Cara Silver 32412 Report post Posted January 28, 2015 Dear regular clients, during this difficult political time and dark winter period: You are appreciated, you are wonderful, you are loved. As much as we are separated by professional barriers, as much as we are not allowed to spend time together, as much as we are both brave enough to defy social norms, you are wonderful. Thanks for sticking by us, thanks for not giving up on the whole deal, and thanks for helping me through an arid winter. We need you as you need us. Thank you. 26 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted January 28, 2015 Like! We are in this together. Peace MG 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78407 Report post Posted January 28, 2015 A regular client is just one half of a great relationship between two people who have found a connection on some level that works for both of them. During this current legal environment that we all find ourselves in I am sure that most of the ladies in this business very much appreciate the regular clients who come to see them but in my opinion us regular clients are even more grateful for these regular repeat engagements with the amazing ladies we see because it is dramatically reducing the risk for us and allowing us to continue in a hobby that we enjoy so very much. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk 11 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny Canuck 5347 Report post Posted January 28, 2015 You are very welcome Cara, I feel like us regular clients should be humble and gracious in saying thanks to all of you lovely ladies who continue to strive to make our days! 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest D***el B***e Report post Posted January 28, 2015 I'm sticking around. It is painfully obvious that times are tough. Lots of people have gone and I'm trying to continue to support this industry. I am a very regular user and plan to continue. Hang in there ladies, I'm sure things will improve and gradually pick up. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara Silver 32412 Report post Posted January 29, 2015 (edited) It's been wonderful the way everyone has come together. I know we've lost a few good soldiers and dealt with anxiety ourselves. It's lovely to hear from your regular clients that they stand by you and won't stop visiting. Sometimes I receive emails and wonder if I'm being baited. Do any other companions get this sensation? The email is too perfectly worded, asking about specific things, etc. I try to say to myself that paranoia is the quickest way to give in to this terrible law. I'm glad many of us are standing strong even though we are all a bit more wary. Thanks for your courage, regular clients! Edited January 29, 2015 by Cara Silver spelling 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted January 29, 2015 It hasn't been easy for anyone lately but definitely thank-you to regular clients! You are the ones who help pay the bills and keep a roof over our heads. So thank-you. I know I appreciate ALL my regulars. Imo this new law didn't change anything. Gas prices indicate something else going on BUT January always is a slow month as far as I can remember. I'm just riding it out, change up a few things within my business to accommodate for what is going on and keep a positive outlook. I've said before that stress and worry cause resistance and keeps us from allowing what we really want to come through and that is more great clients, being able to pay the bills and have something extra. Worrying to me is just an exercise in futility. Things will get better! I do a lot of meditation for financial abundance and just being abundant in general. The biggest thing is to believe it will happen and actually allow it to come to us. Worry and fear stands in the way of this. I find just being in a positive state allows the phone to ring more. Imo what I put out there is what I'm going to attract. Love and Light! 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CristyCurves 169032 Report post Posted January 29, 2015 It's been wonderful the way everyone has come together. I know we've lost a few good soldiers and dealt with anxiety ourselves. It's lovely to hear from your regular clients that they stand by you and won't stop visiting. Sometimes I receive emails and wonder if I'm being baited. Do any other companions get this sensation? The email is too perfectly worded, asking about specific things, etc. I try to say to myself that paranoia is the quickest way to give in to this terrible law. I'm glad many of us are standing strong even though we are all a bit more wary. Thanks for your courage, regular clients! Don't allow worry and stress to disrupt your life. As Nicolette said stay positive and positive things will come. Ignore any emails that cause red flags, trust your gut, always. Any emails or calls, texts, etc, that ask of anything forward or illegal are best ignored and deleted. Those things I don't attribute to being baited, more to, just idiots with to much time on their hands. