Beauty-The eye of the beholder

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

Every person on this earth sees beauty in a different way...for some it's the morning sun rising ...for others it's the sun setting...everyone is different...what we each see as beauty is different..that being said i am at a loss to why there are very few recommendations here on cerb for the larger ladies...the BBW .

Why is there so few reco's on them? Are the men here ashamed or embarrassed that they see these lovely ladies? Seems to me that the only reco's on cerb and other boards are about spinners or average weight ladies...i think we should embrace our ladies...show them how much we love them...you all know who you are who love them and why be ashamed or as some say :"if i give you a reco you will have no time for me" . Horse crap...if you love them and find your time with them fun then be a man and stand up for them.

Let's see some reco's boys on our big beautiful ladies...

 

 

[A***** A***** 510]

Good stuff Emma, thanks for posting that.

 

I think it's because "Beauty" is defined by the girls you see in various magazines, on TV, etc. We don't fit the "NORM" of beauty, but remember the girl you see on TV is not your average woman either.

 

Fashion, the media etc can be very misleading. Also, IMHO, I think guys would not want to be "bothered" by the few who chose see smaller women, for the fact they would get seen as NOT belonging to that old boys club, when going to see something other then the norm.

[daddio 2704]

I would recommend you any time Emma.

 

And it's not just because you are a BBW, it's because of your personality.

 

You are so warm and friendly and, despite being nervous about meeting you, you certainly made me feel very comfortable whenever I've met you.

 

I'm not sure if that answers your question, but maybe it will send a message to the cerb guys that you are a woman definitely worth seeing.

[pjrd 324]

there's lots of BBW out there and I have enjoyed the company of several but I'm not sure they would like to be referred to as big so I'll ask them how they feel about it and will definately recommend some that I've seen here in the Peg. Some gals find that insulting and some don't so if I ever want to see them again I'd better see if they think they're a BBW first.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

I would recommend you any time Emma.

 

And it's not just because you are a BBW, it's because of your personality.

 

You are so warm and friendly and, despite being nervous about meeting you, you certainly made me feel very comfortable whenever I've met you.

 

I'm not sure if that answers your question, but maybe it will send a message to the cerb guys that you are a woman definitely worth seeing.

 

Glad you think I'm a bbw daddio..haha i don't think i would be considered one..but hey thanks for the assurance..anyway this thread isn't about me or other average size ladies..it's about the BBW..BBW and the fact that there are not many reco's on them but if you look at the spinner reco's you will see a lot.

[Ava Foxx 1747]

Glad you think I'm a bbw daddio..haha i don't think i would be considered one..but hey thanks for the assurance..anyway this thread isn't about me or other average size ladies..it's about the BBW..and the fact that there are not many reco's on them but if you look at the spinner reco's you will see a lot.

 

You're definitely not a BBW, Emma :wink:. NOT that there's anything wrong with that (LOL Seinfeld). I should know; I'm a big girl myself :).

[sexy bbw vero 425]

I would recommend you any time Emma.

 

And it's not just because you are a BBW, it's because of your personality.

 

You are so warm and friendly and, despite being nervous about meeting you, you certainly made me feel very comfortable whenever I've met you.

 

I'm not sure if that answers your question, but maybe it will send a message to the cerb guys that you are a woman definitely worth seeing.

 

I'm very surprised! lolll

Emma is a BBW ??

 

I have see many pictures of you emma ... and didn't see any bbw there! :rolleyes:

 

I totally agree with you Emma ... I'm on cerb since a long time ... and I have only 1 reco! lolll Fortunately, clients still come to see me even I don't have so much reco ... but I always found good to know if I really pleased or not my clients. ;)

[A***** A***** 510]

Fortunately, clients still come to see me even I don't have so much reco ... but I always found good to know if I really pleased or not my clients. ;)

 

I would like to atleast know if the gents I saw, I made them happy. That would be nice to hear8)

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

Stick to your guns, daddio! You are right ... Emma is a Big-hearted, Beautiful Woman.

 

Back to the main topic:

 

Ladies come in all sorts of wonderful configurations. It's being compatible that makes or breaks an experience. Gents who have shared a good time with any "type" of lady shouldn't be backwards about writing about it, because Cerb is all about sharing! It's a wide world of fun!

