What are the rules...

[Guest S****tha Ott*wa]

Wondering what the rules are for women that want to attend a sc?

Would be nice to know about specific bars in Ottawa.

 

Can women go in for a drink alone?

Do we have to go with a guy? does it have to be each girl has a guy? Would a club prefer a group of girls to call and book a table?

 

and guys.. what do you think when you see girls as the audience?

does that happen often?

 

The girls? do they like it? Do they mind women participating getting lap dances?

[Old Dog 179138]

Wondering what the rules are for women that want to attend a sc?

Would be nice to know about specific bars in Ottawa.

 

and guys.. what do you think when you see girls as the audience?

does that happen often?

 

Samantha... I can only answer to the one question. I personally have no problems girls in the audience. I don't tend to see it as much here as I do in other areas... the last time I was in the Kitchener area I dropped into to the only club in the region (it is a sad state of affairs there) and I would say that women comprised about 10-15% of the audience. I don't recall exactly, but I am fairly sure that at least one or two of the tables were all women, and none of them were performers. The rest of the women in the audience were there with guy friends.

[Annessa 22743]

I went to barbs once recently to meet a client and I was stopped at the door because I was by myself. they said it was a recent change however as they had been having some problems lately with some girls coming in and causing trouble...I didnt really ask for a clarification as to what they meant by trouble. I was just happy they let me poke my head in to find my guy, lol

 

I know some girls who go to Barbs without guys...but I think its because they're friends with the staff

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

Wondering what the rules are for women that want to attend a sc?

Would be nice to know about specific bars in Ottawa.

 

Can women go in for a drink alone?

Do we have to go with a guy? does it have to be each girl has a guy? Would a club prefer a group of girls to call and book a table?

 

and guys.. what do you think when you see girls as the audience?

does that happen often?

 

The girls? do they like it? Do they mind women participating getting lap dances?

Women unfortunately have a bad rep in the strip club. They are often rude to the dancers, don't spend money, etc. I strongly suspect this wouldn't be you because you are a sex worker and would have respect for the dancers. I could share a few stories, but I think you get the point.

 

That being said, I have seen a few great female clients and lapdanced for them. I love a good female client because it's so sexy to me to see a woman who is confident in herself and enjoys the beauty of other women.

 

That being said, I'm thoroughly against strip clubs (or any club for that matter!) denying you entry because of your gender. I would suggest going to the Nu Den. They are the most female-friendly and in the past they have even had female-customer nights. Unfortunately they won't be having them again, as the female clients didn't really buy much more than a drink or two.

[The General 11309]

Personnaly, I find it really a turn-on to see a lady in a SC. I don't know, I think this is the idea of a girl-on-girl scenario, which is my automatic reaction.

 

There shouldn't be any rules that differ for the ladies, lots of guys go there and only have a beer or two.

[Mister T 45020]

I went to barbs once recently to meet a client and I was stopped at the door because I was by myself. they said it was a recent change however as they had been having some problems lately with some girls coming in and causing trouble...I didnt really ask for a clarification as to what they meant by trouble. I was just happy they let me poke my head in to find my guy, lol

 

I know some girls who go to Barbs without guys...but I think its because they're friends with the staff

 

I'm suspecting, and suspecting only (let's call it a theory) that some unaccompanied ladies heading to clubs may be looking for their SO and ... bring them home by the hear, causing the clubs to be careful as to avoid a scene?????

 

Most ladies i've seen in clubs as client where either with a guy or with a group. I've also seen ladies visiting their ex-colleagues.

[The General 11309]

I'm suspecting, and suspecting only (let's call it a theory) that some unaccompanied ladies heading to clubs may be looking for their SO and ... bring them home by the hear, causing the clubs to be careful as to avoid a scene?????

 

Most ladies i've seen in clubs as client where either with a guy or with a group. I've also seen ladies visiting their ex-colleagues.

 

 

Not a bad theory, that said, I haven't seen such a episode like that happen, but I can well imagine it. Might be sexy, that bitchy side of the SO can be a turn-on and perhaps actually get her attention.

[Hands95 60]

I have been to most of the clubs in the area but I primarily visited Taboo. I've seen women in there often and they would fall into one of two categories: they were with their SO or there would be one girl with a group of guys and you could bet they were college/university friends.

[Seymour 3970]

Each club is unique and what or how far they may go to accommodate their female patrons is different. I know mixed couples that have been to Barbs and have had no issue. Best to check with the clubs.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

I'm suspecting, and suspecting only (let's call it a theory) that some unaccompanied ladies heading to clubs may be looking for their SO and ... bring them home by the hear, causing the clubs to be careful as to avoid a scene?????

 

Most ladies i've seen in clubs as client where either with a guy or with a group. I've also seen ladies visiting their ex-colleagues.

That is one of many reasons. Another reason is there have been SPs who will go into strip clubs as customers and try and pick up clients.

[waterrat 1261]

A lady friend of mine regularly goes to Pigales with male colleagues from work. The lunch menu is great and she has a fun time. Not sure about solo though.

[Guest S****tha Ott*wa]

I guess there are many different reason why they would have rules to women going solo. I could imagine as well the guys getting out of hand in the audience and not paying much attention to the girls.

 

OH... never thought of that . picking up clients...eeek

I am there to see the girls :-)

 

I remember going to Pigales afew times many moons ago with my swingers groups. The dancers always welcomed us there.

