Carole 214 Report post Posted October 19, 2007 I need some serious advice on this one. What should a lady do when she discovers, (to her horror,) that the "gentleman" she is with has neglected to properly clean himself? Is it ok to ask him to go into the bathroom and scrub himself clean with some soap and water? How should I handle this? Especially when we're already well into the session? I show up for sessions with my hair still damp from my own shower, wouldn't a guy be totally embarrassed if I have to tell him that he needs to go and wash himself or take a shower? It would seem pretty obvious to me what the problem is if I've clearly just had a shower myself and then I insist that we take a shower together. I don't want to totally embarrass the guys but I've had two sessions this week with this problem. I don't understand why guys don't take into account that they'll get a much better session if their genitals don't reek of urine during an appoinment. I truly do not understand why this continues to be an issue with guys. So many ladies complain about it on review boards and request guys take a shower before an appointment on their websites, that guys should take the hint and this shouldn't be happening. Can anyone help me out with some advice? Thanks! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PKjessica (PK is now PKJas 103 Report post Posted October 19, 2007 I think it is totally appropriate to ask a guy to go clean himself if he needs it. Personal hygiene is very important and is climatic to a good time! Awareness of your own personal hygiene is essential and there is nothing wrong with pointing bad hygiene out in a respectable manner and offering to shower with the client at any point during the session. Just my 2 cents~! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest katia Report post Posted October 20, 2007 I need some serious advice on this one. What should a lady do when she discovers, (to her horror,) that the "gentleman" she is with has neglected to properly clean himself? Is it ok to ask him to go into the bathroom and scrub himself clean with some soap and water? How should I handle this? Especially when we're already well into the session? I show up for sessions with my hair still damp from my own shower, wouldn't a guy be totally embarrassed if I have to tell him that he needs to go and wash himself or take a shower? It would seem pretty obvious to me what the problem is if I've clearly just had a shower myself and then I insist that we take a shower together. I don't want to totally embarrass the guys but I've had two sessions this week with this problem. I don't understand why guys don't take into account that they'll get a much better session if their genitals don't reek of urine during an appoinment. I truly do not understand why this continues to be an issue with guys. So many ladies complain about it on review boards and request guys take a shower before an appointment on their websites, that guys should take the hint and this shouldn't be happening. Can anyone help me out with some advice? Thanks! These things happens all the time. Sometimes the guys refuses to take a shower before the session. The most of the providers cleans the clients they see before the session with a hot tile with gentle soap or fragrance free baby wipes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sledder 496 Report post Posted October 20, 2007 I need some serious advice on this one. What should a lady do when she discovers, (to her horror,) that the "gentleman" she is with has neglected to properly clean himself? Is it ok to ask him to go into the bathroom and scrub himself clean with some soap and water? How should I handle this? Especially when we're already well into the session? I show up for sessions with my hair still damp from my own shower, wouldn't a guy be totally embarrassed if I have to tell him that he needs to go and wash himself or take a shower? It would seem pretty obvious to me what the problem is if I've clearly just had a shower myself and then I insist that we take a shower together. I don't want to totally embarrass the guys but I've had two sessions this week with this problem. I don't understand why guys don't take into account that they'll get a much better session if their genitals don't reek of urine during an appoinment. I truly do not understand why this continues to be an issue with guys. So many ladies complain about it on review boards and request guys take a shower before an appointment on their websites, that guys should take the hint and this shouldn't be happening. Can anyone help me out with some advice? Thanks! Ok, iv`e obviously got time on my hands today as i`m responding everywhere, but have to comment. I think the majority of us like our sp clean and trimmed if not shaved, most of us would agree at least clean!? Dreamer has been the only one to mention this but when you meet your sp if you`ve just showered or do then with or without her, the majority of the time this will benefit you tenfold in terms of service.To take this a step further if you keep Big Ed and the Twins and that general area trimmed, if not shaved, I know for a fact that this benefits you even more! Now I know we`re thinking that`s a lot of work on our part, we`re the customer, it`s not macho, whatever but sometimes when you`re here reading a review wondering why you didn`t get that from her or reading the ever popular YMMV - get out the trimmer, shower and see what happens !!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest katia Report post Posted October 20, 2007 The attitude play a role as well. The way you treat your girl, but after all the hygiene is a parts of the attitude. Isn't it? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
just2enjoy 1621 Report post Posted October 24, 2007 Personally I think it only makes sense. We wouldn't accept anything less from the sp - trimmed and clean. Why should they not receive the same respect. However, I like the idea of the suggesting showering together. I believe it can be done in such a way that even if the sp just showered, she could keep the session going by even suggesting that she gets really turned on in the shower! I think it could still be a really hot time!! Just wanted to add my 2 cents. :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest katia Report post Posted October 29, 2007 I think it's maybe because not all clients have time to shower before a session atough not all provider likes to take a shower with a client cause it's important that she make sure she have enough time to give the service requested... I agree with you it's the responsability of the clients to shower before he visits the poviders. I heard of providers who refused guys right at their arrival because of their hygiene or attitude... In that kind of cases sometimes the ladies refused the clients right at their arrival... I heard stories of clients falling in the bath while taking a shower. A shower mat would be a good investment. Be careful! Lol! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted October 29, 2007 This is an interesting point, many times I have found myself in a slippery shower. So far I have not fallen however a shower mat would be a good investment for a lot of SP's. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest lone ranger Report post Posted November 13, 2007 Good hygiene is a basic requirement for both sides in the transaction. The massage parlours always have shower facilities, and the lady generally requests that you shower before your session. I don't see why outcall escort services should be any different. The guy is in a hotel, he has a shower, I don't think it would be out of line for the SP to politely request that he have a shower before they get down to business. Whether it's fair to keep the meter running while he showers would be up to the lady to decide. After all, he should have showered on his own time, not hers..