Encounter with a Dangerous Client Today

[Tulsa 130]

Hello everyone,

 

Some of you members of CERB saw an ad warning about a dangerous encounter I had today on CL and asked if I would post it here.

 

Here is my post on CL regarding a nightmare client I had at noon hour.

 

Ladies BE AWARE - w4m (OTTAWA)

 

Date: 2010-06-20, 1:05PM EDT

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Hello ladies,

 

I'm Tulsa, a provider in Ottawa and I just had a horrible experience and need to share this nightmare client experience.

 

This client, first off complained I was too far out of town. He then asked for 15 minute service. I gave him my price and we agreed.

He said he would be at my place in 10 minutes.

 

When he showed up is when the nightmare started:

 

I ask for payment upfront, he refused at first wanting the service first. . I finally convinced him to give me the payment.

He attempted to walk around my place like he own the place and when I tried to restrict him to 1 area he kept pushing me around

When I attempted to put a condom on, he refused, when forced he tried to take it off just before entering me

When his time was up, he refused to leave and threatened me, saying he would ruin my name.

 

I finally got him to leave, called my fiancee which got his license plate number and make of vehicle.

 

If you are interested in that information and are a service provider, please reply to this post

 

Tulsa

 

 

• Location: OTTAWA
  
• it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests
  

 

 

 

 

 

PostingID: 1801580810

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A few of the members on CERB asked me to put this ad on the OTTAWA WARNINGS page for all of you to see.

 

If you would like more information on this particular individual please feel free to contact me.

 

I surely hope that we can avoid this kind of nightmare. The worst part of this ordeal and maybe something those of you who have someone around as security should maybe implement is this:

 

A 9-1-1 word or distress code.

 

My fiancee called, at the 15 minute mark, to make sure I was ok and to tell me that the 15 minutes was up. This is a system we have so that he knows I am safe.

 

We thought it worked very well until the first bad situation arose. When I picked up the phone, i didn't want to tip off the client that I had someone near by, just in case that would make him turn more violent so I just said thanks for telling the time's up, i'll see you soon.

 

He thought, since this is my somewhat usual response that everything was ok even though my voice seem strained and nervous. I am often like that when, like today, I am very tired. So he hung up and waited till I called him with the "all clear" signal.

 

When I called him back, I gave him all but the all clear signal. I told him briefly what this guy did. Being the quick thinker that he is, he went after the vehicle in question and got the license plate number, make, model and color of the vehicle.

 

I can give this information to you, service providers, if you would like. Just simply PM me or send email I will be more than happy to give you the info.

 

Thank you for publishing me, and to all of you thank you for reading me.

 

P.S. If someone feels the need to post this message in the SP ONLY area. Please send me a message saying you would like to do so and I will gladly authorize or send you a more copy/paste friendly version, if needed.

 

I do not have the privilege required to access the SP only area as I haven't had anyone recommend me yet or have not reached the minimum requirements for the other two entry requirements.

 

Therefore, if this is permitted on CERB, I will allow someone to copy and paste, as long as they quote that it is me who originally posted this.

 

Then the SP wanting more info can PM me like everyone else I guess.

 

Thank you again for posting/reading my thread

 

[sexy bbw vero 425]

Is it possible to have a little description of the client please ...

 

And maybe you can post his number here ... or at least a part of it.

 

Thanks for the warning!

[A***** A***** 510]

Wow so sorry to hear! Pm mod and he can get u set up in the sp section

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[Grass_Hopper 18263]

If you provide good service, even a client that is well known can't do any damage to your name...

 

Stay up and stay safe...

 

Next time you don't feel a situation, GO! What's more important? Money or your security?

[Tulsa 130]

Hi Sexy BBW vero,

 

The client in question is in his late 30s early 40s, approx. 5'10", 190lbs, he is well toned, caucassian, short brown hair, brown eyes, clean shaven.

 

At the time of the visit he was wearing a plain white t-shirt and kaki shorts. He wore sandals. Other than this there is no other visible particular traits. (No tattoos, piercings, scars, etc.).

 

His demeanor is very self-assured and his language is rude and demanding. He will be sure to let you know that he doesn't wear condoms. That was his first line when he walked in.

 

I will not, due to the Canadian Privacy Act, reveal his # or license plate number on here. If you would like that information please send me a PM.

 

I will say however that he was driving a late model (2008-2010) 4 door, Ford Escape, blue/gray in color.