 

:boobies:Well then girls, guess we need to get some guy friends for a night out soon :-)

 

[A***** A***** 510]

 

 

:boobies:Well then girls, guess we need to get some guy friends for a night out soon :-)

 

 

I wish I could have went to the strip clubs when I was in Ottawa! Next time I am in town, I would love to go. Yes, I have "walked through the bar" when they had ladies dancing up north in Whitehorse, but never actually sat down, and had a dance or experienced the atmosphere

[1963Kennedy 10698]

Follow Megan's advice in her 1st post. Go in the day time or before 7pm as Security beefs up after 7pm. I see many girls come in solo altho I think they are checking out the club as a possible place to work. Saturday afternoons are also good.

[Sappho 1247]

I've gone to strip clubs with friends or with a girl friend but have never thought of going to one solo. It's a shame that some women get a bad rap by causing drama, being rude, or just by being too cheap. But, as a lesbian, I can't see that a woman would go there by herself unless she was going to be meeting up with someone there later.

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

Never had problem getting into sc by myself or with others late night, but I dress very sexy and classy, order two drinks when I go in, and chat with the workers. I always leave a very nice tip to bouncers and coatcheck...

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[Annessa 22743]

sorry, the second bar i mentioned in the second paragraph was supposed to be Barefax. the first story about Barb's.

 

when I was allowed to go look for my friend, one of the male bouncers escorted me in...thank goodness my client waved to me. I did notice however once we were seated that many girls passed us by so I ended up being the instigator asking the waitress serving us to grab the attention of X girl that we saw on stage to get her to come to our table for a drink and eventually a couples dance. once they realized we were both there to appreciate the ladies they were a lot warmer....but I can definitely understand the precautions they took, I've known a couple "ladies" in my time who would boast that if they ever found out that if their SO was at a SC they'd march right over there and pull them out....eeeek!!!

[rick_falcon 911]

Personally, I don't mind at all if there are women in the audience.

More often, they are with friends or some couples enjoying the show.

 

I remember one particular time at BareFax (a couple of years ago), there were more women than men in the crowd!

It just startled me when I was there but after a few hours, it has come back to a mostly male crowd.

[Hornee69 4851]

I take my girl in to Pigales on a regular basis, in fact we were in there on thursday nite and will be there this coming Thursday night. We always have a good time and she is always accepted. There are always plenty of other girls in there as well.

[sonoma 431]

I went in sc with girlfriend numeros number of time (pigalles, barfax, nuden and couple of club in montreal) and never had any problems off course we were not there to cause any problems we just wanted to enjoy the company of beautifull ladies.

 

For me it's a huge turn on beeing in a champagne room and having a gorgeous women dance for me and my lady friend and watching them interract with each other or even just sitting at a tables having drinks and watching my friend dress very sexy and classy looking at all the women and deciding who she would want to go in the champagne room with.

 

Unfortuantely i have not done in awhile... But, writting all this makes me really want to repeat soon...lol

 

Annessa meeting a client in a sc before spending time with each other sounds like a great idea, im wondering if its something that is often done and if theres alot of ladies who provides this and enjoy doing it.

 

Sonoma

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I take my girl in to Pigales on a regular basis, in fact we were in there on thursday nite and will be there this coming Thursday night. We always have a good time and she is always accepted. There are always plenty of other girls in there as well.

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[GreekFreak 101]

Wondering what the rules are for women that want to attend a sc?

Would be nice to know about specific bars in Ottawa.

 

Can women go in for a drink alone?

Do we have to go with a guy? does it have to be each girl has a guy? Would a club prefer a group of girls to call and book a table?

 

and guys.. what do you think when you see girls as the audience?

does that happen often?

 

The girls? do they like it? Do they mind women participating getting lap dances?

 

 

In my limited experience I wouldn't say there are really any special rules that apply to women that do not also apply to men. That being said I would like to think women are held to the same standard as the men in terms of obeying house rules and in turn the consequences would also be the same. Don't be rude, cause fights, climb up on the stage etc etc. I once saw a woman removed from an SC because of her stage side manners. I thought she was being out of line as well but I did not think she deserved to be removed.

 

On to your last question... It kind of turns me on when I see a lady at the SC. That is a lady who is not employeed by the SC. I'm not sure what it is about the dynamic but I get pretty worked up lol

 

I was in Red Deer a while back and the ratio of men to women was about 60%/40%. That high a ratio of women is unusual to me but I LOVED it. I guess it made me feel a little less like a perv lol... The only problem was the spectaters were mugh better looking then the dancers!

 

Anyway, that's anough of my ranting..

 

H

[Guest S****tha Ott*wa]

Thanks for all your info.

 

I now have a couple of clients to go with and the girls night being planned.

 

Cant wait :grin:

[curious2 323]

I would suggest going to the Nu Den. They are the most female-friendly and in the past they have even had female-customer nights. Unfortunately they won't be having them again' date=' as the female clients didn't really buy much more than a drink or two.[/quote']

 

 

It was really fun when the Nuden used to have couples nights where there would be alternating male & female dancers. They were always extremely busy, and they made a hell of a lot of money off of me--my wife said the shooter girl was quite disappointed that I had gone to the washroom one time so I wasn't there to get her to do her trick with the shooters again... :smile: Unfortunately they changed to doing ladies nights which scared me and most other guys away, and then dropped them for the exact reason that Megan said.

 

I have seen a few girls with their boyfriends at the Nuden on regular nights. One of my favourites there said that a woman once came in and started yelling and screaming at her husband while he was actually getting a dance from her!