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dreamer8 510 Report post Posted November 15, 2007 I must mention it in almost every review "Take a shower when you arrive (regardless if you need it or not) the SP will appreciate it, which for us translates into a better experiance/service" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Stiletto Kyss Report post Posted November 22, 2007 I would have to agree completely with this as it doesn't take a lot of time and has numerous benefits after. Besides, Mr Happy always likes a nice hot shower when coming in from the cold.;) s-k I must mention it in almost every review "Take a shower when you arrive (regardless if you need it or not) the SP will appreciate it, which for us translates into a better experiance/service" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HotAC 100 Report post Posted January 8, 2008 I agree with the clean and trim part for sure. How guys can let it grow into a "Forrest" is beyond me?? If a SP showed up looking like Lake of the Woods, would you go swimming?? I dought it!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mika Luv 105 Report post Posted January 11, 2008 I agree with you guys for the clean part,but for me trimming it's not really important or necessary as long as it's clean down there.After all hair is something natural on a man,but yes a shower is very important.Don't forget when you trim down there your hair will only get stronger with time that's why i use wax on my little cat.I only have to do it once a month as it slow down the new growth. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
just2enjoy 1621 Report post Posted January 13, 2008 But even better than waxing - is sugaring. The hair growth thins out and is reduced significantly and what does grow back is very soft. They say they can do guys too, but just can't imagine! Trimming for guys is good too though as everything displayed appears larger - and ever have a condom rolled into that male bush - not fun ! LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mika Luv 105 Report post Posted January 14, 2008 But even better than waxing - is sugaring. The hair growth thins out and is reduced significantly and what does grow back is very soft. They say they can do guys too, but just can't imagine! Trimming for guys is good too though as everything displayed appears larger - and ever have a condom rolled into that male bush - not fun ! LOL Are you a guy or a provider?I tried sugaring before and found it more painful.Unfortunately sugaring is an old method and not too many esthetic clinics and spa use it.Sugaring is more complicated and it gives the same results as cold,warm and hot wax.Why suffering more? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HotAC 100 Report post Posted January 15, 2008 Ouch, my balls hurt already!! Not fun. Think I'll stay with the trimming.:D:D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest katia Report post Posted January 18, 2008 I us to do my legs with warm wax and it's not too bad. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mika Luv 105 Report post Posted January 31, 2008 No not bad at all as it keeps my little cat so soft like baby skin.Lol! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cowboy kenny 50799 Report post Posted February 10, 2008 Interesting discussion and some good points raised, but at the risk of stirring up trouble, what if the shoe were on the other foot ? This cowboy has met up with a few ripe meow meows along the way not many but enough to make it memorable. It's especially disappointing when daty has been discussed in the pre-arrangements , only to find that the sp has not prepared appropriately, or god forbid showered between clients. What do we guys do ? We've paid but are not really getting the service we were looking for. To be blunt it's like buying a pint of milk, opening it up and taking a sip only to find it's expired. How do we broach the subject with diplomacy, sometimes it's hard to hide the disappointment as this can impede performance. I'm curious to know your thoughts and welcome further discussion.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest katia Report post Posted February 10, 2008 What about being man enough to ask the lady to refresh with a tile if necessary. What about wiping that little pussy yourself. After all these ladies are not affraid to ask the clients to take shower when needed. In term of hygienic problems I heard all sort of things regarding the clients hygiene unfortunately. I guess hygiene and respect is the key for both of you my dear. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cowboy kenny 50799 Report post Posted February 10, 2008 The key word in my question was diplomacy. I'm not arguing that clients don't always wash properly and It's not a matter of being "man enough" I have no issue doing so, but if this is a first time meeting,it puts the client in an awkward position, sure the ladies have no issue asking a not so fresh client to wash up , she is after all in control of the situation and calls the shots. Furthermore, as a paying customer one would hope that the lady has taken proper care and preparation. They are afterall providing a service and part of that service is to provide a pleasant experience. Unfortunately in cases with agencies or indys who's focus is on volume appointments, rather than repeat customers and customer satisfaction, sessions are booked too close together to to allow for proper washup for the lady. As I stated earlier I know it's a two way street, I'm just saying sometimes the lady's aren't so fresh either and that can be disappointing. So your advice would be to be upfront and say politely as you look up at her " mmm, could wash your self " I don't know how anyone could not take that personally. But I'll take your advice and let you know how it works out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mika Luv 105 Report post Posted February 10, 2008 I know i worked for an Asian massage salon before and i barely had time to eat so imagine the rest.These people were hungry for money.Now that i am independent i have plenty of time for myself.I do duo with two other providers and never experienced that kind of problems so far even when we practiced.Although most providers are shaved or waxed down there not all the clients are shaved or even trimmed,but that's alright i mean men are different than women in many way.For myself i always put lotion on my little kitty after my shower and it's always very silky and smooth.I know many providers use scented baby wipes too.I never hesitate to ask a client to take a shower when it's not so clean down there or elsewhere and i think the real clients who paid for a session should ask the lady to refresh if needed.After all we are at your assistance and there to satisfy you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest L.M. (No longer a member here) Report post Posted February 10, 2008 Practice? Isn't it a good reason to do it? LOL! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HotAC 100 Report post Posted February 11, 2008 Practice? Isn't it a good reason to do it? LOL! Couldn't agree more!!! I'm mostly shaved, it just feels cleaner! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Natedog Report post Posted February 11, 2008 I have no problem with being asked to take a shower. As for hair...well lets just say that nothing is GOOD, but a little is BEST (male and female). David Duchovny said it best on his new show Californication, "...just a little bit so that I'm reminded I'm performing cunnilingus on an ADULT!" ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