 

Additional Comments:

Wow so sorry to hear! Pm mod and he can get u set up in the sp section

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I have contacted the MOD and I am told I have to have someone who has met me personally vouch for me before I can have access to the SP only area.

 

Since so far, the only person I know for sure is on CERB that has met me is DJ Frost32 I don't have anyone else on here I know personally and he joined because of me so I know he won't have the privileges to recommend as of yet I'm sure.

 

So until I can have access to the SP only area, I hope we can work as a team on here, and if some of you see the need to post in there as well, please feel free to do it to help protect other providers.

 

If anyone knows of an other way for me to get access let me know.

 

Thank you so much for all your replies.

 

Tulsa xox

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

If you provide good service, even a client that is well known can't do any damage to your name...

I don't believe that is true if you are a new provider who has yet to establish her reputation.

[Guest]

Grasshopper, I agree with you. New or not, people will judge you on the service you give. Don't worry about people like that. They end up looking like a fool in the end. Stay positive and safe. I'm sorry you had to go threw this and thanks for the heads up. XoXo Peachy/Val

 

Additional Comments:

Also to add to my first comment. I know that mod wouldn't let anybody put negative comments about sp's here. So chin up and try to stay safe. Cerb is both a great networking and business opportunity. Plus 100% positive.

[Winnipegcub 21293]

Tulsa, from the gentlemens' perspective I am so sorry to hear about your encounter. Your pics are amazing but more than that you seem like such a down to earth and bright woman. Regardless, no one should experience what you described. Glad in the end you are safe and please stay that way. Many nicer guys would love the opportunity to spend time with you and treat you with the utmost respect.

WC.

[Andee 220524]

I don't believe that is true if you are a new provider who has yet to establish her reputation.

 

Yes, she another SP has to vouch for her unless she has been a member in good standing for a certain period of time.

[FineWineDiva 7343]

Do you advertise on Escorts Canada ?

If not perhaps you should ,

Then you get into the SP Only

Sweetie if new to the Business

 

If they(A client) makes you feel uncomfortable the minute

he walking the door , you ask him to leave !!!

There be another client soon enough

So , sorry this happen to you .

Be Safe !!

I know in Toronto there a a Female officer

That help , ladies like us

Perhaps there's one in Ottawa

 

 

Hi Sexy BBW vero,

 

The client in question is in his late 30s early 40s, approx. 5'10", 190lbs, he is well toned, caucassian, short brown hair, brown eyes, clean shaven.

 

At the time of the visit he was wearing a plain white t-shirt and kaki shorts. He wore sandals. Other than this there is no other visible particular traits. (No tattoos, piercings, scars, etc.).

 

His demeanor is very self-assured and his language is rude and demanding. He will be sure to let you know that he doesn't wear condoms. That was his first line when he walked in.

 

I will not, due to the Canadian Privacy Act, reveal his # or license plate number on here. If you would like that information please send me a PM.

 

I will say however that he was driving a late model (2008-2010) 4 door, Ford Escape, blue/gray in color.

 

Additional Comments:

 

 

I have contacted the MOD and I am told I have to have someone who has met me personally vouch for me before I can have access to the SP only area.

 

Since so far, the only person I know for sure is on CERB that has met me is DJ Frost32 I don't have anyone else on here I know personally and he joined because of me so I know he won't have the privileges to recommend as of yet I'm sure.

 

So until I can have access to the SP only area, I hope we can work as a team on here, and if some of you see the need to post in there as well, please feel free to do it to help protect other providers.

 

If anyone knows of an other way for me to get access let me know.

 

Thank you so much for all your replies.

 

Tulsa xox

 

Additional Comments:

Do you advertise on Escorts Canada ?

If not perhaps you should ,

Then you get into the SP Only

Sweetie if new to the Business

 

If they(A client) makes you feel uncomfortable the minute

he walking the door , you ask him to leave !!!

There be another client soon enough

So , sorry this happen to you .

Be Safe !!

I know in Toronto there a a Female officer

That help , ladies like us

Perhaps there's one in Ottawa

 

 

Hi Sexy BBW vero,

 

The client in question is in his late 30s early 40s, approx. 5'10", 190lbs, he is well toned, caucassian, short brown hair, brown eyes, clean shaven.

 

At the time of the visit he was wearing a plain white t-shirt and kaki shorts. He wore sandals. Other than this there is no other visible particular traits. (No tattoos, piercings, scars, etc.).

 

His demeanor is very self-assured and his language is rude and demanding. He will be sure to let you know that he doesn't wear condoms. That was his first line when he walked in.

