Orgasm

[RobX 2084]

Which is closer to the truth?

 

1. An SP generally cannot have an orgasm with a client unless she feels an emotional attachment towards the client. Thus, in most cases, if an SP appears to be having an orgasm, she is probably just faking it.

 

2. An SP generally cannot avoid having an orgasm if a client stimulates her sufficiently, regardless of how she feels towards the client emotionally. Thus, those clients who claim to be able to make an SP orgasm may be telling the truth.

[bassnut 178]

I think like evrything else chemistry plays a big part. Have you never met someone that you seem to just click with. You don't need to know someone for ever to have some chemestry though over time that chemestry will build even more. For your question you are probably right in both ways depending on the lady you see and how she feels about the business she is in.

[Mutau 2516]

Orgasms are a very different thing to each one of us. To say that you cannot have one because of the circumstances or company may be true for some people, but not others. It is the alchemy of one's body that dictates the reactions that bring about an orgasm or even several. A lady or gentleman can try to send signals to the nerve endings, and the mind may try to avoid the tingling sensations brought about about by foreplay and other types of stimulation, either touch, olafactory or taste. But let's face it, if you are so busy doing all of that, you are definitely not enjoying yourself. Is that not the purpose of getting together: mutal enjoyment?

[jdstar 1065]

I don't think the purpose of getting together is for 'mutual enjoyment". I'm pretty sure the ladies are in it for the money.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

I don't think the purpose of getting together is for 'mutual enjoyment". I'm pretty sure the ladies are in it for the money.

 

I, for one, would not be doing this if I did not enjoy myself. While chemistry does have alot to do with the level of enjoyment I get from some clients, it is only those rare a-holes that ruin the fun.

[NotchJohnson 214136]

I don't think the purpose of getting together is for 'mutual enjoyment". I'm pretty sure the ladies are in it for the money.

I have been with some ladies that had orgasm with me and you know it cannot be fake when they go into sexual convulsion. ex. eyes roll to back of their head, nails sink in deep in my skin almost to make me bleed, uncontrolled shaking of her body.etc.

 

Almost to the point when the lady has to cancel the rest of her appointment for the day and ask me to get her a wheelchair. J/K for the wheelchair.lol

[PistolPete 61421]

I know for a fact that some ladies I have seen over time, the intimacy and the erotic love making leads to full body orgasm for both parties.

 

Us gents are looking for intimacy through hobbying and the beautiful ladies that we see, are providing us with that time and that great intimacy. Love you ladies!! and thanks!:bowdown:

 

PS...I agree with T'storm's comment above

[Guest c******n****h]

I would say that from a male point of view, having your partner reach orgasm is a bit of any ego booster. Certainly in a long term relationship, mutal satisfaction should be part of the equation.

 

I also agree that chemistry plays a role, especially for women. Men being the pigs that we are can usually always achieve orgasm.

[etasman2000 15994]

I don't think the purpose of getting together is for 'mutual enjoyment". I'm pretty sure the ladies are in it for the money.

 

I have a regular 9 - 5 job, and yes it pays the bills and fun time, but to characterize doing it for the money is quite incorrect. The same reasoning should apply to the wonderful SPs on this board and elsewhere.

 

My opinion on OP's question is that an emotional connection or strong comfort in her own sexuality is a precursor to an orgasm.

[Carrie Moon 68826]

nope.. don't need an emotional connection. I need to be horny. If the person licking knows what they're doing I can orgasm.. but not always. It's often a matter of fantasy in my head to get over the hump. But your satisfaction comes from making me wet even if I don't cum no?

 

sorry but had to add this pic.. just came across it. So... not true!

 

[Naughty_Nadia 100]

I have multiple orgasms without cumming, and I pretty much always have a few orgasms when I'm with any client. There's probably only been once or twice that I haven't been able too. Cumming is a different matter, it doesn't matter what the stimulation is or who it's with, if I'm not in a relaxed and comfortable enough mood, it won't happen. I've had times where I had sex for over 6 hours without cumming, I stayed hard the entire time and had easily over 50 orgasms, but I wasn't able to cum. There's been other times though that I'll just masturbate or something and I'll cum in under 2 minutes.

