Laidies just a reminder

[bucken 1479]

So, I guess the bottom line is, if you are aware of the audience and have the confidence that it is okay, texting is fine... at least for some!

 

Gotta agree with OD here. As well, it can be a bit flattering to have an SP ask if it is okay to keep your number. Has only happened to me with one special lady, but it boosts the ego a little bit, if you know what I mean. ;)

[Andee 220524]

Sounds like there should be a course taken in order to enter this business. I'll teach it... I have a PhD in escorting.:mrgreen:

 

You crack me up! We'll start a school for wayward escorts - I can handle the admin. details and you can be the Head Mistress.

[etasman2000 15994]

Its really all about prior arrangements.

 

I have asked some visiting SP to please let me know they are thinking of visiting OT to allow me time to pre-plan. Usually I am informed via PM or email and I am very happy to hear from them.

 

I can see the same request made to a SP who seldom provide incall as in Annessa's case.

 

Further more friendships do develop. A genuine friendly contact should be taken at face value. It is unfair lumping every contact as merely a business transaction.

[Old Dog 179138]

Further more friendships do develop. A genuine friendly contact should be taken at face value. It is unfair lumping every contact as merely a business transaction.

 

Etasman... that is exactly what I wanted to say, except you said it more eloquently. Damn you!!!!! heheheheheheheh :)

[Andee 220524]

Now there is a caveat here... my situation allows me to be texted, emailed, phoned or messaged.

 

So caveat is basically saying you are giving permission to be contacted.

 

Contacting someone to say, hi or to catch up is one thing. But to ask, do you want to see me is another thing.

[PistolPete 61421]

I have been known to flirt through text to a particular SP. Her and I hit it off, and are good friends. We both enjoy the fact we can say"Hello how are you..etc..etc..etc" and then I get so turned ON BY HER, I book her for an appointment:69:, ...I know my bad:oops: Some days I just can't help myself!

 

 

But, I always have had initiated first contact.:mrgreen:

 

Additional Comments:

Sounds like there should be a course taken in order to enter this business. I'll teach it... I have a PhD in escorting.:mrgreen:

 

Hey teach!

 

Can I play as your student, I do play nice, and will spank your bum if you ask me nicely:butt:

[Old Dog 179138]

So caveat is basically saying you are giving permission to be contacted.

 

Contacting someone to say, hi or to catch up is one thing. But to ask, do you want to see me is another thing.

 

 

Yes ma'am... permission is implicit in my case unless otherwise stated.

 

There is an old business adage, "Out of sight, out of mind." An innocent text may serve several purposes. She may indeed be contacting me wanting genuinely to find out how I am or what my plans are for the summer BUT in a far more subtle way she is saying, "remember me."

 

On one level she is expressing innocent concerns and the stuff of friendship, but subliminally she is reminding me of the wonderful times we shared.

 

Either way, I appreciate the contact. I can tell you that I have had far more graphic and awkward texts from ex GFs than I have ever had from an SP.

[Carrie Moon 68826]

I think the lines might be blurred with some people because of a major connection and a burgeoning friendship.. no problem until it becomes a problem.. ie. one of the parties falls hard (vero's case) or an S.O. finds out..

 

In cheektocheek's case it sounds like there was no major connection or agreement to be contacted out of the blue.. not a "cold call" as they had met but neither an agreement as many clients have told me in say toronto where I occasionally visit to text them if I come back there.

 

He was surprised! and offended I'm sure.. and rightfully so.

 

Perhaps there needs to be a Client only section to blacklist such girls? I'm sure he's not the only one this particular sp has contacted.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

Same thing happened to me once, after that I never wanted anything to do with her again.

 

And she's doing it to other people too...{the lady your talking about}

[Ashley Ann 75247]

Apparently this sort of thing does occur from time to time, I have met with a gentlemen from here a few times and each time he has indicated to me that some ladies he has met with PM him quite a bit to ask when if he wants an appointment ...:-?