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted January 30, 2015 Some one I can see regularly is by far the best at least for me. There is a reason to go back. Sure during these uncertain times it is a safe and known harbour but more than that .....there is a reason to go back. Chemistry and familiarity coming together usually leads to a relaxing and mutually beneficial exchange that gets better and better.The unknown can be very exciting but there is something about being comfortable with some one you trust and like. When a regular moves on it can be quite challenging to find another. Peace MG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted January 30, 2015 Chemistry is very important to me.I will staying within my trusted circle and enjoying more fun times very soon.Yes the circle will be small but the anticipation and lust will there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vader75 999 Report post Posted January 30, 2015 I'm sorry to say in the short time I have ventured out looking for a regular down in my area that I have not been sucsessful yet. I'm forced for a few months to sit and heal but will not let the slow winter months ever get in my way of my search for my atf. No law or winter storm will stop me from supporting the women who give 110% at what they do. Were all people, and we all need love and compassion. Were here for each other. We stand together and we play together, and we support each other. We must continue to fight together also...fight the govorment to allow us to do what we do in a safer more secure enviorment. I will not stop supporting the wonderful ladies and gentlemen who make up this great board. Additional Comments: I'm sorry to say in the short time I have ventured out looking for a regular down in my area that I have not been sucsessful yet. I'm forced for a few months to sit and heal but will not let the slow winter months ever get in my way of my search for my atf. No law or winter storm will stop me from supporting the women who give 110% at what they do. Were all people, and we all need love and compassion. Were here for each other. We stand together and we play together, and we support each other. We must continue to fight together also...fight the govorment to allow us to do what we do in a safer more secure enviorment. I will not stop supporting the wonderful ladies and gentlemen who make up this great board. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted January 30, 2015 (edited) I've got quite a few women that I have repeated regularly with and I will continue to see these as the chemistry and connection with them is extremely good. We are at a point where it is good to see each other and catch up with each other's life. Since I've seen them each many times now. The comfort level is good and we know what each other likes and dislikes. Each time get's better. However I keep meeting new women that I would like to get to know better also. I'm doing the best to help support the industry :) But only so much time and money :) But if everyone did your bit, it all add's up :) Edited January 30, 2015 by someguy Spelling 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara Silver 32412 Report post Posted January 31, 2015 I'm sorry to say in the short time I have ventured out looking for a regular down in my area that I have not been sucsessful yet. I will not stop supporting the wonderful ladies and gentlemen who make up this great board. Don't lose hope! Something will click one day. xo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted January 31, 2015 I ventured into this world about five years ago just a stressed out regular guy wanting to meet a lady or two that I connected with and that I could see on a reasonable regular basis to kick back and relax. It is a win win for both parties. The lady or two turned into a tad bit of a bigger circle of regular friends however. Why ? Because there are soooo many amazing genuine woman out there who love what they do !! There are some ladies I will meet with every frickin time I can because I have soooo much fun with them, I care about them and we trust each other. Therfore, I was able to move to the post legislation ea doing exactly what I was doing before and not blinking an eye. Because I felt safe. Pretty cool. The ability for the ladies to put up with my quirkiness, randomness, sometimes changes in plans due to my career, and work with me to make things work....are the ones that have garnered my long term friendship although maybe frustrating at times !! So after saying that .....for myself the kudo's go to those ladies I adore for building a bond and nurturing a happy regular client ;) But that's just me. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted February 2, 2015 It's been wonderful the way everyone has come together. I know we've lost a few good soldiers and dealt with anxiety ourselves. It's lovely to hear from your regular clients that they stand by you and won't stop visiting. Sometimes I receive emails and wonder if I'm being baited. Do any other companions get this sensation? The email is too perfectly worded, asking about specific things, etc. I try to say to myself that paranoia is the quickest way to give in to this terrible law. I'm glad many of us are standing strong even though we are all a bit more wary. Thanks for your courage, regular clients! I don't get paranoid, I simply assume they are like 99% of the population and have no idea about either the new laws or the old ones. plus what is there to get paranoid about, you are perfectly and legally free to say anything you wish about your own rates/services/specialties/specifics. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest A**aTo**h Report post Posted February 4, 2015 In some ways I am certainly more aware of things (like what to say or post here), but I have also been repeating with the same escort for over 2 years now so in that respect I have no concerns or worries (she is a wonderful woman and there is safety in trust). But that said, when I do choose to see someone new again someday, well, right here on Lyla, seems like a friendly place for me to come to the safe conclusion of who to see. We are lucky enough here to talk (relatively) freely, send pm's, read posts, and read recommendations. Today, more so than ever, Lyla/CERB is needed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