 

It's something I need to figure out before I do porn I think though haha.

[Mutau 2516]

Nadia, you sly temptress. Now everybody will be banging on your door and looking for those six hour marathons. Hope you are offering a very special rate for fellow CERBites who wish to indulge in orgasmic relief with you. :twisted:

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

I don't think the purpose of getting together is for 'mutual enjoyment". I'm pretty sure the ladies are in it for the money.

First, I think your comment was rude, and reflects ignorance...

 

I did have some beautiful and passionated moment with clients, especially with the older ones, but also with people I had absolutly nothing in common...

 

I have clients that have me cuming to a point I had to ask to give me a break!

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[Carrie Moon 68826]

First, I think your comment was rude, and reflects ignorance...

 

His comment was not rude. It was to the point. Let's face it.. we're not escorts for free.. or we would be on an adultfriendfinder or some other hookup site to get laid.

 

We are not accepting appts as mutual enjoyment as the purpose was all he meant.

 

While mutual enjoyment might occur.. we don't charge more if we don't get it and by reverse charge less if we do.. right??? We charge a flat fee (well most of us do) and we do CHARGE... that's the point he was trying to make.

[Guest f***2f***]

I think it's a bad question. You're trying to paint everyone with the same brush...I think we are talking about human beings and it's a lot more complicated than a or b. The ladies I meet generally enjoy what they are doing imho....

[masterowls 249]

I agree with Meg, chemistry always plays a part.I would however, also like to point out that ejaculation, and orgasm do not necessarily occur simultaneously even for men. I'm sure many professional companions do become excited with some clients whether or not that excitement becomes a real orgasm is probably dependent on the exact situation.

[FineWineDiva 7343]

I believe you owe me an orgasm ,

the next time l'm in Ottawa.

I prefer the real ones !!

THANKS

I know for a fact that some ladies I have seen over time, the intimacy and the erotic love making leads to full body orgasm for both parties.

 

Us gents are looking for intimacy through hobbying and the beautiful ladies that we see, are providing us with that time and that great intimacy. Love you ladies!! and thanks!:bowdown:

 

PS...I agree with T'storm's comment above

[fortunateone 156618]

I don't think the purpose of getting together is for 'mutual enjoyment". I'm pretty sure the ladies are in it for the money.

 

 

There are different levels of enjoyment. For some, just having someone else enjoy their experience is pleasure enough. I think that in that case, it is mutual enjoyment, as most people would not continue in work that they really dislike for too long, regardless of the pay.

 

I think some times the client has an expectation the sp MUST have an orgasm, which can lead to pressure to have one (or fake one), and any sort of pressure or expectations can actually have the opposite effect. I do think that comfort with the other person goes a long way to getting to the big O. I simply do not buy into the chemistry, clicking or connection theory, because it really is mostly about a physical stimulation done the right way. I think any guy can tell you that he can still come even in an unplesant situation lol, where there is no chemistry whatsoever.

[Ava Foxx 1747]

nope.. don't need an emotional connection. I need to be horny. If the person licking knows what they're doing I can orgasm.. but not always. It's often a matter of fantasy in my head to get over the hump. But your satisfaction comes from making me wet even if I don't cum no?

 

 

I could not have said it better myself! I'd also like to add that I've reached a point in my life where I am comfortable with myself and I know my body better now than I ever have and I can easily orgasm just by moving a certain way.

[Catfish101 171]

I could not have said it better myself! I'd also like to add that I've reached a point in my life where I am comfortable with myself and I know my body better now than I ever have and I can easily orgasm just by moving a certain way.

 

Can you orgasm in a golf cart? I need a caddy.

