RobX 2084 Report post Posted June 17, 2010 I have several questions regarding posting of recommendations, prompted by one of the new rules recently added to the posting etiquette: 10 ) "Before you post a recommendation for a lady you should ask her for permission ..." My questions are: 1. Is not the purpose of the DNDR LIST to indicate for whom one CANNOT write a recommendation? 2. Can a recommendation be written ONLY for an SP or an MPA who is a current member or advertiser on CERB? 3. Can an SP or MPA ask to see the contents of the recommendation before giving her permission to post it? 4. If a member is interested in writing a recommendation, is it expected that he reveal his CERB handle to the SP or MPA when making the appointment? 5. What should be the PRIMARY motivation for writing a recommendation: a. To provide a reciprocal service to fellow CERB members by providing them with valuable information on who are the best SPs and MPAs to visit. b. To provide a reciprocal service to the SP or MP by helping to promote her services, as a form of reward for an enjoyable and satisfying appointment. c. To provide a outlet to the member to share his feelings about an enjoyable and satisfying appointment. Thanks, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wpg2010 203 Report post Posted June 17, 2010 These are just my ideas. I have several questions regarding posting of recommendations, prompted by one of the new rules recently added to the posting etiquette: 10 ) "Before you post a recommendation for a lady you should ask her for permission ..." My questions are: 1. Is not the purpose of the DNDR LIST to indicate for whom one CANNOT write a recommendation? Yes, but maybe the SP just does not want further comments about her at this time. Out of respect you should try to do as you are asked by the SP in question. 2. Can a recommendation be written ONLY for an SP or an MPA who is a current member or advertiser on CERB? The purpose of CERB is to promote from within so it makes little sense to write about other boards (expect those associated with CERB, look at the bottom of any page on CERB and you will see their sponsors) 3. Can an SP or MPA ask to see the contents of the recommendation before giving her permission to post it? They can ask anything they want and you are free to do so or not. I always ask and show a copy to the SP first. 4. If a member is interested in writing a recommendation, is it expected that he reveal his CERB handle to the SP or MPA when making the appointment? No 5. What should be the PRIMARY motivation for writing a recommendation: a. To provide a reciprocal service to fellow CERB members by providing them with valuable information on who are the best SPs and MPAs to visit. b. To provide a reciprocal service to the SP or MP by helping to promote her services, as a form of reward for an enjoyable and satisfying appointment. c. To provide a outlet to the member to share his feelings about an enjoyable and satisfying appointment. All of the above Thanks, 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted June 17, 2010 2. Can a recommendation be written ONLY for an SP or an MPA who is a current member or advertiser on CERB? Only would be too strong a word. Quite a number of ladies advertise on Escorts-canada who aren't on cerb. Besides inviting the lady to join cerb and showing her the existing recommendations of her makes for a good motivator. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted June 17, 2010 Those are very good answer wpg2010 gave you however I don't agree with one of them entirely. 2. Can a recommendation be written ONLY for an SP or an MPA who is a current member or advertiser on CERB? The purpose of CERB is to promote from within so it makes little sense to write about other boards (expect those associated with CERB, look at the bottom of any page on CERB and you will see their sponsors) You can write recommendations for ANY service provider you see. On this board or off this board. Let others know you found a GEM! The reason we ask that you ask for permission is mostly when starting a NEW recommendation (Commenting on one that already exists is usually ok) but sometimes a lady offers services to you that she may not offer to others... maybe the chemistry was right or she felt comfortable with you and offered you a little "Extra"... she may not want others to know about this as it is not on her normal menu and not available to everyone. You hit the nail on the head with your 5. point about "What should be the PRIMARY motivation for writing a recommendation" ALL OF THE ABOVE is the correct answer! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wpg2010 203 Report post Posted June 17, 2010 Thanks for the correction. I am fairly new here and am still learning. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