[daddio 2704]

Glad you think I'm a bbw daddio..haha i don't think i would be considered one..but hey thanks for the assurance..anyway this thread isn't about me or other average size ladies..it's about the BBW..BBW and the fact that there are not many reco's on them but if you look at the spinner reco's you will see a lot.

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OMG, this is a public apology Emma. I thought that BBW referred to big breasts. Which, when I think about it, obviously doesn't make any sense in the context of your post.

 

But that's what happens when your brain is between your legs thinking of a beautiful woman like you!!!

 

Sorry Emma.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

Glad you think I'm a bbw daddio..haha i don't think i would be considered one..but hey thanks for the assurance..anyway this thread isn't about me or other average size ladies..it's about the BBW..BBW and the fact that there are not many reco's on them but if you look at the spinner reco's you will see a lot.

______

 

OMG, this is a public apology Emma. I thought that BBW referred to big breasts. Which, when I think about it, obviously doesn't make any sense in the context of your post.

 

But that's what happens when your brain is between your legs thinking of a beautiful woman like you!!!

 

Sorry Emma.

nah it's cool daddio..i do have big boobs but i don't think reco's about big boobs needs to added...hahaha i wasn't offended anyway...:boobies:

[Andee 220524]

As a lady who is "built for comfort" (not a BBW - only 40B cup), I fall into the bigger girl category, but I have never had anyone show up at the door and run away screaming!!

 

I have had a couple of CERB members offer to write recommendations for me, but because they aren't "posters" per se, they would need to get their post count up in order to do a reco. They have told me use CERB mostly as a place to consult the SP ads. They may read a few post here and there, but their support for the site comes in the form of seeing ladies from CERB, not being visible to other members.

 

I don't see anything wrong with this, but I understand CERB's policy of members having to have a minimum number of posts to prevent shilling. This could be part of the problem why there aren't more recos (in general, not just for BBWs).

 

The problem I see is with members you know have seen other ladies of all shapes, sizes and ages, but he recos they write are for the slimmer, younger ones.

 

I agree with where Emma is coming from - like what's up with that?

 

Not that I kiss and tell, but one member asked me not to mention to a certain lady that he saw me because she might get jealous. I found that hilarious because the lady in question is a sweetheart, but she is the opposite body type from me - petite and slim.

 

I said to myself, "what's the matter you don't want anyone to know you went to see the older bigger gal"? I can laugh at that because he sure liked my lip service and left with a big smile on his face.

 

Another guy came to see me and said "I like bigger girls because you all know how to suck a good...." I didn't know whether to take that as a compliment or a insult. Either way, I have never seen a reco by this member for any of the ladies he has seen and I know of at least 3 who would be considered BBWs.

[sexy bbw vero 425]

Even here ... there's not so much man who want to talk ?! lolllll :rolleyes:

[Ava Foxx 1747]

Even here ... no man want to talk?! lolllll :rolleyes:

 

Lol...seriously!

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

I was once a man ... can't speak for daddio or pjrd ...

[Ava Foxx 1747]

I was once a man ...

 

 

More men would have been better ;). Sorry WIT!

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

More men would have been better ;). Sorry WIT!

 

... just pulling your leg ... I actually kinda like the ratio ... 5 lovely ladies and 3 guys on the thread so far ...

[Ava Foxx 1747]

I was once a man ... can't speak for daddio or pjrd ...

 

LOL! Love the add-on!

[sexy bbw vero 425]

loll sorry ... my mistake ;)

[capitalman 3861]

I've been asked a few times to write recommendations for ladies I've visited (and even some I have not visited) but I only do it when I feel I want to. It made me wonder though, why is it so important to them?

 

Then I made an interesting discovery....some of the ladies seem to keep track of how many pages of recommendations they have....they compare themselves to others and seem to have a hierarchy in their minds as to who is the most popular or best escort, based on how many recs they have. Don't laugh at me, it's true! I've seen girls open their laptop and go straight to the recs section and show me their pages vs. others.

 

This I'm afraid is bullshit and NOT a good way to gain feelings of self-esteem or self-worth. The opposite is true too, just because you have few recs doesn't mean you're trash.