 

I would NEVER do that!!!! Even when someone leaves me a voicemail on my cell, I will only return their call if it was within the last hour, OR they leave a detailed message with particular instructions that they ALWAYS have access to their phone & to call them back whenever I get the message, but those message are rare....

 

You just never, ever know what can occur when calling someones phone, the S.O/ co workers/ family could be close by, right beside, or even worse, have the phone on them:ablow:!!!!

 

I think most hobbiests enjoy the fact the can call and/or pm a lady, set something up, have a good time, with NO strings attached, and thats it!!!! :motion:

 

THAT has to be a MAJOR turn off :handjob: for you men whenever an sp behaves in that sort of super tacky manner..A BIG part of this game we like to play includes the pursuit of men approaching us, NOT the other way around

[sexy bbw vero 425]

A BIG part of this game we like to play includes the pursuit of men approaching us, NOT the other way around

 

That's exactly what I think ...

I got some request too to text or pm some clients when I was touring ... and I have to admit that I just start feeling more confortable to pm someone when I do ...

 

When I started 3 years ago, I had to compose with lot of guy "in love" with me ... and sometimes they were thinking that it was my case too ... only because I was really enjoying myself during our meet lolll ... So I never ever be the one who contact first even if the people was asking me to do it ... just to don't give them any impression of "I want something else than the sp/client relation we have" .

 

 

Additional Comments:

And she's doing it to other people too...{the lady your talking about}

 

bad girl ... you make me curious now!!! lolll

[Andee 220524]

More on the tacky side, an SP who has been suspended from CERB contacted me via e-mail asking me if I could pm her old clients and provide them with her e-mail address. I believe she tried this with a couple of other ladies who would not.

 

I of course said no, and then when she had to explain to her why, because she just didn't "get it". Besides, even if I agreed to, (which I never would because I figure those clients would still have her number and could call her if they wanted to still see her), I would be putting my reputation at risk here on CERB and could get suspended as well for bugging these clients.

 

 

I have made my fair share of mistakes doing this business, but what we're talking about here is just common sense.

[FineWineDiva 7343]

I think we should get the same respect when ,

When out in public ..

At the Grocery store Restaurant , where ever .

Wait till the next time you see us in private .

To say hello ,

Because you never know who we're with (parents, neighbors etc. )

 

[jg24 3708]

Vero so its clear yes it was not you

 

I would say that if you have seen someone maybe on regular basis and text simply saying Hi is kool I would think if we have had a good time and have a trust to keep it low keyed to the Hi how are you can be easily explained to someone if they saw SO coworker or friend

 

A simple text back saying cant talk at moment she would understand. I have met an SP on the street we parked behind each other we exchanged hello's and talked for a bit as we were both alone

 

This lady who sent text simply said in the text

 

Hi you came seen me before do you want to drop by I have some openings today and see me for some fun. I didnt even know who it was at first and simply text back saying who is this her response was it's XXXX from Cerb you came over to my house for little fun

 

This is hard to explain

[Guest s******ecan****]

I think the SP really has an obligation to treat communication as an issue that requires client consent. As some members have pointed out they enjoy this type of contact, others have pretty strong feelings in the opposite direction.

 

I think it should go something like this, a client must give consent to future communication initiated by the SP, if by email all SP's should really ensure their websites have the capability to have an email newsletter with the option for the client to unsubscribe at any future time.

 

I can't imagine too many cases where an SP and client would be chatting regularly by phone (though I'm sure exceptions exist) though this would obviously be by mutual agreement.

 

Same for texting, at some point the client must consent before the SP starts texting.

 

It benefits the SP greatly to operate in this matter because it is more effecient and professional. SP's who send unsolicited texts or emails are not only probably wasting time better spent on other aspects of their business, they are also potentially losing clients, and thus revenue, as well as damaging their reputation which could ultimately put their entire practice at risk.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

SP's who send unsolicited texts or emails are not only probably wasting time better spent on other aspects of their business, they are also potentially losing clients, and thus revenue, as well as damaging their reputation which could ultimately put their entire practice at risk.

