k3lly401 151 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 Hello I am new to Cerb but my husband has been on this site for years. I just had to register as my husband has been bugging me for a threesomes for a little over 18 years, at first I was upset but we are very open minded. so I just said ok lets do it little did he know I called a male friend of mine to have the threesome as we are getting ready My husband is all excited then the door rings my husband answers and says can I help you. I started to laugh to myself thinking this is what you wanted. I invited my friend In and told my husband to follow us to the bedroom this is our date for the night. Shocked and confused as we started, but husband went along as if it was a joke, He was wrong 20 minutes passed and things heated up as my friend went down on me I told my husband to go down on my friend as he also wanted me to do that with another women, he replies are you serious?. That is not my thing. I said if you want to have fun with another woman with me you have to have fun with both men and women. My husband never asked for a threesome again, he wouldn?t go down on a man but expected me to go down on a woman. All the ladies that have gone through this situation, all I can say is go for it. find a guy and bring him home don't tell him who just make it a surprise. If he is willing to do it with man for you then you have nothing to worry about. Everyone wins. I just wanted advice but ended up giving a solution, I had to share this with everyone on Cerb. Kelly. 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 This is awesome :bowdown: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 Kelly....truly an inspired idea. I love it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Royalfun 55449 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 The ultimate test. Clever and awsome. I am sure you had fun all the way. :motion: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 That's just awesome! Brilliant idea luv, should keep him quiet from now on! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 Way to go :lol: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 That is freaking funny! But - poor guy, 18 years and he ends up blindly in an MMF situation. Ahhh CERB - escape the mundane. ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie Moon 68826 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 Poor guy is right! While I admire your giant cahones.. I would not want to be him. After all instead of telling him how you really felt you chose to blindside him with a giant practical joke. I'm sure he won't be happy to do anything for you for a while. You may have got what you wanted but you may also have got a lot of other things you didn't want. Time will tell.. I mean did he trick you into anything? no.. he kept asking and then you agreed... bait and switch at it's best. I mean if this is actually for real.. but yup! you have some great big hairy balls if it is for real :) 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reddog01 30280 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 I am not in such an “open” relationship, so it is hard to relate too, nor can I really condone or condemn Kelly's action. Although I fantasize about a threesome with two other women, it doesn’t include my SO (but maybe it could). We have never discussed this eventuality as we are pretty traditional and “boring”. I might be judged as hypocritical but I couldn’t go through Kelley's presented scenario at all - I am totally turned off by the idea. Sorry, but I would have been really upset if my SO pulled this one on me. Why do I find a threesome (including me) with two wonmen ok but can't do the same when it is reversed? I am making a generalization but I think most men are the same. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 While it is no for everyone, some men do enjoy it and alot who do fantasize about it would perhaps never admit it :) But, hey, everyone has a right to explore their own sexuality as they see fit and should never be made to feel like they have to sacrifice their likes and dislikes just to please their partners! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jdstar 1065 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 I was the "other guy" that was brought home to join a couple. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 I think the technique that you used was a little deceptive. Guess you got what you wanted in the end. From reading your post it sounds like the hubby was going along with you because the other man had gone down on you, he probably was comfortable just watching the show. Many men have the fantasy of a FFM with 2 ladies but few would have the fantasy of MMF and there are a greater percentage of bi women as compared to bi men. I think he should book a duo to fulfill his fantasy. My 2 cents. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 I think he should book a duo to fulfill his fantasy. My 2 cents. I agree...it's his turn now! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 I was the "other guy" that was brought home to join a couple. Hi JD - welcome to Cerb. Brave you. It's not every guy that will walk into another person's bedroom without being familiar with the entire situation or having agreement between all parties. Otherwise, it could lead to unfortunate feelings. I imagine there's more to this though - you know, two sides to every story. Did you know about the scenario before you walked-in? Had you been on intimate terms with the OP beforehand? No judgments here..just want to get the straight goods. Is there a chance you and your friends will repeat? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jdstar 1065 Report post Posted June 19, 2010 Hi JD - welcome to Cerb. Brave you. It's not every guy that will walk into another person's bedroom without being familiar with the entire situation or having agreement between all parties. Otherwise, it could lead to unfortunate feelings. I imagine there's more to this though - you know, two sides to every story. Did you know about the scenario before you walked-in? Had you been on intimate terms with the OP beforehand? No judgments here..just want to get the straight goods. Is there a chance you and your friends will repeat? There won't be a repeat for sure. It was a one time fantasy (of hers) with a lady that picked me up off a chat line - no prior build up or anything - i was under the assumption that all parties were aware and I was anticipating watching, maybe joining in if all went well. When we all got together, I soon became aware that the guy was not totally on the same page as the girl. (She was doing this more for her own fantasy and not to shut him up about threesomes, as apparently they had already been down that path). Anyways, she begged her partner to experiment as part of her fantasy, and in the end, she got what she had always wanted to see. It was cool how turned on she was. Everything was done safe, and I probably would try it again if it was part of a lady's fantasy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***dst*** Report post Posted June 20, 2010 I'm sorry, if you blind sided me like that...Even if the other guy was your friend....I would be hurt. Knowing the guy for 18+ years I'm sure you have insight into his character/ability to predict his response to the "joke" If you had given me the, "if you do it, I'll do it" ultimatum... I'd probably go for it; and may even enjoy it. That's just me but I caution the ladies reading it not to do something like this if you dont have that same insight in your man... He may end up in a FFM situation...with or without you :| Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Loki318 1631 Report post Posted June 20, 2010 One never really knows what he would do in a surprise situation until he or she is there for real but.. I am very comfortable in my sexuality and blind sided or not if I felt safe I would join in with out any hesitation .... Also very shortly after I would turn the tables and have my FFM threesome. :) Loki318 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted June 20, 2010 i have been in the devil's 3way (MMF) many times, but it was always both guys satisfying the lady...no guy/guy action at all as I am not bi...not my thing Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MightyPen 67414 Report post Posted June 20, 2010 The OP took something important to her partner and then played a power game with it. He suggested something to her; she imposed something on him. Putting someone who trusts you in a situation like that is bad, bad form. If there's any truth at all to the story, then crowing about it publicly is just the rancid icing on the whole rotten cake. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted June 20, 2010 (edited) He suggested something to her for over 18 upsetting years. We have no insight on how often nor insistent it was but it was sufficient to trouble her. I just had to register as my husband has been bugging me for a threesomes for a little over 18 years, at first I was upset but we are very open minded. She imposed an interpretation of threesome to gauge his intentions. He was interested in her going down on a lady but unwilling to reciprocate. he wouldn’t go down on a man but expected me to go down on a woman. Edited June 20, 2010 by etasman2000 removing url Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted June 20, 2010 wow....sounds like fun.... I like your way...if you want me to do it..then you should try it..... I have no qualms about anything like that...as long as all parties are comfortable......let the fun and experimentation begin.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chavez 641 Report post Posted June 21, 2010 Yes I capitalized ( and I never have before). What you did K3lly401 has no merit. You have taken your husband's fantasy that he shared with you ( and includes you) and turned it into a joke , and you bragged about it. He presented his fantasy to you , you atleast owe him the respect to present him with your alternative. If you can't do a F.F.M. threeway for the sake of all that is fair say so. Now at the very least you owe it to him to tell him that he is free do so without you. You have opened the door to do this behind your back , and if he does , he has my respect....Chavez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
esoterica 624 Report post Posted June 21, 2010 Wow, there really is a double standard! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135639 Report post Posted June 21, 2010 As entertaining as this thread was it was reported (Flagged) with a valid reason for why it really should not be here. I have quoted the reason below and I agree... This is an ESCORT Recommendation Board. It's not a forum for disgruntled wives to air their grievances. There are many other forums where she could post something like this. .... I removed k3lly401 from the board, we don't want to encourage other "disgruntled" wives into joining and starting other "RANT" threads as they may not all be as "entertaining" as this one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jdstar 1065 Report post Posted June 21, 2010 Good call. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