 

A lot of men just can't be bothered to write recs. Some don't want to for fear of the girl getting too busy and becoming too popular and others don't even know the area exists! Some men are shy and don't think what they have to say is valid or worthy. There's many reasons for not writing a recommendation, and the best way to get one is to be real and true and earn your recommendation.

[sexy bbw vero 425]

There's many reasons for not writing a recommendation, and the best way to get one is to be real and true and earn your recommendation.

 

Exactly my point! What if we earn it and still don't have it??! ;)

[Ava Foxx 1747]

Exactly my point! What if we earn it and still don't have it??! ;)

 

 

Vero, you and I really think alike!!

[Ashley Ann 75247]

Capital man, you are right, everything you said is correct, however, I think we are kinda going off into another direction when it comes to the subject regarding the lack of recs for bigger girls....

 

We are not indicating that we would like an ass load of recs, we are just wondering why there seems to be only a handful of them, if that,...yes I realize bbws are not as common as the rest of the ladies on here, BUT, I have great difficulty believing that ALL THE BBW loving hobbiests all seem to be on the same page when it comes to not being interested in writing recs OR are just too busy..some yes, but not all . Hey maybe I am wrong, but that would be too much of a coincidence...(my opinion)

 

I guess what we are trying to say is that most of us bigger girls are alot of fun to be with, provide a great service and have many happy returns, yet NOBODY knows about it SHHHHHHHH :oops: So when you say earn your recs, the next question is well, ok what if we have, but yet to have them?? We are NOT sitting on the couch popping bons bons and looking at our clients wack off while watching TV:handjob: (unless of course some of you bbw loving clients are into that type of stuff, I could do that if you like ;)..LMAO) a little humor :sm185: But seriously now.......

 

This post was not meant to be mean spirited or shame or humiliate anyone, I think since this is such an open mind community...we thought why not put the message or question out there, all though there are PLENTY of men on here who LOVE US, why is there no mention of it??? However, if some hobbiests are too shy to indicate their love for us in recs, well I am confident that not many will respond to this post because then they would be outed!!!!!! :oops: AND for those of you men who like to have a taste of it all...why do you only do the recs for the slim & trim ones, but no recs for the bigger ones, even though you have just as good as a time with both types ....:? I am not saying this applies to ALL, it just applies to those who are ashamed of liking us BIG ladies!!

 

Ok to summarize, in everyday life, it does not surprise me, that most, not all , but most guys do not want to be know as the guy who likes :cooter: to eff fat girls...even if they do, they hide it cause it is not the norm in everyday society, but on here, where everybody seems to be so OPEN, ...I am surprised it seems to be on the major DOWN LOW

 

At the end of the day, us bbw sps are doing just fine business wise, so although there is a mention of a lack of recs, please do not confuse this with us BEGGING our special friends for recs, it is just simply something to put out there for discussion...

HOPE everyone who reads this has a really nice day:D:-P

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

:jackoff:Okay I'm willing to conduct an experiment and lose 30 lbs ( wanted to do that anyways) which will bring me back to what I used to look like and then we will see if they write reviews.lol.

 

I can see where these ladies are coming from. I once heard a saying that fat chicks are like mopeds. They're both fun to ride until your friends see you on one. I don't condone that type of thinking but I wonder if this is the same type of mentality in terms of cerb members not reviewing bbws?

 

Tell me I'm wrong... maybe the ladies should have some sort of contest for reputable members who legitimately write the most reviews of bbws after meeting with them and receive a free session with someone of their choice. Or would that be going against cerb guidelines? Of course, I'm just kidding. lol.

[daddio 2704]

"I was once a man ... can't speak for daddio or pjrd ..."

 

OMG - I seem to have inadvertently created a controversy greater than Robert Green's (England's goal keeper) awful fumble.

 

Now, as far as WIT's comment about once being a man but not being able to speak for me, well, I can understand the confusion when a man wears a kilt.

 

Believe me, there is nothing so refreshing as wearing the kilt in a fresh breeze. It prevents vital organs from getting overheated.

 

There is an old, old story whereby a lady asks a man in a kilt if anything is worn under the kilt.

 

The answer: "No madam, everything is in perfect working order."

 

Given my mileage over so many years, I do occasionally need an inspection, and I'm always welcome to new inspectors???