shirt. "Let me wash that out for you.." she says. You obligingly follow her into the house. I personally don't know any (damn!).

[Guest S***e]

I hear you Pete...what about us "dirty old men?" I could never regard Meg as a MILF and frankly I don't much care for the term so I don't use it. Every lady on CERB is my junior and as such I continue to regard them as just that, ladies (with healthy appetites).

 

The term of Cougar is just fine with me, but what should I call the lady when she is still younger then me? :confused:

 

Yes I know... "Lady"

[omehgosh 736]

I think "MILF" started as something a male teenager might say in regards to another teenager's mother - maybe even only to another male teenager specifically.

 

I think with kids being kids "MILF" isn't necessarily a bad thing really... well, okay, it's pretty rude when you think about it, but you know what I mean, between teenage buddies it's quite funny - they're chemically imbalanced, totally hormonal, nearly psycho, teenage males - that's how they're supposed to behave...

 

I personally don't think it's really that appropriate for older men to use the term. I know it's become mainstream and we use it without thinking about it, but it's really not a nice way to refer to a woman. It's pretty crude, and it doesn't even really make sense coming out of the mouth of anyone over 18 years old.

 

Not that I really think much of it when I hear "MILF" used, I know it's not likely meant in a hurtful way, but I prefer "cougar" too.

 

When I was a teenager I would have preferred a MILF, but as an adult cougars are much hotter.

 

I'm way the other side of twenty-five now though, so even cougar doesn't really work for me... I'd much rather a really hot mature lady that finds someone my age attractive. After all, the most beautiful women in the world don't even start to happen until after 30! :cooter: :motion: :jackoff:

[Guest s******ecan****]

The title of this thread sounds like a great title for a Porn Flick. Meg you should write up a quick screenplay and submit it before someone else does!;)

[Leber 1328]

I totally agree. MILF is disrespectful and everyone should avoid using it.

[Carrie Moon 68826]

How is MILF disrespectful? I totallly disagree having done a bunch of MILF porn. The word MILF was popularized by American Pie... Stiffler's Mom.

 

I dislike cougar.. why??? because cougar became popularized by older women prowling the bars looking for younger prey! Gross in my opinion.. and similar to old men prowling for younger women in bars..

 

MILF however means my best friends mom I want to fuck! Younger guys fantasizing about the woman they'll likely never get.. it's the Mrs Robinson fantasy!

 

A man of my same age is not seeing a MILF.. he's seeing a woman his age. However a guy 20 years younger than myself is seeing a MILF and usually role-playing.

 

I don't ever chase guys who are 20 years younger than myself.. they chase me.. and only for paid services. I'm not generally interested in someone that much younger than me other than as a client who I'm happy to initiate.

 

Nothing taken personally meg.. I love you.. just a completely different view on the words. I am proud to be Canada's top MILF porn star!!!

[Kate von Katz 49953]

I side with Carrie on this one. I don't believe a word - or an acronym - is inherently bad. How it's used makes the difference. There are countless examples of good words being misused to convey a more derogatory or disdainful attitude.

[E.D. man 691]

How about a Puma a woman in her 60's who chases men 20 to 25yrs younger than them!

[Carrie Moon 68826]

yup.. I have a friend who is a Puma. she's 68.. doesn't go after 20 yr olds but 30-40 yr olds. She's an escort in Toronto but also dates guys that much younger.

 

Another friend of mine calls herself a MILF/GILF. I'm not quite ready to go there yet.. GILF I mean. Anyone calls me granny get's their bum slapped!

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

what should I call the lady when she is still younger then me? :confused:

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How about Kitten?

[Leber 1328]

I had no idea what GILF was. That is until now. Thanks Carrie.

 

Perhaps for some of us, we can go with "mature" if we're not comfortable with MILF.

[Carrie Moon 68826]

There's even DILF porn. Dad I'd like to Fuck..

 

The thing that bugs me.. is they use girls who are in their 20's for milf porn sometimes.. just to get that name on their site/DVD.. stupid. It's not about having had a child.. oooo yahh,.... stretch marks.. that womb had a birth.. oh yah!

 

It's about having a mature woman seduce you... way out of the norm. Even a step-mom. It's about the tabu nature of it all.. having a crush on your teacher/boss/friend's mom.. or mom's best friend. Aunt etc..

[Old Dog 179138]

I was thinking... and I know that it is dangerous....

 

Would you call a golden age cougar a "Gynosaur"?

 

I guess they would have re-emerged into the fray because of the 82 year old man now known as the "Viagraraptor."

 

Oh yeah... both are original thoughts... feel free to use....

[Andee 220524]

I don't like using the term "MILF" to describe myself because I never had kids. So Cougar suits me fine. After all, we don't come with an expiry date, do we?

[badbboy80 100]

I agree...MILF is rude while the word cougar is well... acceptable. I once got referred to as a GILF where the G stands for Guy..LOL

[Carrie Moon 68826]

MILF is not rude! Haven't we already covered that??? If I like to call myself a MILF and am proud of it.. how's it rude?

 

Certainly people can say which they prefer.. but I'm getting offended that people think what I choose to call myself is rude.

 

btw.. GILF means Grandmother I'd like to Fuck.. so whoever called you that is misinformed.. dilf.. is dude or more appropriately Dad I'd like to fuck..

[Old Dog 179138]

MILF is not rude! Haven't we already covered that??? If I like to call myself a MILF and am proud of it.. how's it rude?

 

Certainly people can say which they prefer.. but I'm getting offended that people think what I choose to call myself is rude.

 

btw.. GILF means Grandmother I'd like to Fuck.. so whoever called you that is misinformed.. dilf.. is dude or more appropriately Dad I'd like to fuck..

 

 

So my Gynosaur already has a name and its GILF?

[Guest S**a*Q]

What's the step before a cougar...?

 

My friends make fun of me cause I'm older than them, I'm 32, and they call me a cougar...I say I'm a step down from there... What is that?

 

Cougar-in-training???

 

Help me out here!

Lol

[Old Dog 179138]

What's the step before a cougar...?

 

My friends make fun of me cause I'm older than them, I'm 32, and they call me a cougar...I say I'm a step down from there... What is that?

 

Cougar-in-training???

 

Help me out here!

Lol

 

Sara... I believe you are simply "prime time"... no need for a label!

[Carrie Moon 68826]

Sara.. that actually came into a conversation today.. I was with Annessa and ''a Lion" in a 3-some..and myself.. a ''cougar'' (for the sake of the joke).. we called her a kitten. Both she and I purred.

 

I think both terms are fantastic when used in the right setting.. rawr!!!