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[Grass_Hopper 18263]

...I've reached a point in my life where I am comfortable with myself and I know my body better now than I ever have and I can easily orgasm just by moving a certain way.

 

I don't think the purpose of getting together is for 'mutual enjoyment". I'm pretty sure the ladies are in it for the money.

 

I think this is the difference between a hooker and an escort... Call it the way you want, but if I don't reach the orgasm point, either with my client or bf, it's a missed shot for me... If it was all about the money, I would'nt have this kind of background...

 

I'm considering myself very lucky to have the skills I have and enjoying my work as much as I do...

[Guest T**E******s]

I think this is the difference between a hooker and an escort... Call it the way you want, but if I don't reach the orgasm point, either with my client or bf, it's a missed shot for me... If it was all about the money, I would'nt have this kind of background...

 

I'm considering myself very lucky to have the skills I have and enjoying my work as much as I do...

 

I agree!!

 

IMO I find a lot of blame in the orgasm department is with the WOMEN!

 

I have countless friends who have never had an orgasm with their bf (who they cuddle and are emotionally attached to)

So I ask them do you have a had time reaching it when you masterbate and they look at me like I'm an alien...and reply "oh I don't do that" or "no I've never had one on my own"

 

HOW CAN YOU EXPECT some one else to get you off ... IF YOU CAN'T!

 

I am great in bed with myself.. fantastic.. some days I'm even a little sore from the over excitement.. I also use orgasms as a stress releiver and a way to get to sleep at the end of the night (ah mostly lonely nights there)

 

Now when you add a guy he is either

 

A: Willing to hear what you like and wants you to have a real one

B: Trying to get his money worth

C: Has no clue what he's doing but everyone else he's been with fakes it and now he thinks he's a god for blowing in your ear.

D: Doesn't know the difference (do to those fakers be it SP or GF) but is willing to follow advise...(commands cause when its up advice doesn't sink in well)

 

But I'm an outspoken person who knows what she likes and isn't shy about saying .. well on a board..

In person sometimes trying to handle a delicate matter that can kill a mans ego in seconds .. is the hardest thing in the world and a balance. If the guy is a sweetheart sometimes I just can't tell them I'm to much of a softy.. If they are a repeat I try to slowly add the things I like or take charge of the session. If they are an A*hole I call it like it is.. :)

 

wow went off a little there... but its the faking women in this world that piss me off because they leave their mess of men who are husbands,bf or hoppiest behind for the rest of us to deal with.

 

*And a previous comment about .. eyes rolling.. body contorting.. finger nails creating damage and taking the day off after.... Redflag!!! not only the actions you described (which can occur) but that must have been at the very end of her MSOG... Cause I've watched a woman do this and as soon as the guy left .. she was back to normal.

All women are different in what they can handle hers may have been true!

[LadyTY2Uall 355]

I would have to say that number 2 would be more accurate.

But chemistry does have a huge part of it, I have had clients that I clicked with immediately and the entire sessions was one big orgasm lol

[Cato 160314]

It's not a satisfactory session for me unless I'm convinced my partner has at least one orgasm, and preferably more.

I do my best, at any rate.

[Guest T**E******s]

It's not a satisfactory session for me unless I'm convinced my partner has at least one orgasm, and preferably more.

I do my best, at any rate.

 

That's the best thing any SP can hope for :) Not only are you wanting them to enjoythemselves with you but your putting an effort into it. Sometimes thoughts and actions don't meet because the person is to shy and that's understandable and changes with time.

 

Just as some SP's enter this proffesion for reasons other than the love of sex and cock/pussy, I think there is a type of Hobbiest who poons for self reasons only.

 

Different folks have different stroke and so long as the world turns round and I get off... who cares.. :)

 

*I agree about chemistry to a certain point and for me its not about looks.. If your clean, on the flirtatious side and able communicate comfortably with me .. it's the biggest turn on that's what starts it all rolling!!