 

I will not, due to the Canadian Privacy Act, reveal his # or license plate number on here. If you would like that information please send me a PM.

 

I will say however that he was driving a late model (2008-2010) 4 door, Ford Escape, blue/gray in color.

 

Additional Comments:

 

 

I have contacted the MOD and I am told I have to have someone who has met me personally vouch for me before I can have access to the SP only area.

 

Since so far, the only person I know for sure is on CERB that has met me is DJ Frost32 I don't have anyone else on here I know personally and he joined because of me so I know he won't have the privileges to recommend as of yet I'm sure.

 

So until I can have access to the SP only area, I hope we can work as a team on here, and if some of you see the need to post in there as well, please feel free to do it to help protect other providers.

 

If anyone knows of an other way for me to get access let me know.

 

Thank you so much for all your replies.

 

Tulsa xox

[Andee 220524]

Yes, Tusla, FineWineDiva is right. There is an SP-friendly police officer available for questions who I have personally spoken to. PM me for details.

 

Your safety is more important than any amount of money. Thanks for the warning, sweetie.

[Jazzitup 5652]

Tulsa,

 

Sorry to hear you met such a nasty creep. I understand some ladies here on Cerb will provide references on some clients.

 

Hope you can forget him and move on.

Good of you to warn everybody.

[Kate von Katz 49953]

Never be worried to deal with the police. They aren't as disdainful of our profession as many seem to think. Give the police all the info, which appears to be a vehicle description and license plate number, and a physical description. A phone number would help to us ladies to block his number, but hopefully LE (law enforcement) will get crackin' on this asshole.

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[jg24 3708]

well if true it is sad I have read a different story about this provider on another board that makes me wonder if there is more to this whole story

[Andee 220524]

The fact that this SP has now been suspended for shilling indicates she does not use very good judgment. I am not saying she deserved to have this bad client, but there were a few red flags that went up right away, that I would have been showing this guy the door before he had chance to push his way around my place.

[Kate von Katz 49953]

Yes I noticed her profile had been suspended after I contacted her about this guy's information. What happened was preventable and I agree signs were there, but I do always feel a bit empathetic towards these situations. Trust yer instincts!

And it is likely she used the warning section on this board to elicit sympathies and doubt from whatever was posted on the other board. I have seen this in BC before where girls who are chronically bad to their clients will try to turn the tables and play the victim card. Whatever the real story is, I feel for both parties involved. That kind of stress and nonsense does no one any good. If the session starts to go awry, just end it. Better to end it than have to plough through another (insert amount of time here) of zero chemistry, awkwardness and tension.

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[jg24 3708]

Angela I would have to agree with you one thing funny to me is her comment below

 

(This client, first off complained I was too far out of town. He then asked for 15 minute service. I gave him my price and we agreed.

He said he would be at my place in 10 minutes)

 

She lived to far out of town he said but the booked and said he would arrive in 10 minutes.

 

How could he be there in 10 minutes if she lived to far out of town HMMMMM

 

Is there really a client? Is this a sympathy post to make clients see her?

 

Did this client see her befor thus the reason he could be there in 10 minutes?

 

The poster on the other board who wrote about her some not sood good things has deleted his post this morning but he is suspect to as he retired in 2006 from the board and 4 yrs later his first 2 post are about Tulsa. (Suspicious you bet)

 

I know a well respected member on here wrote a review of her on the other board but by his comments it would not be allowed here there is just so many unanswered questions. I saw the reco here from the 1 post poster and said shill to myself.

 

I think as we know Mod did the correct thing suspending the accounts

[Naughty_Nadia 100]

Maybe he was complaining because she was 10 minutes out of town . ..

[sexy bbw vero 425]

What I found little bit strange is ... a cute girl like she is ... taking client for 15min. encounter ... :???: And she accept a client with 10min. advice only!!

 

Sorry ... I think it's the best way to have every weird clients of the city when you accept people who doesn't have any "etiquette" .

[Kate von Katz 49953]

Agreed. Short notice bookings and 15/20 min appointments are only going to exponentially increase the odds of attracting bad clients. And it doesn't really speak well of the lady, either.

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[fortunateone 156618]

well if true it is sad I have read a different story about this provider on another board that makes me wonder if there is more to this whole story

 

Well, that would happen if it was a shifty client, making good on his threats to post negative comments, tho. It would then be expected, and her post would be a counter to that, giving us a reason for his posts.

 

Of course, it is hard to tell, until others take the time to see and review her. If she has a habit of posting her own glowing reviews, it will be obvious over time.