It seems there are mixed opinions on the email thing. I occasionally email a client I've seen within 1-3 days of meeting to thank them for coming by and let them know that I enjoyed their company. I guess this is unsolicited, but it has always been appreciated (to my knowledge).

[jg24 3708]

Megan to me this is not the same as I would say we all have emails that are not accesible to others I have done this as well by PM and by email thanking the lady for our time together

 

 

 

 

It seems there are mixed opinions on the email thing. I occasionally email a client I've seen within 1-3 days of meeting to thank them for coming by and let them know that I enjoyed their company. I guess this is unsolicited' date=' but it has always been appreciated (to my knowledge).[/quote']

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

Megan to me this is not the same as I would say we all have emails that are not accesible to others I have done this as well by PM and by email thanking the lady for our time together

That's my feeling too.

[etasman2000 15994]

I would loathe it if you stopped doing this. It is so rare these days to have someone write a thank you note or follow up after a meeting. Just shows you are a cut above the rest. :motion:

 

It seems there are mixed opinions on the email thing. I occasionally email a client I've seen within 1-3 days of meeting to thank them for coming by and let them know that I enjoyed their company. I guess this is unsolicited' date=' but it has always been appreciated (to my knowledge).[/quote']

[jasperzp 132]

Have to agree that email and text are two different things. I'd have no issue with receiving an unsolicited email from a SP. My reaction would be completely different to a text however.

[Guest s******ecan****]

It seems there are mixed opinions on the email thing. I occasionally email a client I've seen within 1-3 days of meeting to thank them for coming by and let them know that I enjoyed their company. I guess this is unsolicited' date=' but it has always been appreciated (to my knowledge).[/quote']

 

 

Actually this would be fine and is an excellent practice, and so long as you have client permission to keep in touch by email it wouldn't be considered unsolicited (in the way that term has generally come to be understood in a marketing sense).

 

Obtaining client consent doesen't have to be onerous or complicated, it could easily be integrated into your initial client meeting ie (do you mind if I put you on my email newsletter? You can unsubscibe at anytime).

[sexy bbw vero 425]

Vero so its clear yes it was not you

 

I would say that if you have seen someone maybe on regular basis and text simply saying Hi is kool I would think if we have had a good time and have a trust to keep it low keyed to the Hi how are you can be easily explained to someone if they saw SO coworker or friend

 

A simple text back saying cant talk at moment she would understand. I have met an SP on the street we parked behind each other we exchanged hello's and talked for a bit as we were both alone

 

This lady who sent text simply said in the text

 

Hi you came seen me before do you want to drop by I have some openings today and see me for some fun. I didnt even know who it was at first and simply text back saying who is this her response was it's XXXX from Cerb you came over to my house for little fun

 

This is hard to explain

 

Ouffff!

Well, She's not professionnal at all ... and as you said : really desesperated! :shock:

[PistolPete 61421]

Just spent an hour or ninety minutes with or in fact much more time with is greatly appreciated when she sends a pm or email thanking you for your company.

 

A thank-you certainly goes a long way in today's society and in public is never done enough. When it comes from a special lady, it means a lot (well it does to me).

 

I always try to do my best to send a thanks to the lady, for her time, it simply feels good doing that.

 

Thanks Megan you are so correct, a man feels a special bond when a lady does this, and I do not feel that it is soliciting, but how you genuinely feel.

 

 

It seems there are mixed opinions on the email thing. I occasionally email a client I've seen within 1-3 days of meeting to thank them for coming by and let them know that I enjoyed their company. I guess this is unsolicited' date=' but it has always been appreciated (to my knowledge).[/quote']

[ottanon 2930]

Messages after the fact are very appreciated.

[jg24 3708]

Thanks to all for your nominations and rep points I just hope that this post would help stop this unsolicted texting thanks again