Ladies asking for deposits before first date

[Guest h****ur******le]

I have stumbled upon some hot lady on BP (I won't name any names here) and texted her for an appointment. She said I'm a new customer and requires a deposit. She has pictures with her face in it. I can't find anything on TER. I feel that may or may not be a little sketchy.

 

Are they legit or like those prepaid credit card scams?

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[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

I have stumbled upon some hot lady on BP (I won't name any names here) and texted her for an appointment. She said I'm a new customer and requires a deposit. She has pictures with her face in it. I can't find anything on TER. I feel that may or may not be a little sketchy.

 

Are they legit or like those prepaid credit card scams?

There is a possibility it's a scam like there's also a possibility it's not ;)

 

I personally require a deposit before a first-time rendez-vous under specific circumstances and I'm definitely not a scam operation ;)

 

If you want to find out if the lady you are interested in spending time with is legit, you could start by visiting this useful thread.

 

Good luck!

[Andee 220524]

When dealing with ladies who require a deposit, it just makes sense to stick to established ladies who have a favourable reputation on boards such as this one. A new lady who has no rep and requires a deposit (especially a credit card), really should not expect someone to take her seriously even if she is legit.

 

Do your homework and use your big noggin' and you'll be fine. I think Gabriella's suggestion to start with the thread she suggested is a good place to start.

 

Asking for a deposit is not usually the norm for most ladies unless they are pre-booking dates when touring or other circumstances. And even then, the ones I know of who do that, have immaculate reputations and reviews.

[Guest D***el B***e]

With all due respect Gabriella, you are well liked here and you are well known as well, but the big thing is you don't advertise on BP ... I would be very suspicious of anyone wanting a deposit AND advertising on BP. I have prepaid for visits in the past when I know it's safe to do so, but on BP? ... NOT for me thank you.

 

 

 

There is a possibility it's a scam like there's also a possibility it's not ;)

 

I personally require a deposit before a first-time rendez-vous under specific circumstances and I'm definitely not a scam operation ;)

 

If you want to find out if the lady you are interested in spending time with is legit, you could start by visiting this useful thread.

 

Good luck!

[fortunateone 156618]

With all due respect Gabriella, you are well liked here and you are well known as well, but the big thing is you don't advertise on BP ... I would be very suspicious of anyone wanting a deposit AND advertising on BP. I have prepaid for visits in the past when I know it's safe to do so, but on BP? ... NOT for me thank you.

 

 

Lots of reputable escorts use bp. Some use all the advertising at their disposal because they are professionals and market themselves as such. It only means their ads will reflect their level of marketing, and that they aren't willing to shoot themselves in the foot on the offchance that some people who 'never' use the advertising site might think poorly of them for using it.

 

In other words, smart marketing means utilizing all advertising at their disposal, and continue with it because it gets results. Just because the OP saw an ad there, doesn't make the escort sketchy. An escort is either sketchy or reputable, but it has nothing to do with where their ads are.

 

 

Escorts without websites will rarely be requesting deposits, and that would be the key thing that one would look for when deciding if a deposit request is legit or not legit, imo.

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

With all due respect Gabriella, you are well liked here and you are well known as well, but the big thing is you don't advertise on BP ... I would be very suspicious of anyone wanting a deposit AND advertising on BP. I have prepaid for visits in the past when I know it's safe to do so, but on BP? ... NOT for me thank you.

Thanks for the kind words, Daniel.

 

I actually use BP from time to time when I travel to small cities where advertising venues are limited and BP is the most effective way to reach out to clients. For larger cities like Montreal, Toronto and Ottawa, I have no use for BP because my other advertising choices bring me the results I am looking for. If I was looking to generate more business, BP might be a venue I would consider... and I would still be the same person, the same companion who runs a legit and honest business ;)

 

In other words, smart marketing means utilizing all advertising at their disposal, and continue with it because it gets results. Just because the OP saw an ad there, doesn't make the escort sketchy. An escort is either sketchy or reputable, but it has nothing to do with where their ads are.

Well said!

 

Escorts without websites will rarely be requesting deposits, and that would be the key thing that one would look for when deciding if a deposit request is legit or not legit, imo.

I disagree with this because there are plenty of websites out there that are full of B&S pictures and run scams so having a website doesn't make them more legit.

 

Doing research on the lady is the smartest thing a gentleman can do before a first-time get together.